The Point of Aneros — In My Opinion

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To a new Aneros user or anyone feeling frustrated:

Seeing the length of this post with the thought of, "I simply don't have the time or desire to read all this!" Let me give you a Rika's Note version of what this is about. I understand initial frustration and expectations of the new user. I detail what those frustrations are and why they occur. Then I proceed to describe a way to change the mindset and approach of Aneros in order to reduce frustrations and expectations so that this product and adventure becomes fun and rewarding. If you're a new member stressed and wondering what to do, you've already spent time trying to figure it out, spend a little bit more time to read and hopefully find a few answers to your questions. Thank you.

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I see new threads and topics all the time, as well as men in chat, just at a total loss about Aneros.

I'm going to use some creative speculation here for a minute, so please follow along.

What I see in chats and the forums essentially boils down to a feeling. That feeling is frustration.

my journey

All smiles here. I will try to convey my story with out getting a hard on. I started my journey a few months ago after I saw a video of a guy going banana's over a aneros device. As a gay male I have had a penis in my ass but I have never had any prostate fun. So i was broke to buy a device so i looked at a diagram to find it and just used my fingers. It was a very nice feeling. I haven't done any reading though before hand so i was confused on the actual feelings that I was having. I read that the trembling and convulsions were normal. First month down and feeling great. I actually just typed in aneros one day and this site came up. SCORE! Been learning ever since. I saw that the devices were really pricey so I went to amazon to find a deal. Got me a Helix syn extra excited for the sensations that will cum. I got it a week later, ripped open the package and praised my new friend that I will soon luv. Was home with family so no instant fun so after mid night hit I got some cocoa but lotion and inserted him in. Slide in very nicely and there my helix introduced him self to my prostate and now they are the best of buds.

Apartment renovation finally completed, May 9

Hi guys,

I have lived at my apartment here in Georgetown since early June 1986, nearly thirty years. My apartment was overdue for a major renovation, mainly because old lead-based paint had to be stripped from the walls and ceiling. There were also serious cracks in the plaster of my apartment which occurred from the 5.9 richter earthquake of late August 2011 here. The whole process of renovation took about a week. I had to move my whole library and other movable possessions to a vacant apartment nearby and then back again. I moved back in completely Thursday night, May 9, 2013.

During this period, I had to suspend my Aneros sessions. Aneros rewiring continued unabated. I became hornier and hornier for my Aneros buddies. Finally in the early morning of my move back in, I had an Aneros session. It felt so good! Since then, it has been so good to back to my Aneros routine again!

Take care!

That Delicious Tightness in my Perineum

Hi guys,

In the last couple months or so, I have experienced a delicious tightness in my perineum as a result of the Kegel Exercises and my Anerosing, especially with the Progasm and Maximus models. Just now this evening I discovered once again that the Kegel Exercises in men are designed to strengthen both their pubococcygeal or PC muscles and the cremaster muscles. These two sets of muscles have a direct link to a man's scrotum and his anal sphincter muscles. But what is more beautiful and profound is that the Kegels have a close connection with the Aneros model, especially the Progasm.

I began noticing that when I began using both the Maximus and Progasm late last summer that these two models toned and firmed up all these sets of muscles. Hence the Kegel Exercises began to have a facility that I never experienced ever before. Not only do the Kegels work well with my Aneros models, especially with both the Progasm and Maximus models, but I come away from my sessions with the realization that my Kegels seem so natural, so easy to do!

But now in recent weeks there is that delicious tightness in my perineum which produces exquisite sweetness when I Kegel both within and outside my Aneros sessions. This sweetness is so sexual and pervades my entire genitals, a sweetness that approaches orgasm and ejaculation! What is even more wonderful now, such as tonight when I am composing this blog entry, mere stimulation of my nipples and hairy chest activates this sexual sweetness "down there!"

Aneros Resonance and Harmonics, Session for April 11, 2013

Hi guys,

Earlier this week I had to get my act together and meet with my tax preparer to submit my taxes before the April 15 tax deadline next Monday. As a new "retiree," unfortunately this year I was hit with a sizable tax bill. Fortunately I was able to fill out a IRS form for an extension. So the deadline has been postponed to October 1, 2013, time enough for me to make arrangements to pay my tax bill.

Hence, my mind was far away from Anerosing for a good five days. There is a time-honored saying about absent lovers, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." That same could apply to guys into Anerosing. A guy like me who has an awakened prostate and enjoys a regular schedule of Aneros sessions craves the Aneros when circumstances takes him away from his "love" object. So when yesterday morning rolled around, after an absence of a good five days, I was really horny for the guys on my Aneros Team.

I have gotten to the point that I prefer my larger Maximus and Progasm models to my smaller Helix models. When I began Anerosing early last June, it took just three weeks for my prostate to awake. This happened during the beginning of another infamously hot and humid summer here in Washington, DC. It happened on an early Sunday morning with P-waves emanating from my prostate and spasms of involuntaries.

Oh, gluttonous prostate.

I'm enjoying a calm Saturday morning. Still in bed, checking in at Aneros chat. News on the TV.

Still echoing with satisfaction of my wonderful session yesterday evening. It was a terrific time having a mutual ride with one of my long-time Aneros pals, artform. We always have an amazing energy connection and are able to share in such a way that all sensations are elevated.

I experienced a combination of lovely things, -less, Helix Syn, retraction pleasures, even some new stuff I never thought would be so fun. PM if you want to know more.

Along with all that silliness, the orgasmic depths were extreme and all over the place. Easily one of the least "unified" session experiences I have ever had. Quite a smorgasbord. But, still loaded with great pleasures, large and small, concentrated and whole body, skin deep and deeply internal.

Just putting these words down bring back the sense memories and I begin to buzz deep inside.

This journey is at one time simple and complex. But, consistently fun! :(

The best to you all in your exploration of this wonderful mystery.

Brian

Refraining from masturbation has been a catalyst. Late night session blew my mind

For the past 20 days or so I've only orgasmed through masturbation once. I'm currently on an 8 day streak of not masturbating and I hope to continue this for a long time. I've tried to avoid masturbating before and found it very difficult, I usually become unbearably horny and end up masturbating to satisfy my urges.

This time is different though. I've been using the Aneros during my break from masturbation and it's helping me progress with rewiring. I can only get pleasure from my penis if I stimulate myself but my body now knows it can get pleasure from my prostate without me physically doing anything.

Previously when I avoided masturbation for long periods I used to wake up in the middle of the night and find myself with my hand on my cock stimulating myself even when I didn't want to. Last night I woke up half asleep and began subconsciously caressing my thighs, stomach and nipples. As I began to wake up and become fully aware of what I was doing my arousal strengthened. Looks like my body has found a new way to get its dopamine rush.

Luckily I had my peridise set at the side of my bed. I lubed up and inserted the largest one. My body sucked it in eagerly and the contractions began straight away. Very gentle but feeling so amazing.

A very sensual session… feel like I made love to myself?!

This was a very short session. I knew I would only have an hour and a half max, but I was yearning for a session so I went ahead and had one anyway. I've been extremely aroused for the past few days so I felt like I needed it.

I relaxed very quickly, quicker than usual. I had lots of small involuntary contractions all over my body, every contraction felt very nice. I started listening to Kelly Howell's 'Ecstasy' to help me keep focus and relaxation, which really helped.

I began to get very pleasurable feelings in my anus around 5 minutes in. My prostate swelled and I could feel my PC muscles twitching and dancing. I relaxed myself further and just enjoyed what was happening to me. I became so relaxed that I arrived at that 'special' place between sleep and consciousness and I began to fantasise, not intentionally though. I feel like my body brought out these little fantasies to help me with my session.

I imagined that there were calm waters inside me, I could see them inside myself. As my prostate pushed pleasure through me the water began to ripple and wave in sync with these pleasure waves. The water began to ripple more and more as I felt increasing pleasure through my body. This vision of water made me more aroused as I could feel exactly where the pleasure was, but it was also keeping me relaxed and tranquil. It was beautiful.

Buddy System for In-Person Help

I'm an old newbie, for want of better words.

My journey began on FEB 11 of this year )2013( with the purchase of a Maximus Classic, that model bought because it was the only Aneros available in a store within many, many miles of me.

I've since purchased an MGX Classic online and have also accessed a Eupho, not the Syn.

My learning curve through reading the excellent posts on this site has been an invaluable experience in my approach to the lack of any tangible results thus far. To balance that disappointment, however, was the massage I received this past Saturday from a man who included a prostate massage, and though he was a tad rough and aggressive, he found the money spot! So why not do it myself, I thought, post-massage? BINGO! Lo and behold, my first session to include FINGER p-waves this past weekend the day after the massage, which I followed up with another, less intense mini-session last night. And with my very own hands and fingers :(

So, my prostate ain't dead, for sure, and I've now experienced some of the writhing enjoyment of what I felt just like I see in vids posted online either by fellow users or others. If my finger p-waves can be viewed as groundwork laid for the Aneros versions to come )fingers crossed(, then I've accomplished a lot and can offset the longing I sometimes feel when I read about guys getting it on with their Aneros' within the first, second or third session!

Mini Orgasms?

Around a month or two ago I didn't have any particular 'pleasure' that was generated by the Aneros, but this has changed dramatically.

I haven't masturbated for a while now, maybe a few weeks? I'm pretty sure it's had a really positive effect on my sessions, and on other aspects of my life. It's very easy for me to become aroused before I start a session. I can feel the sexual energy inside me. Every time I insert the aneros I am guaranteed some form of pleasure and I feel like I'm very close to the edge of something, the pleasure feels like it's leading me to something bigger but I don't have any idea what that is going to feel like! It's hard to imagine.

The past two sessions have been really nice. They were both quite different but they followed the same pattern. In both sessions I've been extremely relaxed and comfortable, which has been difficult to achieve in the past. The summer weather has probably helped this since I can keep warm without the use of radiators/space heaters!
I've felt warm waves come over me at around the 15 minute mark of each session. Then my anus starts to feel very warm, my legs begin to twitch a lot, almost vibrating. After a short while I begin to feel a gentle, tickly pleasure in my lower abdomen, my prostate and my legs. It's subtle at first but grows in intensity a little. It's constant for a minute or two at first and then disappears. It comes back in small waves, each wave brings me a similar amount of pleasure to begin with but the feeling lingers for longer each time.