Aneros users blogs and guides
My cursory research says the Helix is good for people who have some experience with anal play. Any reason I would prefer the regular Helix to the Syn?
Do people have other suggestions on what might be better for a semi-beginner?
Last question: is there anywhere I can purshase on of these for less than $50+?
thanks!
One of the many things that I have learned so far is that no two sessions ever seem to follow a similar pattern. Some might be intensely pleasurable while other times somehow it just doesn’t quite get there. Regardless, I have found that I will nearly always find something new to take away from the session. My last two sessions have been at both ends of the scale. The intensely pleasurable one came courtesy of my Eupho Trident a couple of nights ago. The Eupho has since become my favourite by far. Small it may well be but, it revealed a couple of new experiences to me. I have read that because of its design, a side to side movement can be felt, so I was on the lookout for that. But when it came, strangely, it felt to me that it was not the Eupho that was moving, more like I was moving bodily around the Eupho. Lying with my eyes closed I could have sworn that I was gliding from left to right on my buttocks, I had to concentrate hard to maintain that impression but it was very convincing. Another revelation came from the P tab. All of my other devices tend to sit with the tab just to one side of my perineum, I try to centre them but soon they have again drifted off to one side, I have never actually noticed any real stimulation from the P tab at all. So more from habit than anything else, during my Eupho session I aligned the tab on the ridge of my perineum never expecting what came next. It was as if someone had flicked on a switch. Within a few moments I became aware of what I can only describe as a surge of energy flowing right into my nuts and along the length of my now very enthusiastic penis. Just as I was coming to terms with this, the bar was raised again. I began to notice that my involuntary contractions were pulling the Aneros in and flexing the P tab which, in turn moved slightly downwards, pulling taut the skin on my scrotum and the base of my penis. It felt as if the Eupho was trying to masturbate me and work on my prostate at the same time. The sensations were exquisite to the point of being almost unbearable. I thought and hoped it might lead to my first HFWO but it was so hard to concentrate on all of the sensations at once as my attention went back and forth between prostate and penis. Eventually the session came to an end but I was left with some wonderful Aless that was humming away for almost 24 hours afterwards. In future sessions I am going to persevere with the alignment of the P tab now that I am aware of the possibilities. In contrast, last nights session with my Helix Syn never really got going. I’m not sure why, I think perhaps I was tired and should have postponed it until I was better rested. After 30 minutes or so I was about ready to abandon the session as I was feeling a little discomfort. It was then that I realised that I had been really clamping down on the Helix and maintaining the pressure for some reason, possibly trying too hard. Curiously I found it difficult persuade my anus to relax and ease the grip. As soon as I did manage to release it was immediately pulled back in again. This to and fro situation went on for a while until suddenly it became an automatic action, like rapid-fire. It only lasted for a few seconds before it all got out of sync, it happened once more before I called it a day. So, not the best session but, I have found something to work on now. I think I will dedicate a few minutes in every session to try and build up that response.
Only in Day 3 of SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” for part of the night. I awoke about 4:30 AM and wanting a session with the HIH 950. Now I was not too aroused but was earlier in the night. So I lubed-up and began to ride. It wasn’t long that I fell-into a nice, simple familiar fantasy: I am again at my urologist’s office and he insists that all his male patients now “prepare” their prostates with a 35-minute (minimum) session with the HIH 950 before their exam. He said that his male patients like this particular massager for it’s subtle intensity. (An added benefit is that I get to take this massager home!)
“Subtle intensity?” What does that mean? I didn’t know, but was soon about to find out…..
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Not soon after I began to “prepare” myself, I began to experiene a very subtle, very gentle “tickle” of my prostate and I began to (almost involuntarily) perform light PC contractions. They felt so good, so sweet. But after a while, I began to get more of a “tense” feeling deep down in my groin, which became more intense and to the point that at it’s peak, I had an uncontrollable abdominal spasm that doubled-me over and let out a moan. I was shaking at the time as well. Once this passed, I settled-in for more light PC contractions. Following that single “peak” orgasm (I know now that is what it was) I didn’t experience any others, but that one was enough for this “urologist’s prep”. I discovered a fair amount of prostate fluid (not precum) in the pouch. I was properly prepared for my exam!
Background
I am alone in the house this weekend and enjoy being a “bachelor” for a few days! One of the pleasures of being alone is an Aneros session where I can just be myself! That happened this morning (Sunday). Here are the details…..
I am in Day 11 of SR, wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” overnight. I didn’t get too much sleep—I am close to another wet dream (the last one came at Day 12) and I had an extended erection this morning. Let me back up just a little. I was in bed relaxing only in my PJs last night when I began to fondle and caress my package to the point of inducing an erection. I seem to do this automatically when I’m not in a “chastity cup” at night. Well, that is always risky since it can lead to an unexpected ejaculation. So at that point I decided to put-on a “chastity cup” and once I had the SD “on”, that was the end of that!
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Fast-forward to this morning (about 4 AM) when I had the urge to listen to some relaxing but stimulating tracks. I found one for wet dream induction and began to listen (at the lowest volume). I went about 30 minutes; all the while I felt a nice “pulse” in my groin (probably my prostate) with every soft tone! After 30 minutes, I felt “ready” for a session, so I went to the bed and knew I wanted the Helix Trident (with Boy Butter lube). I got ready and started the session….
I am about one year in and I still haven’t experienced a Super O. I have a progasm, helix syn, and helix classic. I seem to feel more with the helix classic. I like the tabs best on the progasm but feel more with the helix size and shape. I usually pick the helix classic over the helix syn because I tend to feel the P tab more (I think because it doesn’t bend). I start my sessions really aroused which seems to help but I keep the arousal very high (w/ videos). I keep thinking that it will get me closer. The bad part of being highly aroused is that it sorta drives me mad and it makes me want to finish as soon as possible rather than allowing the aneros take me into the direction I need to go. If my arousal dips then it feels like I dont feel as much with the aneros as when I am fully aroused. I am trying not to chase it but at the same time encourage it. Does anyone else find a difficult balance between too aroused and not aroused enough? Also with respect to positions, the side position didn’t seem to do anything for me. I sometimes get the shakes when I am on my back but it’s not the most comfortable position. I worry if I dont keep my legs up then I wont have the maximum movement (legs down is more comfortable). Since the movement is so small/subtle, should I even worry about my position (as long as I am comfortable). My other favorite position is face down, however, I think when I get too aroused, my penis touching anything short circuits me into having a traditional orgasm (which ends the session). I also seem to have better luck on the floor vs a bed, I really haven’t figured out why. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.
This would be 2 sessions after my first post. So in my first post I wrote about my Monday session, and the new sessions would be Wednesday, and today, Saturday. I’m gonna call them M, W and S sessions.
The W session was pretty mediocre. I realized the reason the M session was so good was because I had came back from a trip, and was so aroused. I tried to do pretty much the same thing, but the one thing I stumbled upon is that I haven’t really learned to build up the rectal contraptions (where you push out). I can build anal contraptions (where you push in) in a good way where I still feel pleasure when I go full power, but for rectal contraptions I kind of just introduce them on the fly.
For today, the S session, I was able to build the rectal contraptions a bit better. When I felt like I had built them pretty strongly I would go full power pushing in, then I would start pushing out as much as I can. When I do this, my breathing just gets screwed up. I know long breaths isn’t something you gotta keep doing for the whole session (as the WIKI also mentions hyperventilating, kinda), so I was like “fuck it, let’s just enjoy this”.
I got to the point where it was really wobbling in my ass and my “heartbeat” would be pretty strong, and I can feel the involuntary spasms going ham. By the way, this was a really long session, I kind of started to listen to ASMR in the middle of it because I wanted to get more aroused.
Background
I have had sessions where I used two Aneros massagers back-to-back. But I believe this may be the first where I used three massagers in one day!
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First and Second Sessions
I had a “double-header” session early this morning (~3 AM) using the Eupho Classic followed-up by the Helix Trident. Both generated a lot of involuntary contractions and the Eupho achieved at least four dry-O’s and some nice “pumping” sensations. But I probably was not as aroused as I would have liked, so that is as far as this part of the session went.
Near the end of the Eupho session, I experienced quite a “calming” sensation in my prostate and knew that the session was over. But since I was still nicely lubed, I decided to go for the Helix Trident and see what developed. What I got from this “second” session were still more involuntary contractions but no O’s at all. I wasn’t even aroused for this part. But the HT did generate some new feelings, mostly due to the combination of the P- and K-tabs. The total time for these two sessions was about one hour. (These two sessions were good but my prostate felt like it was missing-out on something).
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Hey! I want to make a blog, and so I am making one! Before I even knew about this blog function, I kind of blogged about my progress in here:
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/148944-beginner-looking-for-help-and-the-real-user-guide
If you really want to go back, I’d recommend peeking in that thread. Either way, here is a shortcut introduction:
So I’ve been doing stuff anally for quite some years, and somehow got a little addicted to it even though I never really had any sort of orgasm with it. I found out about the wonder of prostate massage, and so I bought the Helix Syn this past December. I saw a review when I bought that said: “I walk around with this thing in my ass, and I had to stop because I was about to come.” That sounded amazing to me, so I got it.
I tried using the thing and it was underwhelming to say the least. First couple sessions I used it together with traditional, penile masturbation.I also tried putting it inside and going for a walk, of course, which was pointless. I had so much to learn. I never knew about this rewiring process.
I pretty quickly started using the thing the way you’re supposed to: doing belly breathing, laying in a specific way, doing contractions, not touching your penis and what-not. But still, it was quickly very apparent to me that I was really bad at this. Any thread I checked, people had gotten dry or wet orgasms from this thing or other similar euphoric experiences, even though it was their first time trying it. I named this blog “The Incompetent One” because I really felt like I was alone in not getting the sensations everyone else were. All I could achieve was very minor tingling and once I did anal contraptions it all just went away.
Somewhere around 2 months ago, I was able to still get the tingling sensations (or the “second heartbeat” as I like to call it) even though I did really strong contraptions. This is because I got better at building them up slowly.
I began this “dual” session with a new mindset, a new attitude. Let me explain….
I wanted to do a therapeutic session with the HIH 950. (I am now in Day 6 of SR and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”). As I started the session, I did something different…I began to “personalize” this session by telling my prostate: “Now don’t be afraid of the 950” and visualized the 950 nuzzling against it. I immediately began to relax, much more so than ever. And, even though I was aroused (but not greatly), I began to feel a gentle “tickle” and eventually a “worm-like” movement of the 950 against my prostate. I had not felt this in a long time. I just continued to relax into the session and began to quiver, letting the 950 take my prostate to where it wanted to go. About 30 relaxing minutes later, this (part of the) session was over!
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I have had some trepidations about using the Helix Trident since my last “intense” session. But guess what? I took the same attitude towards the HT and again I “told” my prostate: “Please don’t be afraid of the HT”! And guess what? I had a nice, relaxing second-part of this session! I was able to relax; the HT continued its gentle massage on my prostate and the combination of P- and K-tabs insured that the HT did not stray too far from its intended “target”: my prostate! This 30-minute session was not intense at all; quite the contrary, the HT produced some soothing sensations that I had not felt before while using it.