Hey everyone, first time poster. Three year user, own a Helix, a Progasm and my favorite, the Eupho Trident. The below technique works with all three. Happy to explain further if anyone would like! I was unemployed for a month and got to really practice and refine this. (Also, I find that saying words out loud arouses me, so I’ve written this in first person if anyone wants to read aloud and ride the power of suggestion; nothing gets me closer than saying “my ass is gonna cum” out loud [optionally on the phone with another person who wants to hear me cum].)
My technique:
I get completely naked. I lube up and slowly slide it into myself. I’m not surprised when the last inch or so seems to have a mind of its own, the toy knows where it’s going. It’s very well engineered. The head of it is near my prostate, but not pressing aggressively. That’s good. (If you feel any pain from entry, breathe here until you don’t.)
My next goal is to lie flat on my back and relax so hard that I can feel my heartbeat, very gently, in my chest. When I say relax, I mean specifically to release tension. Tension is the opposite of pleasure; it’s a survival instinct. (Do whatever you need to do to make this experience calm, and whatever you can do to make you feel safe getting loud. I find tensing and releasing tight muscle groups helps with this, as does telling myself out loud to relax deeper, deeper, deeper. You may have your own technique for this, I say whatever works. You do you.)