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A Thorough Prostate “Milking;” An Ideal Session?

Wow! I can hardly believe this session happened! Let me explain…..

I wore my XO “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 4 AM feeling quite aroused. I wanted to listen to some nice tracks so I settled-in with headphones on. I listened for about 1.5 hours. During that time, I began to get strong Aless from my prostate generally in-sync with the beats of the music. Since I was wearing a “cup” I could not touch my male package at all; all erotic pleasure had to come through my prostate.

When I finished listening, I had a strong desire to have a quick session; I selected the HIH 950. I lubed-up with a different lube (Slippery Stuff Gel) and began the session. No sooner did I start, I had an incredible feeling from my prostate! In a short while, I felt as if I were being “edged” to an ejaculation! No exaggeration! I began to moan and squirm on the bed, feeling that an ejaculation was imminent. A HFWO! That is how it felt; I was on the edge of the PONR for as long as I was able to endure it. After about 30 minutes, even though I could have extended this “milking” session longer, it was time to get-up for the morning routine, so I reluctantly removed the 950. When I went to inspect the inside of the cup, sure enough it was wet and when I examined my penis, I had prostate fluid (not precum) oozing out like from a fire hose! I honestly can say that I have not felt this way during a session ever! It was that stimulating, that productive. Was it an “ideal session”? I think so now. The big question now: could I have ejaculated? Don’t know for sure now, but if I continued the session, I would say about a 90+% chance of showers! Read more »

“Some Sure-Fire Ways To Boost Arousal”

Background
A lot of guys here on Aneros complain about lack of arousal and consequently, poor sessions. I have been in that camp as well. I tried something different last night. Before retiring to bed, instead of putting-on a “chastity cup” I decided to put-on a regular jockstrap. So I put-on my new Duke swimmer’s jock along with a silky pair of boxers. The Duke jockstrap has a somewhat rough pouch (I don’t wear it anymore in the pool because of some irritation it causes) and it provides good stimulation of an erect penis within. It also has a longer pouch than others and supports my package very well.

I slept for about 8 hours with this combo and I remember dreaming quite vividly (but not erotically). The rough jock pouch provided more intense stimulation than a hard cup. I awoke with a nice erection and decided then to take-off the “regular” pouch and replace it with a hard cup. I selected the Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which now feels very comforting and secure.

Aftermath
Yes, I was very aroused and “ready” for a session this morning. I could easily have had one while wearing the hard cup and I knew which model I would use (Helix Trident). But I said “NO!” to myself! Why? I began to think about it and I believe I know the answer. Much the same way as when you are very horny and aroused with an aching erection, what do you want to do? Have sex? Masturbate and ejaculate? Edge? You can stimulate your cock, of course, and eventually ejaculate. But you can say NO! and withhold that pleasure for a while longer. I do that all the time now while in chastity. Read more »

Is Your Arousal “Switch” On or Off?

I was thinking about this this morning. I am currently in Day 4 of SR and wore my XO “chastity cup” to bed. I awoke about 2:30 AM with a hard, throbbing erection that I could feel right down to my prostate. I lay in bed, motionless for about 15 minutes or so. I honestly felt like I was on my way to an ejaculation! I had a “peeing” feeling down in my cock; feeling suspended in time close to the PONR. And all of these sensations got me thinking….

Male arousal is like a switch: it is either “on” or “off”. There is no middle-ground, no “gray area”. Why is that? Well, I think the answer is pretty obvious. Male arousal is designed for one purpose: ejaculation! That’s right, why else would the arousal occur?

As a refresher, the stages of sexual arousal in males are: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Ejaculation, Resolution
[Note that Orgasm and Ejaculation generally are not the same thing].

I believe I awoke in the “Plateau” stage and was close to the “Orgasm” stage since I felt like I was only a stroke or two away from ejaculating. But I did not ejaculate; I believe my wearing of a “chastity cup” prevented unnecessary stimulation of my penis and thus an ejaculation. After a time of strong arousal in bed, I began to “climb-down” the arousal mountain and my erection within the cup began to subside.

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Good sessions or just so-so, there’s always something to take away.

One of the many things that I have learned so far is that no two sessions ever seem to follow a similar pattern. Some might be intensely pleasurable while other times somehow it just doesn’t quite get there. Regardless, I have found that I will nearly always find something new to take away from the session. My last two sessions have been at both ends of the scale. The intensely pleasurable one came courtesy of my Eupho Trident a couple of nights ago. The Eupho has since become my favourite by far. Small it may well be but, it revealed a couple of new experiences to me. I have read that because of its design, a side to side movement can be felt, so I was on the lookout for that. But when it came, strangely, it felt to me that it was not the Eupho that was moving, more like I was moving bodily around the Eupho. Lying with my eyes closed I could have sworn that I was gliding from left to right on my buttocks, I had to concentrate hard to maintain that impression but it was very convincing. Another revelation came from the P tab. All of my other devices tend to sit with the tab just to one side of my perineum, I try to centre them but soon they have again drifted off to one side, I have never actually noticed any real stimulation from the P tab at all. So more from habit than anything else, during my Eupho session I aligned the tab on the ridge of my perineum never expecting what came next. It was as if someone had flicked on a switch. Within a few moments I became aware of what I can only describe as a surge of energy flowing right into my nuts and along the length of my now very enthusiastic penis. Just as I was coming to terms with this, the bar was raised again. I began to notice that my involuntary contractions were pulling the Aneros in and flexing the P tab which, in turn moved slightly downwards, pulling taut the skin on my scrotum and the base of my penis. It felt as if the Eupho was trying to masturbate me and work on my prostate at the same time. The sensations were exquisite to the point of being almost unbearable. I thought and hoped it might lead to my first HFWO but it was so hard to concentrate on all of the sensations at once as my attention went back and forth between prostate and penis. Eventually the session came to an end but I was left with some wonderful Aless that was humming away for almost 24 hours afterwards. In future sessions I am going to persevere with the alignment of the P tab now that I am aware of the possibilities. In contrast, last nights session with my Helix Syn never really got going. I’m not sure why, I think perhaps I was tired and should have postponed it until I was better rested. After 30 minutes or so I was about ready to abandon the session as I was feeling a little discomfort. It was then that I realised that I had been really clamping down on the Helix and maintaining the pressure for some reason, possibly trying too hard. Curiously I found it difficult persuade my anus to relax and ease the grip. As soon as I did manage to release it was immediately pulled back in again. This to and fro situation went on for a while until suddenly it became an automatic action, like rapid-fire. It only lasted for a few seconds before it all got out of sync, it happened once more before I called it a day. So, not the best session but, I have found something to work on now. I think I will dedicate a few minutes in every session to try and build up that response.

A “Triple-Header” !

Background
I have had sessions where I used two Aneros massagers back-to-back. But I believe this may be the first where I used three massagers in one day!

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First and Second Sessions
I had a “double-header” session early this morning (~3 AM) using the Eupho Classic followed-up by the Helix Trident. Both generated a lot of involuntary contractions and the Eupho achieved at least four dry-O’s and some nice “pumping” sensations. But I probably was not as aroused as I would have liked, so that is as far as this part of the session went.

Near the end of the Eupho session, I experienced quite a “calming” sensation in my prostate and knew that the session was over. But since I was still nicely lubed, I decided to go for the Helix Trident and see what developed. What I got from this “second” session were still more involuntary contractions but no O’s at all. I wasn’t even aroused for this part. But the HT did generate some new feelings, mostly due to the combination of the P- and K-tabs. The total time for these two sessions was about one hour. (These two sessions were good but my prostate felt like it was missing-out on something).

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This SGX Session “Sneaked” Up On Me!

I know, I know, I “cheated”. I am not schedule for an Aneros session until tomorrow night. But something was whispering to me early this morning…”treat myself to a session with the SGX. You won’t be disappointed!” So I obliged, not knowing what to expect. I certainly did not want a Super-O after my recent experience with the Helix Trident. But I lubed-up and began the ride. Now the SGX although it feels very good, usually does not do much for me in the way of stimulating a prostate orgasm. That all changed with this session. Let me explain…..
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No sooner did I get things going, that due to the thick ribbed stem of the SGX, I began to get immediate involuntary anal contractions (in and out) which felt almost like an anal orgasm was building-up. Soon after, I began to get hard, really hard. And in a short while, I distinctly felt my prostate being stroked and “edged” to an ejaculation! OMG! A HFWO? That is exactly what this felt like. I honestly felt primed and ready to ejaculate, ready to explode with cum.
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This feeling went on for quite a while and I remember falling-into a fantasy. I am lying with my lover and she is massaging my prostate with her lubed finger with the intention of making me ejaculate. I came so close! But as I neared the PONR, I felt a “pumping” sensation down to the tip of my cock and knew that it was prostate fluid being expelled, but not in an ejaculation. Around that time, my erection was starting to subside as well. I could regain some of the erection by performing some quick kegels (in and out) but by then the strong ejaculatory “feeling” had subsided. Although it still felt very good and arousing, I knew that that the PONR was now more distant and so I decided to end this amazing session. Yes, when I checked-in, it was not precum but a thin prostate fluid, and quite a bit of it.
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PS I am now in Day 16 of semen retention with absolutely no sign of blue-balls! Have I “beaten” my old nemesis? I would like to think so. I’m not exactly sure how I did it. Perhaps the periodic release of prostate fluid (especially through a wet dream) was the key. Will I now achieve another 21-Day Challenge? I am so close….

TheMaskedPornStar – 20 year old – Aneros Newcomer

Aneros session number 1; Friday 9th March 2018

Received my aneros package of a Helix Syn, and a Vice earlier in the week (Monday I think) but I had read that some guys vocalise involuntarily and didn’t want to embarrass myself and get caught, I didn’t see any alone time during the week until Saturday so I wasn’t planning to ride on Friday, I was just caught off guard by people leaving the house unexpectedly, saw my opportunity and used my Helix Syn for the first time.
I laid down on the floor, flat on my back. Knees bent to maybe 80°with my feet flat on the floor. I started doing kegels, very deliberately and actively contracting my PC muscles, instead of the relax and do nothing method, within ten minutes I had an incredible hands free wet orgasm, which I read is actually rare and very sought after, I will say, the only difference between it and a normal orgasm for me is very subtle. I did however ride the “just gone over the edge” pleasurable warmth that comes right before the inevitable throbbing and pulsing as I cum. It felt like several (maybe 5-10) seconds instead of the brief “oh fuck yeah” moment. The biggest difference was mentally, I really EXPERIENCED that wave of pleasure rather than just “felt” it. It was tangible. I almost felt like I was swimming in it. That and my arm wasn’t sore haha. Plus after I came, I guess habit took over and I thought my session was over. I had felt energised but I wasn’t horny, or at least I thought I wasn’t, I did get a raging hard on with a feeling of energy again that would not be sated, around 15 minutes after my HFWO, in combination with pleasurable “morning stretch”/butterflies sensations in my rectum (some have informed me that this may be P-Waves). So I decided to crack a wank out. Nothing special to report with the wank. Read more »

Male Chastity: “Roadblock to Frustration” or “Bridge to Tranquility?”

[Thanks to @Turnrow and @Harper for providing me the inspiration for this blog]

Male Chastity “Roadblock”
Self-imposed male chastity has been extremely sexually stimulating for me. Since I can’t masturbate or ejaculate while wearing a “chastity cup”, I am frequently awakened in the middle of the night with a powerful, raging erection. Then, I find myself squirming around on the bed for 20, 30 or more minutes, waiting for the erection to subside which it always does. Oh, how I wish, beg for an ejaculation at that time.

That period of time is very frustrating (obviously) for me. It is also very mentally challenging to remain in chastity, waiting at the roadblock, and not give-in to the frustration. Sometimes, I embark on an Aneros “journey” as well. But that can only increase the frustration due to prostate stimulation that does not result in an ejaculation (HFWO) either. And sometimes, I have to give-up and go-around the roadblock (“blue-balls” is to blame) and ejaculate. And that got me thinking…..is there another way to mentally “get through” this chastity “roadblock” in one piece and yet remain in chastity? I wondered and fell deeper into this meditation….

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I began to meditate on the difference between a “roadblock” and a “bridge”, and what I discovered was quite amazing. Let me explain…. Read more »

What Is a “Chastity Cup”?

I decided to do an expose’ on “chastity cups”. My elective use of these “cups” continues in my Aneros journey. Some readers may not be familiar with the term or the device. I find it useful to relate the information in a FAQ style….So here goes….

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What is a “chastity cup”?
A “chastity cup” is nothing more than a common piece of athletic protective gear for males. It is basically a specialized jockstrap into which a hard protective cup is added. The cup is usually made of a hard plastic. Most of them have air holes for ventilation. These are frequently used by baseball players and umpires. Also, hockey players and especially goalies will wear them. In a nutshell, they are used to protect the male genitalia from injury due to sporting activities or other tasks where injury could occur to that part of the male anatomy. They are designed generally to be as comfortable to wear as possible. Some brands fit better than others.
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How did I discover them?
I discovered “chastity cups” during my foray into the world of male bondage as an outcropping of semen retention (SR). I explored male “cock cages” and owned several different designs. My favorite is the CB-6000S which I wore (on and off) for a period of several months. I was the keyholder. The “cups” however were much easier to manage than the cages since all that has to be done is put them on and take them off. Read more »