Tag: HFWO

HFWO but disappointed

Hey all. Just wanted to share an experience from yesterday.

Been at this for about a year now and have had a few HFWO’s mainly from
Njoy. Recently I picked up a Helix Trident and wanted to take it for a test drive. I was very horny but went in 100% touch free from my dick. No porn or edging. Just the Trident and a warm bed.

For about an hour and a half I did the “do nothing” approach. Mainly laying flat knees bent but also face down ass up. This was truly meant as a trial run so no real expectations here. I felt a few small pleasurable moments here and there but nothing major. I was out of time so because I was quitting I said fuck it and put on porn….

Just watching porn for a minute instantly got some feelings going down there. It’s like it turned me on and the engine kicked over. About 5 minutes later I gave up and touched my dick but very very subtly. “I know I know!” Again this was research and not meant for a full run. I didn’t get hard, maybe 25% hard from touching for about 20 seconds, but my prostate had clearly been woken up. I then took my hand away. Read more »

To Vibe, Or Not To Vibe: Progasm Vs. Vice 2

I’m gearing up to purchase my first Aneros, and I’m really having trouble choosing between these two models. I was wondering if anyone in this group has both models and can help me make the best choice for my circumstances?

How do experienced Aneros users generally feel about vibrating and non vibrating models? Do you have a preference between the two, and why?

Ultimately, I’m interested in having super-orgasms regularly. I know I can achieve hands-free-wet orgasms by pressing on my prostate using a wand or a dildo for about 10-20 minutes. But I’ve never achieved a super-o, and I hear these take longer to build.

I think the power of the vibrations of the Vice 2 could produce HFWOs for me, but I wonder if that would ultimately get in the way of me having a slow build to a super-o, as after I have a HFWO I generally have no motivation to continue with the play session.

I have a bit of anxiety getting a non-vibrating model like the Progasm, as I worry that it will just sit inside of me and I won’t feel anything. I’m also worried that the tabs will be uncomfortable.

While the Vice 2 costs more, I think that if I decide the vibrations aren’t for me, I could just use it without the vibrations as it looks to be shaped similarly to the Progasm, and the tabs don’t look like they protrude as much or would be as uncomfortable. Read more »

33d Total Abstinence + Eupho Syn Trident/Progasm Jr. = This Post!

No superpowers, and I’m frankly glad it’s over. I feel like there’s a level of meme mysticism built around NNN due to habitual porn-watchers suddenly stopping. At least, I feel like quitting porn early got me through. Maybe I was supposed to do something specific during the challenge besides not nut idk.

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Endpoint was wednesday morning; I started the challenge early to avoid having to wait until midnight of the final day. I didn’t use any porn for these sessions. No weed either. I actually stopped consuming any weed half-way through NNN. No square-assed reason for that, just felt like stopping.

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11/30: Released from the challenge, I finally allowed myself to fixate on sexual fantasies, doing kegels when they’d manifest throughout the day. No orgasms, but quite a few p-waves. Eventually got old. Once afternoon hits, I cleaned, came out w/ towels, laid one down and started fingering. First orgasm after 1mo was a light-yet-deep, very pleasant dry-o from minutes of fingering. Obviously, it’s not the “grand entrance” others would work to after a nut-ban or whatever, but that’s how I wanted to start. 3 followed, each more intense than the last. Once I had enough of that, slid the eupho in, laid down on my back and relaxed.

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1st successful Dry O and thoughts

I wanted to share that I had my first successful dry orgasm!

For those starting out you really must be patient as it is a long journey. It is strongly suggested you read all the tips on this Reddit and continue to experiment to find out what works for you.

When I started I really did not understand or believe this “Rewiring” concept. However after all the progress I have made over the last year that is the most accurate way to describe the process.

Tonight’s success took me about 45mins of play before the magic happened. I can describe this orgasm as about 80% of a traditional orgasm but lasted for several minutes. With plenty of time to spare I took a quick break and got back to it.

It took me about another 15 minutes to start my second orgasm. This time it was more intense but after ~30 seconds it spilled over into an amazing HFWO.

I can’t wait until my next sessions as I know from reading there is even better things ahead!

Mini dry orgasms?

I’ve had more success that I wanted to share. Typical 3 days without ejaculating and 1 hour before the season I took a 10mg edible.

This time I did use porn as I was very horny. After about 30mins of really nice feelings I tried switching back to just some audio which took a bit of time but really brought on great feelings that had me think I was going to orgasm. After about 10mins of this I decided to take a break and get a drink of water.

This is when it got interesting. I went back to porn and this time I got myself into a sort of trance and brought on a strange type of orgasm. It felt really nice, like the warm glow you feel when a traditional orgasm starts. This time it just stayed and with each contraction came what I would described as micro orgasms..almost like “spikes” of pleasure which peaked and retracted with each relaxation.

Since I didn’t know what would come next I just tried to let it happen and not change anything. Unfortunately this faded after about 1minute.

I called this a win for the night and decided to end with a traditional orgasm which was amazing.

One thing I can share that i have learned is that there does not seem to be any short cuts or earth shattering advice that will get you to where you want to be. There is something to this “rewiring” term as I just continue to practice and my sessions get better and better with little surprises along the way. Read more »

Thoughts after first few session with Aneros.

Hello, I wrote a post on r/prostateplay describing my background. I want to preface by saying that even though I am excited and relieved I was able to have this HFWO, I had to break a couple of my rules to achieve it (weed and pornography), so it’s a little bittersweet.

I have been interested in prostate orgasms for a couple of weeks now. I’ve been struggling to quit masturbating to pornography and came across mindgasm as an alternative. I started practicing mindgasm in Earnest two weeks ago and started with a njoy wand about a week ago; I received my Helix Syn today. Over these two weeks, I have had some lovely sensations and generated precum, but not reached a full orgasm. I have been researching techniques and digesting the philosophy somewhat obsessively on the forums. Compared to the Njoy wand, the Aneros is much more subtle; it revealed that most of my time with the wand was spent hitting the bladder. With the Aneros, I found it hard to even notice at first. I like how it takes the guesswork out of the equation, and you just insert it and let it find the prostate on it’s own. I feel like I would have been poking around in the wrong places for a while with the njoy just to generate intense stimulation, that was almost painful. I’m so glad that is not necessary in this game. Read more »

Not quite sure what happened..hips rotating (21 male gay)

I have had my aneros (a Progasm) for a few months now, but kind of went off it as I found that when I used it my sessions wouldn’t really go anywhere. However, lately I decided to give it another try, as I had been craving the feeling of it inside me, the point of lying in bed at night and performing random voluntary contractions to remind me of the stimulation of it.

I lubed it up with Boy Butter and inserted it slowly, after teasing my hole with the end of it for a few minutes. Now in general, I would say that I had a good session, but there weren’t any dry orgasms or hfwo. There was a distinct moment where I was watching this gay porno, getting so turned on, that felt like I needed to contract really hard on it, and moving my hips in a circulator motion. There was excitement and definitely some precum, but it wasn’t amounting to anything concret like a dry orgasm or a super orgasm. My main goal is not actually to have a super orgasm, but dry orgasms. There’s a great porn hub video of a guy achieving 36 orgasms and moaning in ecstasy, while he is on all fours and in various different positions. I want the aneros to consume my hole and rewire my brain into craving a new form of sexual ecstasy. I stayed relaxed in the session and focused on thoughts of sex and the videos I was watching, as well as imagining the device inside me – that seemed to be quite a turn on. But I didn’t get anything concrete. I even touched my nipples. It was a good session but I’d love some advice as to how I could maybe have gone further. Also, as a rule, do you avoid taking it out and then putting it back in again? And, lastly, the position of knelling by the bed and arching my body over it appeared to work quite well but I was worried about the device falling out, and my head was not comfortable – I wasn’t sure where to put it essentially. Are there any tips for that position/people who do it that way?

Open to suggestions

I’m moderately experienced with on/off Aneros/Prostate play over the last few days. It’s mostly been an enjoyable experience with some very nice sessions but nothing out of this world like the experiences I read about so often on here. I’ve never had a Super O, HFO or HFWO. Just some small pockets of intense pleasure radiating from my prostate/ass that usually fizzle out before going to the next level.

Anyway, I’m sitting at my desk at work right now and my prostate is buzzing and fluttering. It feels really good and it’s a quiet day here so I’m wanting to go with it and try to build…see where it takes me. Any suggestions or tips for a-less pleasure sitting up in my chair?

I should add that I do have experience with Mindgasm, Binaural beats and Erotic hypnosis as part of my prostate awakening journey.

How long does your session last before HFWO?

For those who get HFWOs, how long is your session before you reach that point ? My sessions usually last about 1-1.5 hours, I feel like people have said that before they get HFWO they have dry orgasms. I’m wondering if I am not having long enough sessions to get to that point . Also if it did take a certain amount of time and then got shorter or longer , let me know

How to transition from wet to dry?

Can anyone give some advice one how to transition from having HFWO to dry?

I am finally at the point where It seems like I can reliably have a wet orgasm in less than an hour. (30mins is the fastest so far!)

What works for me is inserting the toy, put on porn and play with my nipples. As I start to get an erection the pleasure builds up and feels great. Once I have a full erection the feelings progress as i start to do some light contractions but eventually the feelings sort of die off. At this point I take a short break (1 or 2mins) to find a different video and repeat the cycle with each time feeling better than the last until a HFWO.

Will this ever get me to a dry O or should I start looking elsewhere?

And help or previous post for reference would be greatly appreciated