Tag: Concentration

An unbelievable feeling

So I bought the Helix Syn and Progasm a couple weeks ago after reading a crazy amount of praise and reading about the “Super O”. I have a good amount of experience with anal play. I own a dildo that I have fucked myself to a hand free anal orgasm before (with cum) although that hasnt happened for a year or so. I have come before from having my ass fucked too.

So I buy 2 Aneros because I can’t quite decide and I didn’t want to get one and be disappointed it was too small.

Session 1: I put the helix syn in and try working it. I somewhat learn to fuck myself with it, hands free of course, and it feels nice and I feel relaxed. After a while I decided the helix wasn’t giving me enough stimulation and switch to the progasm. It feels like a lot more direct stimulation but still doesn’t quite do it. I gave this session about an hour, but ended up riding my dildo and jerking off at the end.

Session 2: Basically the same as the first, except after 30 minutes I got impatient and fucked myself with the prograsm trying to achieve prostate orgasm. Ended up jerking off.

Session 3: Really lay out a lot of time. I’m pretty tired from getting up early for work and am relaxed. I put the helix syn in and start the contractions to fuck myself with it. This goes on for about 30 minutes and then I’m so relaxed i fall asleep on and off for a couple minutes at a time before jerking awake from the prostate stimulation I assume. Read more »

A “Prostate Edging” Session

Wow! This session easily tops any others I have had recently! Let me explain…..

While wearing my Mueller male “chastity cup” overnight, I woke-up aroused and ready for a session. I started this session in the usual way and basically “did nothing” for about 15-20 minutes. As I got further into the session, I tried different positions for my legs and knees. Everything I did felt amazingly good.

Further into this session, I began to get a sensation that I was going to ejaculate! OMG! A HFWO? But although I felt it, alas, I did not ejaculate. But this feeling must have gone on for at least 25-30 minutes. I can only liken it to a traditional penile “edging” session where you purposely hold-back an ejaculation until you can’t take it anymore. That is a little what this “prostate edging” session was like. I probably could have gone-on for a good while longer. I felt suspended in my “erotic space” and couldn’t concentrate on anything other than my prostate and all the pleasure it was giving me at the time. And isn’t that the purpose of an edging session, after all? So that is why this prostate “edging session” was so significant for me. Who knows what would happen if I was able to continue with it for longer than an hour? Would I have a HFWO? Would I have a Dry-O? Would I have a Super-O? There is always another session, another feeling to explore! Read more »

OMFG. I am a natural

Less than 24 hours with my Helix Syn and here is my tally;

– first an epic yet traditional orgasm using my hand with the device inserted. Thought it was an awesome aid to my self-help sessions. At first I couldn’t feel much but experimented with positions and hit the sweet spot within 10 minutes.

– next, 3 consecutive hands free, dry orgasms with the Helix, using my hand to position and adjust pressure. The first met all the descriptions of a super o and had colors, patterns and I swear I could feel every note of the music in my prostate. The second two were still incredibly intense and then I felt I needed to shut down because I was so shaky and my heart was racing.

– then while I was recovering, I had an involuntary set of spasms that led to 6 (yeah, I know) totally hands free, Aneros-free dry orgasms with the damned thing lying on the bed next to me. Three waves of 2 each and I swear I had to concentrate not to have any more. I was genuinely scared that I had lost control and would look like I was having seizures the rest of my (blissful) life. But each time a random contraction would set me off for 5-10 minutes of leg shaking, stomach crunching and trying not to scream. Read more »

What am I experiencing???

Ok so I posted a couple months ago about some progress. I think I have made some more, but I’m not quite sure what I’m experiencing.

I read here somewhere about a “warm up” routine some one tried. Stretching etc. I also perform some harder clenching to start to tire out my muscles some.

I’ve been starting on my side. Just relaxing looking at porn like most do. Eventually I end up turning to my back and over the course of 30 min to an hour a shaking in my pelvic area starts. At the same time I’m concentrating on the aneros and where it’s hitting. I get a wave of pleasure or 2 but it doesn’t seem to last. The shaking builds gradually and starts to get pretty violent at times. All completely involuntary. It’s pretty cool. But I would think I would start getting more intense waves of pleasure at the same time which aren’t occurring. Im enjoying the process and I think I’m getting better at recognizing what I need to do. Today I adjusted the toy some and between the periods of tremors I described earlier and I felt increased pleasure from the toy. I don’t think I had it in the right place before.

I’m trying to assess where I am in the process and see if anyone has any suggestions on where to go from here.

Thanks

Day 15 of 5th attempt

So it’s been pretty smooth sailing from about Days 0 to 12 or 13 of this attempt. I felt almost the same as I did the whole time on attempt #4.

Something changed on the weekend. I had sex Saturday afternoon, and energy level cooled after a few minutes when we stopped. That was normal (and something I thought i learned during SR, because I used to think Id be frustrated all day, but ive always felt like the energy cools quickly). Then Saturday night I got aroused again right before bed, and fell asleep like that. No dreams that I remember, but I woke up very horny on Sunday and couldn’t get sex off my mind. I had a very good session Sunday afternoon for about 3 hours, but then after when I stopped, the energy didn’t cool. I felt pent up horniness, buzzing, and was having orgasms and nice pleasure waves of feeling all evening, A-less, while doing other things like eating dinner and watching TV.

Monday (today), woke up and thats continuing. Not really walking around with an erection all day or anything like that, but im leaking pre cum all day so far. my underwear is wet, every time i go to the bathroom, i can see ive been leaking a few drops (and i am aroused all day, just not hard). Read more »

What are you supposed to do mentally?

I’ve been trying off and on for a few years now and I’ve gotten few worthwhile results. I’ve tried several different strategies and none of them work well for me. It seems like I have to do all of the following at once:

1. Stay physically relaxed

2. Don’t get overhyped and start thinking about what it might feel like later / stay in the moment

3. Enjoy the sensations

4. Be mindful of the aneros’s movements

5. Breathe steadily

I’ve been using the “do nothing” method because anything else would require even more concentration. I’ve tried just focusing on relaxing and doing nothing else but most of the time I do that I just fall asleep. I’ve tried porn but that distracts me from staying in the moment / feeling the sensations. When I don’t focus at least a little on 3, any pleasure that happens is somehow distant / unimportant and I don’t get any enjoyment out of it.

I do have ADHD, so that’s part of the problem. I can get it in comfortably and it doesn’t hurt at all even manually pulling it in all the way. I can stay relaxed. I just can’t seem to juggle all the right mental tasks at the same time. What am I supposed to do?

Small Steps

So I’ve been reading this Reddit for a while. Finding it reignited my interest in my aneros (which is a classic). I purchased it about 6 years ago, but never used it much.

I started again using it right around Christmas last year and have used it about every couple weeks. The first 3 times I’ve used it, i didn’t experienced much. I would hold a mild contraction to initiate the desired involuntary spasms, which would feel great, but that would subside very quickly. The second time I used it I layed on my left side (right leg folded up) and just layed there holding a small contraction. After about 20 min or so several small waves pulsed through my abdomen and my hips had a gentle shake. The 3rd time was kind of a dud and not much happened other than getting some involuntary contractions.

Today was a pretty productive session. I started on my left side and had some pretty pleasurable sensations with a gentle hold. After about 30 min I turned to my back with a pillow under my hips. And just held a mild contraction (on a scale of 1-10, probably a 5) for a few min then let it go and return, etc. after about 20 min I felt a warm sensation build in my lower abdomen. My hips started a gentle shake. After a couple min of this I could feel a very pleasurable sensation where the aneros was hitting (I assume my prostate). I concentrated on this area and kept telling myself to relax. Then all of the suddden the involuntaries hit hard and contracted could feel the aneros hitting my prostate hard. I had no control. It felt incredible. This went on for a couple min then subsided. This repeated itself again. I probably had 3 experiences like this in an hour period. I know this wasn’t a superO, but definitely my most productive session. Read more »

violent shake

So I had this experience I thought I’d share. I usually watch porn while trying hard to relax, back to the floor knees up position and got kind of tired doing that for awhile. I kind of feel like keeping my legs up tires me out and hinders the relaxation part.

But I lay down on my stomach with one leg up and relaxed again. I was trying different things like concentrating on the feeling, but ended up getting tired. when my mind started wandering off and I started to think of things totally unrelated to what was going on. I think as soon as my mind was in another place I had this violent sudden shake in my hips, which lasted for a quick 2-3 seconds. It literally felt like someone went through my body and grabbed my prostate + everything around it and shook it violently. I think when I realized what happened I tried to get ahold of it, then lost it….but it felt amazing and kept trying to chase that feeling again to no avail. anyway thought I’d share my experience so far (its been about a year and a half since I started). Just when you think you’re there, you experience new things.

Aneros sessions for Tuesday and Wednesday, December 13 & 14 : Feels so good!

Hi guys,

Last night I scheduled an Aneros session in the 10 o’clock hour, but horniness for my Aneros buddies got the better of me. So I rescheduled it in the 7 o’clock hour P.M. I used my usual Aneros models in the following order: MGX, Maximus, and Progasm Classic. I believe that I was away from my sessions for two weeks. Last week, I had a bad cold which caused me to suspend sessions until the cold abated.

The session went well enough. But it seemed that there are was some noise from a nearby tenant which distracted me from concentrating on the session. This distraction also robbed me of the leisure for enjoying my Aneros models more fully, especially the Maximus and Progasm Classic. Likewise the MGX. Each Aneros model has a distinctive shape and feel which is irresistible. The session lasted about 45 minutes. However I was rewarded with a “revived” Aless of old! Also I must say that after five plus years of Aneros sessions, the Aless is always there. It may be hidden in the background. But I can summon back through the Kegels, meditative breathing, stimulating my nips, even thinking about the Aneros and what it does for me, etc.

Also I slept overnight with my “revived” Aless which caused me to have a quickie session of only 30 minutes. I used Helix Classic and Progasm ICE. I had wanted to use Maximus too! Maximus has a combination of slenderness, thickness, and length which gives it penetrative power. I laid Maximus aside this morning. Read more »

“An Eventful Day”

Background (Yesterday) — I was having a good day; I was into Day 6 of SR and feeling great. I have been “experimenting” with total abstinence through the use of my jock cups and was really feeling it. I also have been eating a little pomegranate every day because it seemed to boost my testosterone. But one thing I didn’t realize is that with the heart meds I take (especially metoprolol), the pomegranate has the effect of reducing systolic blood pressure. Combine that with the fact that I had to stop my metoprolol for 2 days for a nuclear stress test on my heart (which I passed), led to a crazy morning yesterday when I ended up in the ER! I actually drove myself there, but because I was slightly short-of-breath for about half the travel, I honestly felt that I would have to pull-over and call 911. Fortunately, by the time I got to the hospital, my breathing (and presumably my BP) was more back to normal. Anyway, I spent about 5 hours in the ER yesterday morning. They did a series of tests including blood work (especially heart enzymes), and a chest X-ray. After 5 hours, I definitely was feeling more like myself and since all tests were negative, I was relieved and was discharged. I drove home. Needless to say, I am no longer eating pomegranate! Anyone on heart meds for BP, please take note!

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