Hi Everyone,
Again, the blog won't let me edit the date to 3am so it is showing 3pm.
Another Marathon Sesson into the wee hours of the morning. Focused on breathing. Tried a few different positions. For contractions, I spent a lot of time doing different reps of 20. The Forums and B Mayfield 's advice led me to focus on antagonist muscle contractions and bearing down. This feels really damn important. Like rhythmic breathing, which I have not come close to mastering – I sound like I am going to sneeze or something – I am not going to focus on this as a beginner. Just deep belly breathing, synchronizing contractions with breathing, and learning to bear down. Getting used to letting my belly full of air and a little push threatening to eject the Aneros device while I do my damnedest to hold it in. I expect a lot of this will be second nature after awhile. Right now, I feel like I am trying to master 12 different martial arts at the same time and that is a recipe for failure.
One cool take away was the realization that lube is critical for me. As weird as this sounds, I followed the advice of the how to push the device to the side and hold it in as you pass gas. I did this and a little lube shot out. Gross, I know but it actually lubed the cavity much better. I always use 3-4mL of lube injected via a little plastic syringe but this was different. Suddenly the Classic was shooting in and out of my ass smoothly. I had to fight to keep it in which meant more work for the muscles.
For some reason, I cannot cause an involuntary contraction to save my life. Every technique that worked in the past was a failure. I have a chair in my living room and I decided to lean over it on my knees. I rest my upper chest on the chair and my belly is free to expand over the edge as I breathe. It makes belly breathing really natural and every breath threatens to eject the Classic so I am making voluntary contractions to bump it against my prostate. I get a large, throbbing erection. I grab my laptop and focus on a little porn as I decide to have another sort-of hands-free orgasm. Tucking the scrotum between my legs while still on my knees, I voluntarily contract against my deep breathes as I lean over the chair and hump the air. I am rewarded with a nice orgasm to finish the evening.
Back to reading the Forums. Yup. Before every session I read the Forums and learn something new.
Tag: Involuntaries
Finally another mini-O!
So finally I achieved another non-ejaculatory orgasm via Aneros prostate massage today. Yes! I believe it was a mini-O, as the duration didn't seem that long. But the sensation? Oh wow… almost speechless it was so good feeling! This certainly helps me believe all that more that I'm capable of eventually achieving super-O's. Even if I am a long term grinder at this.
So this is probably I think my third mini-O and the only type of non-ejaculatory orgasm I've gotten through this Aneros practice so far. And it's been years since the last one happened. Patience is a virtue, eh? There was absolutely no penile stimulation. I was lying on my back with knees up and using the Progasm Classic while rubbing my nipples.
The last couple of days I've been super horny, and the Aneros sessions have been down right fantastic even before this latest mini-O. So I shouldn't be totally surprised this happened. Basically what I've been trying to work on lately in my sessions is to learn to relax even more when the pleasure gets intense and the involuntary anal contractions really start kicking in. And this has worked big time! Because it seems prior to this that my instinct was to clench and voluntarily contract when the pleasure gets intense. Which goes contradictory to making this happen. What I found was that once I take enough deep breathes, it causes my anus to relax even more, and the involuntary anal contractions really start up consistently and strong, in a way that is very uniquely noticeable such that I have an idea that I'm on the right track. So as this started happening and it was getting intense, I just relaxed more into it, and did not interfere with the contractions.
Last Night
So last night was so much fun. Close your eyes guys as I take you back on a eventful session. I was home alone and my prostate wanted to come out and play. I am able to have orgasms so frequent now so what I have been doing is having a Helix week then have a aneros-less week. So this has been my aneros-less week. I got on the website to enter the chat and it was very crowded with guys ready to learn and ride. One guy in particular Chuck was in the chat and sending his energies to everyone.
Let me give you a little info on Chuck. has been with the company and product for years. He helps a lot of the newbies like myself out on our journey. He is very helpful and so many ways. *nasty thought just popped in my head* Ok I'm back. He just is a nice helping hand when ever your stumped in your journey. Our energies have connected so many times and last night wasn't even different.
We chat on skype when we can. He was a little occupied at the time but still want to send me energy so I can feel good. I got on cam and gave a nice show. So nice to the point were he couldn't resist and had to join. But me I was in a frenzy. Involuntaries rapidly going through my body, having full body orgasms, rewiring like crazy and moaning and panting like a dog in heat. Even though I couldn't hear him i still felt his energy flow through my body. We only chatted for a little bit but it just felt amazing.
Progasm is great!
So last night was my second Aneros session after taking some time off from it due to some health problems. So I've been probably close to a month or more away from any play with these toys.
But last night was amazing! Still no super-O, but wow! The pleasure is really something else. And several times I felt something building, my arousal increasing, and my prostate swelling. I just relaxed into it and it felt great! No orgasmic sensations as far as I could tell. But it was still amazing! The involuntary anal contractions were quite strong and regular and it just felt so good in my anus and on my prostate.
It's interesting that besides the further relaxing into it that has been helpful for me. What I've also found interesting is how much focus and concentration on the sensations and general area seems to be necessary and helps with increasing the sensations and arousal. But it's tiring. Several times my mind would wander. And I'd have to reel it in and start the process over. But what fun!
In addition, I had this sensation that I've had before a few times of my anus, prostate and the Aneros being like the center of my being. Like my consciousness and all physical sensation is in that general area. It's really wild feeling, and oddly somehow very arousing and sexually freeing. Good stuff!
The Before Times till The Now: The Sleeper Has Awakened
Just realized I had gotten my membership to the forums the other day and I figured it was time to start this blog detailing my journey up till now.
Must have missed the verification message when it came months ago, but no matter, I've been doing fine on my own.
However, on the 4th of July, after the fireworks, I had some interesting things happen that I believe have really redefined what this amazing little device is capable of, to me.
Therefore, this time is as good as ever to start this, not only to keep a record for myself, but to help others who may need some insight. Let's start with a little history…
Way back in March 2012, I broke down and bought an MGX model Aneros and a six-pack of Marksman lube. This was only the second time I'd bought a sex-toy )although it is obviously more than that( the first being a Fleshlight.
I had been fascinated by anal play for a while, although most of my attempts hadn't gone over very well… Fingers didn't reach far enough without holding an uncomfortable position and even then all I could feel was pressure against the back of my dick, nothing pleasurable really.
I first learned of the Aneros, oddly enough, though reading Japanese Hentai. After finding out that it was a real thing I found the wiki and this forum, as well as a few videos.
After a few days of reading up on it, I made the decision to buy one. Next paycheck, I made the purchase. This was before the Syn models came out and just after the Vice, but after some research I settled on the MGX: classic, average, good for beginners.
Test Drive
I ended up having to postpone my inner exploration until late Sat. night, but I was still looking forward to it because after the afternoon mowing episode I was still very aroused, and anxious to try something new. One of the things I had read that was important, was relaxation, so I took a nice hot shower to loosen up my tired muscles. Figured maybe I wouldn't need too many things to get started, so I grabbed a couple of bath towels for coverage and a wet wipe for whatever. I'd remembered the tips for establishing a reservoir of lube, and all I could come up with on short notice was a cheap plastic medicine-dropper type with a bulb on the end. Not ideal, but I was going to give it a go with some diluted Astroglide gel I had around. I also had some of the regular gel left to lube the peridise and my anus. Thankfully, the dropper worked well enough and I got between 1ml and 2ml inside.
Lawnmower Man
So, I was impressed right away with the aneros packaging, kinda of gave me the feeling this was something more than a cheap plastic toy. The actual box the set comes in is ideal for keeping the toys together when not in use. I was thinking at first I'd just be trashing the packaging, but the box is nice enough that I believe I'll keep it. The peridise themselves had a lot more heft than I had imagined too. Not sure about the construction, but they seem to have something heavier than plastic inside. enough weight to leave a knot if you rapped someone on the head with the larger ones. Pretty heavy for a four-inch piece of plastic. I found the toy's surface texture to be very smooth, not really slick and glassy, barely perceptible texture. Only thing I found issue with was with what I think would be the beginner set )22cm + 18cm(. I found sharp )to the rectum( seam ridges on both sides of both of those sizes in different spots. I won't be using either until I do some work with a piece of fine wet-sandpaper or something else to get them perfectly smooth. But the advanced set )20cm + 16cm( I found were almost blemish-free, so I was still pretty pleased with my purchase.
First anniversary with the Aneros, 6/3/13 )A work in progress(
Hi guys,
Monday yesterday morning I observed my first anniversary of working with the Aneros. But before that event, in September or October 2011 some guys on BateWorld, a social website for guys into masturbation, introduced me to the Aneros. They were devoted Aneros users and saw how it enhanced both their prostate health and their sexual wellbeing. They encouraged me to buy my first models. So in late December, after seeing some hot Aneros videos on Xtube, I purchased the MGX, Helix Classic, and Progasm Classic models. However they looked so formidable, even menacing. How could I insert them, especially the HUGE Progasm, into my anus?!?! Thus they sat unused for many months.
Then in late March 2012, Aneros.com began marketing the Helix Syn model which has a soft silicone overlay. I was one of the very first customers to order one in early April, a few weeks later. But still it laid unopened and unused in its box for about three months.
Finally, I summoned enough courage to use the Helix Syn for the first time a year ago, early Sunday evening, June 3, 2012. I was amazed at how easily it inserted. Three weeks later I began experiencing my first P-waves and involuntaries. A few weeks later last July, I began experiencing my first walkinggasms, chairgasms, and bedgasms as my prostate began to waken up. During these weeks as I began to participate in the discussions on the Aneros Forum, I purchased the Maximus and Progasm Ice models, some weeks later the Eupho Classic.
Aneros Resonance and Harmonics, Session for April 11, 2013
Hi guys,
Earlier this week I had to get my act together and meet with my tax preparer to submit my taxes before the April 15 tax deadline next Monday. As a new "retiree," unfortunately this year I was hit with a sizable tax bill. Fortunately I was able to fill out a IRS form for an extension. So the deadline has been postponed to October 1, 2013, time enough for me to make arrangements to pay my tax bill.
Hence, my mind was far away from Anerosing for a good five days. There is a time-honored saying about absent lovers, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." That same could apply to guys into Anerosing. A guy like me who has an awakened prostate and enjoys a regular schedule of Aneros sessions craves the Aneros when circumstances takes him away from his "love" object. So when yesterday morning rolled around, after an absence of a good five days, I was really horny for the guys on my Aneros Team.
I have gotten to the point that I prefer my larger Maximus and Progasm models to my smaller Helix models. When I began Anerosing early last June, it took just three weeks for my prostate to awake. This happened during the beginning of another infamously hot and humid summer here in Washington, DC. It happened on an early Sunday morning with P-waves emanating from my prostate and spasms of involuntaries.
A very sensual session… feel like I made love to myself?!
This was a very short session. I knew I would only have an hour and a half max, but I was yearning for a session so I went ahead and had one anyway. I've been extremely aroused for the past few days so I felt like I needed it.
I relaxed very quickly, quicker than usual. I had lots of small involuntary contractions all over my body, every contraction felt very nice. I started listening to Kelly Howell's 'Ecstasy' to help me keep focus and relaxation, which really helped.
I began to get very pleasurable feelings in my anus around 5 minutes in. My prostate swelled and I could feel my PC muscles twitching and dancing. I relaxed myself further and just enjoyed what was happening to me. I became so relaxed that I arrived at that 'special' place between sleep and consciousness and I began to fantasise, not intentionally though. I feel like my body brought out these little fantasies to help me with my session.
I imagined that there were calm waters inside me, I could see them inside myself. As my prostate pushed pleasure through me the water began to ripple and wave in sync with these pleasure waves. The water began to ripple more and more as I felt increasing pleasure through my body. This vision of water made me more aroused as I could feel exactly where the pleasure was, but it was also keeping me relaxed and tranquil. It was beautiful.