Tag: Involuntaries

Jackpot!!! 11-19-2022 a day I’ll always remember.

I hit the jackpot around 3am this morning sorta by accident, here’s how the day went and why 3am…

Yesterday I had to drive around 11hrs across 3 states for a job I’m trying to get. I planned on leaving first thing in the morning, but couldn’t, a fwb I’ve had for a while lives a couple hrs away so we don’t get to see each other often, running way behind than what I anticipated, of course I made the irresponsible choice of seeing her which delayed me even further. Exhausted, I didn’t arrive and check in into a hotel until almost 3am. I was unsure on either having a quick session because I had to get some sleep since I had to be up by 6am. Not that I was chasing anything, but being brand new to it, I want to get my booty trained and comfortable for future sessions by being consistent with it.

One of the things I have quickly learned while playing is that laying on my back, laying sideways, sitting on it does nothing for me, I’m thankful for reading previous posts of people emphasizing on finding your spot being important. My true calling is probably the least I’d want if I could choose lol I could never have a session with a woman present no matter how much reassurance she gave me. I’m on my hands and knees, toy is inserted vibration is turned on and I then lay on my stomach while having a pillow or two under my stomach around the belly button area. That elevates my booty ever so slightly and that’s exactly the spot that gets me going. Within a minute or two, I’m having involuntary shakes and slowly what it seems to be by itself, my body starts to position itself where I’m on my elbows back arched and my booty is made out of metal and the ceiling above is a magnet. Read more »

Giving into or suppressing leg quivers?

I’m making some good progress in my sessions with my Helix Trident. The position I’ve been using lately is laying on my back, pillow under butt, with knees bent, and feet flat on my bed.

I start to get really relaxed, not really using PC muscles, and just letting the Aneros do it’s thing. At this point my legs will start to have bouts of involuntary quivering for a few seconds. The length of the quivering increases and ramps up in intensity.

Should I be trying to suppress these quivers and try to keep my whole body relaxed? Or should I just give in and let my legs shake wildly in this knees bent position?

I’ve left my legs flat out on my bed before and don’t quiver nearly as much, but I think knees bent lets the Aneros hit my prostate better.

Thoughts after first few session with Aneros.

Hello, I wrote a post on r/prostateplay describing my background. I want to preface by saying that even though I am excited and relieved I was able to have this HFWO, I had to break a couple of my rules to achieve it (weed and pornography), so it’s a little bittersweet.

I have been interested in prostate orgasms for a couple of weeks now. I’ve been struggling to quit masturbating to pornography and came across mindgasm as an alternative. I started practicing mindgasm in Earnest two weeks ago and started with a njoy wand about a week ago; I received my Helix Syn today. Over these two weeks, I have had some lovely sensations and generated precum, but not reached a full orgasm. I have been researching techniques and digesting the philosophy somewhat obsessively on the forums. Compared to the Njoy wand, the Aneros is much more subtle; it revealed that most of my time with the wand was spent hitting the bladder. With the Aneros, I found it hard to even notice at first. I like how it takes the guesswork out of the equation, and you just insert it and let it find the prostate on it’s own. I feel like I would have been poking around in the wrong places for a while with the njoy just to generate intense stimulation, that was almost painful. I’m so glad that is not necessary in this game. Read more »

Few questions

Hey been using aneros again after a few years(stopped as had no feelings), trying again with a progasm and with a different mindset.
I have found that using it in the bath in silence with my head under the water has given hopefully some results.
After ten mins or so of totally relaxing I start to clench both muscles starting softly until after another ten mins I’m clenching as hard as I can and start to feel my heart beat strongly and it moves down to either my prostate or close by, is this a sign I’m on the right track?
Also when people talk about involuntaries does yhat mean the muscles are clenching on their own or what I’m finding that when I’m holding a contraction it’s pulsing?
Any help or advise would be amazing !!!
Thanks

Involuntary contractions

Hey guys, I have been an Aneros user for at least 5 years, I have great stimulation and some near orgasam Moment but never anything On the same scale that gets mentioned here, I have been using mindgasam and doing the contractions though it never brings involuntary movements or contractions, as I think this is key, are my muscles too weak although I do use my kegal muscle, I feel it tenses me up too much and I get more pleasure doing nothing and relaxing. I want to try something new and start experience different sensations as I feel like I am at a dead end with my current method. Any tips will be greatly appreciated ?

Close to orgasm?

I think I get right on the edge of have a P-gasm but it never happens. Usually, I lay on my side with my feet resting on the bed not on each other. I have my head relaxed facing my laptop watching porn. The best way is light and slow contractions for me. I start to feel sensitive, and it feels so good just relaxing there. I am usually semi hard. I am leaking precum at this point. Then get a super hard erection and starts twitching like crazy. My heart starts to race, and I am having involuntary contractions. Nothing else ever happens. My heart rate eventually drops back. My erection and all the contractions go back to normal. I then do this again and again with in every 10-15 minutes. Nothing happens though. I mean nothing that fills explosive like an orgasm.

I read on aneros forums some people claim the same issues but other guys are saying THAT is the orgasm. And they just get better over time.

Have I really reached an orgasm and just need to continue to get the best feeling? What am I doing wrong? I try not to chase it but idk what to do. Just keep going and just enjoy it for what it is? I never tried to abstain from regular masturbation. Maybe I’ll try that. I am also worried maybe my muscles are not strong enough to orgasm or something. Read more »

HIH 950 – First impressions and post ride report

So inspired by others reports on this I went and ordered an HIH 950…

Shipping INTL was by DHL and it arrived plain packed and in less than a week, which was IMHO pretty good all things considered. It’s also very affordable compared to the Aneros line.

Opening the packaging I was first struck by how tiny this thing is compared to say even a Helix let alone a progasm. The inserted portion is narrow and quite short length wise and the p tab is quite long and narrow also. Honestly looking at it I thought it’d never reach deep enough to be effective as I’m 6’1″ and usually prefer something like a Eupho or Progasm length wise.

Given this was my first outing with the 950 I vaped a little weed first, meditated for 10 min till the buzz started to kick in a little lubed up the 950 and inserted with no effort whatsoever (see small and narrow comment above). Also made sure the P Tab and shaft were well in and seated with a firmish push to the middle section.

Despite earlier concerns the head of the 950 sat snug against what felt like the center part of my prostate and indeed had a good amount of aggressive forwards pressure on the prostate from the very start… and then… everything changed (about 1min post insertion) a fizzing feeling in my sphincter and surrounding muscles rapidly rose and before I could say ‘what the?’ this little sucker was rocking bucking and basically going crazy with some of the fastest involuntary spasms I’ve ever felt. Read more »

Can’t get involuntaries at all

I’ve been trying prostate play for almost 2 years now and started with Aneros. Throughout my journey, I’ve constantly tried doing the contractions but I never seem to induce involuntaries no matter what. Ive tried mindgasm and that hasn’t really helped much either.

Ive tried the do nothing approach and I don’t really get much pleasure from this. Ive gotten some pleasure from doing contractions but I understand that most super-o’s come from involuntary contractions which I just can’t seem to get.

Has anyone else struggled before? And if so, what did you do that helped you get involuntaries?

Brand new user milestone ?

I am brand new to the world of anal play as a whole but have been curious and researching it over the last few years. About 2 weeks ago I decided to finally purchase a Helix Trident and have had 5 or 6 sessions. I am having a good experience so far, and just wanted to compare the path my progress is taking to the average, and maybe get some tips or method critiques. I had been practicing mindfulness meditation and targeting specific muscle groups to relax already so a lot of the principles were familiar to me. It’s taken some getting used to having something up there but I feel like im adjusting well. I feel that “need to pee” and do nothing for a while as I relax my muscles entirely and breathe steadily and deeply. I can envision it sitting there and feel the pressure it provides. In today’s session I decided to slowly, with as little force as possible, flex to a certain point

And today’s session, for the first time, yielded involuntary contractions! It was an interesting feeling but pleasurable, they were rapid and steady instead of “bursty” like i was expecting from what I had read, and if I flexed to a specific strength and held it like that I could keep it going. It was exciting, I have read that that is a sign of progress! Should I be striving for that and to keep it going for as long as possible, or just stay mindful and let it do its thing, relax after a little while, then do it again etc?

Extraordinary evening for a newbie

I am a newbie, posted here earlier. Just received my first Aneros . Had a bit of a play yesterday but tonight – OMG.

Wanted to share for feedback, see if anyone else has gone through this rite of passage (pun intended!)/

So something happened tonight. Mild involuntary anal contractions lead to massive body shaking originating from the groin and pelvis area. If anyone had saw me, they might have thought I was possessed. Serious shakes.

Although I allowed plenty of time, I had to cut short as people were due back in the house.

Although it was a wonderful experience, I am not sure I had an orgasm of any kind. My cock was not erect at any point, no ejaculation. The shakes caused my cock to repeatedly slap my abdomen.

I had cum earlier during the day, I did wonder what might have happened if I had not. If I had no time pressures, I would have continued to see what would happen next. I did not want to stop.

I can’t wait to try again.