Contraction challenge

Hi all! I have been a regular aneros user for the past 3 year. I went through the process of rewiring but still hit a road block some of the time and while in a session today tried to change up what my thought process is. After about 30 minutes of letting my aneros do it’s thing on all foursI roll over onto my sit with my legs bent up close to my chest and count contractions. Every time I hit 100 I start over at 1 and try a new breathing and contraction technique. Sometimes I go quickly, sometimes I let it go slow, and on each contraction I am breathing with it at the pace of the contraction. I know for some of the newer folks here who don’t have the pc contraction figured out yet his might seem complicated. But if you can focus on getting the aneros to go in and out even just a tiny amount and breathing through it, feelings of pleasure will build over time. Do not strive for orgasm but rather imagine the aneros pushing on the nerves in your prostate that make you orgasm. I often fantasize about the first time I had sex without a condom and how strong that orgasm was. I can recall the feeling as things build and get really strong multi minute orgasms with a lot of leakage this way. Don’t get frustrated if you aren’t orgasming, keep at it and if you feel in the mood try to dedicate an hour a session to it! Not every session will lead to orgasms but they will always feel good and energize your day!

The start of a p-wave?

I’ve had my aneros for about a few weeks now, and lately I’ve been experimenting with the “do nothing” approach. Yesterday I managed to have some interesting feelings doing this, I’m wondering if it was the start of a p-wave.

I started by laying on my side with the aneros in, doing some deep breathing exercises. I found that by focusing on the sensation of pressure against my prostate, I could get that feeling to spread, into my perineum and penis. At this point I started to get an erection. That was followed by a feeling of “fullness”, as if the aneros was getting larger inside of me. Then there was a sort of tingling numbness that started in my sphincter and spread to my butt cheeks. It wasn’t exactly a pleasurable feeling, but it was interesting. The whole thing lasted 20-30 seconds at which point I lost focus and the sensations stopped.

So, was this the start of a p-wave?

This feeling happened 2-3 more times, and each time I would lose focus or get too excited after a while and it would stop. Once I tried contracting slightly when it was happening, but that made it stop as well.

So, how can I encourage this feeling to continue building? It seems to me the key is relaxation, every time I would get too excited it would stop.

Anyhow, I wanted to share because I’m excited to be making some progress. I’m starting to enjoy my sessions for what they are, instead of wishing for more.

Aneros Full Court Press today, August 4, along utmost Aless

Hi guys,

Early this morning from 5 a.m. to around 6:30 a.m. I had one of my most powerful and pleasurable Aneros sessions.
I worked with five of my Aneros models in this order: Eupho Classic, MGX, Helix Classic, and Progasm Classic. I call such a session an Aneros full court press. A full court press is a basketball term, not the term in politics one hears all too often these days in American media politics. A full court press in basketball is when your team has every corner and vantage covered so as to overwhelm the opposing team.

I was really horned up for the session this morning. Goldenboy speaks of wearing an athletic cup and jockstrap to bed at night to prevent masturbation. He calls his athletic cup a chastity cup.

For me, jockstraps and athletic cups are intensely erotic items. I have had a major jock and cup fetish going back to my pubescent and adolescent years when boys had wear them for sports and phys ed.

My athletic cup of choice for the last decade or so has been the Nutty Buddy Cup invented my MLB great and baseball coach, Mark Littell. You can purchase the Nutty Buddy at Battle Sports or select sporting goods stores. There are also other awesome athletic cups manufactured by All-Star and Shock Doctor.

Third Experience

My first experience can be found [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/6r5muw/overview_of_my_first_progasm_experience_meh/).

X-post from [r/prostateplay](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/).

I just did my third session, starting with the progasm and finished off with a vibrator. I tried to do some deep breathing with the progasm and I feel that I made some progress. I had a new sensation, like the progasm was hitting a new area. The sensation was slight, sort of like a tickle with a pleasurable slight burning. The feeling lasted for maybe 5-10 minutes but then I lost it.
I decided to finish with my vibrator, slid it in, started on slow and then progressed to the highest setting. I used my pulse cock vibrator to get myself close to orgasm then shut it off. I kept the prostate vibrator going and edged for maybe 20 seconds. I bucked around and tried to rock the vibrator inside me as intense feelings of pleasure abounded. I eventually came, but it was a constant stream rather than the usually spurts.
I think my third time was more successful and I am feeling more confident.

After weeks of not using the Aneros, I finally did just now, and my I got further with this session than I ever did. Just not there yet, sadly.

It’s been weeks since I last used my Aneros. Possibly 2 months. I had kind of given up. I haven’t done much anal play either with my dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. Been sticking to traditional masturbation for the post part. I guess I got too frustrated trying to have an anal/prostate orgasm.

But, recently I wanted to play with my ass once again. Just a sudden urge that came up.

Today I was too lazy to use the dildo or nJoy Pure Wand. And I was in a very “feminine” mood. Like, for some reason I wanted to play with my prostate. So I took out my Helix, lubed it up, and stuck it in.

First let me say that a few days ago I read somewhere on this thread some advice. One part of the advice was too “deep breath into my balls”. Which I immediately started doing. I didn’t do any contractions at all. Just deep breaths and relaxing on my side. One thing I noticed within a few minutes was my rectum was getting worked up a bit. Like, I was focusing on the sensation and could feel my blood rushing around in there. As a result, involuntarily contraction started.

Now I’ve done involuntarily contraction before, but it was always done mediocrely. However this time it was very consistent. This caused the Aneros to really get worked up in there. I kept focusing down there and kept the contraction going involuntarily by doing the deep breaths.

“A New Cup, A New Technique”

“A New Cup”
I bought a new chastity cup and just tried it out: a Bike adult baseball jockstrap with a traditional Bike cup. At first, I thought it was a little too tight and restrictive, but after a while, it is a good feeling. This jockstrap cannot be worn without the cup……it is just too small and restrictive otherwise. But when paired with the cup, the sensation is wild! I have not slept in it yet for chastity, but feel that it is only a matter of time to get it into the “rotation”. BTW, this came in a 2-pack: two jocks and one cup. I ordered adult large size (I am a 36 waist).

PS I am into day 9 of SR and getting really horny. I need to stay in chastity as long as possible. Otherwise, I find myself playing with my package too much and may regret the stimulation! Oh, how I crave an edging session! But I’m not ready to cum yet; I don’t have any blue-balls feeling.

PS I have three cups now and each one has its own unique “signature” feeling. The jockstraps (I have four) also have their own characteristics. Usually, I pair them up as originally bought. But sometimes, I mix them up for a “different” sensation.

“A New Technique”
During this morning’s session, I “discovered” a new Aneros session technique. I’ll call it “Ignore-It!” and here is how it works….

Overview of My First Progasm Experience: Meh

My first experience with prostate play was a bit of a letdown but finished with some pleasure.

To start, I showered, cleaned out my rectum (which was a bit involved, not sure I will bother next time), another light shower, and then found some nice audio porn. I lubed up the Aneros Progasm and laid on my side, pulling one leg up and keeping one straight as I inserted it. The Progasm went in fairly easily and comfortably. I found the perineum stimulating ball a bit distracting at first.

I laid on my back, breathed slowly and deeply and listened to some nice audio porn. I have to say, I wasn’t feeling anything. I tried a series of different positions: laying on my stomach, sitting up, doggie style, on my side, on my back – the sensations were all the same – lame. The whole while I was trying positions I did some flexing of my PC muscle, played with my perineum a bit, and was able to get my anal muscles to do some rapid movements (volunatrily), but no intense pleasureful feelings.

I started to wonder if I had inserted the Progasm upside down, thinking that that maybe it wasn’t rubbing against my prostate. I pretty easily turned the Progasm around while inside me and it felt better, somewhat pleasurable, but it was a fleeting feeling. I then tried rocking it around a little by thrusting my hips and then tugging slightly on it with my hand – still didn’t feel much.

The motel Super O

Checked into a motel this past weekend to stay the night after a business meeting. The motel was very nice and had two rows of rooms separated by an interior hall. The front row of rooms faced the parking lot however the back row faced a grass covered hill. The motel had two floors and at the top of the hill was another hotel whose rooms looked down directly onto our rooms. I was in an end room that had a huge window at the back of the room so the stage was set for a very erotic adventure.
After spending the evening at the spa, the one I have written about before, in the hot tub and steam room I returned to the motel. I like to keep my private area shaved so I hopped in the shower and proceeded to touch up by shaving my cock, balls and stomach area. After showering I poured a glass of wine to help relax me and took a viagra
pill just to insure I would have a rock hard erection for the nights aneros session. While I was in the bathroom I gave myself several enemas to really clean me out so that my aneros toy could easily do its thing once inserted.
I signed onto a porn site and for the next 2 hours watched and listened to some really good porn which really turned me on. The viagra had started working after about 30 minutes so by now I had a very strong erection and was oozing precum even without my aneros toy inserted. It was about 1 am now and I was ready and anxious to enter aneros heaven, orgasm and shoot my load. I set up a soft cushioned chair in front of the window with its back leaning up against the bed.
I take testosterone shots and the one I had had two days ago had made me really horny so I was so ready to go. I went into the restroom and mixed up my lube. I used a water based lube, warming liquid and toothache drops to help ease the pain of inserting my aneros progasm which is large for my small anus. The warming liquid gives a great warming feeling inside my rectum. I used a bulb syringe and filled up my rectum with a good amount of lube. I then lubed up my toy and inserted it slowly until my anus quivered and sucked it in. It was a great feeling being filled up by my toy.
I wrapped a sheet around me for effect, turned off all the lights and walked across the room to the chair. But before I sat down and started, I opened up the curtain exposing the entire dark room to public scrutiny!
I sat down in the chair in front of the uncurtained window, put on my headphones, turned on my player and began listening to a fantastic narrated aneros journey by a very sexy lady Rummela!
The wine, the smoke, the viagra, her sexy almost mystical voice and my aneros all added to the fantastic orgasm I was about to have. I slowly allowed the draped sheet to fall from my body and to the floor exposing my very nude hairless body and a very hard erect cock. As I listened to Rummela and followed her sexy voice encouraging me to squeeze my buttocks and hold it until I was told to release the squeeze I began to slip into blissed ecstasy. I was encouraged to hold the squeeze longer and longer each time. Each time my progasm hit my prostate and forced it to ooze out more precum until it began to almost continually flow.
By now I was experiencing one mini orgasm after the next each time shaking uncontrollably until I was told to release. By now it was getting harder and harder with each squeeze and release to stop and avoid orgasm. I was so aroused I felt as I was going to just lose it any minute.
Finally Rumella said that this would be the final squeeze and I knew I was on my way to ecstasy. I squeezed and held it and then started to shake uncontrollably as my progasm hit my prostate with a vengeance. I couldn’t release the squeeze as I felt paralyzed to do so because of the intense pleasure I was experiencing. Then it happened, a wave of indescribable pleasure came upon me and as I slipped into what seemed unconsciousness, still shaking, I let out a huge, loud moan and orgasmed ejaculating my load violently. It took me about 30 minutes to finally calm down.
Later on as I cleaned up I realized the extent of my orgasm when I went to close the curtain and saw my cum splattered on the window! It was by far the most cum I have ever shot and probably the furthest distance I ever shot!
I know now that I definitely achieved a Super O!

Questions on arousal and how to think during a session

So I’ve got a few questions about arousal and thought process during a session. I know the aneros does really do anything by itself, and you need to be around using it. I’m trying to determine what arousal really means. For example I can feel horny or think something is hot, but I don’t think that really elicits a physical response. If there’s porn on, it doesn’t really do anything except give me the urge to touch myself. If I’m touching myself I get a physical arousal response of an erection. The same if I’m trying to have a fantasy in my mind, it doesn’t really do much. However if I’m touching myself and fantasizing, I get a physical response and I can “engage” more with the fantasy. Should I be causing physical arousal response aka an erection before inserting? After inserting? How does arousal play into the use of aneros?

Following up on starting arousal, how should I be thinking of maintaining it throughout the session. Should I be fantasizing, listen to erotic audio with a story, try to keep my mind blank? I think some of the larger issue is I put the aneros in and have a now what response. It doesn’t feel wildly good just sitting there, practicing contraction is kind of meh, trying to just relax and feel things practically puts me to sleep. I’d like some thoughts on how to think/what to think during a session. I know everyone is different and there’s no right way, but currently using the aneros is about an hour of trying various things and then finishing myself off with my hand.

all movement no feeling?

so I just got the aneros ice prograsm and I’m not sure how I feel about it. I’ve only had it for 2 days. I know I’m still very new to the path to a super-o, but my experience is kind of weird

I’ve watched videos of people having a super-o and stuff. my hips and body movements are similar. I’m having the involuntary hip stirring and shaking. all that fun stuff. except… i dont FEEL anything. I do feel relaxed and warm, and obviously my body is responding but I’m not feeling anything. during my last session I did get a liiiiiittle something… I think??? but mostly I don’t feel much

seems like I’m on the right path but other than warm/tingling how is this supposed to feel? this is nothing like an orgasm. I kinda like doing it but I’m getting no sexual pleasure out of it.

thoughts?