My 5-month journey to the super-o included lots of reading and careful attention to details. I’ll be as brief as possible. I started with the Helix Syn for about 3 months and did lots of fine tuning — I never got to the super-o with the Syn. When I upgraded to the Maximus Trident things got really interesting. Here is my personal recipe: thorough cleaning/irrigation, about 5ml of glycerin-based liquid lube (syringe), then a light coating of gel lube on the MT. My routine in bed includes: lying on back with knees up, binaural beats (with or without moaning sounds…recommend eraudica.com), slow belly breathing (pausing before exhale), then 3 rounds of belly panting (15 pants each). Panting really kicks things off and you can find this on YouTube under tantric breathing. I do some nipple play, focus on maintaining a continuous 25% clench, and do 30 second rounds of stronger clenching. I also try to balance PC clenching (pulling in) with pushing out. Lastly, and this took me a while — there’s a “middle ground” of tingle, and I hold that for as long as I can without giving in. That sets off the waves and eventually the super-o. I’m to the point now that I can get into multiple super-o climaxes within 45-60 minute session. And I usually end by masturbating in the middle of my 3rd or 4th super-o. Wow!
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Session 6
I had another session. It wasn’t so much a session as a marathon, or maybe two sessions on either end of “retaining.” I dunno, define it how you like.
I got my Progasm Red Ice and Eupho Trident in the mail. I tried both, as well as using the Helix Trident, during this session. I like all three! I’m still very inexperienced, but they are all very different.
I started Thursday evening with the Eupho Trident. I figured I’d go small to large. I lubed up and inserted it and laid on a towel on the floor. I was on the floor this time instead of the bed because someone I chatted with recommended it. Being on a firm surface gives more control. I am not certain I noticed a difference, but I’m not sure I didn’t either, and I agree with the theory.
The Eupho went in nice and easy, of course. It’s quite narrow. I have fingers fatter than that thing. I laid on my back and relaxed and tried to focus on what I was feeling. I mostly just breathed deeply and concentrated, but I also played with flexing different muscles in different ways to see how it moved. It’s a very agile little device. I think I’m going to very much enjoy learning how to make the most of it. As for this first session, I had low expectations because nearly everyone I have talked to has said it’s a device for experienced users, but I still managed to feel some pleasurable sensations with it. I am getting a little better and feeling where the device is and what it’s doing.
Session 3
I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.
They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive.
HOLY SH*T! Aneros Progasm Jr. 😝
Still buzzing now an hour later after that AMAZING session.
BELOW IS MY JOURNEY TO THE SUPER-O
So im an 18 year old guy and I have always been curious about anal play. Last year, I finally gave in and decided to experiment on different anal plugs etc. until i found out about the SUPER-O and aneros…
So i decided to browse my local sex stores online(New Zealand btw) and found a 50% off sale on the Aneros Progasm. 2 days later i recieved the package and went straight to action.
I lubed up and forced this bad boy in (this was by far the biggest thing i have put up my ass) Also I had no educational experience whatsover on how to achieve prostate orgasms, all i knew was it should be a plug and play kinda thing and it will send you straight to orgasm heaven right?? Well, after session after session of failure i finally gave up… Out of frustration I threw away my progasm (I know its stupid) and decided to stay away from anal play for a while.
A year later here i am now. Again i gave in and decided to give Aneros another shot so i bought an Aneros Porgasm JR. I have browsed all the forums and read on all of the techniques to give myself a confidence boost that this time it might work. I realised from experimentation through my fingers that my prostate was far lower than expected.
First Session
I got a chance to try out my Helix Trident. Here are some of my thoughts from this first experience.
My first impression upon unboxing my Helix Trident was that it was a LOT smaller than I was expecting. I bought the Helix because it was described as having a “Larger head size for more direct pressure on the prostate.” I was expecting something, well, larger. I guess I had no real frame of reference. I admit to being skeptical that I’d really feel much of anything from something so seemingly diminutive. It’s certainly the smallest thing that I’ve inserted in my rear for pleasure other than my finger in a very long time.
I wasn’t sure which lube to use. I know that’s a common question and the answer varies greatly from person to person. For anal sex and for other toys, I really like the water-based variety of Boy Butter. It is a cream or lotion consistency, which I find makes application much easier. It dissolves easily in water, so cleanup is not a problem, but it also doesn’t dissipate, evaporate, or absorb into my skin as quickly as other lubes I have used. However, it also isn’t quite as slick as liquid lubes I’ve used. I find this is a good thing for other anal toys and for anal sex, where some amount of friction (the “right” amount) is actually desirable, but perhaps not for the Aneros, where free mobility is key. So I opted for Shibari silicone lube, which I prefer for my Fleshlight. It’s slicker and runnier than the Boy Butter and is probably a better fit for use with the Aneros. I may in the future try some of both, by first pre-lubing my rectum with Shibari and coating the Aneros with the Boy Butter, just for grins.
Some History
I first heard of the fabled hands-free orgasm about 10 years ago while chatting on IRC. An eccentric guy I chatted with occasionally claimed that he could have orgasms while receiving anal sex from his partner without any stimulation to his penis, and then afterward could come again while fucking his boyfriend. He took this magical ability for granted, seeming very surprised that I could not accomplish the same feat.
I tried to get him to explain how it worked, but the best he could manage was a vague description of “pushing” somehow while being penetrated. I honestly wasn’t sure he wasn’t just making things up. It seemed too good to be true. Everyone knows that guys can only come once and that they have to wait out the refactory period before they can have another orgasm, right? And climaxing without touching your cock is a fantasy acted out in porn but seldom found in the real world, isn’t it?
That’s what I thought anyway at the time. I dismissed his stories as unrealistic after being unable to get even close to what he described. But I never forgot those stories or the subtle hunger I had to experience those things.
Am I doing it right?
I’ve purchased a couple of different Aneros toys (helix syn and helix trident) which I’ve used several times with the same results each time. I’ve done it hands free every time, doing the pulsating/hold to breath counts, and I do ejaculate every time but I’m usually spent after it. Am I stopping short of the elusive “super O” or is this it? From what I’ve read from every one else, the prostate orgasm is dry so I’m thinking I’m in the right direction but not quite there yet.
I do notice the slight twitches when I’m either clenching or releasing the toy, which I’m still working on keeping that rhythm.
Think I just had my first prostate orgasm, where to go from here?
I’ve been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm for a while now, and until today had actually given up on the idea of having one.
After a shower earlier tonight I decided to give it another shot, I had already orgasmed earlier in the day but I figured I may as well give it a shot. I dried myself off, and laid out the towel on my bathroom floor, popped in the helix and laid down on my front and just focused on relaxing. I had read recently that you should keep contractions minimal, as you are trying to gently massage the prostate and contract super hard and squeeze out all of the fluid.
After about 5 minutes of focus on the feeling I started to get a warm feeling, radiating from my prostate, this grew in to an intense sensation but as my breathing and heart rate increased this subsided. After a few more minutes I experienced another wave of the same sensations, and again they subsided as my heart rate increased..
I laid there after these two waves of pleasure, relaxing and focusing on the feeling. While it was nice, I didn’t manage to build up to the same feeling again, and after about 40 minutes I stopped.
While the feeling was great, it wasn’t anything like what I have read prostate orgasms feel like, it was pleasurable but passed quickly and wasn’t even close to a penile orgasm.
Is my breathing OK?
When I breath slowly in and slowly out I have the feeling that I don’t have enough air.
After breathing for few minutes my stomach is “shaking” when breathing in
A quest!
Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.