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“A Sexually-Submissive Male: Giving Up Control”

It’s no secret that I like male chastity. I am again sleeping in a “chastity cup” and I find it very stimulating. But why is that?….

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Male chastity is but one aspect of sexual submission in males (also know as malesub), It generally means that the male is not homosexual or even bisexual. I’ll admit that I am neither. It just represents a sexual style that is designed for maximum arousal through sexual submission. Sexual submission for me involve several aspects, as I can identify them:

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**I’m not allowed to masturbate**

This is the essence of male chastity. I “play” that I am not allowed to masturbate as long as I am wearing a chastity “cup” and this is quite true. Even if I’m not wearing it, I must remain true to my pledge. It can be very sexually arousing, particularly as I approach (or pass) Day 7 of semen retention. Wearing a cup is a physical barrier (like a cock cage) that almost eliminates any possibility of masturbating to ejaculation.

**If I am allowed to ejaculate, it usually will be a ruined orgasm**

The past few ejaculations for me have been ruined. I like the feeling of almost complete arousal to the point of orgasm, then stopping. I relieve the pressure in my system (and tendency for blue-balls) at the same time. Yes, it is not very satisfying, but hey, in submission, it is extremely stimulating. There is always the possibility of a “regular” ejaculation. Need I elaborate further? Read more »

Those who have both the progasm and a smaller aneros

I currently have a progasm, and it is freaking awesome. I love how big it is I love how aggressive it is and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. However, I know a lot of guys have a smaller Aneros, as well as bigger ones like the progasm.

So, my question is which do you prefer, and why? Is it a mood thing? Does the smaller one do something that the bigger one does not? I’m just wondering if I should bother trying to get another one or just keep on enjoying what I have.

Eupho Trident review! Kind of.

So I got my Eupho Trident back on Black Friday when Aneros did a 10% off sale on the new Trident line of toys. After the first use I immediately wanted to come write a review for you guys who maybe were hesitant to pull the trigger on a new Aneros toy.

But let me tell you boys, *God damn* I love this thing. Just a little preface information, I’ve been an Aneros user since about 2006, give or take. I started with the Helix classic, which was then just the regular Helix. Since then, I have added a Progasm classic, Helix syn, Eupho syn, Vice, and a set of Peridise to my toy chest, as well as numerous other non-Aneros toys. I don’t use the other Aneros toys much anymore, mostly because a toy that does everything by itself is, well, a lot easier to use than a toy where I do all the work and have to be in a certain mindset and doesn’t give me a prostate orgasm every time without fail.

But enough rambling, onto the toy itself. The first time that stuck out to me were the tabs on the toy. The tab on my Helix classic is firm, and in a session it typically rubs my perineum raw. On the opposite end of the spectrum, the tab on the Helix syn has way too much give and basically might as well not be there. The Eupho Trident strikes a very happy medium. The tabs on it have some give so they don’t rub me raw, but it’s firm enough to serve its purpose. It does an excellent job of keeping everything in place, and does it comfortably. Read more »

Another HFWO – my enemy can’t leave me

Well my sessions don’t improve, and worse than that it’s so incredibly rare to have a good session. And when things are interesting 95% of the time I end up having a HFWO.
In fact I feel this is related to my premature ejaculation. And that’s like 90% of my depressed mood, it’s just so frustrating and aneros ends up being just another colateral damage.
This affects me so much I’m gonna post another message here I wrote in another forum, as I’m getting really desperate as I feel no way out of this nightmare:

“Well, where to start.
I’m 30 and I have always had premature ejaculation.
I’m 1,73 m high (5ft 8in) and 100 kg (220 lb).
When I was a teen I didn’t care much about it because my mindset was “when I grow older this will improve”.
So time went on and on and on… and nothing changed.
In the last 5/10 years I’m been burning inside with all this, I’ve sought plenty of help (including professional) but nothing ever helped.
I’m reaching that point where I’m starting to get desperate.
I feel so hurt inside, and it is getting worse.

So details.
Like I said this always happened, but I didn’t care much of it when I was a teen.
I’ve always been a very introvert, calm, person, and another (un)related thing is that I’ve never loved anyone.
Yes, I’ve never felt any kind of crush or anything of that. It’s totally alien to me.
I didn’t care of it when I was younger but now it’s another thing that is hurting me. Read more »

Dildo vs Aneros

I have seen a lot of post about is dildo the next step after aneros or does anal play make me gay? Those are questions that you must find the answer to within yourself. But as a openly gay male I will give you my in tell on how the two aneros or real thing are totally different.

Firstly when I got introduced to aneros I was already sexually active. I’ve had a few boyfriends and sex toys but this experience was different. For me when i placed the lubed up Helix Syn in it just rested in my hole. It just sat there. I had done my research prior but was still confused. As a few minutes passed it began to stir in me. It got my insides all fluttery. No man or toy has ever made me feel this way. With a dildo I just get cleaned out an probe my hole til I reach my sexual peak an then I orgasm. With aneros it is a slower steady pace build up to the orgasm. With a dildo I can control how it goes in an how far I want it to be in me. With aneros it is a designed size to just reach. Short and simple straight to the point. Read more »

Finally brought my wife into it

So. I’ve had my Helix Syn for almost two years. No super O but have enjoyed the ride immensely. Learning a whole lot about myself along the way.

I never told my wife about my Aneros. Only used it privately and had it hidden away. I had been wanting to try wearing it during sex though and finally told her a few days ago. Needless to say she took it really well and is super excited that we finally have a toy exclusively for me. We had this ridiculous edging session the first time we used it together and it was just euphoric.

So, now that I can finally keep my Helix with our other sex toys, I ordered a Progasm Ice yesterday to try something new. I wanted to get the new Trident but Lovehoney don’t carry them at the moment so maybe that’ll be my next purchase.

I’m just so glad that I don’t have to hide this anymore.

“A Respite From Chastity”

I had been having some discomfort in my groin area and thought it would be best if I suspend my night-time use of “chastity cups” for a while. Glad to report that the irritation is clearing up. But, for the past two nights, I have been sleeping only in my PJs. What a difference! Let me explain…..

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I awoke several times last night with an incredibly strong erection; so much so that I thought my wife slipped me some Viagra! Not only was I erect, I had ample precum oozing from my cock. I felt it right down to my prostate. I honestly felt like I was headed for a wet dream or at least an unassisted, spontaneous ejaculation. At one point, I removed my PJ bottoms and gently squirmed on the bed on my stomach, waiting for the discharge. I had at least three or four fantasies run through my head during this time (some male, some female). I thought how wonderful it would be to have an Aneros session right about now! A HFWO for sure!

But, alas, it was morning already and I had to put aside all this pleasure for another time…. I thought chastity was a real turn-on. But when the “chains” are removed, the unhindered sexual freedom has emerged! I feel like a newlywed ready to “spin the wheels”, trying out all my “equipment”! I am eagerly awaiting another night!

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I never get anywhere because I lose motivation after orgasm

I abstain from orgasm for a few days in order to get in the mood, try the aneros for a few days without orgasm, not get very far, have traditional orgasm, then my motivation to go through that again is gone for several months. It’s pretty frustrating for that cycle to keep repeating.

10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards. Read more »

A note on my Aless Sessions

This blog entry is more for my future reference than anything else. Sometime in the future, I will be revisiting these notes and reminiscing on my journey’s progress.

Today, I must note how pleasurable my Aless sessions have become. It seems everyday (at least twice a day), my Aless sessions escalate to a new level sending me in total bliss but still without orgasms. I’m not shooting for an orgasm (no pun intended) but I do look forward to the pure pleasures a simple breath, a subtle contraction here and there and a bit of concentration can generate.

At night, lying in bed, I can transpose myself in the ‘zone’ with ease and without efforts and remain there for as long as I wish. When I think about it, it’s much easier than penile play, less messy and less of a drain on my system.

I never would have thought such pleasures were possible and abundant. I appreciate the gift Aneros gave me.

Life is wonderful!