Tag: Breathing

My thoughts on male chastity, and jockstraps and athletic cups, and Nov. 21 session

Hi guys,

For many months now, we have been regaled by @goldenboy’s prolific blogs entries on Aneros, sex, jocks and cups, erotic dreams and waking fantasies, semen retention (SR), and male chastity which he lives out by wearing a jock and cup to bed. He calls athletic cups, “chastity” cups, a concept I find intriguing.

I have been pondering and reflecting on male chastity for many months now. It seems that there are least two types of male chastity: (1) religious or ascetic chastity, and (2) erotic chastity for the purpose of enhancing a guy’s sexuality either individually or as one in a marital relationship with a wife.

When I think of male chastity in a religious or ascetic sense, I think of the monastic life either in a Roman Catholic or Eastern Orthodox sense. In the Roman Catholic Church, you have religious orders and the clergy. Men joining such have swear three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. It was believed for many centuries by that church that masturbation and conjugal sexual relations prevented men from living out a devoted life to God and church.

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or Mormon church, married couples have to swear to the Law of Chastity, thus allowing a life of utter devotion to marriage (one man, one woman) and the LDS Church. Read more »

Another awesome aless session

Early this morning my anal cavity woke me up through subtle activity. Started out with minor twitches in my anus which proceed to spasm and into involuntaries. Soon deep inside there was subtle movement as well. It was like a chorus with different muscle groups getting into the action. Euphoric feelings followed along with the whole anal canal moving back and forth. When that slowed down another movement would start followed by p waves and dry Os in rapid
succession. Never before had I experienced movements from so many different areas! My breathing would sync to the involuntaries like a crescendo in music. This continued for about an hour with blissful feelings and dry Os. Best aless experience yet!

10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards. Read more »

A note on my Aless Sessions

This blog entry is more for my future reference than anything else. Sometime in the future, I will be revisiting these notes and reminiscing on my journey’s progress.

Today, I must note how pleasurable my Aless sessions have become. It seems everyday (at least twice a day), my Aless sessions escalate to a new level sending me in total bliss but still without orgasms. I’m not shooting for an orgasm (no pun intended) but I do look forward to the pure pleasures a simple breath, a subtle contraction here and there and a bit of concentration can generate.

At night, lying in bed, I can transpose myself in the ‘zone’ with ease and without efforts and remain there for as long as I wish. When I think about it, it’s much easier than penile play, less messy and less of a drain on my system.

I never would have thought such pleasures were possible and abundant. I appreciate the gift Aneros gave me.

Life is wonderful!

Being rewired

I have been in this prostate journey for some years now an it’s crazy that my body still finds ways to sexually surprise me. I like to make far in-between journey entrys to really show I’m being authentic. So I have a few toys but it has come to my attention that my A-less sessions be the most exciting as of late. Just now I’m laying here righting this spent an still gasping for air. I decided to read a few erotic novels. It’s a great passtime of mine. The nastiest the better. So it’s it’s chilly here in the Midwest and I’m just in bed reading a nice hot an heavy story about a boy an his older lover having a epic sex battle. As I’m reading I feel a churning in my stomach an then my legs begin to shake. As I continue to read my dick just gets rock fucking hard. These stories always get me hot but has never kicked off a aneros session before. As I continue reading it’s getting harder an harder in my pants. I’m beginning to gasp for air cause this page I’m reading is getting so intense. I begin to leak precum as my body starts to shake uncontrolling. Trying to keep it together by calming my breathing as I’m mmo’ing back to back. I’m reading an churning and shaking an boom. As soon as the young reached his orgasm with his lover I began to stream globs of hot cum out if my now erect stiff penis. I couldn’t do anything but just let it happen. Oh it felt so damn good. I love having hfwo. Once you tap that prostate he continues to work even when you least expect it. I have been having after shocks the whole writing this. I am still so happy I found this site an learned about prostate play.

“Chastity: A Complete Male Shield”

While sleeping in my SD Ultra Pro “Chastity Cup” , when I awoke this morning, I began to feel its curved, contoured shape with my hands and began to dwell on a nice meditation….

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There is a definite similarity between a “chastity cup” and a man-made marvel of nature: for example, Hoover Dam. You may laugh but I see a connection. Let me explain…..

The dam is designed to hold-back a great, powerful body of water. The cup is designed to hold-back the great, male, raw sexual power.

The dam is designed to periodically release some water; otherwise it would overflow. The chastity cup when properly used is designed to allow a male a periodic release of seminal fluid.

An overflowed dam can be compared to a wet dream.

The dam generates power by virtue of it great potential energy. The cup generates power by holding-back that great male libido; raw sexual energy. The greatest power generated can be compared to an ejaculation.

No natural disaster: earthquake, tornado, lightning will destroy the dam. The chastity cup is designed to withstand direct blows without fail. It will not collapse or otherwise fall apart.

See the connection? I did! This made for a great meditation!

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Quite the Journey

**So**. I’ve been using one Aneros or another for about 9 years now. Breathing exercises, being calm and relaxed, making sure I have plenty of time, good setting, the whole 9 yards.

During that time, I’ve felt great things around my prostate, I’ve had powerful regular orgasms, I’ve seemed to get close to _something_, but, I’ve always felt like things were still focused around my penis (and specifically the glans).

I have also just fooled around with fingers and with dildos. I believe I have no anal hangups about this. I have supportive partners, we’ve even pegged (which I also just regular orgasmed after).

**Now**. Roughly a week ago I did my usual setup, had usual great feeling, etc. Then I had to get up to deal with something, and when I came back to bed, I just sort of flopped down, legs together, knees bent at roughly a 150 degrees, on my right side.

*Almost instantly* it felt different. More like I was being massaged from behind, rather than trying to massage myself like its always been. This feeling built up and built up. My hips started doing little thrusts by themselves and I felt more like I was getting fucked rather than trying to masturbate. My butt started to tingle unlike it has before, and I just sort of rode the sensation. It was almost like I was trying to stay on top of a knob of some sort. Read more »

That delicious anal-prostate tingle & Aneros Tug-of-War technique : Sessions for Oct. 28 & Nov. 1, 2 & 3

Hi guys,

Saturday, October 28:

Many mornings recently I have been waking up with a most delicious prostate-anal tingle in my bunghole. That most masculine feeling is at the heart of my Aless these days. It is so wonderful to interact with this Aless with the Kegels, slow, gentle breathing, and at times, diddling my nipples, especially in bed at night.

Usually I have Aneros sessions first thing in the most when both my body and mind are at their freshest. That condition gives rise to some amazing Aneros sessions! Unfortunately I had to get a much needed haircut mid morning at a barber shop in my neighborhood. So I postponed my session to late in the afternoon when few telephone (telemarketer) calls arrive.

My session this evening was an Aneros full court press with my five usual Aneros models, Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE. It was a leisurely 1.5 hour session during I let my Aneros models work on me, each in its own way.

My Aless as I type this blog entry right now is strong and vibrant. I plan to go to bed in an hour or so tonight. That is the best time for me to focus upon my Aless. Amazing things happen in the dark late at night for me in bed when I do this.

Wednesday, November 1:

I had a brief hiatus on Monday and Tuesday earlier this week from my Aneros sessions since my last session last Saturday. Read more »

Helix Syn – not a fan

The Aneros intrigued me as I’ve never experienced a handsfree “Super O” as they call it, despite having a long history of anal play and pegging. So I ordered one and when I opened it, I immediately noticed that it is MUCH smaller than it looks advertised. Well, I figured how could so many other happy customers be satisfied if it didn’t work as designed… I lubed it up, slipped in, followed the instructions about legs being in the right positions, did my breathing, muscle retractions,,, There was absolutely no sensation whatsoever… I’m pretty tuned in to my prostate and the lady and I have a go at it at least 2-3x’s a week, so I know what its supposed to feel like when its stimulated. Just curious if anyone has any insight. The assplay we do isn’t anything that would have me all stretched out or anything like that. So just curious why this all famous device did absolutely nothing for me.

Thanks for the feedback!

A “Classic” Session With A Twist (True BPH Relief!)

I would call this a “classic” Aneros session with a twist. Here’s why……

I awoke while sleeping in my SD Pro Ultra Carbon “chastity cup” highly aroused. I do find it hard to empty my bladder with a full erection (or otherwise for that matter), but I tried beforehand as best I could. Then, I lubed-up the 950 and proceeded with this session. Right from the start, I began where I left-off at the end of the last session: I began lightly thrusting my hips while deep-breathing and almost immediately began feeling the intense pleasure waves from my prostate. I continued this for perhaps 10-15 minutes when I fell-into a fantasy. I am in my urologist’s office in a private room and I am being prepared for a prostate exam, including an evaluation for BPH relief. The prostate needs to be aroused to demonstrate this and so I am lying there with a prostate massager inserted. It feels so f*****g good! When the time was up (about 30 minutes), I was told to leave the massager alone and go into the nearby bathroom and “try” to empty my bladder. My goodness! I stood over the toilet and completely emptied my bladder! Are you wondering about the effect of prostate massage on BPH? Of course there is a connection; I just demonstrated it! Then, when my bladder was empty, I reached back and carefully removed the massager, as I was told beforehand to do. PS I noticed a nice “wet spot” on the “chastity cup”! Read more »