Tag: Do nothing

10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards. Read more »

With un-be-lie-va-ble A-less, involuntarily starting on Saturday morning, right after awakening, this weekend began in an awesome way.

Once again, having enough sleep, about nine hours this time, seems to push things for me beyond belief. Out of nothing, besides my usual morning wood, and although staying totally passive, letting go was leading me to several exhausting SuperOs while finally hovering in a state of sheer bliss. In detail …

Waking up with a nearly aching boner, sudden p-waves were sent out through my abdomen and up my spine. Still being snoozing I was in a state of totally letting go and watching what was happening to me without at all willingly taking part or trying to push anything anywhere. I only lay there and gave in to those feelings, what seemed to be the best I ever could have done. The vibes became stronger and stronger, first orgasms hovered through my body and took control of my being. Overwhelming lust spread out into every limb and every nerve, fuck, only writing about it, sends me into Aless again.

[I couldn’t resist to give in for some minutes of Aless, it again was awesome.
But back to my Saturday morning session.]

Fumbling to snooze the disturbing alarm clock was enough distraction to sense the urge to frequent the bathroom. Coming straight back to bed and laying down again I choose the prone position first, then turned on my right side with my arms along my body. I now felt like sliding down a chute. Going deeper and deeper into a sea of bliss. As if I never had left for the bathroom, Aless at once was back and took over control again. Me doing nothing but letting go and focusing on the feelings. After an hour of bliss with many MMOs, few involuntaries but some decent SuperOs I slowly was taking over command but didn’t yet want to call it a session. Read more »

“Erections, Ejaculations, Orgasms and GPS?”

[Thanks to @rumel and @LXJ for providing the inspiration for this blog post!]

Now what could all of these things possibly have in common? I was relaxing and meditating this morning (no headphones please) and began to dwell on the importance of relaxation within our Aneros sessions. And it began to be very clear to me. Let me elaborate……

Erections
I can push and prod my penis and other parts of my male package into an erection, no problem! But the best erections occur when I am not even aware of them. For example, nocturnal erections while in chastity and they wake me up! Oh my! I can be in this erotic state for an hour or more!

Ejaculations
Yes, I can masturbate to my hand’s content, slowly or quickly and bring myself-off. But the best ejaculations occur from the “real thing” – sexual intercourse. The next best thing is an artificial vagina which complexly envelops my penis and makes it almost impossible not to ejaculate. Is there any better feeling?

Orgasms
I can embark on an Aneros session, lube-up and insert my favorite massager. Perform kegels galore and hope to achieve a prostate orgasm (perhaps even a Super-O!) But the best orgasms occur when I least expect them. Sometimes, they just “sneak” up on me during a do-nothing session but they can be mind-blowing nonetheless! Read more »

“This Nice Session Had All The Right Ingredients”

It was time for a session. I had lost track of the days since my last one. I woke up wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and had listened to some nice soothing tracks beforehand. I was ready. I headed-up to the bedroom, lubed-up the HIH 950 and quickly started this nice session.
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No sooner I started it that I knew this would be a good session; I was right! I started-out doing nothing, but that quickly developed into the massager wanting to do its own thing right from the beginning. I felt like a helpless participant. I began to have fairly quick auto-contractions and they quickly escalated into more arousal. I had several erections in sequence during this session and my prostate stimulation seemed to match. At one point near the middle of the session, I developed a tingly feeling in my feet and my hands and even felt a tingle progress up my spine (that one was unusual). I had abdominal contractions and general all-over body shakes. I had a definite discharge of some fluid from my penis and at one point (when I had an erection) I honestly felt that I could experience a HFWO! Because the 950 is shaped so much like a finger, I also experienced some nice erotic fantasies.
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As usual, the HIH 950 knows when to stop and so did I! I was surprised that the 45 minutes seemed to fly-by. Where did the time go? What else did I experience during this nice session? The 950 is a perfect gentlemen; he’ll never tell! Read more »

“I Completely Ignored The Time For This Session”

This session was long overdue (about 12 days I believe). I decided that I would ignore the clock. And guess what? When it was all over, I casually glanced at the clock and it had been a full hour! Honestly, I don’t know what time it should have been. Now, when I think back to what I did and felt during this session, I can’t account for a full hour. Where did the time go? What else did I experience during this session?
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I remember starting-out with a “do-nothing” approach, then progressed to light kegels and clenches. At some point, I began to shake my whole body. I believe it was at this point that I began to drift-off into a state of orgasmic prostate bliss. Because the next thing I remember is doing about 30 strong-and-hold contractions as recommended by HIH for prostate health. And that was the end of the session.

I finished-off this nice session by listening to some soothing and stimulating tracks on YouTube. I am in Day 7 of my semen retention and am quite horny. I like the feeling!

Lesson learned: Don’t start a session with any preconceived notion that it will only last xx minutes (or hours). That will distract the mental focus necessary for a good experience.

PS This entire session began and ended with me wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”. I never saw my package during the entire time! Truly, the penis does not have to take part in any prostate pleasures! But I feel so close to an ejaculation! Read more »

Ordered my first Aneros

Hello everybody, yesterday I ordered the Helix Syn, and honestly can’t wait to try it out!

I don’t have many expectations, I’ll just relax and listen to what my body says. I do have a fair amount of experience with anal play, and would go as far as saying I can, indeed, pay some pretty close attention to signals from my body, so there’s that.

What took my by surprise, though, is the amazing community behind these toys. I bought it because, being into BDSM as a submissive, I had of course seen it used for milking of slaves held in chastity, but had no idea of the sheer volume of discussion and techniques surrounding what appears to be a stupidly simple toy.

I looked for a video and found one of this guy just staying there on the floor and doing absolutely nothing (which, as I learned a few minutes later, is called the “do nothing approach”) and was astounded, thinking I had just bought this bad boy without knowing what it can do. From there I googled further, and came across the wiki, the forums, this very sub and a bunch of reviews. I had absolutely no clue there was a whole world behind it!

So… well, I just wanted to share the excitement with you fine folks. I will be sure to post when I’ll have put it through its paces thoroughly. Looks like a tool I will get many hours of fun with. Read more »

Fire it up! Blissful Aless featuring Muze, visualized bondage, prostate edging, precum milking and finally classical edging in slow-mo

Oh what a wonderful sunday morning! Still accompanied by involuntaries I must write down my experiences during my session this morning, before I forget the stunning details, though it for now seems unforgettable.

I decided not to mess around with cleaning up my rectum and inserting any tools there but did choose my new Muze to have some fun with, only using it externally. As I lately got to know the spot right above my penis as a very sensitive one I lay down on my back, attached a paper tissue around my Muze to hinder it from roll around and put it right on that spot underneath my member I positioned to point to my navel.

Then I started the Muze’s vibration on its continuous level one. I had planned to do nothing else and to pretend being in bondage so I could not do anything to end up that vibration but had to endure it until I perhaps might have a HFWO.

To encourage my fantasy I stretched out my legs to the corners of my bed and raised my arms to let them be tied to the upper corners.
Soon my focus went to that strong vibration and all the sensations throughout my lower body including my ballsack, my gland, my cock and my whole pelvis. It didn’t take long until first involuntaries happened. As learned from my everyday early morning routine of this visualized bondage setup I kept those involuntaries in between the boundaries of my restraints. Read more »

Where to go from here?

Lets see. Where do I start. A little over a year ago I got a progasm. I have “no experience”, but it looked well made and I thought, it’s so big it’s bound to hit whatever it needs to hit. I didn’t make much progress with it. So I read frequently about people changing aneros to fit them. So my next one was the helix syn. Despite being smaller, it hit a place where the prograsm didn’t (in a good way). I am pretty sure that it hit my prostate as I was thinking “so that’s what it feels like”. I tried the helix syn for a month or two and didn’t feel any progress beyond the first 10 mins. I wondered if the P-tab was too bendy and maybe I should try the helix classic. That takes me to now. I do think that the helix classic pivots better with the non bendy tabs. I think I felt more movement. It was pretty much the same experience though, 10 mins of “good feelings” and then nothing. The positive is that the 10 mins felt a little stronger than the helix syn. I try to be chill about it and not force anything, but I wait and wait and nothing builds.

I read several guides and it makes me wonder if everyone just has their own recipe to what works. Read more »

The start of a p-wave?

I’ve had my aneros for about a few weeks now, and lately I’ve been experimenting with the “do nothing” approach. Yesterday I managed to have some interesting feelings doing this, I’m wondering if it was the start of a p-wave.

I started by laying on my side with the aneros in, doing some deep breathing exercises. I found that by focusing on the sensation of pressure against my prostate, I could get that feeling to spread, into my perineum and penis. At this point I started to get an erection. That was followed by a feeling of “fullness”, as if the aneros was getting larger inside of me. Then there was a sort of tingling numbness that started in my sphincter and spread to my butt cheeks. It wasn’t exactly a pleasurable feeling, but it was interesting. The whole thing lasted 20-30 seconds at which point I lost focus and the sensations stopped.

So, was this the start of a p-wave?

This feeling happened 2-3 more times, and each time I would lose focus or get too excited after a while and it would stop. Once I tried contracting slightly when it was happening, but that made it stop as well.

So, how can I encourage this feeling to continue building? It seems to me the key is relaxation, every time I would get too excited it would stop.

Anyhow, I wanted to share because I’m excited to be making some progress. I’m starting to enjoy my sessions for what they are, instead of wishing for more.

“A New Cup, A New Technique”

“A New Cup”
I bought a new chastity cup and just tried it out: a Bike adult baseball jockstrap with a traditional Bike cup. At first, I thought it was a little too tight and restrictive, but after a while, it is a good feeling. This jockstrap cannot be worn without the cup……it is just too small and restrictive otherwise. But when paired with the cup, the sensation is wild! I have not slept in it yet for chastity, but feel that it is only a matter of time to get it into the “rotation”. BTW, this came in a 2-pack: two jocks and one cup. I ordered adult large size (I am a 36 waist).

PS I am into day 9 of SR and getting really horny. I need to stay in chastity as long as possible. Otherwise, I find myself playing with my package too much and may regret the stimulation! Oh, how I crave an edging session! But I’m not ready to cum yet; I don’t have any blue-balls feeling.

PS I have three cups now and each one has its own unique “signature” feeling. The jockstraps (I have four) also have their own characteristics. Usually, I pair them up as originally bought. But sometimes, I mix them up for a “different” sensation.

“A New Technique”
During this morning’s session, I “discovered” a new Aneros session technique. I’ll call it “Ignore-It!” and here is how it works…. Read more »