Paingasm

I had a strange new experience last night that I think is worth sharing.

I have Crohn’s Disease. In my case that means I sometimes get painful abdominal cramps. As you can imagine this has a frequent impact on my sessions. When I get cramps that’s a signal that it’s time to take the Aneros out.

Last night I went for a session. I had some fantastic sensations with many dry orgasms and even a mild super-o. 30 minutes or so in I began to get cramps that normally would spell the end of the session. I was very much enamored in the submissive mindset so I decided to “embrace” the pain in a way, hoping it would pass. They got pretty painful, but I was still having p-waves. I let it continue until I began having a super-o. In my whole pelvic region and my gut I wasn’t sure if it hurt or felt good, blurring the line between pain and pleasure. The rest of my body felt very good as the orgasm was full-bodied. Many waves of shivering orgasmic bliss rolled over my body with intense pain still radiating throughout the lower portions of my abdomen. The pain actually felt really good but bad at the same time.

Am I doing it right?

I’ve purchased a couple of different Aneros toys (helix syn and helix trident) which I’ve used several times with the same results each time. I’ve done it hands free every time, doing the pulsating/hold to breath counts, and I do ejaculate every time but I’m usually spent after it. Am I stopping short of the elusive “super O” or is this it? From what I’ve read from every one else, the prostate orgasm is dry so I’m thinking I’m in the right direction but not quite there yet.

I do notice the slight twitches when I’m either clenching or releasing the toy, which I’m still working on keeping that rhythm.

Aneros virgin: 1st time use

Hi All,
I am so excited (dick in hand-excited) to have just ordered the Syn variety. It should be coming in the mail soon.

I’m a 53 yrs old man who had tons of sex as a 20/30 something, job married and fell into a routine. Then about two years ago I suddenly became dick and bulge obsessed, which lead to Taoism. It’s been about a week since I shot my load, but that was only because I was having sex with my partner… who really wanted my cum that morning. Oh well. Before that, I had retained semen for approx four months. I really like the Taoist philosophy of being hard as often as possible and for as long as possible, just don’t ejaculate (so you can do it again in a couple hours.)

Blue balls resulting from the mandatory half-hour minimum daily edging sessions (though some days, if it’s slow, I’ll squeeze in four such sessions–pretty cool, and could never have had that much sex without Tao). Anyway, the blue-balls are both a problem and a great thing. On the plus side, the bluer they are the better it feels to massage them (and get hard again). On the down side, it’s not always 100% convenient to just jack off. I those cases the blue balls are annoying. Regardless, I’m feeling a bit plugged up down below.

Aneros vs Manual Stimulation

I’ve noticed that when I am using my Pure Wand I know when I am about to have a prostate orgasm when the strokes of my toy make me feel a rather strong sensation of having to pee. The lead up to an orgasm with the Aneros doesn’t feel that way at all to me. Is it like this for you guys too?

“The Language Of The Soul?…..A Meditation”

[Disclaimer: This is my interpretation only. No connection whatsoever to others’ interpretations of the “language”, either by music, feelings or other means.]

Introduction
Perhaps a little bit off-topic, but it all started yesterday. I was brushing my teeth and looking in the mirror. And it suddenly dawned on me: I can only look at my face through the mirror! Think about it: “you” are never looking at “you” (like others see you) except through a mirror, another reflection, a photograph or a video monitor. That is because of the way things are.

We have a dog, and our dog never looks at himself in the mirror! Dogs are not vain that way! But he communicates just fine because our eyes meet and he understands what I am trying to tell him. Perhaps this is the way people communicate too?

Meditation
I wore my Mueller cup overnight and settled-down this morning (quite early and after a nice session with the HIH 950) to listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. I continued this meditation…..

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It seems to me that the “best” way for people to communicate with each other is through person-to-person contact. When peoples’ eyes meet, there is a special connection there. If there is indeed a “sixth sense” I believe it is received and processed through this visual means of communication.

Incredible shared Aneros experience. (M/M)

Hey party people. I’ve never used the Aneros with another person, but I’m very good at using it by myself. I even wrote [a guide about how I do it!](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/8v1ij0/heres_how_i_get_to_my_reliable_supero/)

Recently, I connected with another guy who enjoys solo time and had never experienced the Aneros. I decided I would gift him a thoroughly, throughly cleaned Aneros Helix (since I tend to play with the Eupho Trident) and we would play together. I offered to coach him using my fairly meditative method and he was on board.

Smash cut to the two of us lying naked in his bed, making eye contact with one another. I’ve never made direct human eye contact with another man while using the Aneros. It was one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life. As we locked eyes, I felt the initial twitch go to a more fluttery place than usual. Instant omen of an intense session. I warned him. Once it really got going, my legs started to shake a bit and I felt what could have been an earthquake originating from a tingly spot right behind my cock, deep inside of myself. I didn’t even realize that I had slowly clenched down on the toy; it felt like it had been slowly expanding inside of me.

Then the orgasm hit.

“Guided By The Feeling”

Introduction
I often wonder: What is it that “drives” my prostate’s satisfaction? Why do I do the things I do to it? Such as Aneros sessions, “solo chastity” play, edging/surfing with or without ejaculation, nipple stim, cuddling with a sexual partner, etc. Is it just a desire for sexual pleasure? Or is there something more, something deeper, something hidden from plain sight?

Session
Just this morning, I was not particularly aroused. I am in only Day 3 of SR and not feeling anything special down in my prostate. But I had a strong desire to act on a session. I selected my HIH 950, lubed-it up with SSG and started the session. I told myself that this session would be beneficial for my prostate’s health, nothing more, and nothing less. But as soon as I started, I knew that once again, my prostate was very pleased that it was going to be stimulated. I had an almost immediate erection (I was wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon chastity cup). I tried very hard not to contract too much; but eventually, the auto-contractions took over and I couldn’t help myself. At several points, I honestly felt like I was going to ejaculate.

Towards the end of the session (which lasted about 30 minutes), my “inner voice” told me to take-off the cup and just lie on the bed. When I did, I noticed a good amount of precum on the inner pouch of the cup. I had an erection, played with my cock a little, and began to feel more pleasurable sensations from my prostate. My “inner guide” told me that this session was over…

When you just can’t stop.

Still in SR I decided to have a short gentle session with my Eupho. I felt I needed something just to relax with and ease the constant arousal. Well as often happens with any Aneros session you never know what is going to happen. The first 15 minutes were just what I needed, some lovely waves and again that feeling that ejaculation was imminent. Beyond that time I end up flaccid and then the prostate takes control. I just got deeper and deeper into the session and just let things develop. After a series of orgasms I experience a bit o f lull and then things build again. Then surprisingly as I was enjoying one of these rest periods and floating in a dreamlike state I began to get an uncontrollable body shake and trembling legs. I have not had this since my very first few session when I began to use the Aneros. This time though, as I am more experienced I just let it happen and tried to focus on it, instead of the slight fear I felt during my very first times. Eventually, 2 hours later I had to surrender and sleep, once again amazed at how many differing sensations I had been lucky enough to enjoy. Next morning I had strong Aless and a few mini O’s to remind me.
Now back at day 1 of SR and feeling slightly flat.

“Not A Session But A Meditation”

Background
I am only in Day 2 of SR. That should mean low libido and low-T, right? Uh, somebody forgot to tell my body. Let me explain…..

I awoke not too early, only wearing my nylon shorts but no cup. I had a firm erection and began (almost without any forethought) stroking my male “parts”, almost like I wanted to ejaculate! I honestly felt like I could! And after a short while, I realized that I needed to “curb” this activity and so I decided to quickly put-on my Mueller “chastity cup”. And that put an end to that!

Meditation
Now, in bed again with about an hour before it was time to get-up, I began to meditate on our male ejaculatory system and how complicated it really is. Of course, we take advantage of our prostates with our massagers. But the complete system is rather complicated. The process of getting our semen out of our bodies consists of many “layers” of fluids, each secreted by a different organ. There is, of course, the prostate. But there are others, such as the seminal vesicles and the Cowper’s glands, which contribute vital fluids as well. All of these must work together (with their respective muscle groups) when we reach the ‘Point-Of-No-Return’ and the climax of ejaculation.

The male reproductive system is truly a work of art. So many pieces have to come together for one purpose: continuation of the species! It is a “system” honed over many centuries, many millennia. Every human male (and most non-human mammals) have this capacity; it is a “wonder of the world” IMHO.

Time to move on

No joy so far in my quest for a HFWO. I reckon I will have to be patient and move on, when the time is right I’m sure it will happen. Almost every session now though has me feeling at some point that an ejaculation is building. This is normally in the first 10 minutes or so when my penis is still enjoying the stimulation, throbbing and dancing to the stimulus from whichever Aneros happens to be probing me at the time. Eventually prostate pleasures begin and the erection is gone but I continue to produce a fair amount of pre cum. In between my sessions I have been continuing to get myself as close to the PONR as I can and this has kept me ever so horny. As a consequence of this I am finding that I can now judge just when to stop so that I can release a small amount of semen without having a full blown orgasm. I am very impressed by my own self control, other times I could not have held back at all so I am learning another new skill. I’m not sure I would describe it as blue balls as @goldenboy so eloquently puts it, but I think I will have to end this current run of SR soon. It must be around 14 days or so and I just feel full.
One more thing before I sign off. I feel I have improved on my position a little. For some reason the other night I felt that I needed to support my feet on a stout cushion as I lay on my back with bent knees. I now am able to flex at the hips more freely and when the autof**king begins I find myself thrusting into them in time with the contractions.
Good vibes to all and take care.