Something’s Changing

Something’s Happening

In a recent post from a forum’s member, @rumel suggested​ the use of a tennis ball to massage the member’s perineum and I thought it might be a good time to try it.

First, a bit about my status; I started Anerosing in Jan of 2016 thus achieving great health improvement on my prostate while enjoying the many great sensations and feelings but still short of the ‘Big’ one and even Dry-Os. I consider myself to finally be ‘Aneros Mentally Mature’ meaning I no longer push for results, I am taking the time to enjoy every bit of sensation, twitches and p-waves my body gives me with absolutely no expectaations. I read forum posts, re-read WIKI and just simply enjoy my current status every day.

Back to tennis balls; I sat on a tennis ball while rocking back and forth and sideways for two consecutive sessions in two days now and sometimes doing so aggressively. I feel a further awakening of sensations in the area which leaves me tingling for many hours after. Good suggestion @rumel, thank you!

Last night (in the middle of the night), I woke up to two consecutive and very distinctive prostate dry orgasms, something I never had before. They were mild and not enough for my wife to wake and notice my smile.

Was this the result of the tennis matches at my perineum or just a coincidence? The answer is really not important, the end result is. I certainly feel I’m making progress in my Aneros and A-less sessions.

The unavoidable ejaculation

My sex drive keeps being as low as ever. With a possible change starting only in September things keep dragging.

Most of my sessions end in nothing.
When I have a lot of time sometimes I can get to somewhere.
In the last productive sessions I ended up with another old friend, the unavoidable hfwo that ruins my sessions.

In the first session it came out of nowhere, and it was fast.
I had just inserted Aneros and I was viewing some porn to get some arousal.
I was like 30 mins in with nothing special then suddenly I feel the orgasm coming, with no previous warning.
It went from nothing to ejaculation, and the weird is that I had only the background pleasurable feelings before it came sudenly.
I’ve never experienced this before (the sudden out of nowhere ejaculation/orgasm).

In the second session as usual it took some hours until I felt something.
I was getting the feelings of general pleasure and I was relaxing and letting it continue, always with the do nothing approach.
Sometimes I fell asleep and kept waking up, the session contnued and eventually it reached a part where I started to feel more pleasure and, as also common for me, eventually it was too much and it triggered the ejaculation.

My third session was long but nothing special happened. I was again in the plateau and nothing happened for hours.

exquisite aless

While I do enjoy sessions with either my MGX or Progasm fairly often, in between these sessions I enjoy aless sessions – so convenient. I suffer from allergies quite often, and thus need to take simple over the counter allergy medication quite often. You will note if you read the fine print, they caution about consulting a doctor if you have an enlarged prostate. Well, I noticed many years ago that these same medications have certain side-effects on me – primarily a degree of erectile dysfunction and sensitization of the prostate gland. When I do need to take this medication I have long ago learned – when life hands you lemons, make lemonade 🙂

Simply put, aless sessions come very easily when I’m on the medication and the sensations are exquisite. There is no prep or cleanup required, no post session soreness that might happen, and no embarrassing erection if I have to get up and answer the door or that type of thing.

As well, I never have to worry about accidently ejaculating. Just lots of dry orgasms with nothing more than moderate precum.

If I have not recently ejaculated, it is quite common for me to experience a wet dream – either that night or the next night, if I don’t stay on the medication.

Hours of pleasure to indulge in my homoerotic fantasies and enjoy wave after wave of orgasm.

Got an Aneros Helix two weeks ago and WOW.

I played around with it in maybe six sessions. Sometimes not much, other times some really good sensations. Not sure if I was doing it right or it’s the right size. Then Saturday, I had some time alone and got serious, relaxed and lubed up, put aside expectations and just gently chased the pleasure for an hour or more. Then WOW. I can’t believe it feels this good. Then over the top. Three dry O’s in a row. I take it out because I think I’ve had enough. My body has different ideas. I come again. And again. I’m starting to worry that I might not stop cumming. I come two or three more times and it’s mostly over except for the awareness that something’s clicked and I get it now.

So a big thanks to the other posters who’s advice has made this possible.

Got back into my rythym…

I don’t usually do these because I always forget to respond back, but we’ll see how it goes.

I haven’t been using my aneros for a long time due to being busy with my new job and relationship issues.

Finally I have had time to properly sit down, properly aroused, and use my helix as best as I know how.

It’s been several months since I have used my toy and I’ve been using my aneros on and off for 6 years without ever having a super o, but have definitely had a good amount of dry orgasms and just as many dud sessions as well.

I didn’t have a super-o this time, but I think I had a slightly-wet dry orgasm (a little precum and my whole ass and body and chest felt amazing.

I had this realization in this sessions that I’ve never had before though, which is the reason for this post. I haven’t masturbated in like a week at this point, and I really wanted to feel release, and at that point I realized that I have to treat the incoming pleasure I receive as if it is satisfying me like my penis does, and the feelings in my ass started to feel so much more pleasurable, full/satisfying, and just amazing; so much that I was involuntarily moaning and gasping: something I typically don’t do.

Frustrated

(Long post warning!)

Ok this may sound like a bit of a rant, but bear with me, I’m just really frustrated.

Started with reading about this awesome prostate stimulation. Bought a Helix. Stuck it in, waited. Felt good, some contractions, some waves, but nothing to write home about. Wanked to a (better) shot, rinse and repeat. Did kegels, can shoot pretty far and generally enjoy it.

This went on for about a year and since the “journey” never led to anything spectacular, I decided that I was probably incapable of having my p-moment. Ok, no biggie.

Then I ended up having a tantric session while travelling and had most awesome 90 minutes of my life. Five or six handsfree dry orgasms purely from prostate stimulation, waves of pleasure and awesome euphoria. So, I figured, I can do it!

Since then I spent close to a grand on all sorts of gear, Helix, Progasm, Revo 2, Pure Wand. With or without vibro. With or without lube. Porn or no porn. Contractions or do nothing. On all fours or on the back…. you name it, I probably done it.

Nothing. Not a single fuckng thing. What’s worse, even whatever good feelings I used to have at the beginning are not there anymore. I stick the Helix in and wait. Breathe. Nothing. Not even a tingle.

Go asking on forums and get answers like oh you know…. you need to connect with yourself… let go… meaning of life… energy… blah-blah-blah. Or better still: you should start smoking weed or drop acid, will definitely help.

I finally did it!!!! [multiple orgasms]

Tonight, nearly one year after I first purchased my Aneros De-Vice, I had my first instance of multiple prostate orgasms. Up until now, most Aneros sessions ended with me getting impatient and masturbating normally. I have also been strengthening my PC muscles over the past year, which made a huge difference tonight.

I’ve come to the conclusion that relaxation is quite possibly the most important factor – at least for me. Lately I’ve been trying to cut back on porn, because I noticed that I’ve had the urge to masturbate multiple times per day – sometimes 3 or more – and its been getting in the way of me getting my work done. I decided that for at least the next month, I will only masturbate if I can take my time and do it mindfully, without any porn, which is exactly what I did tonight. I started out just doing some breathing exercises while different parts of my body, and slowly moved on to lubing up the De-Vice and easing it in. Once it was in I started really focusing on trying to feel in the moment – how my hand felt on my penis and vice versa, while also focusing on how my muscle contractions were slowly massaging my prostate. Eventually the P Waves started, and as I neared orgasm I suddenly flexed my pc muscles, at which point I felt like I was carried across some kind of threshold and delivered into my first full-on dry orgasm! I repeated this process two more times, each orgasm more satisfying than the last, before finishing with an explosive cum. Easily one of the best masturbation sessions of my entire life.

12/9

I’m really liking this Progasm Classic. Got to sleep in a bit since I didn’t work and school was on a snow delay. Did my normal morning routine although I did spend a little time edging the little guy. I’m amazed at the control I had, it was weird. I’ve never thought of or even considered edging, I’ve always hammered to completion. We’ll see what happens, I’m curious to see the results after reading about others experiences. PC went in nice and easy, my butt must be getting used to it. Such a great feeling. It doesn’t take long to start getting that buzzing feeling in my loins. I must be able to get really relaxed and in tune quickly. I guess I’m gifted in that sense. I’m able to experience some p-waves within 5 minutes and then I’m able to trigger some involuntaries followed by some dry orgasms. Damn that shit is addicting. I’m making too much damn noise on the bed so I throw some pillows off the bed and move to the floor. I put a couple of pillows under stomach and lay face down with my butt in the air and start some light PC contractions. It’s not long before my ass is gyrating, my prostate starts throbbing and PC starts autof*cking me. I’m getting hammered but it feels so damn good. I lose track of time, I don’t know how long this goes on for. I finally roll over once the feelings subside to catch my breath. I have a sitting chair in my room so I move over to it and rest my feet on it so my legs are bent at a 90 degree angle and my butt is against the chair. I rest there for a few minutes and start another round of PC contractions to see if I can trigger another round of autof*cking. Yup, no problem although this time I’m bouncing off the floor and it is hitting my prostate hard and good. Holy shit it’s good. Once again I lose track of time, when it’s finally over I’m able to relax and catch my breath. This is fricken great. I’m writing this almost 10 hours after I finished, I’m tired and my muscles ache like after a good gym workout.

No Sexual Activity

I love to ride my toys an I have a few to choose fro. From butt plugs to prostate messagers to 9-12 inch dildo’s. I have a great time with them all and i reach new heightened orgasms with each session I have. But my prostate an penis has to much fun. I play with myself at least once a day. I have to have a wet explosive orgasm a day. I’m young an have to get my nut out. I become cranky without it. Either I’m rubbing my hole or sticking a finger or two inside me to ease my roaming and vibrating prostate that gets constant action. An don’t get em started on y porn collection. I have so many porn subscriptions on my tablet and computer I barely have enough money to buy new toys. But all of that is coming to a close.