Question on impact of aneros on masturbation/sex.

I’ve been considering getting an aneros and have read about some of people’s experiences with super-Os and prostate orgasms, which sound pretty intense. I was wondering if, for people who have experienced those regularly, has orgasm from normal masturbation or sex without an aneros become any less satisfying? Has anyone become dependent on using the aneros, either alone or supplementing other sexual activity?
Reading some other people’s stories, it almost sounds like after starting to use the aneros, anything else would just be mediocre without it.
I also haven’t had sex before and I wouldn’t want my first (or subsequent) experience to be a letdown when compared to the feeling of a super-O or etc.

Can anyone comment on whether these are real concerns?
Thanks!

Question about the Peridise

Just got a Peridise set. Just wanted to know if yours too are saying Peristal on the molded logo or not? I am aware of HIH and their product lineup, but seems odd that their Aneros products is branded this way…

An example of the best session I can achieve (yet)

Yesterday I had one of those sessions I can describe as the best aneros sessions I can get (at least right now).

It isn’t mind blowing but it’s really good, I hope in the future it gets better and better, but specially faster to reach the good part.

I’ve already talked about really low sexual desire. Maybe that’s one of the main problems I have: get things started.
I can feel the aneros touching my prostate from minute 1, some years ago I got an hard on immediately, today I sort of still get a minor reaction.

But for things to reach the really good parts, I need time. And by time I mean hours and hours.

In the morning I had a 2 hour session with Eupho just to experiment. Lately I’ve been using Progasm Ice and have some nice sensations, I think its stronger contact on the prostate may help bypass my low sexual drive and arousal.
In the week before when I had a session I used Progasm Ice so I wanted to see if Eupho’s movement would give me something different (and better).

It didn’t, all I got was the nice but not spectacular general feeling of being pleased.
I always use a bit of porn at the beginning to wake up my dead prostate, and it works.
From my previous experiences nipples are dangerous as many times they lead me to hands free wet orgasms.

“Meditation: I Am Uniquely Me!”

While listening to a favorite track on YouTube: “DJ Fotis – Music For Sex (Round 5)” I “fell-into” a meditation. In a nutshell, here it is…….

In all the universe, I am uniquely “me”. There is no one else like me anywhere. What does this mean exactly? It means that only I will experience my unique pleasures of life. That may involve food, traveling, friends and yes, even sex! As it applies to the Aneros experience, what this means to me is that my Aneros pleasures are uniquely mine and no one else’s! That is not to imply that others may not experience what I am experiencing. Of course, we have shared pleasurable experiences. But it means that my experiences with my prostate in particular, are uniquely and ultimately mine!

Is it wrong to want to experience Aneros pleasures such as the Super-O the way others have? No, but I need to realize that even when I don’t have the exact same experiences and realms, neither do they experience mine. Is there a sense that I am traveling alone through this thing called life? Perhaps. But the true joy in life I believe is in experiencing shared pleasures. If I can master this aspect of living, I believe I have accomplished a great deal.

PS A lot of this meditation could not be put into words; I tried as best to say what I was feeling. This was a very powerful moment for me and I tried to share some aspects of it.

Something’s Changing

Something’s Happening

In a recent post from a forum’s member, @rumel suggested​ the use of a tennis ball to massage the member’s perineum and I thought it might be a good time to try it.

First, a bit about my status; I started Anerosing in Jan of 2016 thus achieving great health improvement on my prostate while enjoying the many great sensations and feelings but still short of the ‘Big’ one and even Dry-Os. I consider myself to finally be ‘Aneros Mentally Mature’ meaning I no longer push for results, I am taking the time to enjoy every bit of sensation, twitches and p-waves my body gives me with absolutely no expectaations. I read forum posts, re-read WIKI and just simply enjoy my current status every day.

Back to tennis balls; I sat on a tennis ball while rocking back and forth and sideways for two consecutive sessions in two days now and sometimes doing so aggressively. I feel a further awakening of sensations in the area which leaves me tingling for many hours after. Good suggestion @rumel, thank you!

Last night (in the middle of the night), I woke up to two consecutive and very distinctive prostate dry orgasms, something I never had before. They were mild and not enough for my wife to wake and notice my smile.

Was this the result of the tennis matches at my perineum or just a coincidence? The answer is really not important, the end result is. I certainly feel I’m making progress in my Aneros and A-less sessions.

Day 8 of 5th attempt

What a weekend.

I started a session Saturday afternoon and I was close to the point of no return in like 30 seconds. I just couldn’t get away from that, and the entire session was me fighting ejaculating. I got really close at one point and decided it was just safer to stop after about 20 min. But then an hour later I had a session for about an hour and there was no problem, took an hour break, then had sex for two hours and was no problem having control. That was sort of interesting – I can’t remember the last time I had that hard a time with control, but everything seemed fine after I came back to it. I did have some blue balls after sex though (which i had a mild case of a day before, but got to medium intensity after the sex). I thought the blue balls might be because i was having sex without the aneros massaging my prostate. I kept an aneros in the rest of the evening and slept with it it – not sure if that helped, but I woke up Sunday morning with no blue balls.

Sunday was even better. I had a session from 12:45pm to 5:15pm, probably one of my longest ever. And again, amazing control, lots of orgasms.

Day 6 of 5th attempt

Almost a week since I ejaculated. I’ve felt largely the same as I did before I ejaculated. Here’s some observations:

– Thurs and Fri night had a solo session with various Aneros toys in. The sessions felt good, but didn’t result in more than 1 or 2 small orgasms – but over the hour I was feeling a buzzing and enjoyed it. To be honest, I wasn’t trying that hard either. I was just watching TV and enjoying having someting in my butt 🙂 But it’s the first time I can remember in a long time 2 back to back sessions that didn’t really work out.

– Pretty calm energy. No big spikes in horniness. I’m interested in sex, but don’t feel like it’s a primary thought going through my head like it often is.

– I have blue balls today. I suspect it could be because of the two sessions I had the last two days that didn’t result in very much orgasmic reactions, and hence not a lot of pre cum released.

Probably going to have sex this afternoon, but going to focus a lot on relaxing and staying at an 8/10. Hopefully get some blue ball relief from that, but the blue balls right now are pretty minor. I had it on my 1st attempt at this, but didn’t on the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th.

“First Ride: The HIH Pro-State 950 Prostate Massager”

Well! My new prostate massager arrived yesterday. It was the High Island Health’s newest model, the Pro-State 950. My first impression was that: this thing is smaller than other Aneros models I have used. First off, it is thinner, shorter and has a newly-designed perineum tab. I was eager to try it out but frankly, I was a little disappointed.

OMG! That all changed once I inserted it. It went in so easily, without a struggle. Before I knew it, it has nestled-up against my prostate and was starting to work. The instructions say just to relax for 15 minutes before doing any contractions. What they didn’t say is that this device seems to work so well, I was doing auto-F contractions only after about 5 to 10 minutes. I couldn’t help but start the contractions sooner.

Did it work? How about 6-8 drops of not precum but prostate fluid on the first “ride”? I had the HIH PS-NEW which released prostate fluid but I was always a little sore. The 950 seemed to hit my prostate perfectly with absolutely no discomfort (except the good kind!) After I removed it, I had a wonderful Aless for about another 30 minutes.

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Fast-forward to this morning (early). I guess I was prostate-horny because I needed another 950 session. Lubed-up and away I went! This time, I managed to stay still for the full 15 minutes but it wasn’t easy. Before I even started contractions, I had an additional ~5 drop or so of prostate fluid expelled from my penis. I almost forgot how prostate stim feels after a long absence from Aneros. Now I know better.

Day 31 of 2nd SR-Challenge: (to be continued in the next few hours)

Yesterday, accidentally reading over a post I had already read months ago, exactly on New Year’s Eve last year, I was struck by the insight how far my journey has gone by now. Only now I realized all the changes I went through and the deeper understanding of @flexxor’s wisdom made all the difference. It’s rather unbelievable how boldly and concurrently sagely this young man in his twenties oozes his wisdom to the forum: To those still waiting and WANT to get that “Super O”; Here’s how … To me the key assumption was “Keep this in mind during Aneros sessions: Don’t get caught up in everything. LET your mind wander. Don’t control it. Think of it like this (since evidence has proven people learn better with metaphors): Flow, like a river. Don’t fight it. Just let go and go with the flow. The same with the Aneros.” An imagination of my binaural sessions following the orders of online domina shibby (links you can find in some of my older blog posts) I got used to was sliding down a long helter-skelter into a basin of a black liquid of pure bliss. Now I lay down on my couch and a mingled imagination of both fantasies occured to my mind. It didn’t take long to give up to this scene and a wonderful super-O came over me out of nothing but meditating about this fantasy.

The unavoidable ejaculation

My sex drive keeps being as low as ever. With a possible change starting only in September things keep dragging.

Most of my sessions end in nothing.
When I have a lot of time sometimes I can get to somewhere.
In the last productive sessions I ended up with another old friend, the unavoidable hfwo that ruins my sessions.

In the first session it came out of nowhere, and it was fast.
I had just inserted Aneros and I was viewing some porn to get some arousal.
I was like 30 mins in with nothing special then suddenly I feel the orgasm coming, with no previous warning.
It went from nothing to ejaculation, and the weird is that I had only the background pleasurable feelings before it came sudenly.
I’ve never experienced this before (the sudden out of nowhere ejaculation/orgasm).

In the second session as usual it took some hours until I felt something.
I was getting the feelings of general pleasure and I was relaxing and letting it continue, always with the do nothing approach.
Sometimes I fell asleep and kept waking up, the session contnued and eventually it reached a part where I started to feel more pleasure and, as also common for me, eventually it was too much and it triggered the ejaculation.

My third session was long but nothing special happened. I was again in the plateau and nothing happened for hours.