Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.
Tag: HFWO
“Going From HFWO Feeling Back To Chastity”
Introduction
I can hardly believe it! I have reached Day 12 of SR! Of course, I went to bed feeling quite aroused but didn’t feel like I needed a cup just yet. I awoke about 2:30 AM with an erection so strong I honestly felt that “this was it” and my semen retention “run” was over! I felt that an ejaculation was imminent, no doubt about it.
Session
What did I decide to do? Have a session, of course! I needed to put-on a cup just to keep my cock from getting over-stimulated and spoiling the session with an ejaculation. I selected the ever-vigilant HIH 950 to help “milk” my prostate. It didn’t let me down this morning! All I can say is “moan-fest, Part 2!”. What an unbelievable feeling like I was about to ejaculate! For about 10 minutes, I was writhing on the bed and my left arm actually was shaking; the P-tab was especially effective as I felt that pressure on my perineum with every contraction. For a while, though, I thought that I would finally experience for the first time a HFWO! That feeling was short-lived, however, for after about 10 minutes, I began to feel my cock shrink and with it, so did that extreme prostate-arousal feeling. I took a quick look inside the cup: as I suspected, not precum but prostate fluid! Ah! The pressure was relieved and I feel that I have “returned” to the practice of “regular” male chastity and semen retention! Along with the “milking”, my arousal level has (at least temporarily) subsided as well. Perhaps this is the way that guys get-through long periods of locked-up chastity? Through periodic release of prostate fluid with the help of their keyholders? Sure makes sense to me.
“SR Day 8 —– Oh My, What A Feeling!”
Background
Now in Day 8 of SR with my testosterone boost in overdrive. I wore my SafeTGard cup overnight and awoke about 3 AM with a hard, throbbing erection. Wanted a session so I selected my HIH 950. Now it doesn’t look like much but let me assure you, it does the job!
Session
I started the session somewhat flaccid but quickly developed another erection. I continued to wear the cup during the session since it takes my hands off my cock where they don’t belong. I immediately began to feel the p-waves and some auto-contractions which resulted in some precum. Honestly felt like heading for a HFWO. I am moving around in bed, lightly moaning throughout. Surprised that 30 minutes had already passed while in this feeling of ecstasy.
After-Session
Went to listen to some nice, erotic tracks for about an hour, then went back to bed still wearing my SafeTGard cup. I somewhat remember a lucid dream that was of a sexual nature. I remember “thrusting” in bed but not much more. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize? Interesting, but I have absolutely no blue-balls feeling during this current “run” of semen retention. I hope I can keep it that way! If I may be honest, I am feeling like an ejaculation* but don’t really want one just yet. (Thank goodness for the chastity cups that help me!) I like the “High-T” feeling too much! It puts a “male” spin on everything I see and do!
“What A Great Session With Helix Trident!”
I slept in my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup overnight. Up around 4 AM and wanted a session with Helix Trident. I was not especially aroused but figured I would get that way soon enough. I was right…..but it took a little time. Let me explain…….
I lubed-up HT and started the ride. I am always amazed at how quickly time passes when using it. Before I knew it, it was almost 30 minutes. But then, something “magical” happened. I began to feel an erection building through the cup. And at the same time, I began to feel more “pressure” from the HT on my prostate. Honest truth! As the pressure began to build, so did the orgasmic and HFWO feelings. The design of the HT is such that movement is quite different from the “Classic” models. I can feel the difference.
Toward the end of this 40-minute session, I began to squirm and convulse on the bed. I basically had a “do-nothing” session but with the design of the HT and especially the P and K-tabs, it is hard not to feel the contractions (and reverse ones as well) on my receptive prostate. I wish this session would have lasted longer, but I noticed that my lube (Slippery Stuff Gel) was beginning to dry out a little. I could tell upon removal. For these longer sessions, I should use a longer-lasting lube! (Perhaps shea butter as suggested by @Zenopause!)
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“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”
Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!
Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….
Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..
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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.
Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.
Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step.
“Hey Aneros! It’s Only Day 1 Again!”
Background
Nearing the end of SR Day 13, I went to bed knowing that I would have to ejaculate. I was getting a very “full” feeling and an achy “blue-balls” sensation in my groin and just wanted a release. I put-on a pair of silky boxers and retired for the night….
I awoke a few hours later with a raging erection and a feeling that (gasp!) I needed to ejaculate again! Not wanting to, however, I quickly put-on my XO “chastity cup” to quench the extreme feeling and keep my hands where they belonged. It didn’t work too quickly, but finally after about 10 minutes of non-masturbatory peace, the erection began to subside.
Session
I honestly felt that I “needed” a session at this time. But so soon after an ejaculation? After all, it’s only Day 1! Should I or shouldn’t I? Yes, I quickly decided on the HIH 950, if only for regular prostate health. Good choice! The massager went in deep and began to stimulate my prostate to the point of expelling prostate fluid! For 25 minutes or so, I was in orgasmic bliss! I could not believe how the 950 was hitting the mark! At several points, it honestly felt like I was approaching a HFWO!
Switched off. Switched on!
I don’t know why, but for 10 days or so I had been totally disinterested in having an Aneros session or indulging in any sexual activity whatsoever. I really missed it and badly wanted to have some action but when the opportunities came along I felt switched off somehow. I wasn’t unduly worried and thought that when the time was right I would know. However impatience got the better of me and I decided that I was going to try a session regardless of how I felt, no expectations at all, just accept whatever came along. At this point I had reached day 12 of SR. Even as I prepared for the session I was unaroused, I usually begin leaking in anticipation. I opted for my MGX Trident and lay back waiting to see what happened. Much to my surprise within 10 minutes I was aware of some good sensations and was encouraged to begin a little nipple stimulation. Usually during a session, nipple stimulation gets my prostate fluttering and enhances the sensations. But this time I was presented with a really stiff and throbbing erection, some nice waves too. Then I had a sensation unlike anything I have felt before during a session, I really felt as if my prostate was squeezing and pumping as if trying to force out an ejaculation, my cock pulsed with each contraction of my anus and prostate and I thought I was going to have a HFWO. Sadly it did not materialise but not for the want of trying. Nevertheless I enjoyed the experience but refrained from ending with a TO, I wanted to let it build. So today, 2 days later I am thinking of trying a session tonight. Finding myself with a few moments of privacy late afternoon, I thought I might prime myself for the session with a little nipple play. Almost immediately I felt the same reaction as during the previous session, my butt was clenching, very firm erection and the same pumping feeling as before. Since then I have been incredibly horny and am leaking in anticipation. I am not sure how I have turned things around but I am somehow, switched on again.
“Protecting My Virility”
[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]
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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?
Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect.
“Edging From The Inside-Out”
Background
Now in Day 8 of SR, I am feeling hornier than ever. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” over a pair of silky boxers overnight. I arose around 4 AM and felt I needed a session. I selected the Aneros SGX and lubed-up with Slippery Stuff Gel.
Session
Before too long, I began to feel the “ridges” of the SGX working my anal opening and it felt amazingly good! But then, as the session progressed, something else happened……
I began to get the sense that I could be “ready” to ejaculate from this stimulation! It actually felt like an “edging” —- except from the inside-out! I don’t remember feeling this much before in sessions—-it honestly felt like I was headed for HFWO! What I did was move my hips back-and-forth in rhythm, again, like an edging, and the feeling so close to the PONR was incredible! I really didn’t want this to end. How long was this session? I believe about 35 minutes!
Could I have experienced a HFWO? Hard to say, but I know I came so close! Perhaps next time?
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Success at last! HFWO after days and days of trying for years
I probably have < 20 attempts under my belt over the years. Today I was motivated. Reddit gave me the missing piece: keep trying new positions, different toys, new movements, new states of mind. Something will work, we’re all different so there’s different formulae that work for different people
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I finally found my prostate today by feeling around with the small end of the Pure Wand by Njoy. I had been missing it all these years, because I wasn’t aroused enough when looking, and I needed more experience exploring back there.
The feelings were subtle. I was looking at amateur porn from Reddit, and noticed that as my whole body started feeling better and better from looking at (tasteful) porn, the Aneros i switched to started to feel better. My whole body started feeling aroused, and the advice to leave my cock alone was right on the money (shot).
The o is a whole body o, so focusing on one body part won’t work. I had to keep manipulating the wand/Aneros, without thinking into the prostate, just being aware of the changing sensations.
I had to get into a sexy frame of mind, which had a diffuse effect all over. I started feeling more and more aroused to the point where the nekkid ladies I was looking at in the porn started to look really cute and desirable. So I went with this excited appreciation ( thank you anonymous ladies of Reddit who post amateur porn. You’re doing God’s work.)