Tag: Aneros

My learnings of using Aneros

I have been on this journey for 8 months. I have loved every minute of it. There has been ups and downs but I have trailed through it all and can't wait for more to come. Scratch that don't want to detour feature pleasures so I will take on what ever Aneros has to offer. But as I have been with aneros my techniques has really advanced. I have coached a few people via the chat or email. I now know how to achieve my orgasms to there highest potential and these are my ways. Now they might not work for you so take it with a grain of salt.

Pleasure Positions:
*Laying on back with legs extended, hands palms facing flat on bed not touching anything just contracting with kegels
*Laying on my back with bottom half elevated with pillow under me so I am able to lift legs up to have device go in deeper and smoother sending cray waves through my body
*laying on my left side with left leg extended and right leg on top pushed up. The device really tickles my prostate this way and will send instant mini o's Read more »

Phase 1: Initiation

Welcome welcome welcome, on my blog.
I'll share my experiences here about my journey to become "rewired".

About me:
I'm a 20yr old gay guy, so I've had my share of anal play.
This will hopefully be an advantage on my journey.

Start of Phase 1: Initiation
So I unpacked my first aneros (Progasm), I tought it would be larger but it wasn't (thankfully).
So after lubing up the aneros for the first time, I inserted it and it went in smoothly.
I hear some novice people find it quite big at first. I certainly didn't (first advantage of have anal play experience YAY).

The Progasm was very comfortable inside me, I didn't wait 10 minutes as often said.
I felt it wasn't really necessary.

So I started doing some anal contractions and Kegel exercises. I started feeling it in my prostate. It felt really good.
Now the problem I had was trying to keep the imbalance between the anal and pc muscle.
The more I focused on it, the harder it was.

The session ended with me having a Super-T. No super-o's yet.
I think it was because I wasn't relaxed enough and I couldn't keep my focus on the pleasure (my mind wandered a lot).

Session Summary:
Positive:
– Pleasurable prostate feelings
Negative:
– Not relaxed enough
– Not focused enough

Angels at the gate or aneros psychotherapy

something new came up during this afternoon's session. I was doing nothing, just aware of the aneros caressing my prostate and pleasuring me and doing the tantric breathing. I was just going along this way and the thought popped into my head that something else is blocking my way to more pleasure. When the energy of the tantric breathing reached my heart it transformed into mostly tears and some shaking. It took a while of sobbing, getting more intense and louder, to get to the root of the grief.

I've been anxious my whole life, probably since I was born. My mother and I almost died during childbirth. Then I was scalded with boiling water when I was a year old. I've always felt that I was different but when I reached puberty, I found out what that difference was. I immediacy suppressed that discovery until my 32nd year when I finally admitted to myself that I am gay. All this has kept me in a constant state of vigilance, hiding myself for my survival. I became like a chameleon who is constantly adjusting itself to blend in, to meet other people's needs, not my own. Consequently my ego is like putty, malleable according to who I'm with to an extreme degree. We all do something like this I suspect, but most people have a solid sense of who they are to fall back on. It's hard to explain. Read more »

3 days in the hole

Being this is my first entry, I'm starting with an introduction. I purchased my first aneros product about 8 months ago. I had been having a increasing interest in anal play after discovering how amazing it could feel. My first model was a progasm. I must say it was definitely a little bit of a jump to just start out with this, but my body adjusted accordingly. Within the first couple of weeks I had what I think is a full body orgasm. The next couple of times were definitely not the same. Frustrated I put it away for a while. Since then I've been on and off with the aneros since I bought two more models the MGX and the Helix.

3 days ago I decided I would stop penile contact altogether for at least a week. Every night since then has been an increasingly better session and I can feel my arousal growing. I'm very excited to see how different my session will be by the end of the week and see if I can go even longer. So far I have had no real desire to have a super t or even stimulate my penis in the traditional sense. I am really starting to get into this "sexual journey" that everyone speaks of and am enjoying my experiences as they come. I've been doing pc and sphincter excercises everyday and trying to master the "tug of war" technique. A couple of other techniques such as KSMO and certain tantric exercises have caught my eye and I'm looking into them.

Today's Blog

Pardon the unoriginal if descriptive title. If I think too much it gets stale. Again these are my impressions from last night, less a session than just me, my life. I've decided that although my last blog entry wasn't perfectly what I might want, I don't care, this is mostly for me.

Again with the calm seas with one something in the middle, a kind of combination yawn, stretch, gasp, sigh, and mini O. What is it? But the real action was all inside. I realized that the elephant in the room is that what is going on here is I am getting acquainted with my inner life, my body, my sensations. This may seem painfully obvious to everyone but it's new to me, to be able to be focused on these ineffable impulses coming from my body in a natural relaxed way, for any length of time. I've always been inward-looking but all in my head, never my body. So this is new. Read more »

The Mapping of Greater Orgasmic Responses

[11:04:43] artform: By awakening our prostates, we are awakening the energies that power our regular ejaculatory orgasms, and we learn to separate those dry energetic Responses from the wet orgasms Response. That separation of those two elements of regular sexual orgasms is the great key and great gift from the aneros practice.

[11:04:48] djblackknight: It's my body telling me it's fun time

[11:05:11] artform: could be indeed, most likely!!

[11:05:42] djblackknight: O wow

[11:05:42] artform: Could you take a bit of time and have a hands-free, no ejac session then?

[11:06:10] artform: Although that could make the 3:00 am thing a habit tough to break too.

[11:06:35] djblackknight: Yeah

[11:08:02] djblackknight: This chat has helped open my eyes a bit and I have gained understanding in this

[11:08:39] djblackknight: I will take all the understanding I can get

[11:09:09] artform: The guys talking hallucinations are experiencing some of the possible effects from the higher levels of dry orgasms, and there is no need to fear those, as I will explain now.

[11:09:29] artform: Evere do Tai Chi or any Kung Fu?

[11:09:41] djblackknight: No

[11:10:15] djblackknight: Would that help

[11:11:20] artform: Those practices are based on the same energies we all have that drive our Orgasmic Response, as separated the Ejac Response.

[11:12:03] djblackknight: Okay Read more »

Peridise

Wow, I can now say I love the peridise. I have been using the peridise for normally 2 hour sessions lately, until last night. I decided I wanted to try overnight and see what happens. While my intentions were to have it in for sex with the wife, which didn't happen, I ended up with great surprise from the peridise instead.
About 10pm I took a nice hot shower. Before I got in I made sure to clean out the back door. After I got out of the shower I inserted 5mg of aneros sessions lube in rectum. Then put a coating on the peridise it self and inserted it.
By 11pm I had good feelings and it was time for bed.
So I crawled into bed and laid there snuggled up next to wife. After trying to encourage sex for a little while it was obvious the wife was not having it so I just laid there next to her.
I needed up falling asleep shortly after. Right before falling asleep I did some basic contractions. I'm getting to the point where my muscles will pull the toy all the way in. Which I have to say as the last knob is pulling into me is an amazing feeling.
So I go to sleep and I start having great dreams. I don't remember exactly what they were but they were great from what I can tell. So I wake up at 1:30am with an amazing erection. I'm feeling good all over and extremely horny. So of course I try to coax sex again from wife, which was not haveing it still. So I go back to sleep.
I wake up again at 3:30. Again rock hard erection and horny as can be. Tried for sex again which didn't happen. But I had this amazing feeling all ov my body. I felt as if I had many O's which I probably did but being asleep I didn't know it.
At this point my muscles all over my body were tense and yet relaxed. My butt, anal canal, rectum everywhere in my arse, was wore out. I would imagine this is what it would feel like for someone to take it in the back door hard for a few hours. By this didn't bother me. It was a. Great feeling.
At the 3:30 wake up I did decide to take the peridise out. I had the feeling it was getting dry. Which on removal I was correct. I thought about lubing back up and putting it back in, but decided it would be good to take a break.
I'm defiantly going to try some different lube and now have to get the full setof peridise along with the tempo.
I think I will try the Shea butter method and see how it does for the next overnighter.
Coming up this week I will be travleing so I will have at least 2 overnight dates. I'm thinking one with peridise and one with my classic. Let's see what happens.
As much as I would like to have a session when I get home I feel that my arse and body need a break tonight. Can't wait til later on in the week for round #2 of overnight sessions.

afterimage

I decided to wear my modified MGX to bed last night rather than the usual eupho syn to see what happens. I modified it to be more comfortable and was eager to try it out while I slept. So I lubed with aloe Vera and greased the MGX with silicon and inserted it. I got involved with chat which modulated the sensations since my attention was on other things. I finally got so tired I f went to sleep. I woke up during the night with mini orgasms which faded to calm seas, so I took it out and went back to sleep. When I awoke, I was back, or still, in the calm seas and became aware of my prostate, moving and pretending that the aneros was still inside. I got to actually feel the shape of the MGX massaging my prostate as if the aneros' afterimage was still inside me. The calm seas got less and less calm as I felt the shadow touching every part of my prostate. My prostate seemed to grow and fill me both with bulk and with pleasure. My penis said "hey, remember me" and seemed to grow up out of my prostate like a tree grows out of the earth. I balanced my attention between the penis pleasure and the prostate pleasure and just enjoyed whatever was going on. So when I got the pleasure in a manageable zone, I got up for the day and am still tingling from the afterimage of pleasure.

Session 2 peridise

Holy crap! I started listening to one of the mp3's of guys on Aneros, but my wife came home. I played possum, and she went to sleep in the other room, letting me continue. I think I was running it like it's designed, sliding back and forth pushing out and pulling in. I hit a peak on my back and pretty much stayed there as I move to my left side. When I flopped over onto my belly, th4 involuntary whithing made me pass out drooling into my pillow. I was just letting it happen, mainly, without trying to force it. back on my back, I was to far into it to be counting the orgasmic peaks. finally, I decided it was enough and went for a Super T, but had too little fluid after last night to really load up and ejaculate, although there was a little discharge from my cock. But there was enough mojo left for me to try to ejaculate again… same result. That little devil forced me into convulsions for a dry super before I was together enough to pull it out.

Getting better at controlling it. I'll see if I'm together enough to keep the advanced larger one in next time.

I have to go over to Amazon, give this one top stars, and tell the world about passing out. )I did only have three hours of sleep(. 8>(

Further info on the start — my history

Where am I? I had my first really big orgasms in my 20's. I took a sensuality class from Maxine Sanini [Rey Anthony]. She taught us about pushing out when your orgasm starts. She said you could lose a few when you were learning to do it, but if you could get into it, it was amazing. You bet it was! For me, if I pushed out hard, my ejaculations felt like my consciousness was blowing out through the top of my skull, splattering against the ceiling, dripping down the walls, and slowly flowing back to me. I taught a lover, and she was having two-minute orgasms, almost bucking me off the bed.

When I married, however, my vife, although orgasmic, had very little interest in anything not plain vanilla. And having five kids in the house cut down the joyous noises from the bedroom.

But now the kids are all gone. I found the internet, and, having never lost my deep and abiding interest in sexuality, I found symatico chat rooms. Bianca's Smut Shack; State of Insanity )still there. soi.hyperchat.com(; and the Verandah.

I loved cybersex, and at the Verandah I presented myself as Poly. Polymorphously perverse, with a whole bunch of repressed personalities that loved to get out and play; Recreational multiple personalities, as it were, I never broke character when I was in one. If IThey got the action; I got the orgasms. Seemed like a fair trade. Read more »