Tag: Concentration

I think I had my first Super-O.. it was intense – and the tricks that helped me

Let’s talk about the orgasm (Super-O), how I achieved it, my “tricks” and my questions:

Disclaimer: Everything has actually been done *without* an aneros as I’m out of home, just pure muscles. No touching and zero other drugs involved. An aneros might have intensified the experience.

**Super-O:**
I have never experienced anything comparably in my life before. This orgasm lasted for about 5 minutes and my entire body was shaking, every muscle in my entire body felt stimulated. I felt lightweight.

The shaking, my body felt so stimulated that I couldn’t move at all. I tried it but all the sensations were too intense. My mouth was wide open as I couldn’t realize what is happening right now (and I’d have moaned to death if this flat wasn’t shared).

Very interestingly, my dick became rock hard and pumped up like never before. This is probably what the aneros wiki describes as “engorgement”. The muscular flexing across the entire body intensified the penile feeling and a few drops came out. But compared to the rest of the body, it only played a minor role.

When I then released my PC muscle, another wave of feelings I can’t described flew over my body. It just felt glorious.

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**How I achieved it:**

I mostly laid on my back, legs angled comfortably. I aroused myself by looking at hot pictures. I think videos are too distracting and if I want to be aroused, pictures are way more effective. While doing so, I switched between contracting my PC muscle and sphincter muscle. Contracting both at once, switching up. Read more »

Just had my first P wave !!

As the title say, I just had my first P wave. It will be long sorry…

Before today, I didn’t know what it was exactly and I read some post who said: “when you feel it, you know that IT IS”

I fought i had many pleasure with the aneros but got damn I never felt something like that.

To achieve it I did what I read on this comunity: Concentrate on what you feel (without headphones and porn it works better for me) i just ignored my d*ck at all and only focus on the prostate or “the spot” that the aneros was massaging. It was good and the goodness gets higher sometimes and lower other times.

BUT this time I didn’t give up when the sensation got lower. I just focused on my prostate and then, suddenly I began to feel something spread into my legs. Like they were being contracted but I just didn’t move at all. I was breathing more and more heavy. And this “contraction” left a bit then come back from my feet and just BOOM spread to my whole body. It was blissfull. I was just having an amazing orgasm. My d*ck was still soft tho. Read more »

Minor Milestone with the Helix Syn

Hey guys! I have been a lurker in r/aneros and r/prostateplay for a long time. About a month ago, I finally decided to take the plunge and buy myself an aneros. After doing some research, I decided that the Helix Syn seemed like the best toy and the one that was most recommended for beginners. When I first got the helix, I was super excited and tried it several times over a couple weeks, with little (if any success). I had a totally free day today, so I decided to have some fun. I thought I’d kind of journal what happened and post it here to see if you all might have any tips or advice for me for the future. Sorry in advance for the long post.

This time, rather than blitzing through clean-up (I prefer to douche before playing in the backdoor, I know it isn’t strictly necessary, but it helps me to relax) and getting the toy in as fast as possible, I decided to take my time and try and be mindful during the cleanup process. Read more »

First HFDO?

Hello friends, here I am again. Today I am trying to understand what I’ve felt on my last session (a few hours ago).

First of all, I know that everyone has different experiences with this and nomenclature is just a way to simplify concepts that we are trying to communicate. But I really want to understand what I felt tonight, so I will try to explain.

Recently I started to felt and recognize the p-waves, feeling that pleasure and accepting that my prostate awoke and I started to rewire. Tonight I tried my vibrating prostate massager (it’s like a vice 2) in another position: with my legs more elevated than my body and watching porn. In a certain moment I started to feel some really good vibrations. I decided to (try) not pursue the feeling and continued to enjoy the moment. A few minutes later the sensations started to get really strong and good, and I closed my eyes, not focusing my attention on the porn anymore, to enjoy these sensations.

Then, I (think) felt an orgasm coming up. I remember that I was doing really strong kegels and contractions, holding up really strong and for as much time as I got. In a specific moment, I thought I was ready to orgasm. The feeling was very similar to a penile orgasm, but missing the sensation of ejaculating on the end. I had a few involuntary contractions, like when you have a penile orgasm and the dick moves up alone. When this passed, I was like “no, please, it was too good, come back”. It was like being on the edge of an abyss, just needing to make a leap of faith… and then going back. It felt incomplete, waiting for the feeling of ejaculating and this feeling never arriving. Read more »

What did I get into?

So… here is the story. I’ve played around with traditional dildo type toys… have gotten some “sensations” but I was usually pretty disappointed in any kind of results.

Last week – I finally pulled the trigger and ordered a Helix trident syn (I think… the black non vibrating one) and while i was waiting for that to arrive – i ordered the progasm. I actually received the progasm first.. and was excited to try it out. I inserted – and was surprised to find that it did NOT readily slip out. – I used it for about 90 minutes – but nothing really.. a couple “ooh.. what was that? ” then gone away.

A couple days later my Helix arrives. I find myself with a rare “day by myself” and I figure I’m gonna try this out.

I inserting the Helix. Nothing special. I lay on my back.. slowly doing some contractions. It feels ok… but I feel that I’m just not relaxed enough.

I flip over to lay on my stomach. Flacid- pushed downward where my pelvis is against the bed. I seperate my legs a little- but angle my legs like I’m kinda pigeon toed – opening up my ass a little.

I quickly find out that if I pull the helix into my core – and hold it – it will eventually lose “its grip” and like a worn out fatigued muscle – it kinda “flutters” back to relaxed. This starts some sensations Read more »

New to prostate massagers, any advice?

I just got a prostate massager like a couple days agos and I don’t really know how to use them. Ive been listening to mindgasm lately but can’t understand how I can use what I learned from mindgasm and implement it with my massager. I have a couple questions to ask.

What muscle should I use when iserting the massager, the PC muscle or the base?

How do I stay relaxed and concentrate when doing prostate play?

There are no shortcuts – patience is a virtue..and worth it!

I am at the point where essentially every time I use my toy – helix syn trident – I have multiple hands free dry orgasms, followed by a hands free wet orgasm. I have 2.5 years of experience and this is the only toy I’ve needed.

Without patience you won’t see results. You have to put on the work! That’s the bad news. The good news is that if you do, you will open a world of orgasmic bliss that is truly hard to fathom.

I am able to achieve hands free dry orgasms without a toy. So far, I’m only able to achieve hands free wet orgasms with a toy. Im not sure I’ll ever get there without a toy, but that’s my next goal!

Recently, I’ve been able to consistently orgasm almost as soon as I slip in my aneros. The dry orgasms continue for about an hour. This morning, I counted 24 dry orgasms followed by a hands free dry orgasm. I did attempt a video of the hands free wet orgasm and I’ll try to post that for anyone interested.

I think about the process frequently, I concentrate and focus. It’s almost meditative. The process has been deliberate. I’ve learned a lot about my body – wonderful things! Nothing has been quick or easy. But it’s all been worth it. I hope you will learn the same for yourself!

Crazy experience with new and old toys

Ok, so I had been feeling like my progress has been stagnant for the last 10 months or so, and I now attribute that to 3 things.

One being that it’s just the way things go sometimes. Progress can be slow. But I haven’t been totally stagnant, I’ve learned that there’s like 100 ways to orgasm from prostate play. But I’ve been dying to get to more satisfying, definitive orgasms.

Two being that I had been kind of fighting what my body was telling me to do rather than going with what it wanted. I know that seems obvious but I had one particularly good session by kind of ignoring what my body wanted, and ever since that session I had it in my head that that’s what I should be doing. Pretty certain now though that I was totally wrong and I should have just been going with everything my body was telling me.

The third thing was finding the right toy. Or maybe just the right toy at the right time? Which brings me to recent events and the topic of this post. Read more »

Something different…

So I have been playing around with and without an aneros for more than a decade with varying degrees of success but last night I think I finally had a breakthrough. A couple of weeks ago I discovered r/mindgasm and focusing on the first three lessons, doing them multiple times. I use the progasm jr and slipped that in backwards, hit some poppers and turned on the mindgasm wave pleasure ride. Wow wow wow!! Relaxing and trying to concentrate on my breathing I had told myself to just do what feels good and not focus on a certain end goal. It wasn’t long before involuntary contractions started. Then my entire pelvic region and my legs just started buzzing. I could have sworn I had a vibrator in my ass. While listening to mindgasm pleasure wave ride and flexing my sphincter and pelvic muscles i imagined my prostate almost as a ball floating in the waves of an ocean. The contractions of the muscles creating the waves and my prostate floating and getting tossed about in the waves. I started to focus on the muscle contractions to create bigger “waves” while swirling and grinding my hips trying to create a wave big enough to crash over the ball (my prostate). The visualization in my head and the pleasure I felt in my body were so in sync. I just let myself go and kept doing what felt good and tried not to focus on a goal (cumming, super o, none of that was even in my head). As I focused more on this visualization in my head I imagined the ball not only floating amongst the waves but that the ball was attached to a string or cable from the top as if connected to the base of my spine. I started to almost visualize this string or cable not only connected to the base of my spine but also to the idea of a tail, the tail of a very happy dog. I know this all sounds so weird as I type this but I was just so overwhelmed and in the moment that it all made sense. My body was buzzing, hips grinding, wave after wave crashing into my prostate. I also allowed myself to moan and groan as loudly as I could. Then I started to feel just a crazy amount of joy and happiness. I even started to lightly laugh and giggle, it was so weird and out of character for me. I was just happy and could not stop smiling like all my cares worries and fears were just gone. This is going to sound dumb,I know, but with this ocean wave visualization and sense of happiness, I felt as if I were in a movie. Shawshank Redemption is one of my favorite movies, and that last scene on the beach, I felt as if I were there, another world, and just happy. Read more »

P-Waves, Orgasms and Expectations?

Just chiming in here regarding my Aneros experience after many, many years. For quite some time now, I have gotten to a point with my Aneros use where my sessions are quite enjoyable, I do look forward to them. I think I was always chasing after some sort of explosive “Big O” experience and am now just trying to enjoy my sessions *for what they are* *and* *not for they are not*. Leaving my expectations at the door.
After initial insertion, I do often get some really nice erotic feelings and what seems to be a swelling-like pressure on my prostate. This often is accompanied by a hard on and “sweet feelings”. This may last for a few minutes before dying down. If I relax, and concentrate on my fantasies I can get the feelings of pressure back and the aneros will get sucked deeper into me and I get heavy heartbeat with what then feels like sexy energy, excitement and pressure “percolating” up inside of me like electricity. This can increase in intensity along with rapid breathing and some Aneros wiggling and in-out movement- kind of like an erotic massage deep inside me. This is also acompanied by feelings of submission, out-of-control and helplessness- all of which are also pretty sexy in their own way. I may often vocalize all this with little yelps and moaning. This energy will continue rising for up to a minute, reach a sort of “crescendo” of muscle tension and then sadly peters-out/short-circuits as my anus muscles seem not able to sustain holding the aneros. If I relax again and delve into fantasy it will start to percolate back up.
This cycle will rise and fall like this about 4-5 times over an hour. It is enjoyable and “hot”, but after all is said and done leaves me feeling HORNY AS ALL HELL, unsatisfied, and without release. Pretty much just a severe case of Blue Balls. I know we’re not supposed to, but I then seriously need to shower off, spank it the old-fashioned way, and clean up.
I would rate the pleasure I feel during these sessions as, on a scale of 0-10 (with a traditional penile orgasm being a 10), around 5-6, but on a longer, more subtle, extended plateau. Like when sex is getting good and exciting, but before the final minute of no-return. It is enjoyable and interesting, but always feels like there is something more that is left to discover and/or enhance. Perhaps I am wrong here and setting myself of for unrealistic expectations coupled with disapointment.
Just curious what I seem to be experiencing at this point? Are these P-Waves? Mini-O’s? Or the fabled Prostate Orgasms themselves? So many definitions and terminolgy is thrown around in the forums that I don’t sometimes know what I have experienced (or not).
I know everyone’s experience is different and what is intensely pleasurable for one person might just be so-so for someone else. Having read some others testimonials here though, it seems there is still much more that the Aneros can do. Some describe the feeling of an intense, sustained, erect orgasm with strong penile contractions, but hands-free and completely dry. This certainly sounds pretty great and I would love to experience it! Maybe one day…
Just my thoughts at this point along the journey.