Tag: Do nothing

The unavoidable ejaculation

My sex drive keeps being as low as ever. With a possible change starting only in September things keep dragging.

Most of my sessions end in nothing.
When I have a lot of time sometimes I can get to somewhere.
In the last productive sessions I ended up with another old friend, the unavoidable hfwo that ruins my sessions.

In the first session it came out of nowhere, and it was fast.
I had just inserted Aneros and I was viewing some porn to get some arousal.
I was like 30 mins in with nothing special then suddenly I feel the orgasm coming, with no previous warning.
It went from nothing to ejaculation, and the weird is that I had only the background pleasurable feelings before it came sudenly.
I’ve never experienced this before (the sudden out of nowhere ejaculation/orgasm).

In the second session as usual it took some hours until I felt something.
I was getting the feelings of general pleasure and I was relaxing and letting it continue, always with the do nothing approach.
Sometimes I fell asleep and kept waking up, the session contnued and eventually it reached a part where I started to feel more pleasure and, as also common for me, eventually it was too much and it triggered the ejaculation.

My third session was long but nothing special happened. I was again in the plateau and nothing happened for hours. Read more »

Day 28 of 2nd SR-Challenge

Hi everybody, on my 28th day of SR I can report about a five hour lasting session with wonderful heights. Left alone for quite the whole day I found some time for myself. Staying in pyjamas and gown I liked to use my primary search words “edging cumcontrol tumblr” to find some porn and some incitements for my session.
First I was into using my Magic Wand vibrator, but as its battery was low I searched for a replacement. In her bedside cabinet I made a find. A tiny vibrator slightly thicker and longer than my middlefinger. It was of super smooth silicone and felt like a worry stone. First I thought of the frequency as too high to enjoy but still wanted to give it a chance. I started my discovery route with some pressure on my perineum. First I felt nothing and already wanted to give it up, when I suddenly found some spots that gave me pleasure and already induced sudden involuntaries. That’s it, I thought, and sticked to it for some time, slowly driving me in to a frenzy. When feeling it could become too much I resisted to take it away, risking my SR-challenge, still wavering to end it up or to continue for another 12 days to cope with the famous “40 days and 40 nights”. Thus I heightened up my arousal more and more until I was so close I had to give it up. Resting on the couch I calmed down and out of a sudden, when nearly fully relaxed, a Super-O came over me like a breaking wave, sending me into several wonderful minutes of tremendous Aless.
After a while I decided to take up the vibrator again and put it on my frenulum. Quickly I got rock hard again and ran up the hill to the PONR. It was a very risky play as I often thought I couldn’t bear it any longer and would ejaculate. But I only drenched my underwear with precum. Finally I had to end up again, while the clock showed that already three hours had gone by. Now I got my Tempo ready, prepared myself and put it in with some vaseline. Having the vibrator with me it came to my mind to put it on the metal handle of the Tempo. It was overwhelming. Because of the massive steel body of the tempo the vibration felt even stronger inside me than before while in direct contact to my body. I had my fun. It was fantastic. Nevertheless I stopped the vibration and lay down doing nothing. Now my Tempo took over and as if it had saved all the vibration it shook me into another frenzy. Summarizing I can say this little vibrator made my day.
Have a good weekend!

What are you supposed to do mentally?

I’ve been trying off and on for a few years now and I’ve gotten few worthwhile results. I’ve tried several different strategies and none of them work well for me. It seems like I have to do all of the following at once:

1. Stay physically relaxed

2. Don’t get overhyped and start thinking about what it might feel like later / stay in the moment

3. Enjoy the sensations

4. Be mindful of the aneros’s movements

5. Breathe steadily

I’ve been using the “do nothing” method because anything else would require even more concentration. I’ve tried just focusing on relaxing and doing nothing else but most of the time I do that I just fall asleep. I’ve tried porn but that distracts me from staying in the moment / feeling the sensations. When I don’t focus at least a little on 3, any pleasure that happens is somehow distant / unimportant and I don’t get any enjoyment out of it.

I do have ADHD, so that’s part of the problem. I can get it in comfortably and it doesn’t hurt at all even manually pulling it in all the way. I can stay relaxed. I just can’t seem to juggle all the right mental tasks at the same time. What am I supposed to do?

How do you guys trigger involuntary contractions?

I’ve had minor involuntary contractions that lasted a couple seconds a few sessions ago. Feel so damn warm and amazing, but I haven’t been able to do them again in the last 3 sessions. Haven’t even been able to enjoy my toy.

Today I had an hour and a half of a session. I tried doing the “do nothing method”. I literally did nothing at all for the first 45 minutes. I was just in my favorite relaxing position (lying on my stomach). I was also very relaxed and closed my eyes a bit. Tried my best to focus on my rectum to feel whatever sensations I could. Had a few split second feelings, but nothing amazing. Went from completely relaxed and then began doing contraction because I didn’t feel like the do nothing method was working for me. Stopped using it after a while.

How do you guys trigger those contractions? Feel like my body isn’t capable of doing involuntary contractions.

The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?

Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.

It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.

And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.

My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.

During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.

It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.

How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?

“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”

I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.

After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique! Read more »

First session with generally positive feelings, not sure what happened though.

So I got myself the MGX classic about a month ago. I’ve been having my 30-60 min sessions once/twice every week. Accommodating the MGX was never an issue since the beginning, as a matter of fact, that last bit of suction when sliding it in was probably the most pleasurable point during my sessions.

So today, I had 90-100 min session with the MGX. First 20 mins was just relaxation and setting the mood right. I started off on my left side, with right leg flexed and left leg straightened for the insertion. And the flexed my left leg and brought the knees as high as I could and close to my chest.

I was trying out the “do nothing” approach. Because manual contractions have done nothing for me so far. There were a few anal contractions because the MGX was in my rectum but I wouldn’t call it spasms. I switched over to my right, and then on my stomach with legs spread wide which was very pleasurable. This is when I also started watching some of my favorite videos, and I could definitely feel relaxing out more than usual, and the MGX being sucked in deeper. I also got urges to pee, so I took that as a positive thing. After about 40 mins on my stomach, I switched to being on my back, which watching something fun. I leaked a drop or two, but I can’t tell if it was prostatic fluid or urine. Eventually the urge of peeing increased a lot, and I just wanted to follow that feeling through and I squirted out quite a bit of a watery discharge. I cannot tell if this was urine or not. I couldn’t really smell anything in it. But the consistency was very watery just like urine. I had a huge thick towel underneath me, so I thankfully didn’t wet the friggin bed (it discharge shot out in a stream). Read more »

Frustrated

(Long post warning!)

Ok this may sound like a bit of a rant, but bear with me, I’m just really frustrated.

Started with reading about this awesome prostate stimulation. Bought a Helix. Stuck it in, waited. Felt good, some contractions, some waves, but nothing to write home about. Wanked to a (better) shot, rinse and repeat. Did kegels, can shoot pretty far and generally enjoy it.

This went on for about a year and since the “journey” never led to anything spectacular, I decided that I was probably incapable of having my p-moment. Ok, no biggie.

Then I ended up having a tantric session while travelling and had most awesome 90 minutes of my life. Five or six handsfree dry orgasms purely from prostate stimulation, waves of pleasure and awesome euphoria. So, I figured, I can do it!

Since then I spent close to a grand on all sorts of gear, Helix, Progasm, Revo 2, Pure Wand. With or without vibro. With or without lube. Porn or no porn. Contractions or do nothing. On all fours or on the back…. you name it, I probably done it.

Nothing. Not a single fuckng thing. What’s worse, even whatever good feelings I used to have at the beginning are not there anymore. I stick the Helix in and wait. Breathe. Nothing. Not even a tingle.

Go asking on forums and get answers like oh you know…. you need to connect with yourself… let go… meaning of life… energy… blah-blah-blah. Or better still: you should start smoking weed or drop acid, will definitely help. Read more »

“Cock Cage: Fantasy….Or Reality?”

My ongoing practice of semen retention (I am into Day 8) and my wife’s low libido seem to have taken me into the realm of total abstinence, male chastity and cock cages. Let me explain.

For the past week or so, I have been practicing my morning “sessions” without ever touching my genitals. I find this stimulating. What I do is put-on a jock cup (either my youth size Bike or regular Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon) with a tight pair of Speedos and lie down, either with or without music. Believe it or not, this “do-nothing” approach not only reinforces the practice of SR but has taken me to a higher fantasy, one of which I experienced last night. Read more »

Thursday December 15 session : the sweetness of well-plowed hole!

Hi guys,

Another blast of arctic air plowed through here last night. Winds are howling outdoors right now and wind chills are in the low 20’s. Local meteorologists recently reported that we haven’t had such a cold December in three years. This cold weather will continue to the end of the year.

Our forecast calls for lows in the teens at sunrise tomorrow Friday. So I will have a day without Aneros. I made up for that by having a session which lasted about 45 minutes in the time slot, 5:45-6:30 a.m. I used in order the following three Aneros models: Eupho Classic, Maximus, and Progasm ICE and wow!

I still value very much Eupho Classic because of its slenderness and length which enables it to penetrate my bunghole precisely and decisively. This morning it produced exquisite sweetness as I let work away its magic against my anal musculature and prostate.

I followed up with Maximus which has the same penetrative power as Eupho Classic. Maximus has a slightly added girth which compounds Aneros pleasure many fold, much as a chaser compounds the effect of a drink at a bar or saloon!

I finished off the session this morning with Progasm ICE which has even more girth not only in its body and head (Glans!) but much more so in its stem which massages and exercises robustly my anal canal and musculature. Read more »