Tag: Involuntaries

Out of a relationship, into a new journey

I’ve been using an aneros since I turned 18. I’m turning 25 this year, and I think only now have I really understood my body and how it responds to the prostate and the aneros. I’ve used a good amount over the years but I had long stints of no anal play. I’ve had a ton of dud sessions but I’ve had a ton of amazing sessions where I learn so much about myself but also life kind of. I have never yet had a super o, but I feel like I have small dry wave like orgasms, but I feel like I am getting closer.

I’ve been in a relationship for nearly 4 years, but we broke up a couple months ago. Before that I was single for a year and in a 3 year long relationship before that. Way too long for a young person. I’m not going to go into details, but I think only just now have I been realizing that I need and WANT to be able to do what I want more often. I feel so free and able to do whatever I want. Especially since I don’t want kids. I have also come to the realization that I am bisexual. All of these things together have really put a hamper on my aneros use. For months I would jerk off like normal. I’ve always wanted my prostate and ass to be my only source of pleasure. Because I am single now, I feel like I can be me now and I can do what I want. Read more »

Good sessions or just so-so, there’s always something to take away.

One of the many things that I have learned so far is that no two sessions ever seem to follow a similar pattern. Some might be intensely pleasurable while other times somehow it just doesn’t quite get there. Regardless, I have found that I will nearly always find something new to take away from the session. My last two sessions have been at both ends of the scale. The intensely pleasurable one came courtesy of my Eupho Trident a couple of nights ago. The Eupho has since become my favourite by far. Small it may well be but, it revealed a couple of new experiences to me. I have read that because of its design, a side to side movement can be felt, so I was on the lookout for that. But when it came, strangely, it felt to me that it was not the Eupho that was moving, more like I was moving bodily around the Eupho. Lying with my eyes closed I could have sworn that I was gliding from left to right on my buttocks, I had to concentrate hard to maintain that impression but it was very convincing. Another revelation came from the P tab. All of my other devices tend to sit with the tab just to one side of my perineum, I try to centre them but soon they have again drifted off to one side, I have never actually noticed any real stimulation from the P tab at all. So more from habit than anything else, during my Eupho session I aligned the tab on the ridge of my perineum never expecting what came next. It was as if someone had flicked on a switch. Within a few moments I became aware of what I can only describe as a surge of energy flowing right into my nuts and along the length of my now very enthusiastic penis. Just as I was coming to terms with this, the bar was raised again. I began to notice that my involuntary contractions were pulling the Aneros in and flexing the P tab which, in turn moved slightly downwards, pulling taut the skin on my scrotum and the base of my penis. It felt as if the Eupho was trying to masturbate me and work on my prostate at the same time. The sensations were exquisite to the point of being almost unbearable. I thought and hoped it might lead to my first HFWO but it was so hard to concentrate on all of the sensations at once as my attention went back and forth between prostate and penis. Eventually the session came to an end but I was left with some wonderful Aless that was humming away for almost 24 hours afterwards. In future sessions I am going to persevere with the alignment of the P tab now that I am aware of the possibilities. In contrast, last nights session with my Helix Syn never really got going. I’m not sure why, I think perhaps I was tired and should have postponed it until I was better rested. After 30 minutes or so I was about ready to abandon the session as I was feeling a little discomfort. It was then that I realised that I had been really clamping down on the Helix and maintaining the pressure for some reason, possibly trying too hard. Curiously I found it difficult persuade my anus to relax and ease the grip. As soon as I did manage to release it was immediately pulled back in again. This to and fro situation went on for a while until suddenly it became an automatic action, like rapid-fire. It only lasted for a few seconds before it all got out of sync, it happened once more before I called it a day. So, not the best session but, I have found something to work on now. I think I will dedicate a few minutes in every session to try and build up that response.

Possible Discoveries or Stupid Theories

This would be 2 sessions after my first post. So in my first post I wrote about my Monday session, and the new sessions would be Wednesday, and today, Saturday. I’m gonna call them M, W and S sessions.
The W session was pretty mediocre. I realized the reason the M session was so good was because I had came back from a trip, and was so aroused. I tried to do pretty much the same thing, but the one thing I stumbled upon is that I haven’t really learned to build up the rectal contraptions (where you push out). I can build anal contraptions (where you push in) in a good way where I still feel pleasure when I go full power, but for rectal contraptions I kind of just introduce them on the fly.

For today, the S session, I was able to build the rectal contraptions a bit better. When I felt like I had built them pretty strongly I would go full power pushing in, then I would start pushing out as much as I can. When I do this, my breathing just gets screwed up. I know long breaths isn’t something you gotta keep doing for the whole session (as the WIKI also mentions hyperventilating, kinda), so I was like “fuck it, let’s just enjoy this”.
I got to the point where it was really wobbling in my ass and my “heartbeat” would be pretty strong, and I can feel the involuntary spasms going ham. By the way, this was a really long session, I kind of started to listen to ASMR in the middle of it because I wanted to get more aroused. Read more »

A “Triple-Header” !

Background
I have had sessions where I used two Aneros massagers back-to-back. But I believe this may be the first where I used three massagers in one day!

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First and Second Sessions
I had a “double-header” session early this morning (~3 AM) using the Eupho Classic followed-up by the Helix Trident. Both generated a lot of involuntary contractions and the Eupho achieved at least four dry-O’s and some nice “pumping” sensations. But I probably was not as aroused as I would have liked, so that is as far as this part of the session went.

Near the end of the Eupho session, I experienced quite a “calming” sensation in my prostate and knew that the session was over. But since I was still nicely lubed, I decided to go for the Helix Trident and see what developed. What I got from this “second” session were still more involuntary contractions but no O’s at all. I wasn’t even aroused for this part. But the HT did generate some new feelings, mostly due to the combination of the P- and K-tabs. The total time for these two sessions was about one hour. (These two sessions were good but my prostate felt like it was missing-out on something).

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Beginning Anew – Day 1: First Impressions and Take Aways

So this initial 24 hours has been quite interesting. My first night with my chastity cup I can honestly say I didn’t get the best sleep. I woke up just about every hour, but I’m sure with time this will change as I get accustomed to wearing it. I was out of the house for work today so most of the day I didn’t wear it. For now I will only wear it around the house, and for any time I’m at the house. For instance, I had about a one hour window today at home between returning from my sales meetings, and for when I was scheduled for my fitness class at the gym. My initial thoughts were “Well it’s only 1 hour.” But I decided that if this is something that I’m serious in pursuing that I must adhere to my own rules.

Also, I did decided to have an Aneros session this evening as a way to officially begin the rediscovery period. Initially I was considering not wearing my chastity cup during my sessions. My main reason for this is typically I get and maintain an erection for the entirety of my sessions, and I was concerned about irritation and discomfort from a certain part attempting to break out of it’s confines. After a quick consultation with @goldenboy I was reassured that wouldn’t necessarily be the case. So for the session I decided I would leave the chastity cup in place and see where things went. I was glad that I took this path, because let’s be honest if there was any discomfort I could just end the session. I was actually quite surprised how comfortable things were during my session. As a whole I would rate the session as right around average, which is typical for any sessions I’ve had in the past that followed a traditional orgasm from the day prior. Now if this were just a couple days ago I would have finished this session with a traditional orgasm, because it didn’t reach heights I would have deemed acceptable to warrant just stopping. Read more »

Rediscovering “Active Aless”

Background:
Most of the time, my Aless is “passive”. Usually, I feel it following a nice Aneros session and it continues for a while, depending on the massager I selected. My involvement is only as a outside observer. This morning, however, I am not “scheduled” for a session until tomorrow morning. I am in bed, just chilling when I began to get a nice prostate “nudge” which caused me to do some very slight PC contractions. Was I amazed at the result!

Technique:
Here I am, lying in bed on my right side, just like in a regular Aneros session. I sense a strong sensation from my prostate and encourage more. Before long, I am deeply breathing, and have some prostate orgasms which caused a tingle up my spine. My cock started to get erect and I developed some involuntary PC or anal contractions as well. My focus really was on my prostate and how it was feeling. It felt just like a “regular” Aneros session, sans the Aneros! Amazing feelings! I stopped after about 20 minutes but could have continued longer.

Conclusion:
I will categorize this as an “Active Aless” session (versus “Passive Aless”). The takeaway for me is that I do not need to insert an Aneros massager to experience the erotic pleasures of a prostate massage. All that is needed is my body and a willingness to experience prostate orgasms. The rest will happen by itself! IMHO, the mindset has to be “right” to experience the full ecstatic pleasures of “active Aless”. Read more »

This SGX Session “Sneaked” Up On Me!

I know, I know, I “cheated”. I am not schedule for an Aneros session until tomorrow night. But something was whispering to me early this morning…”treat myself to a session with the SGX. You won’t be disappointed!” So I obliged, not knowing what to expect. I certainly did not want a Super-O after my recent experience with the Helix Trident. But I lubed-up and began the ride. Now the SGX although it feels very good, usually does not do much for me in the way of stimulating a prostate orgasm. That all changed with this session. Let me explain…..
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No sooner did I get things going, that due to the thick ribbed stem of the SGX, I began to get immediate involuntary anal contractions (in and out) which felt almost like an anal orgasm was building-up. Soon after, I began to get hard, really hard. And in a short while, I distinctly felt my prostate being stroked and “edged” to an ejaculation! OMG! A HFWO? That is exactly what this felt like. I honestly felt primed and ready to ejaculate, ready to explode with cum.
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This feeling went on for quite a while and I remember falling-into a fantasy. I am lying with my lover and she is massaging my prostate with her lubed finger with the intention of making me ejaculate. I came so close! But as I neared the PONR, I felt a “pumping” sensation down to the tip of my cock and knew that it was prostate fluid being expelled, but not in an ejaculation. Around that time, my erection was starting to subside as well. I could regain some of the erection by performing some quick kegels (in and out) but by then the strong ejaculatory “feeling” had subsided. Although it still felt very good and arousing, I knew that that the PONR was now more distant and so I decided to end this amazing session. Yes, when I checked-in, it was not precum but a thin prostate fluid, and quite a bit of it.
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PS I am now in Day 16 of semen retention with absolutely no sign of blue-balls! Have I “beaten” my old nemesis? I would like to think so. I’m not exactly sure how I did it. Perhaps the periodic release of prostate fluid (especially through a wet dream) was the key. Will I now achieve another 21-Day Challenge? I am so close….

Rising Pleasure

Tenhorn
Hello Aneros Bloggers. I am a divorced middle aged guy who acquired a Helix Syn about 5 weeks ago. I am certainly a newbie but am not completely devoid of previous experience with anal play. Even before I was married I had read that stimulation of the prostate could increase the intensity of a regular penile orgasm and had used a finger on my prostate a few times when I was particularly horny.

After I became separated and then divorced about 10 years ago , with newly acquired freedom ( and privacy) I purchased a little flexible anal vibrator at a sex shop that was about 5 inches long and the diameter of my index finger which I used maybe 5 or 6 times. I threw it out before I picked my daughters up for a visit because I didn’t want them to accidentally find it. I had found my youngest rummaging through drawers looking for a marker and it occurred to me that one of them might come across my little toy and prompt a very embarrassing conversation I didn’t want to have with them. That was several years ago.

I have had the Helix Syn since about Feb 10th and have used it approximately a dozen times. I wanted to share my experiences in hopes of possibly helping other newbies. I read the Aneros Wiki and quite a bit of the writings on the Forum and the blog and have found much of the information to be helpful. I want to thank especially Brian Mayfield, Rumel, Darwin, and Goldenboy, for sharing your experience and knowledge. Read more »

This Helix Trident Session Was A Dud! I “Broke” A Couple Of Rules

Well! In my eagerness to have another session with the Helix Trident (the house was empty for about 2 hours this afternoon) I violated my “cardinal” rule for Aneros sessions: Be Aroused! I had worn my Bike “chastity cup” for about an hour beforehand while doing some yard work outside. But when I came in, I still had a very flaccid cock. I wanted to do another session with the Trident and see what it could accomplish. So I started the session still wearing the “cup” but nothing else. After about 10 minutes, although I did have some nice involuntary movements from the Trident, I was not feeling anything in my prostate. It felt “dead to the world!” I even took off the “cup” and buck-naked, attempted several different positions on the bed, hoping for some arousal and some prostate orgasms. I got none. About the only thing I got out of this session was just a fraction of a drop of precum!

Morale: The best Aneros sessions start out with an honest arousal!

PS I think I broke another “implied rule”: If most of your sessions are in the evening, then don’t do a session during the day and vice-versa. Virtually 100% of my sessions now are in the late evening/early morning hours while I am more greatly aroused. I should have learned my lesson by now. Touche’

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Newbie confused with the muscle spasms

I just got the Helix Trident, and have been using it for a few days. From my (limited) understanding, the relaxation of the muscles is what is supposed to build up to the super-o. And during the build-up, the muscles are supposed to involuntarily move. I had a recent session where I did have involuntary muscle spasms, but they were due to/during the contraction of my PC muscles. I think the muscles were too tired and my body started shaking all over. Is this normal?