Tag: Involuntaries

The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?

Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.

It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.

And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.

My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.

During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.

It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.

How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?

“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”

I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.

After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique! Read more »

Small Steps

So I’ve been reading this Reddit for a while. Finding it reignited my interest in my aneros (which is a classic). I purchased it about 6 years ago, but never used it much.

I started again using it right around Christmas last year and have used it about every couple weeks. The first 3 times I’ve used it, i didn’t experienced much. I would hold a mild contraction to initiate the desired involuntary spasms, which would feel great, but that would subside very quickly. The second time I used it I layed on my left side (right leg folded up) and just layed there holding a small contraction. After about 20 min or so several small waves pulsed through my abdomen and my hips had a gentle shake. The 3rd time was kind of a dud and not much happened other than getting some involuntary contractions.

Today was a pretty productive session. I started on my left side and had some pretty pleasurable sensations with a gentle hold. After about 30 min I turned to my back with a pillow under my hips. And just held a mild contraction (on a scale of 1-10, probably a 5) for a few min then let it go and return, etc. after about 20 min I felt a warm sensation build in my lower abdomen. My hips started a gentle shake. After a couple min of this I could feel a very pleasurable sensation where the aneros was hitting (I assume my prostate). I concentrated on this area and kept telling myself to relax. Then all of the suddden the involuntaries hit hard and contracted could feel the aneros hitting my prostate hard. I had no control. It felt incredible. This went on for a couple min then subsided. This repeated itself again. I probably had 3 experiences like this in an hour period. I know this wasn’t a superO, but definitely my most productive session. Read more »

Reoccurring problem

I first picked up an Aneros (SGX) quite a few years back. Prior to it I had only vaguely experimented with anal masturbation (fingers). It took a few sessions, but I soon began to easily find pleasant sensations. After a while I also started occasionally using a buttplug, then after a year or so I picked up a Helix (I think these were relatively new at the time). I have found there to be little personal difference between using the SGX and the Helix and tend to use whichever I happen to grab.

I admit, I do not use them super-regularly (not weekly, at least), but I always have the same problem with the Aneros. I lube up, insert and very quickly find pleasant sensations. After a few minutes of contractions, the prostate ‘heats up’ (best way I can explain the sensation, which is very pleasant). This lasts for several minutes (perhaps 5-7) before I suddenly lose all sensation of the prostate. No matter how much longer I try, or what I try, I no longer feel a thing. I have had exactly the same effect with every position I try (some positions are more pleasant while things last, so I stick with them).

At this point, I usually give up and return to penile masturbation, with the Aneros inserted, and always have a better-than-average orgasm. When I orgasm, I am very conscious of the involuntary spasms causing the Aneros to massage the prostate (and feel the Aneros on the prostate!), so obviously everything is working from a mechanical perspective. Read more »

The Keys to the Backdoor

There are a lot of different approaches to mastering the aneros and no one path is more valid than another. The below is taken directly from the aneros wiki. I wanted to bring attention to this summary because I think that these are the basics. It is a great starting place, especially with so much material out there to digest. I think it can be argued that this simplification has common threads that will enhance any technique or approach you might take. In truth it takes a fair amount of self exploration to find what works for you. Just remember to enjoy yourself and have fun and you can do no wrong. Try your best not to get caught up in frustration and be happy wherever the session takes you.

*The Keys to the backdoor*

There is no master key to the Super O. There are a series of keys to get you to and through the final Super O doorway. Your journey will be a process of exploration and discovery; these keys will be your guides.

**Clean the slate.**

Put out of your mind all of the thought processes by which you achieve a traditional penile orgasm.

Open yourself up to different forms of sensations that do not involve any direct penis stimulation whatsoever.

Remove the burden of expectation that plagues many men and leads to frustration.

Understand that one never forces this to happen, but encourages it by generating certain stimuli and responding to them naturally. Read more »

Progasm has solved a sexual drought

So I recently was put on anti depressants which seriously hit my sex drive. My orgasms became hard to achieve, taking a long time to get there, and were barely orgasms.

Yesterday I decided to get a Progasm. I had a Helix Syn that I threw away before I went backpacking, not wanting to carry that around or leave it with my stuff at a friends. Never achieved the super O, and tended to use it just as a masturbation aid. So I thought, I can handle the Progasm.

Got it sent overnight and woke up early to make sure I signed for the package and not one of the housemates. Around 10:30 it came, I prepped and by 11am it was working its way in. It took 15 minutes and several trips to the bathroom before i could comfortably get it in. At this point I was thinking ‘You idiot, you got one too big’. I hadnt used one in about 18 months and even then it wasnt that big. But eventually I got it in and started to enjoy the feeling.

I always progressed through the milestones until about two thirds the way down and platued there with the Helix. Not having the patience to try and work on progressing today I decided to just use it once more as an aid. So I enjoyed it by itself for about 15 minutes and then started to stroke away with some nice new lube. Read more »

Something just happened!

Lying on my back, pillow under my hips. Knees bent quite high. Started getting some involuntaries for the first time. Followed by a gut crunching tremble I had no control over. I thought to myself “this is it, it’s happening!”

But it peaked and I’m pretty sure I didn’t have the illusive super O.

Session was highly enjoyable though and really intense.

“Virtual Aneros Is Aless Ecstasy”

Who would have thought I could have a stimulating Aneros session without an Aneros prostate massager? But that is exactly what happened this morning. I relocate from bed to sofa with a nice musical track: “Chill House Erotic Buddha Lounge By the Beach – Zen, Relax & Meditation Mix”. Now realize that I decided to be put-into masturbation denial this morning by my “junior” cup. So essentially my penis, scrotum, perineum all were “off-limits” to any form of manual manipulation. I was flaccid as a wet noodle. I am getting-into the relaxation mode when I begin to kegel, very lightly in sync with the bass of the track. Before too long, I am feeling a slight quiver in my prostate and thus began an amazing Aneros (actually Aless) “session” for about the next two hours! I honestly lost all track of time for when I finished, I realized that the next track already was playing. It is now 6 AM and I am ready for the morning!

PS I experienced all the pleasures of my “regular” Aneros sessions, including involuntary kegels (and reverse kegels), arm-tingling, whole-body convulsions (but not quite at the Super-O level) and a distinct feeling of an anal fuck. I remember re-positioning myself several times during this session, including both sides, my stomach and back. Wow! Such intense pleasure from……nothing! Just your basic Aneros “re-wired” prostate. Amazing!

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12/9

I’m really liking this Progasm Classic. Got to sleep in a bit since I didn’t work and school was on a snow delay. Did my normal morning routine although I did spend a little time edging the little guy. I’m amazed at the control I had, it was weird. I’ve never thought of or even considered edging, I’ve always hammered to completion. We’ll see what happens, I’m curious to see the results after reading about others experiences. PC went in nice and easy, my butt must be getting used to it. Such a great feeling. It doesn’t take long to start getting that buzzing feeling in my loins. I must be able to get really relaxed and in tune quickly. I guess I’m gifted in that sense. I’m able to experience some p-waves within 5 minutes and then I’m able to trigger some involuntaries followed by some dry orgasms. Damn that shit is addicting. I’m making too much damn noise on the bed so I throw some pillows off the bed and move to the floor. I put a couple of pillows under stomach and lay face down with my butt in the air and start some light PC contractions. It’s not long before my ass is gyrating, my prostate starts throbbing and PC starts autof*cking me. I’m getting hammered but it feels so damn good. I lose track of time, I don’t know how long this goes on for. I finally roll over once the feelings subside to catch my breath. I have a sitting chair in my room so I move over to it and rest my feet on it so my legs are bent at a 90 degree angle and my butt is against the chair. I rest there for a few minutes and start another round of PC contractions to see if I can trigger another round of autof*cking. Yup, no problem although this time I’m bouncing off the floor and it is hitting my prostate hard and good. Holy shit it’s good. Once again I lose track of time, when it’s finally over I’m able to relax and catch my breath. This is fricken great. I’m writing this almost 10 hours after I finished, I’m tired and my muscles ache like after a good gym workout. Read more »

Torn between two dominas (Part I – Shibby)

Late this (last sunday) morning at the end of a session that drenched me into sweat my semen retention day counter was reset to zero. It was an Aless session, though. In addition it remained somehow Pless (prostate not taking an active part). I would call it a Mindgasm or a Hypnogasm, but let us start from the beginning.

Blame it to @goldenboy, sorry, buddy, that is not meant as a complaint, I am rewired to binaurals and especially erotic hypno(sis) since about a week now. Devoured by curiosity about binaurals he, @goldenboy, had written about I have fallen into Shibby’s trap. Shortly having experienced the best sex ever by giving up control and letting my prostate allied by Aneros’ tools Eupho/Helix Syn take over command I unhesitatingly allowed Shibby to give me orders, too. Torn between two dominas.

“Shibbysays*” and I must obey. (*You can find her files easily on Y*uT*be but don’t dare before you have finished reading this post carefully.)
Meanwhile I already have listened to all but two of her files and by now I am not only completely hooked on her seductive voice but furthermore I almost entirely have SURRENDERed to her will.
(Sh*t, sorry, just experienced a chairgasm only by typing this word, becoming aware how deeply Shibby has seeded “SURRENDER” (Uh, 2nd CG) as a trigger word into my subconscious mind. Getting another cup of coffee from the machine in the kitchen I just have probed the effect again.
Using my inner voice to give myself the sharp command „SURRENDER!” all of a sudden I was struck by some p-waves and even more very heavy involuntaries I was absolutely unable to suppress.) Read more »