Tag: Do nothing

Near-Perfect Erotic Prostate “Finger Massage”

OMG! What a session! Here are the details…..

Background: I am only in Day 2 of SR and didn’t really expect anything from a session. I didn’t wear a “cup” to bed but awoke about 2 AM with an erection and found myself fondling my package. So I needed to get-into a “cup” ASAP! I selected my XO ProCup, put it on and went back to bed. Couldn’t sleep so after about 45 minutes or so, I decided to go to my comfortable couch and listen to some relaxing tracks (no binaural beats). I did so for about an hour and decided to go back to bed. I wasn’t feeling especially aroused but wanted to do a relaxing “do-nothing” session with the HIH 950 (my smallest massager). I could not possibly have predicted what would happen next…..

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“Prostate Contact Is The Key”

I had been thinking about this for the past 2-3 days. I know it sounds so simple but hear me out…..

The key to real prostate pleasure is physical contact with the prostate and surrounding nerves, usually with an Aneros massager. But other toys can be used as well, even a finger! In days gone by, here in the US, some doctors and medical therapists used to “milk” men’s prostates manually, usually to relieve prostate symptoms. Today, other therapies are used instead. I believe that in China, however, this practice of manual “milking” of the prostate still occurs.

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I know that Aless pleasure is very real and I experience it too, but for me, nothing can compare to a “real”, stimulating massage from a “real” Aneros! I have owned several other so-called “prostate massagers” but they just didn’t do anything for me. In short, they don’t make proper contact with my prostate. There is something about the design of the Aneros that creates a built-in “rocking action” caused by PC/anal contractions that takes prostate massage pleasure to the next level and beyond.

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When I am lying down in a session, I don’t have to do anything. But since the Aneros is right there nuzzled up against my prostate, and making contact, I can be assured that if I am supposed to have an orgasm, I will! I have gone from “do-nothing” to amazing Dry-Os just by being “plugged” by an Aneros massager! As I said, prostate contact is the key! Read more »

Not sure if I’m doing this correctly, am I flexing the right muscles and how I can measure progress?

To preface: I’m a gay mid-20 year old guy so I’m very comfortable with anal stimulation and have been exploring how to get more pleasure from my ass/anal sex. I’ve been trying to see if I can use my aneros to have a super-o or prostate orgasm or any of those good things, and I’m not sure really if what I’m doing is the right way. I have a helix and a progasm, and for the most part I use the helix because it’s much more gentle and I like the motion. Read more »

“Relax……And Count To 45!”

There was nothing really unusual about this session. It was very relaxing. I decided to go for the HIH 950 due to its gentle approach to prostate massage. So I lubed it up and got started. I decided in advance that I wanted nothing more than a relaxing, “do-nothing” session. I got more than I bargained for……

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Throughout this relaxing “prostate-fest”, I experienced a little bit of everything, but in a slow, relaxing way. I got gentle involuntary contractions, gentle p-waves and gentle moaning. When I glanced at the clock, I was surprised to see that it was already 35 minutes into the session. So I decided add another 10, making this relaxing interlude a total of 45 minutes! Nice!

PS I decided to ‘chase’ this session with a 15-minute session with the MGX. Equally nice! I especially like the added stimulation of my anal canal!

“A Fantasy Led Me to Aneros Insight”

Background: I did not sleep in a “chastity cup”. But I awoke about 2 AM with a mild erection and felt the need to put one on. After about 2 hours, I awoke again and decided to take it off. When I did, and went to lie-down, I had fallen into a nice, erotic fantasy…..I am lying in bed with my lover and she has lovingly moved her hand towards my scrotum and very gingerly begins to stroke the side. Then she moves around to the other side. She keeps this up and I feel myself falling deeper into this erotic, stimulating fantasy…….This went on for perhaps 30-40 minutes, during which time I was both erect and flaccid (sort-of like an Aneros session). I was completely mesmerized by this fantasy and didn’t know what was going to happen next. Would I ejaculate? I had no idea……But I just savored the feeling for as long as it lasted. Then, I began to think about the experience and how it may relate to my Aneros sessions……

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This “fantasy” had many elements of a good Aneros session. Let me try to explain some of them….

First, there was the element of timing. I really didn’t know how long this fantasy “session” was going to last. It didn’t matter, since I was enjoying every deliciously erotic minute of it! I didn’t know what I was going to experience next. When I moved to a new position, she moved right along with me. This is true when performing a “do-nothing” session. The element of “sexual surprise” works very well in the Aneros sessions. Just let-go and let it happen. What’s the rush? The orgasm is not the direct goal; experiencing the pleasures along the way is. Read more »

“The Anticipation Is Building”

Well! I received a belated present yesterday: the MGX Classic! I couldn’t wait to get it and now that I did, I can’t wait to try it! I know it is only a little bit bigger than my SGX, but I believe that I am in for great things with it!

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I ran-across an excellent description on just how to use an Aneros prostate massager (the Progasm):

“Once you have it in place you don’t have to do much else.”

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That pretty much sums-up the “do-nothing” technique, doesn’t it? I have found with the SGX that due to its design, it knows exactly where it is going and what it is going to do. The same goes for the MGX. I will trust that since the MGX is the “flagship” Aneros model, great care went into its design and function. It is going to be more familiar with my anatomy that I am.

I am now waiting to be “ready” for my first ride with the MGX. Only it knows what prostate pleasures are in store for me! When I first started with the Helix Classic, I had absolutely no idea what was in store for me. I have that same anticipation now with the MGX!

PS Last week, I ejaculated 3 days in a row (what was I thinking?) My libido “tanked” to zero and I am just now getting it back (Day 6 of SR). I like the “old” feeling much better! I feel like a horny male again! Read more »

The “Softer” Side of Male Chastity and a Wild Do-Nothing Session!

The “Softer” Side of Male Chastity

I have “rediscovered” my Shock Doctor Soft Cup supporter and have been using it to sleep as a “chastity cup”. I find that the soft texture of the foam “cup” is just enough for me to feel some stimulation on my package but not enough to let me feel the “outline” of my package. It does its job in preventing me from masturbating.

I have had about 5 Aneros sessions in the past 4 days. Don’t know why—-I just feel the need. I am now in Day 9 of SR; perhaps that explains my need for prostate stimulation. Feeling quite aroused this morning, I decided to lube-up the SGX and take a ride. I did not expect what was to happen next….

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A Wild Do-Nothing Session

[reader beware: this will get quite graphic]

I intended to have a quiet, “do-nothing” session this morning with the SGX. I did not expect what happened. It caught me completely by surprise. Let me explain….

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I started this session in the usual way and went to lie-down on my right side and relax like I usually do. I was waiting for a nice “tickle” on my prostate and the start of some relaxing p-waves. This is usual for me in this do-nothing session. But after a few minutes went by, I felt a strong contraction in my anus or rectum and that contraction was sent immediately to my prostate via the SGX. About 10 seconds later, another contraction! Then another! And another! Read more »

First super-o since my break

I stopped using the Aneros for several months and have just started up again a few weeks ago. I have been slightly discouraged since I have had several sessions but no super-o. I was in the right mood today so I decided to give it a try.

I took a nice hot relaxing shower. I decided to use the MGX classic which is my tried-and-true toy. I lubed up, inserted my toy and got in bed. I like to listen to erotic audios to keep me aroused and stop my mind from wandering. I used the do-nothing technique which has become my favorite way to use the Aneros. I just lay there and let my body do what it wants without me interfering. Sometimes it can be tough to focus on the sensations and not take over, but overcoming that has been really rewarding. I also have found that being submissive is actually really sexy. Within ten minutes I began to feel the pleasure build and build. I tried my best to relax deeper and deeper which got easier and easier. I started having involuntary contractions and my prostate became really sensitive. Before I knew it I was cumming. Really. Hard. It felt different from many of the other super-os I’ve had. I could feel it all over my body, but especially strongly in my prostate, even more so than usual. And it felt a lot more “sharp” than usual. It was so strong that it was almost too much. After a few minutes I felt it taper off. Afterwards I caressed my body all over just taking in the sensations. Lovely. I started to feel it building up again, but unfortunately I had to stop because I started having cramps from my Crohn’s Disease. Read more »

Another HFWO – my enemy can’t leave me

Well my sessions don’t improve, and worse than that it’s so incredibly rare to have a good session. And when things are interesting 95% of the time I end up having a HFWO.
In fact I feel this is related to my premature ejaculation. And that’s like 90% of my depressed mood, it’s just so frustrating and aneros ends up being just another colateral damage.
This affects me so much I’m gonna post another message here I wrote in another forum, as I’m getting really desperate as I feel no way out of this nightmare:

“Well, where to start.
I’m 30 and I have always had premature ejaculation.
I’m 1,73 m high (5ft 8in) and 100 kg (220 lb).
When I was a teen I didn’t care much about it because my mindset was “when I grow older this will improve”.
So time went on and on and on… and nothing changed.
In the last 5/10 years I’m been burning inside with all this, I’ve sought plenty of help (including professional) but nothing ever helped.
I’m reaching that point where I’m starting to get desperate.
I feel so hurt inside, and it is getting worse.

So details.
Like I said this always happened, but I didn’t care much of it when I was a teen.
I’ve always been a very introvert, calm, person, and another (un)related thing is that I’ve never loved anyone.
Yes, I’ve never felt any kind of crush or anything of that. It’s totally alien to me.
I didn’t care of it when I was younger but now it’s another thing that is hurting me. Read more »

Question about p-tab contact

Is the p-tab meant to always be in contact with the perineum? Or only when contracting/having involunatries?

I’ve noticed that when I’m relaxed, such as when using the “do nothing” method with the helix classic, there is about a 1/2″ gap between the p-tab and my perineum. In fact the only time i notice
the p-tab making contact is when I’m contracting strongly (voluntarily or involuntarily).

Lately I’ve been folding up some tissue paper and wedging it between the p-tab and my perineum, and it does make it feel better, but it doesn’t feel like the ideal solution.

Anyone have advice on how to address this?