Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.
Tag: Concentration
Some questions after the first session
Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.
1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?
Is there a clear boundary beween the orgasmic/non-orgasmuc state?
I have been practicing my aneros use for about a year now, and I usually experience a lot of pleasure each session. However, I am still unsure if I’ve actually experienced a prostate orgasm yet. At my most pleasurable moments I feel like I just want to cry out of frustration because it feels so good and I feel like I’m so close to SOMETHING, but I don’t know what, and I’m craving some sense of release. During these times I usually experience some precum leakage as well, and my penis will get so hard that it actually hurts. The pleasure build-up is very slow, but I don’t feel like I’m crossing some kind of “point of no return”, like with traditional masturbation. And if I lose concentration all the pleasure dissapear. Thus, I’m wondering if what I have experienced is actually an orgasm or if I’ve not yet pushed myself over the edge. Do you feel like there is a clear boundary between the orgasmic/non-orgasmic state? Or can you feel when you are about to orgasm?
” A Night Full of Surprises”
Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..
I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.
Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup.
Different Approach!
Last night, I had my third session in as many days and this time, my body suggested the MGX for the occasion. My mind originally wanted the Eupho Syn but I’ve learned a long time ago that the best results are usually attained when the prostate kisses and rubs with the tool choice it whispers to me. Last night was no exception to the rule.
For whatever reason, once in my session, I did not concentrate on the prostate, I was not looking for twitches or faint sensations to grow but rather all the focus was on my anal canal and anus. I only realize this further in the session as things seemed and felt different than in my usual sessions.
The MGX was doing exactly what it was designed to do and my back end was rewarded with sensations I never experienced before. It was easy to fantasize being penetrated and retuning the favor. Not a wink of attention was dedicated to the front end equipment nor to the prostate. What a difference! It was like discovering yet another source of pleasure and extacy totally foreign to me.
The results are absolutely amazing when we actually let the body completely take over from the point of tool selection to the actual performance of it once inserted.
My next ride will be tonight and so far, my E-Syn is trotting in my head but who knows!
Are We Over-Analyzing Our Aneros Sessions’ Experiences?
No session last night. I am only in SR Day 2 but slept in my XO ProCup overnight. What a feeling! This morning, before I got up for the day, I began to think about the “chastity cups” that I wear. They really only consist of 4 “pieces”: waistband, leg straps, pouch and hard cup. But the way they all come together around the male anatomy is nothing short of amazing! That combination seems to go straight to the center of the male libido. While lying in bed, I am again thwarted from fondling or even touching my male package! I can touch all-around the hard plastic “cup” but I can’t do anything else! So frustrating!
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A little later-on, I am reading some recent forum posts and, pardon me, but it seems that we Aneros gents are “over-analyzing” our prostates! I am probably just as guilty as the next guy. But hey, after all, what are we doing to our prostates? We have this anatomically-correct piece of plastic that we are inserting you-know-where (lubed, of course) and the rest is up to us. Our bodies’ response is going to happen or it isn’t. And if it doesn’t, well, there is always another time and place.
One session a week. What’s that like?
Now I’m not complaining, far from it. Don’t get me wrong, enjoying almost constant sexual energy and rampant levels of arousal are just the ticket and I can’t believe my luck. But I do find it just ever so slightly distracting. I am carrying out my daily routine of prescribed exercise for an annoying sciatic problem and find myself unable to continue when a series of mini O’s launch themselves upon me until I end up laughing at the absurdity of it. I am seated at the dining table having lunch or suchlike, the chairs are quite hard I admit, sudden waves of pleasure surge through my nether regions, my facial expression must surely betray me. Nobody notices. I find myself watching the weather girls on tv, I have no idea at all what the forecast is. All I know is, they look pretty hot to me, and from a certain angle I am sure I can glimpse a nipple. I limp out of the room, surely the bulge in my shorts must betray me. Nobody notices. I made a decision to give myself a “cooling down” period and take a weeks break from all Aneros activity which usually consists of three sessions per week. From there I was going to try a weekly Aneros session and ejaculate as and when necessary. A week of chastity was not difficult for me, I have twice completed the 21 day challenge and made it beyond that one time. But how might I cope with no Aneros sessions and semen retention, I was already at day 5 when I began? After about 3 days things were ok, no strong Aless to distract me and I felt a bit more grounded. By day 5 I found I was yearning for the end of the week to come, 10 days of SR and no Aneros for days were beginning to tell. Although my horniness was ramping up by the day I found it was not quite as all consuming. Day 7 duly arrived, I was definitely needing my fix and I couldn’t wait to get started. For the session I chose my Eupho Trident, it performs wonderfully and has never disappointed me so far. The Eupho wasn’t so much inserted, more like swallowed hungrily. Within a few minutes I was in rapture, it felt ever so good to be back. The Eupho is the only model I own that seems to invite penis to the party, and on this occasion penis was only too happy to accept the invitation. Well he had been in solitary confinement for 10 days! Some wonderful dry O’s ensued while my cock was pulsing and throbbing in accompaniment. It was too much to bear and I couldn’t resist stroking and rubbing my engorged member, usually I forgo stimulation during a session, but this time it felt just right. I would stroke for a while and then stop and concentrate on the waves of pleasure from my prostate, then back on the cock for a while and so on. Inevitably I felt an ejaculation building and stopped short a few times but was edging ever closer. Then I knew I had gone too far and readied myself for the impending ejaculation. But it didn’t quite go as I expected. I knew I was going to cum, I could feel it making its way but, instead of spurting out, and apologies if this is just too much information, I witnessed the largest amount of semen I have produced in years simply flow out like it would never stop. What a sight. But still no orgasm, gently I teased my glans until I felt my prostate thumping and I had the most wonderful penile orgasm with more cum. Having barely gotten over that my Eupho seemed determined to have the final word as a wave of pleasure surged outward from my prostate. I felt well and truly drained, literally. Such a session I have never experienced. I think the reason for such a successful session might just have been that all of the pieces were there to enable it and they just fell into place on the night. Mainly though, I was well and truly ready for my Aneros session and seemed to build up the anticipation as I counted down the days, it felt the same as attempting SR. Interesting, I’m going to try it again.
Good sessions or just so-so, there’s always something to take away.
One of the many things that I have learned so far is that no two sessions ever seem to follow a similar pattern. Some might be intensely pleasurable while other times somehow it just doesn’t quite get there. Regardless, I have found that I will nearly always find something new to take away from the session. My last two sessions have been at both ends of the scale. The intensely pleasurable one came courtesy of my Eupho Trident a couple of nights ago. The Eupho has since become my favourite by far. Small it may well be but, it revealed a couple of new experiences to me. I have read that because of its design, a side to side movement can be felt, so I was on the lookout for that. But when it came, strangely, it felt to me that it was not the Eupho that was moving, more like I was moving bodily around the Eupho. Lying with my eyes closed I could have sworn that I was gliding from left to right on my buttocks, I had to concentrate hard to maintain that impression but it was very convincing. Another revelation came from the P tab. All of my other devices tend to sit with the tab just to one side of my perineum, I try to centre them but soon they have again drifted off to one side, I have never actually noticed any real stimulation from the P tab at all. So more from habit than anything else, during my Eupho session I aligned the tab on the ridge of my perineum never expecting what came next. It was as if someone had flicked on a switch. Within a few moments I became aware of what I can only describe as a surge of energy flowing right into my nuts and along the length of my now very enthusiastic penis. Just as I was coming to terms with this, the bar was raised again. I began to notice that my involuntary contractions were pulling the Aneros in and flexing the P tab which, in turn moved slightly downwards, pulling taut the skin on my scrotum and the base of my penis. It felt as if the Eupho was trying to masturbate me and work on my prostate at the same time. The sensations were exquisite to the point of being almost unbearable. I thought and hoped it might lead to my first HFWO but it was so hard to concentrate on all of the sensations at once as my attention went back and forth between prostate and penis. Eventually the session came to an end but I was left with some wonderful Aless that was humming away for almost 24 hours afterwards. In future sessions I am going to persevere with the alignment of the P tab now that I am aware of the possibilities. In contrast, last nights session with my Helix Syn never really got going. I’m not sure why, I think perhaps I was tired and should have postponed it until I was better rested. After 30 minutes or so I was about ready to abandon the session as I was feeling a little discomfort. It was then that I realised that I had been really clamping down on the Helix and maintaining the pressure for some reason, possibly trying too hard. Curiously I found it difficult persuade my anus to relax and ease the grip. As soon as I did manage to release it was immediately pulled back in again. This to and fro situation went on for a while until suddenly it became an automatic action, like rapid-fire. It only lasted for a few seconds before it all got out of sync, it happened once more before I called it a day. So, not the best session but, I have found something to work on now. I think I will dedicate a few minutes in every session to try and build up that response.
Three “Tips” I learned From This Session
I learned three “new” things in this session. Let me explain…..
Background
I went to bed wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 10 of SR with no blue-balls. I am due for a “scheduled” session and so I decided to go for it. It is about 4:30 AM.
Now here are the “tips”—
Tip #1. Letting your chastity “partner” decide which Aneros massager to use. (For guys who wear a “chastity cup” during a session).
Since I am in chastity, I let my “partner” decide which Aneros massager(s) I should use during this session. After looking them over, she decided on the Eupho Classic! She wouldn’t tell me yet which other massager she selected.
Why it works: Since it was not “me” doing the choosing, there is an element of surprise, a “mystery”, a “mystique” on how the selected prostate massager will work. (Of course, it is “me” doing the choosing. But this “mind game” gives a new perspective on the session).
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Tip #2. Lube, then lube again!
I “discovered” that by lubing, inserting, removing, then lubing again and inserting again, can make for a “better” session.
“An Incredible Aless Session!”
[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his inspiration on the combination of Aless kegels and “diddling” (nipple stim)].
I just experienced the most intense Aless session I can remember. Here is how it happened….
I was up about 4 AM this morning, still wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” (a banana style cup) and I wanted to lie-down and listen to some relaxing tracks. I found one on YouTube which seemed intriguing: “Fifty shades of trip hop – instrumental music mix 2017” so I went to lie-down and started listening.
Well, it wasn’t too long into this amazing collection of musical tracks that I began to concentrate on my prostate: I began in my mind to “visualize” it, to “target” it with my eyes; going around and around it and focusing on nothing else.
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The music carried me deeper and deeper into this erotic session. Now I seldom perform any kind of nipple stim on myself during sessions, but something made me reach up and begin to caress my flaccid nipples. And before long, when they both achieved an erect, aroused state, something else happened…..I gave myself a penile erection within the hard banana cup! (I had been flaccid since I started this “session”). The nipple stim quickly escalated into a full-body massage and arousal which involved my pecs, hairy underarms and shoulders.
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Things progressed rather quickly from this point on…..I continued to perform the “diddling” of my erect, sensitive nipples and began to simultaneously perform kegels. And at some point, I began to fall-into a most erotic fantasy (one that was quite unexpected).