Tag: Aneros

A Great Ride, literally!

I know I’ve been rather quiet in the last few months but I didn’t feel I had much to contribute as all my sessions are pretty well the same; GREAT!

Thursday, I had some alone time so I opted for a rare morning session even if I had things to do.  I lubed up and inserted one of my faithful friend; my Eupho Syn.  I spent a few minutes lying on the couch getting my prostate acclimatised to it’s cuddling friend. 

I had an errand to run so I got off the couch, got in the pickup truck and headed out on the road with the Aneros still inserted.  We live in a country suburb where the roads are sometimes a little rougher than in the city.  During the ride, my prostate felt every single bump and crease on the road and converted them into direct pleasure waves.  With such intense pleasure waves pulsating my anal canal and prostate, instead of driving to avoid the bumps and crevaces on the road, I was actually looking for them and aimed the vehicle accordingly.  The sensations in my entire pelvic area was absolutely exquisite.

At destination, I got out of the truck and did my business while talking to a few unsuspecting people.  Meanwhile, the Eupho Syn was doing it’s job pleasuring my prostate.  The experience continued on the return trip and once I reached home, I headed for the couch again to finish my session.  What a great ride! Literally! Read more »

saw doctor

This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware – and approves – of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications would be a strong possibility of ED. A statistical sexless marriage is one thing less than 10 times per years. An absolute sexless marriage is something else. My wife and I had been averaging 2 to 4 times per year for many years now.

So I informed my doctor that recently my wife and I decided to discontinue sex altogether. I said it was my idea, my offer and my wife readily agreed. I told my doctor that my health was more important than getting hard, when quite frankly I had no use or need for an erection. My doctor told me that it might reduce my libido as well. I told her I was fine with that.

So now I have a couple prescriptions.

“Sheer Frustration…..Averted!”

Background
I have been sleeping at night without wearing a “chastity cup”. A good feeling, except when I am awakened by a rock-hard erection. That happened again this morning and the pinnacle was when my “stick” emerged from my PJ bottoms! Since I am in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of not ejaculating for 4 days. Any rubbing on the frenulum sends me to a place where my only thoughts revolve around…..ejaculating! Since I want to avoid that now, I had no choice but to quench the fire and put-on my XO cup!
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Moaning
Sometimes if I am having a good Aneros session, I will experience some rather involuntary “moans”. Those moans came back again this morning, but this time not because of a prostate massage. The moans came because it felt so good wearing the cup as I had the satisfaction of ejaculatory protection around my male member. It seemed to settle things down and quite rapidly! I know with my new “rule” I could have extended the frenulum-rubbing against the cup but this time, it felt good just to relax and let things settle-down normally.
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Session
With only about an hour to go before I had to rise for the day, I decided on a quick session. I knew in advance that I wanted the Eupho Classic for this ride. The Eupho is a delicate work of art, crafted to glide-in to my most private area and begin to stimulate my prostate in a very delicate way. This session did not fail to disappoint me and I felt the effects immediately. ‘Sheer prostate heaven’ as I experienced both voluntary and involuntary contractions. The Eupho’s curved, bulbous head makes gentle contact in and around my prostate. This short (~15 minute) session was stimulating and invigorating. I ended this session not wanting any more.
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Conclusion
I have found that wearing a jockstrap with (or without) a cup is a perfect complement to my sexual style and helps keep me focused on my role as a male! It is a normal and natural (albeit male) piece of apparel! Weird or kinky?…….no way! Read more »

“Is This A Dance? Is This A Race?”

I was thinking about all the sexual things I do, except for actual (p.i.v.)* sex. Do they all have something in common? Yes they do—-almost all of them involve some sort of “dance” around——an ejaculation!

Thinking about it, all the Aneros sessions, all the prostate play, all the pseudo male chastity play really has one goal in mind: ejaculation! Ah, but it is in “dance” that it all becomes worthwhile, almost like an art form! The idea is: how far can I go without ejaculating? How much stimulation can I endure before I have to blow the load?

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How far can I go? Here, I am referring to the practice of semen retention. For those guys that have never tried it, I would recommend it. It is a way of boosting your overall sexual response to any form of stimulation. Even by itself, just the practice of withholding semen will boost your testosterone level by almost 50%! You are sure to feel the results; I sure do! But one caveat—blue balls! I can get them, and usually do, after about 7 days of SR. For me, this “dance” ends and another one starts.

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“Horny and Desperate”

Introduction
I was online reading and watching videos about guys locked-up in chastity cages and one phrase that caught my attention was “horny and desperate”. It seemed that this guy was locked-in his cock cage and he was not the keyholder. He had an erection inside his cage and wanted to ejaculate so desperately. He tried and tried stroking and masturbating his cage but was unsuccessful. He became very frustrated to say the least!

Similarity
I decided to sleep in my XO cup overnight. Since I am now at Day 7 of semen retention (SR), I am feeling more frustrated that I have not yet ejaculated. I had a very strong erection within the cup overnight and was squirming-around on the bed close to the PONR. I guess you could say that I too was desperate for an ejaculation, sort-of like a wet-dream. But it was not to be and I became very frustrated.

I went to lie-down on my sofa and started to listen to some erotic chillout mixes. Very nice indeed! I changed from my XO cup to my ARMR all-cotton jockstrap. This strap is very tight and supportive and has a wide, 3” waistband. So it feels very good. It also has a cup pouch. Sure enough, I began to fondle my package beneath the pouch and, secretly, I wanted to ejaculate. But the frustration came back when the cup found its way into the pouch! I became more desperate by the minute! Read more »

“Portable Chastity”

Background
I decided to sleep in my Mueller cup overnight. When I awoke early this morning, I wanted to chill with some relaxing music. I set myself up on my sofa, put on headphones and started listening. At some point, I wanted to remove the cup and just relax in my PJs. So I did….

Thwarted by the Cup
When I settled-in wearing only my PJs, of course my hands began to wander. As sure enough, they found my rising cock and began to play. Since I am only in Day 4 of semen retention, I did not want to run the risk of ejaculating so soon. So what did I do? I took the cup out of the jockstrap and placed it over my PJs and my groin! And with my hand holding the cup, I was unable to continue the stimulation on my cock! Problem solved!

Waking-Up
At some point, however, I must have dozed-off. When I woke-up again, I could not believe the erection I had. It was so strong and I began to lightly “pump” the cup. Oh that feeling of being near the PONR was so strong, I honestly knew that I could ejaculate at that point. But I held-back, and kept the cup in place with my hand until the erection began to subside. At one point, I remember placing my hand inside the pouch of the jock and that was stimulating in itself! Read more »

first aneros toy for an experienced bottom?

I’m very comfortable with having things in my butt from small to very large. however I’m still looking for that anal orgasm, super, prostate or otherwise. I’ve been reading alot of reviews and they all seem conflicting. some people say that the smaller toys like helix and trident are better some say they’re too flimsy. on the other end I’ve heard some other people say the progasm is a great pick but others say it’s too girthy and long to really get much play out of it. I really don’t know what to do and I’d like to (fingers crossed) pick it right the first time.

I’d be exceptionally to get any advice but especially from other experienced bottoms would be wonderful, many thanks in advance!

“At Day 7, Anything Can Happen!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 7 of SR and I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. It could be a coincidental T-thing, but I seemed to have multiple erections during the night. Towards morning, I was awakened by the usual “PONR” feeling within the cup. But this time, I felt like I was further-along towards an ejaculation. Somewhere deep in my mind, I knew that an ejaculation was forthcoming. But I didn’t know when and where. I must have stayed in this realm for perhaps 20 minutes or more.

Binaural Listening Session
Still erect within the cup, I wanted to augment the PONR “feeling” by retiring to my comfortable couch and start listening to some binaural beats for orgasm and ejaculation. I was ready for both. The one I selected (and the one that worked) was:

“DOUBLE ORGASM – COME TWICE – Binaural Audio Stimulation – Hands Free Beats + Isochronics Tones”

I listened twice to this 14-minute gem; the first one got me wet with precum and the second one finished me off. I almost didn’t need my hands to finish the job! But towards the end, I was so ready for the ejaculation that I “helped” to accelerate it! Man, it felt ever so good to cum!

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Note (from WebMD.com):

“Erections depend on testosterone, but the relationship between the two is complex and not fully understood. Some men have healthy erections despite testosterone levels well below the normal range.” Read more »

Normal to cum?

I’ve had an Aneros for a while and use it on and off. I hadn’t cum in two weeks so I thought I’d use it today, while watching porn. At first I felt nothing but then things seemed to get pretty intense, culminating in an actual orgasm with cum. Is this normal? I thought the goal is not to cum? Not sure why my body decided it would. What do you guys think?

Sessions 11 and 12

Hello all. I’ve had a couple sessions since I last found time to write. I won’t take a lot of time to write out all the details of each session, but I would like to state some observations I made.

With both sessions, I started out laying on the couch. I like the natural positioning of my body when laying there. It lends itself well to using the Aneros. I have noticed that the angle of my hips and/or the curvature of my lower back affects the sensations I feel. Specifically, it usually seems like having a straighter lower back helps. It feels almost like it aligns my rectum with my anus and allows freer movement. Or it brings my prostate more in contact with the device. Who knows? Sometimes I think that the things I feel are actually not at all what they feel like.

I also have found that I am getting better results lately with the Eupho Trident than with the Helix Trident. I don’t know why, but for now I’m just glad that Aneros had that sale in September and that I got myself the Eupho even though I’d only just purchased my Helix. It seems that things change over time, and I expect that there may be times when the Helix does better for me, or the Progasm. I’ve found that something that works well once won’t necessarily work great the next time, or the time after that. Read more »