Beginning Anew – The Start of Something Grander

So this is my first blog post. I’ve been an Aneros user for 4-5 years and have used the forum and chat intermittently, though never really in depth.

So first things first, I would say that I have had a great deal of success with the Aneros. I’ve experienced new sensations and had many sessions that have reached a Super-O, at least what I would think / consider constitutes a Super-O. I usually have 1, maybe 2, sessions a week. But there are times where I will go a couple weeks without a session, and just stick to traditional methods of orgasm.

The issue that I’m seeing is that the majority of my sessions, I would say 90%, end with a traditional orgasm. I believe that this has caused my Aneros sessions to become stale here over the past 6 months. I still experience many amazing sensations, but my focus seems to be on what is upcoming (the traditional ending) rather than what is happening in the moment. In addition, and I don’t know if this is related, I find myself touching myself throughout the day. I work from home mainly, and I get the majority of my entertainment from my computer (Netflix, YouTube, Video Games). So I get quite a bit of screen time each day. Now what I’ve noticed recently is that when at my computer or watching TV, that subconsciously I will be touching myself. Some times it is just hand over shorts, but others it’s full on hand down pants. I find this to be a sign of a lack of willpower and the primitive brain having too much influence on my actions. As stated I find myself doing this without even noticing.

Rediscovering “Active Aless”

Background:
Most of the time, my Aless is “passive”. Usually, I feel it following a nice Aneros session and it continues for a while, depending on the massager I selected. My involvement is only as a outside observer. This morning, however, I am not “scheduled” for a session until tomorrow morning. I am in bed, just chilling when I began to get a nice prostate “nudge” which caused me to do some very slight PC contractions. Was I amazed at the result!

Technique:
Here I am, lying in bed on my right side, just like in a regular Aneros session. I sense a strong sensation from my prostate and encourage more. Before long, I am deeply breathing, and have some prostate orgasms which caused a tingle up my spine. My cock started to get erect and I developed some involuntary PC or anal contractions as well. My focus really was on my prostate and how it was feeling. It felt just like a “regular” Aneros session, sans the Aneros! Amazing feelings! I stopped after about 20 minutes but could have continued longer.

Conclusion:
I will categorize this as an “Active Aless” session (versus “Passive Aless”). The takeaway for me is that I do not need to insert an Aneros massager to experience the erotic pleasures of a prostate massage. All that is needed is my body and a willingness to experience prostate orgasms. The rest will happen by itself! IMHO, the mindset has to be “right” to experience the full ecstatic pleasures of “active Aless”.

Progasm not big enough?

I got myself a Progasm. It’s my first Aneros product. I’ve used it for about a week. I’m having a few issues.

I only experience sensation on my prostate when I really clench my butt cheeks, sphincter and K-muscles. Even then, the sensation isn’t so intense. Rather mild. When I relax the sphincter, I no longer feel the Progasm. I’ve tried a lot of different positions. Lying down flat, with knees up, on my chest, on the side, sitting upright. Nothing really enhances the feeling.

I went for the Prograsm first because I’m an experienced bottom, and the times when I’ve had amazing anal sex were when the guy was pretty big. Before getting an Aneros, I had purchased a small stubby silicone prostate massager that did nothing for me.

Anyway, I’m wondering if maybe the angle’s not right for me on the Progasm, or if it’s too small. For the record, the guys who’ve topped me always compliment me on how tight my hole is. I’m 5’11, 165 lbs, muscular fit body, mid 30s.

Sweet, Gentle Prostate “Milking” with Aneros Eupho Classic

I am amazed at the range of “effects” the various Aneros prostate massagers can induce. I had a recent session with my new Helix Trident that completely blew me away; I could have had a “full-blown” Super–O if I wanted it. But I wanted to stop-short. The Super-Os for me are rather intense and I have to have the right mind-set for them. I did not that time around.

This morning, I am in Day 17 of my SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” overnight. I was awakened about 2 AM with a nice, strong pulsating erection and wanted to “keep” my scheduled appointment with Aneros. I knew in advance that I wanted a session with the Eupho Classic. I had not had one in a while and felt it was time.

I was not disappointed in this session. I experience p-waves almost immediately and began the gentle, relaxing contractions which felt so good. I have been experiencing a good “milking” of my prostate ever since my first wet dream. I don’t seem to produce any precum now during sessions. I think that is a good sign and feel that my body is accustomed now to release of prostate fluid then semen. I do not have blue balls at all now and I do not feel the need to ejaculate just yet.

What is going on

Hello. Let me start by saying that I have been trying prostate play with the aneros for about 2 years now. I have had the helix classic, I now own the helyx syn, the peridise and the progasm ice. I have not really had the super o or earth shaking orgasm everyone speaks of. It has felt ok at times, it has felt good at times even great at times. Never a hands free orgasm. Well last night I had a session that was a little different. It lasted a few hours. I started with my helix syn was super horny felt small pleasure waves pass through me on and off. But was not really getting to the next level. So I moved on to the progasm. Things did heat up a bit. It felt really good. I love the full feeling of the progasm. So to not make this long and drawn out. I was feeling amazing but not wow amazing. I wanted to cum so bad or to at least just have some kinda jump to a level I have never been. I just couldn’t quite get there. I was totally relaxed and in the moment of pleasure. So I advanced to my wife g spot vibrator. I get a really strong tickling on my prostate with that. Almost like I’m going to see but a little different. That feeling comes and goes. Mostly because to keep it I have to press harder. I’m afraid of doing damage so I have to just take it in 10 to 20 second bursts. Well last night I was trying to hold it there a little longer and with a little more pressure and also trying to slide it around at the same time. Well last night I was able for the first time to achevie something that I have never done before. I came every where but in actuality I came no where lol that sound s funny but I’ll will explain .
I got the I’m going to cum feeling followed by I’m going to pee feeling. I’m just lying there (Oh my preference for position is on back feet on ground knees up ). Loving this new feeling when all of a sudden after about maybe a no it’s or 2 of this feeling coming and going. I get really warm around the base of my cock. I get that feeling that I’m going to cum. you know feeling your thick cum start to pass on its journey through your pipes to get out. But almost at the point of when it would fly free it changed to that lighter feeling of just taking a good piss. Like what was coming out was more lighter more fluid like substance. I take a look down at my cock that feeling like it is just gushing something all over the place like a fire hose. But I only see a little dribble of white milky cum and a little trail of clear fluid. Well from the feeling I should have been soaking wet. But from what was there. There was nothing. After that passed I had to stop. I wanted to keep going but I needed my session. So my question is what was this. Has anyone had this feeling. I was completely flaccid as I usually am during my sessions. I sometimes get hard on and off. But 80% of the time I’m flaccid. Is this feeling the true start of what’s to come and should I push and try to power through it and keep going next time. Also is there any tips or tricks or other units that one would suggest that work better than what I have. I usually use about 30 mls of astroglide (water based) if I’m using the helix syn and 30 mils of astroglide ( silicone based) if I’m using the peridise or my orgasm ice. Is this enough lube. Also another thing I have noticed that happens is sometimes my ass gets that feeling that I have to shit so bad it contracts so hard almost to hold it in. But usually my ass will squeeze out alot of the lube. With the toy staying in me a few time it has pushed of the toy. So am I doing any thing wrong in any area are these all normal Things. Any feed back would be great.

This SGX Session “Sneaked” Up On Me!

I know, I know, I “cheated”. I am not schedule for an Aneros session until tomorrow night. But something was whispering to me early this morning…”treat myself to a session with the SGX. You won’t be disappointed!” So I obliged, not knowing what to expect. I certainly did not want a Super-O after my recent experience with the Helix Trident. But I lubed-up and began the ride. Now the SGX although it feels very good, usually does not do much for me in the way of stimulating a prostate orgasm. That all changed with this session. Let me explain…..
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No sooner did I get things going, that due to the thick ribbed stem of the SGX, I began to get immediate involuntary anal contractions (in and out) which felt almost like an anal orgasm was building-up. Soon after, I began to get hard, really hard. And in a short while, I distinctly felt my prostate being stroked and “edged” to an ejaculation! OMG! A HFWO? That is exactly what this felt like. I honestly felt primed and ready to ejaculate, ready to explode with cum.
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This feeling went on for quite a while and I remember falling-into a fantasy. I am lying with my lover and she is massaging my prostate with her lubed finger with the intention of making me ejaculate. I came so close! But as I neared the PONR, I felt a “pumping” sensation down to the tip of my cock and knew that it was prostate fluid being expelled, but not in an ejaculation. Around that time, my erection was starting to subside as well. I could regain some of the erection by performing some quick kegels (in and out) but by then the strong ejaculatory “feeling” had subsided. Although it still felt very good and arousing, I knew that that the PONR was now more distant and so I decided to end this amazing session. Yes, when I checked-in, it was not precum but a thin prostate fluid, and quite a bit of it.
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PS I am now in Day 16 of semen retention with absolutely no sign of blue-balls! Have I “beaten” my old nemesis? I would like to think so. I’m not exactly sure how I did it. Perhaps the periodic release of prostate fluid (especially through a wet dream) was the key. Will I now achieve another 21-Day Challenge? I am so close….

Do the different models matter?

I have been trying to reach the mythical super-O for a few years and in that time I have collected three different Aneros models. I have a Progasm, a MGX and a Helix Syn.

My question is to those guys who have had major success is: Does the type of Aneros matter? Or is it mostly a mental/practice thing?

Male “Chastity Cups”: Cozy, Comfortable Restraint

@BigGlansDC inspired me to talk about the use of jockstraps and cups in their use for chastity and male erotic pleasures.

I had a somewhat sleepless night and awoke about 2 AM. I had been wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup with SD 218 jockstrap. A very nice, comfortable combination! It allows ample room for my erect cock and is also very secure (no cheating thru the edges of the cup!) After a while with a semi-hard erection, it subsided again and I began to dwell on how “comfortable” the cup feels and how my cock is nicely “restrained” inside. I know that without the chastity “cup” straddling and protecting my package, I would have greater temptation to play and caress it to the point of inducing another erection and possible ejaculation. So the “chastity cup” IMHO is aptly named.

After about 45 minutes or so of contemplation and just plain relaxing in the cup while flaccid, I wanted to switch to another cup so I selected the SafeTGard with Cage Cup. Now this cup is definitely smaller and shorter than the SD but it was fine for my flaccid cock. After I switched, I went to lie back down and just relax, trying to get some sleep. [Note: when I removed the SD cup, I was surprised to see a “string” of precum oozing out of my semi-flaccid cock].

Athletic cup & SR challenge! Session for Saturday March 24 (day 20) : Why my BIKE CUP feels so good!

Hi guys,

I woke up much earlier this morning, disturbed by recent happenings in the news in my country. It is now 4:30 a.m. in the morning. I have been working on a translation project to get my attention off the news. I have also been wearing m BIKE CUP which has a sexual signature all its own. Shortly after writing the last four sentences, I felt drowsy enough to go back to bed and slept soundly until 7 a.m. feeling refreshed.

At 7:15 a.m. I began a most pleasurable session with Eupho Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Tempo. It lasted about 1.25 hours.

I have been fully dressed after my session again my BIKE CUP Supporter unit no. 85 reveling in post session Aless pleasure. It is day 20 of my SR challenge, actually my penultimate day in this challenge. I had a tasty breakfast with coffee and a 7 Eleven Brookie.

Update @2:30 p.m., about an hour ago, I came back in from a short jaunt in my neighborhood, while shopping for some groceries at the 7 Eleven. Wow, my BIKE CUP made my walk feel so much pleasurable as its bottom edge caressed my perineum. Aless very strong right now as I right this. It is real awesome how my Aless works with my perineum and the root of my penis to produce supreme pleasure!

My Aless has been in PONR territory all day today!