Down the road

Seems like the first month was a “Hey! This is fun!”-new thing experience.
Had a lot of weird stuff and amazing sensations which seemed to have trailed off the second month. It still felt nice, and I enjoyed it. But the newness or honeymoon, for lack of a better term, had passed.
However, this week has been interesting. I think my prostate has started to gain more sensitivity.
Before, it was just not really reacting. I’d get a nice twinge or a half second flood of energy, but really not much encouragement otherwise.
Last night I got very close to going over the edge. I was pulling the helix in so hard and deep, and it was feeling so good. I couldn’t stop contracting.
Before, if I did that, it was almost annoying and felt scratchy.

I left off and could really feel it. I had ‘the itch’ and there was much fullness in that area. I was tired and needed sleep, but still excited and horny.
So something has changed where it wants it good and hard up in there.
I started thinking I needed a progasm, but now I think not yet.

Press on

Aneros Eupho Trident Review

I have been meaning to log on to write this for a while now but haven’t really had time. I have only been getting maybe 1-2 sessions in a week for the last month or so. Really not as much time as I would like. I picked up the eupho trident about a month ago and its been a regular in my rotation. Yes, I have a large collection of Aneros toys, and depending on my mood and what my prostate is craving I will pull from the toy box.
Back to the Eupho Trident. First, compared to the syn version, and above the others in the Trident line, the Eupho is one mobile, comfortable piece pleasure. I have put alot of toys in my butt and this is the most comfortable prostate toy to wear around the house. I actually have it in right now.
The Eupho Trident or ET for short compared to the syn version has similar complaints. The syn version has the annoying handle, useless perineum tab and the worst of all dries out to quickly. Like Prelube is required and still isn’t enough for long sessions. I only use waterbased lube, and really who wants to be in the middle of a set of in-voluntaries and have their lube dry up. The ET moves better, is more comfortable and doesn’t dry out nearly as fast. If you are in the market for a Eupho, but the ET version its worth it.
The ET compared the Eupho Helix. The Eupho Trident moves and dances around the prostate. Lightly touching it sending waves of pleasure. The Eupho Helix, almost rubs, almost milks and contacts firmly. They both provide pleasure and are my go to Prostate toys. I did find the Eupho Trident had more of a learning curve due to its less definite contact. So Newbie, buy the Eupho Helix. Anything after try the Eupho. Like I said earlier the fun is in the Journey.
I will compare the ET to the Eupho Maximus. The Maximus fills, and I mean fills my ass. Its not uncomfortable, but gives a nice full feeling. I reserve this for when I am looking for something way different. The ET will dance and tease the prostate, the Maximus, contacts firmly, and will rub it with every contraction. Both give will give me a super o. I like to use the Maximus then the Eupho. I find it stretches me out a little and gives the Eupho a chance to really move.
I know everyone wants to know what the ET is like in use. In the 10 minutes or so since I inserted it and started contractions. The same amount of time it has taken me to write this. I have a nice erection, and can feel definite leaking of precum. Actually have a wet spot on my naked belly.
With every little contraction, I feel the warmth deep in my belly. I feel the massager lightly brushing my prostate, teasing and moving contacting my prostate in whatever way I feel. I can almost roll it side to side or rock it front to back or do them both at the same time. In a way writing this review fully naked with the prostate massager im writing about sitting in my ass teasing my prostate the entire time was arousing. As the I fight back the in voluntaries to finish my blog, I cant help but think the Eupho Trident is my new favorite.

Am I doing it right?

I’ve purchased a couple of different Aneros toys (helix syn and helix trident) which I’ve used several times with the same results each time. I’ve done it hands free every time, doing the pulsating/hold to breath counts, and I do ejaculate every time but I’m usually spent after it. Am I stopping short of the elusive “super O” or is this it? From what I’ve read from every one else, the prostate orgasm is dry so I’m thinking I’m in the right direction but not quite there yet.

I do notice the slight twitches when I’m either clenching or releasing the toy, which I’m still working on keeping that rhythm.

Incredible shared Aneros experience. (M/M)

Hey party people. I’ve never used the Aneros with another person, but I’m very good at using it by myself. I even wrote [a guide about how I do it!](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/8v1ij0/heres_how_i_get_to_my_reliable_supero/)

Recently, I connected with another guy who enjoys solo time and had never experienced the Aneros. I decided I would gift him a thoroughly, throughly cleaned Aneros Helix (since I tend to play with the Eupho Trident) and we would play together. I offered to coach him using my fairly meditative method and he was on board.

Smash cut to the two of us lying naked in his bed, making eye contact with one another. I’ve never made direct human eye contact with another man while using the Aneros. It was one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life. As we locked eyes, I felt the initial twitch go to a more fluttery place than usual. Instant omen of an intense session. I warned him. Once it really got going, my legs started to shake a bit and I felt what could have been an earthquake originating from a tingly spot right behind my cock, deep inside of myself. I didn’t even realize that I had slowly clenched down on the toy; it felt like it had been slowly expanding inside of me.

Then the orgasm hit.

Think I just had my first prostate orgasm, where to go from here?

I’ve been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm for a while now, and until today had actually given up on the idea of having one.

After a shower earlier tonight I decided to give it another shot, I had already orgasmed earlier in the day but I figured I may as well give it a shot. I dried myself off, and laid out the towel on my bathroom floor, popped in the helix and laid down on my front and just focused on relaxing. I had read recently that you should keep contractions minimal, as you are trying to gently massage the prostate and contract super hard and squeeze out all of the fluid.

After about 5 minutes of focus on the feeling I started to get a warm feeling, radiating from my prostate, this grew in to an intense sensation but as my breathing and heart rate increased this subsided. After a few more minutes I experienced another wave of the same sensations, and again they subsided as my heart rate increased..

I laid there after these two waves of pleasure, relaxing and focusing on the feeling. While it was nice, I didn’t manage to build up to the same feeling again, and after about 40 minutes I stopped.

While the feeling was great, it wasn’t anything like what I have read prostate orgasms feel like, it was pleasurable but passed quickly and wasn’t even close to a penile orgasm.

What was that?

It was my fourth session with my aneros helix trident. The first 30 minutes of the sessions i had some feelings down there and a warm sensation. It didnt feel good, it was just nice. Then i felt something coming as if i would have an orgasm. This also didnt feel good. It became stronger and stronger, my heart was beating very fast and then… nothing. Was i close to an orgasm? Am i on a good way to become one?

“Yes, I’ll Report The Dud Sessions Too!”

This was one of those sessions which never really took-off. I thought I felt aroused, although I didn’t have an erection at the start of the session. So I lubed-up the Helix Trident and started-out. Although I did experience some mild auto-contractions, I just didn’t feel anything against my prostate. I continued for perhaps 25 minutes, but sadly, nothing came. I am now in semen retention Day 10 and wearing my SafeTGard cup for chastity control.

I can’t say I’m really disappointed. Perhaps my prostate is satisfied at the moment and doesn’t want to experience orgasms right now. Perhaps the several days’ worth of milking has kept it satisfied! Whatever the reason, I’ll just savor the fact that I am still progressing in SR. Usually, by now I will have experienced the blue-balls and would have to end the challenge! I’ll stay on the journey!

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Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?

New Things

Still getting Mr P woke up.
Every session seems to be more active.
I seem to have more activity if I inadvertently fall asleep with the helix in. Not sure if it’s a time thing or relaxation or what.
I tried the frozen coconut bullet last night. I will explore this more. I’m using the chapstick tube as a mold.
Also got some binaural apps to try. No opinion one way or another there.
I remain.

Getting frustrated

I’ve had my Helix Syn for about 2 months now, and whilst I’ve not hat anything mindblowing yet, my early sessions seemed quite promising. Definitely experienced P-waves, and a few times caused some trembling sensations in my extremities (mostly arms/hands).

But it seemed to regress after the first couple weeks. I think a lot of it is mental – I feel like if nothing significant (I.e. Light P-wave) happens in the first 20-30 mins, I get frustrated and *that* seems to be the nail in the coffin. And no amount of relaxation beforehand seems to get around this. I’m a little annoyed in all honesty that I am not moving forwards at all, but the feeing of stepping backwards is such a mood killer.

Have people experienced this kind of stall, and what did you do to navigate it. I know that it will take time and there’s no magic solution, but tips for managing expectations would be really appreciated. It’s clear I’m getting in my own way, but I don’t know how to effectively combat that.

Also, when learning the technique, I’m a little lost on how active I should be. On the one hand I’ve been told to relax completely, let the toy drive. On the other, people say tensing the prostate is key. One thing that has gone right is that I feel a lot more able to work my prostrate when I have nothing inserted – kegals were never something I really got in to before, but I really have gotten good at them I think – but not so much with the Helix inserted. It’s like I can isolate the prostate without it in, but when it’s inserted it’s much much harder to isolate the prostate. I end up clenching my butt/sphincter too, which seems to kill any growing P-waves. What are you doing?