Tag: Dry Orgasm

How to transition from wet to dry?

Can anyone give some advice one how to transition from having HFWO to dry?

I am finally at the point where It seems like I can reliably have a wet orgasm in less than an hour. (30mins is the fastest so far!)

What works for me is inserting the toy, put on porn and play with my nipples. As I start to get an erection the pleasure builds up and feels great. Once I have a full erection the feelings progress as i start to do some light contractions but eventually the feelings sort of die off. At this point I take a short break (1 or 2mins) to find a different video and repeat the cycle with each time feeling better than the last until a HFWO.

Will this ever get me to a dry O or should I start looking elsewhere?

And help or previous post for reference would be greatly appreciated

Other Orgasm Techniques (Re-Posted)

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my sessions with a a variety of different things I was curious about in solo play to achieve multiple orgasms. I always also wished to pursue a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. Despite achieving a SuperO with Aneros, I still wanted to try all options of sexual pleasure, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both) away from your partner. Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I can never satisfy my curiosity. If you haven any others, post a comment or send a message. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

BDSM: eStim or Sounding 4/10 – not for me. I have invested serious cash into the set up and finally had a hwfo with eStim, using a plug, pads and rings and a quality machine. Quality matters, but to me the orgasm was dulled out by the electricity (or by pain!). Sounding was fun but always felt too invasive. Maybe I need an expert to tie me up and show me the real deal. I would like to try rope play, sensory deprivation and several other things. Read more »

Recap – My First Dry Orgasm (Re-Posted)

Welcome to my blog! Several of my original entries were deleted due to website issues this year, so I decided to repost them. I do not have the original comments to most of the posts, so feel free to comment again! Thank you and I hope you enjoy reading about my Aneros journey.

I have been an avid user of Aneros toys and playing with my prostate for several years now. It started independently of my relationship with my partner, which runs in parallel. Our sex life is amazing and mind-blowing, if a tad ‘traditional’. We have been together since we have been very young and never looked back. We share an intimate romantic bond and have long almost tantric body-to-body sex sessions. I usually top, but we can both be versatile. I was always a more sexual person than he is and is constantly looking to enhance our experience without cheating. But he is rarely interested in anything else. I suppose I am happy with this, but always wanted to personally go beyond ‘nomal’ sex.

Even as a kid I knew something is ‘up there’ and would sometimes have dreams of some sort of anal pleasure, without understanding it. Now that I think about it, I find it almost unbelievable. I just didn’t know what to do with it. I wonder if anyone else was the same? Read more »

Success and The Regret (Re-Posted)

After several years of using Aneros, I have started to have regular prostate pleasure, and every nth time, I would get to a dry orgasm, a mental orgasm, or even a SuperO. It was always difficult to find time for sessions, but I slowly and surely built upon each session to keep progressing. The first time I had a SuperO, I was on the couch in the living room after coming back from college. It seemed to transition from a dry orgasm into a screaming orgasm that I could not believe was happening. I lay there exhausted afterwards and felt that I have found something amazing to have in my life. My partner was never interested in trying, so I stopped talking about it afterwards. I kept going, and taking notes from each solo session. I also became more open to trying other toys, nipple stimulation, and manual prostate massage. I wanted to try everything over the years that followed.

My only regret in my journey was never having experienced a HFWO, not from sex with my partner, from Aneros or from manual prostate play. I guess it is not meant to be, but I have surely kept trying and it seemed sometimes that I would come so close. I rode the edge of what seemed to be a near ejaculatory event through anal sex, Warpmymind hypnosis, manual nipple play, using a dildo, an nJoy wand, a fucking machine, eStim, and a Theragun. Read more »

Levels of Pleasure (Re-Posted)

After using Aneros for a few years, I started to have regular orgasms that were hard to define, understand, comprehend and recapture afterwards in my memory. So, one of those times when I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle), so I can remember and build on it later.

This is what I came up with:

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

The last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance. Read more »

Cheat Codes (Re-Posted)

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity or the wish to pursue to a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. I still wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. Maybe this will come with age. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Reach out to me and share if and how you started ‘gooning’ Read more »

New Decade (Re-Posted)

After all of my success, I have experienced several months (or even a few years) of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey in 2018/2019 I have almost stopped having them. I posted about this in my previous entry. I knew I would return to Aneros one day, but every time I tried it seemed to go nowhere. I tried to be aroused just enough, and simultaneously relax using all my previous learnings, but no matter what I tried, it didn’t bring me the same level of pleasure.

Then, as we rolled into the new decade, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »

The elusive Aless orgasm (Re-Posted)

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience. Read more »

Daily wear

New here. Helix syn trident 2 days old.
Whole experience is incredible. First few sessions were great, some dry orgasms without super o yet, but I am confident it will come.
So decide to try wearing it around while doing other things. No issues with walking or light activity. A few squeezes while standing feels amazing. Anyone with longer wear experience or issues? I feel like as long as well lubed there should not be an issue.

I think i broke my dry orgasm meter

So the other day i think i may have broken my dry orgasms meter(In a good way.)
so i was rubbing my frenulum similar too how a girl would rub her clit and within 10-15 seconds the room is spinning and i find myself feeling like i’m floating, if i close my eyes it feels like i’m floating in space, this is what i consider a type of dry orgasm that i have (ymmv).

then after a few of these i stop rubbing my frenulum and i focus on my nipples. at this point i start rocking my hips and the aneros is thumping against the prostate which leads too more dry orgasms and eye rolling. then i turn over and i find myself humping my bed.

Now when i was a young kid i’d hump stuffed animals and my god did that make me dry cum like crazy…. this….THIS as an adult????? It’s like i unlocked the memories i had as a kid. i never considered dry humping my bed. i’m talking dry orgasms over lapping. i swear it felt like i had a long dry orgasm but i had mini orgasms while having the long one. i went from “calm seas orgasms” too “riding the bull orgasms” and with aneros, it’s rubs against my prostate at the same time.

Morale of the story? i’m just really happy i ignored stigma and societal norms and started this experimental journey. it truly is a crime that most men don’t know this side of themselves.