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Rising Pleasure

Tenhorn
Hello Aneros Bloggers. I am a divorced middle aged guy who acquired a Helix Syn about 5 weeks ago. I am certainly a newbie but am not completely devoid of previous experience with anal play. Even before I was married I had read that stimulation of the prostate could increase the intensity of a regular penile orgasm and had used a finger on my prostate a few times when I was particularly horny.

After I became separated and then divorced about 10 years ago , with newly acquired freedom ( and privacy) I purchased a little flexible anal vibrator at a sex shop that was about 5 inches long and the diameter of my index finger which I used maybe 5 or 6 times. I threw it out before I picked my daughters up for a visit because I didn’t want them to accidentally find it. I had found my youngest rummaging through drawers looking for a marker and it occurred to me that one of them might come across my little toy and prompt a very embarrassing conversation I didn’t want to have with them. That was several years ago.

I have had the Helix Syn since about Feb 10th and have used it approximately a dozen times. I wanted to share my experiences in hopes of possibly helping other newbies. I read the Aneros Wiki and quite a bit of the writings on the Forum and the blog and have found much of the information to be helpful. I want to thank especially Brian Mayfield, Rumel, Darwin, and Goldenboy, for sharing your experience and knowledge. Read more »

Where to begin?

Here’s the thing, where should one start with a blog? At the beginning would seem the obvious place. But now, 4 months into my Aneros journey I have already discovered and learned of things previously unimaginable to me. So I feel that now might be as good a time as any to give it a go. These 4 months have been a revelation and I can not imagine where things might go from here on in. Most of the things we are experiencing are very difficult to translate into words, so I might not always be able to convey my thoughts as I might hope. I can only try and contribute as best I can.

“Therapeutic Prostate Massage or Sensual, Erotic and Pleasurable Prostate Massage?”

[My friends, Ron and Bill are fictitious. They are used here to prove a point.]

I have two friends, Ron and Bill to whom I recommended Aneros prostate massage. Ron uses his massager to control his BPH symptoms and he tells me that it does a great job! Bill, on the other hand, doesn’t have BPH but uses his prostate massager to achieve wonderful, sensual anal and prostate pleasure. Which one is using his prostate massager correctly?

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The answer: They both are! Prostate massage is an activity that can have therapeutic benefits (such as control of BPH symptoms) as well as sensual, sexual “side-effects”. Thanks to @rumel for an important clarification that both aspects of prostate massage are valid. We are free to interpret our prostate massages any way we like.

Using prostate massage for therapeutic purposes is beneficial to me. I have seen a marked reduction in my BPH symptoms since performing almost daily sessions for 3-4 days now with my HIH 950 massager. Just last night, I didn’t get up once!

This morning, following the recommended “routine” of 15 minutes “do-nothing” followed by 30 cycles of slow PC contractions/releases, I began to get a feeling like I was going to ejaculate. I kept performing some PC contractions when all of a sudden, I began to “cycle” the massager very quickly. It seemed like it was on “automatic-pilot” and I really didn’t have any control over what was happening. But it felt so good, I didn’t want it to stop. This went on for perhaps another 15-20 minutes. It was time to get up so I ended this nice session to get ready for the day. Read more »

Second session – Well that was different!

After my fist session felt good but underwhelming, I did some reading and was determined to try this in a different way. The first time I basically put the plug in after I was already hard and jerked off as I usually do. This time I tried to get myself into the right head space first, getting myself hornny without actually touching myself. Then I progressed to lightly playing with my ass and balls before putting the Aneros in.

I laid flat on my back, and focused on using my pelvic floor muscles to manipulate it. It felt good but didn’t feel like it was going anywhere. I experimented with breathing and flexing different muscles until I found that by lifting my hips and contracting my lower abs, kind of a humping the air motion, combined with using the muscle I use to stop peeing, I could get what I thi k were P-waves going. At this point I was totally soft.

As I started to feel it build, I played with my balls while my hand just kind of rested on my cock. At that point I started to feel myself get hard and the pleasure was really ramping up. I never got fully hard, but I did have a wet orgasm with some muscle and body spasms. It felt awesome in a totally different way than I am used to.

A New Level; The Wonderful World of Dry-Os!

Well, after twenty six months less a few days, my journey has escalated to a new level last night; I believe I have experienced a dry-O for the first time.  It might not even be one as this is a new feeling for me but I have been reading too many forum entries to consider it something else.

Before outlining details of that session, I will mention that I had a great session Wednesday night featuring my Helix Syn for the entire session. At the end of the two and a half hour session, I retired to bed but once again, my prostate was in no mood for sleeping. I was in full orgasmic state for the entire night.

I had planned another session for Wednesday night but wondered about success since I was tired from lack of sleep the night before. I proceeded, first with my Eupho-Syn for about an hour and then pulled it out to give myself a fifteen minutes break (had an Aless which felt great). 

Next, I inserted my Maximus for the rest of my session.  My position was flat on my back, knees up, ankles to my butt for about twenty minutes and then I crossed one leg over the other (one foot in the air) squeezing the massager closer to my prostate. I like this position when I’m hungry for more aggressiveness in my session. This works great specially with my bigger units such as the Maximus and the Progasm Ice. Read more »

This Helix Trident Session Was A Dud! I “Broke” A Couple Of Rules

Well! In my eagerness to have another session with the Helix Trident (the house was empty for about 2 hours this afternoon) I violated my “cardinal” rule for Aneros sessions: Be Aroused! I had worn my Bike “chastity cup” for about an hour beforehand while doing some yard work outside. But when I came in, I still had a very flaccid cock. I wanted to do another session with the Trident and see what it could accomplish. So I started the session still wearing the “cup” but nothing else. After about 10 minutes, although I did have some nice involuntary movements from the Trident, I was not feeling anything in my prostate. It felt “dead to the world!” I even took off the “cup” and buck-naked, attempted several different positions on the bed, hoping for some arousal and some prostate orgasms. I got none. About the only thing I got out of this session was just a fraction of a drop of precum!

Morale: The best Aneros sessions start out with an honest arousal!

PS I think I broke another “implied rule”: If most of your sessions are in the evening, then don’t do a session during the day and vice-versa. Virtually 100% of my sessions now are in the late evening/early morning hours while I am more greatly aroused. I should have learned my lesson by now. Touche’

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Super O Checklist

Of course Aneros sessions are about a journey. However, I feel as though I’ve come a long way and I may have already had a couple of super O’s. So, how do you know you’ve experienced a super O as opposed to any other kind of orgasm?

First time, didn’t really feel anything.

I’ve been playing with my butt for a few months. I finally pulled the trigger and got my Aneros Helix Syn today. After some warmup, I got it inserted all the way, and I felt…nothing. I tried contracting my pelvic floor and sphincter muscles. It didn’t feel like much except for the normal fullness I felt from my fingers. Don’t get me wrong, it still felt nice to have it inserted, but I don’t think it was touching my prostate at all. I measured it against my finger and it’s almost exactly the same length.

I’ve read about dudes who have prostates that sit a little higher than normal, so I guess that could be the case. Or it could just be that I don’t understand how it’s supposed to work yet. But overall, it was a total let down 🙁

“Back To Basics: Is There A Limit to Horniness?”

@SOwithoutAneros inspired me with this thought (to @Harper):

“For now I’m fully amazed by a new kind of ruined orgasms I wouldn’t even call orgasms. It’s only like spilling over and releasing some pressure from the pipes but more in the way I otherwise would leak precum. It feels awesome and comes without any refractory period. Instead it makes me fucking horny and hornier and hornier. Like a new level of edging. Simply wonderful!”

It got me thinking: Isn’t this what we’re all about? Let me try to elaborate….

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Back To Basics

I had a great session the other night followed by strong Aless. While lying down, I had an extreme urge to “finger” my prostate. And I did just that. The feeling was so intense, much stronger than with an Aneros, I knew I would have to ejaculate, but had to stop-short since I didn’t want to spoil my continuation of SR and a possible next wet dream. I experienced an erection immediately and that got me thinking:

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Putting all Aneros use aside for a moment, let’s get back to basics! Our prostates are “key” to everything about us as males that is sexual. First and foremost, our erections. Where do you think your erection comes from? You guessed it…..your prostate! What can we accomplish as men without erections? Our prostates are vital in our production of semen, which is required for obvious reasons. So don’t ever belittle erections and our pleasure in getting them. Don’t belittle ejaculations either! They are both there for a reason. Read more »