Diddling techniques as of January 2020

Hi guys,

In the two and a half months of our enforced “absence” for our web site while it was undergoing redesign, I have continued along with my diddling sessions in bed at night along with occasional Aneros sessions.

Basically when I diddle my nipples at night. I have two basic diddling motions:

1. Back and forth movement over my nipple (or both) with a finger or two. This sort of movement revves up the nipple sensation a great deal.

2. Circular movement around one or both nipples on their aureoles. Or the nipples themselves.

With these two movements, I can produce a Super-O or even a MMO.

It is all so sweet and powerful.

Take care.

External prostate massge

Hi guys,

When I had those Aneros breakthroughs with Super O’s and MMO’s those couple days in the middle of September 2016, that is when I believe I became fully rewired by my nearly four years of Aneros sessions since early June 2013 when I used the Traditional Helix Syn for the first time.

Since those magical nights in mid September 2016, my Aneros sessions became effortless and my nipples became alive for the pleasures of nipple diddling at any time of day or night, especially nights in bed.

Those of you who have read my blog here know of my intense jock and cup fetish which began in earnest when my 7th grade gym coach told us boys we had to buy a jockstrap for gym class. It was a required part of our gym uniform. I wore my jockstrap with pride underneath my gym uniform and also for the erotic feel it gave my genitals. The summer after 10th grade, I summoned enough courage to get my first cup and jock. It was a Black & Bauer Procup with cup jock holder. The cup itself was a traditional flat cup which was not comfortable nor did it fit one’s genitals well. Athletes in many cases shunned flat cups as a result and thus risked unprotected genitals. This was in 1965.

First blog post

Hi

This is my first blog post, although I’ve posted several times to the forums after especially great sessions. I’m a 70 year old on the journey for a year or so now. I’m having pretty great success, although not every session leads to the super O. My best sessions have been mind-blowing, with multiple SOs that leave me limp (in more ways than one)! My wife is on board, and we share our PureWand in partnered sex, while I also slip off for solo play in the guest room.

I have a pretty good collection of Aneros and nJoy toys; Progasm Ice, MGX Trident, Helix Trident, Eupho Trident, PureWand, and PurePlug large. I have a Lelo Hugo, but don’t really care for vibratory toys. I will typically cycle through several toys each session.

I use THC; 25 mg dose of edibles and 20 mg of THC oil mixed with my injected lube. I also use poppers to trigger the super Os. In a good session I will typically have a series of powerful SOs lasting for 30 – 60 seconds each. My best sessions are usually after a period of abstinence, when my arousal level is at its highest.

I have ED, which I use Cialis for, and typically am flaccid during sessions. Most sessions I am unable to finish with a TO. Thank god for prostate orgasms!

Anyway, thanks for all the great knowledge shared here in the blogs and in the forum. It has really helped my progress.

Frenulum talk : Aneros session for Wednesday September 18

Hi guys,

I am so grateful that Aneros tech support has restored or is restoring our site problems of late. This site is laden with helpful information for Aneros newbies and long-time Aneros veterans as myself. Plus it fuels my Aneros adventures with a vibrant eroticism that makes me feel young when I have an Aneros session or tap into my Aless, day or night.

This morning about an hour ago I had a session with MGX Classic and Helix Syn Classic. I value MGX for its ribbed stem which exercises my anal canal and musculature. I value Helix Syn for its sleek and velvety silicon. Both models fuel my vibrant Aless which lasts all day into nighttime hours when I diddle my nipples. Such powerful, sweetness!

In recent weeks, there has been discussion on the value of having intact frenulum. Uncut guys not only have a foreskin, but also frenulum which connects with their Glans. The Glans of course is chock full of sensitive sensations which give the male sexual sweetness when he has sex or masturbates. But the foreskin and certainly the frenulum both have sensitivity of their own which enhances sexual contact and the sweet power when they jack off.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?

Hi Guys,

Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.

From the Aneros WIKI The “do nothing” technique is mostly for the Aneros only. The idea is to dispense with thinking about holding contractions, controlling your breathing, conscious relaxing, or anything else for that matter, in favor of just lying there and letting the pleasure and Aneros do their thing. This technique is probably best after you have at least started feeling pleasure from the Aneros.

I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches.

The Aneros, Nipple Diddling, Aless, and Glans Penis Connection!

Hi guys,

I was inspired by a provocative thread that I saw this evening on Aneros Forum entitled: “Nipples connected to the Glans?” It got me really horny!

However a very cardinal rule to be followed in Aneros sessions especially for beginners is “Penis not.” So for a very long time, actually years, I concentrated on my sessions and kept my penis out of it.

But in Aneros Directions for Use which was among the original instructions, when you have gained facility in Aneros usage, you can stimulate your Glans.

It took me a good five years before I achieved my first bona fide and solid breakthroughs in Super-O’s and MMO’s which occurred in mid September 2016. Actually I had reached a tipping point in that my Aneros sessions became effortless. That tipping pointing also affected my Aless which in itself became absolutely pleasurable. Also my nipples at the time awakened and thus started nightly nipple diddling sessions most nights in bed. 

However I discovered my cock and my Glans for sure at age five. Like most baby boomer boys, I was circumcised several days after birth. So my Glans is bulbous and feels so good when I wear a jock and cup.

Tonight I set myself a new goal. When I retire later tonight and diddle my nipples in bed, I will focus on what my diddling has one my cock and my Glans. I expect great things in new focuses of Aless and diddling pleasure! Take care.

Diddling while wearing my jockstrap last night : Powerful meditation on my prostate, cock and Glans!

Hi guys,

Many of you who know me on Aneros.com are aware that I have a powerful jock and athletic cup fetish which enhances my diddling sessions in bed at night and my Aneros sessions. This fetish goes back to my adolescence when I along with other boys were directed by our gym teacher in 7th grade. It was a mandatory part of our gym uniform. I appreciate very much the elastic support a jockstrap offers my genitals and how it prevents fatigue in athletic activities. But there is a very powerful aspect of jocks and cups for the intimate support and protection they have offered me over the years. I thank my dad and my gym coaches for their good examples of wearing such items which produced this sexual awakening in me and this powerful fetish. Wearing jockstraps and cups also has been a natural American activity for athletics and even everyday wear since at least the 1940’s and continues to this day here in the USA. Just writing all this makes me extremely horny.

I began my Aneros journey on early Sunday evening, June 3, 2012 with Helix Syn. Three weeks later I began to experience P-waves. In early July 2012, I began to use Maximus. That was when powerful Aless set in.

After my major Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016, my Aneros sessions became effortless and nipples began to awaken big time. Diddling sessions at night became a source of pleasure for me.

SR #7 OK session – MB

No meditation to start, it did not seem to hurt or help my session. Lots of warm fuzzy all over feelings, pretty good pleasure from my nipples. After about an hour or so I rolled over and tried to do nothing, focus on the music. I seemed to want to move the Aneros some. I rested a while doing little moving to nothing. Then moved and tried different positions, my arousal built at this time. Then a new track came on, my native american track and I immediately got really horny. I did some fantasizing about Indian maidens watching me and slowly disrobing. I got pretty hot. When I realized I was tensing, and (maybe chasing?) I tried to slow down and relax, but that seemed to take the edge off my arousal.

Maybe my arousal is still wired to the traditional penile orgasm of building to a conclusion. But I am working on it and being aware of these things are good. I tried to go on a “balloon” ride, going along and having no idea where I am going. Some pretty amazing feelings, lots of arousal, up and down like waves. “General pleasure throughout session” I have not had an erection since the first one or two times.

Ended with masturbation.

Ah the pleasure of Anerosing in the standing position!

Hi guys,

This morning just now I had my now usual session with MGX Classic and Helix Syn Classic in the standing position in my bathroom. The standing position enables me to have direct contact with my prostate and my Aneros devices. Also through direct contact, my sessions last now usually 30 minutes. The session was highly pleasurable, and post-session, the pleasure carries over into my Aless as though the Aneros is still inserted and working way. The Aneros Forum and Aneros chat seem to be having technical difficulties since Saturday. Here’s hoping that I can post this blog entry.

Update @7 p.m. nearly twelve hours later. Oh, how I enjoy using the Aneros these days! I enjoy how MGX and Helix Syn directly massage my prostate. I use Kegels of various strengths, but there is no need to have Kegels that over the top. Otherwise I would injure myself while having Aneros sessions in the standing position. My Kegels are more natural now. They certainly prime the pump of sexual pleasure. What I so enjoy about Aless these days is that it is sweet and powerful. I can tap into my Aless just about any hour of the day, but especially at night when I diddle my nipples using soft, deft strokes back and forth my nipples, or using circular stroking on my fleshy aureoles. It is so sweet and powerful. I look forward to my diddling dalliance tonight. Take care.

The beginning

I’m creating this blog to track my own progress. but will be adding more details than I would need for myself in case anyone else reads it and finds it helpful.

This is my introduction in the forum….. https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/166053-a-new-world

June/July 2019 I started exploring anal play, I had no clue what I was doing. And while I had explored it a time or two when I was young and never seem to do anything for me. And I also had all sorts of societal hang ups as a straight male RE: gay, this is just wrong, etc.

But this time I discovered finger fucking myself created an extra level of pleasure to my masturbation sessions. And so I progressed and started using a toothbrush and that was even better. At this point I decided I needed something specifically designed for this. So I ordered a vibrating butt plug. I still had no clue about prostate massage nor had I yet heard about Aneros. I was simply exploring ramping up sexual pleasure and was pretty clueless.

It took about a week for the new toy to arrive and while I was waiting for it I was reading things on the internet. And I ran across this Aneros website. I read all about prostate massage and how to have a “session”. My initial thoughts were, oh boy, this sounds intimidating and seemed like a long learning curve, not so sure I wanted to go there. All these posts were so foreign to me, yet it had enough of an intriguing spin that I was interested and I continued to read as I waited for the new toy.