Tag: Meditation

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

“Male Chastity Explained: Absence of Touch”

Background
This blog was almost a “no-brainer”. But as I dwelt on it, it became more in focus and I continued the meditation. Here is where it led me…..

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I am only in Day 3 of SR (again) and decided to sleep in my silky boxers with contour pouch (also known as a codpiece). I began to think: why do I need to wear a “chastity cup” at all? I only have to make sure that I don’t start to play with my package through the silk. However, in my case, that was easier said than done, especially when a little bit of play resulted in an erection.

What did I do then? I decided to put-on my XO “chastity cup” on TOP of the silky boxers! This combination felt good but it also prevented me from fondling my male package. This meditation then continued to develop quite vividly….

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Meditation
Why does a male chastity device work? Why would a male want to wear one? Why would he allow another person (keyholder) to allow or deny him access?

What do a chastity cage and chastity “cup” have in common? The answer is quite simple! They both prevent a male from touching his cock! Read more »

“Gentlemen and their Erections”

Background
I am feeling the effects of my T-boost at SR Day 6. I did not sleep in a “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 3 AM with a most-powerful erection. And that got me thinking and meditating. Here is the essence…..

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Meditation
I know that all healthy males have night-time erections (called Nocturnal Penile Tumescence or NPT) while they sleep*. How many is “all”? Well, consider these “facts”—

=All of the men in your neighborhood experience NPTs
=All of the men in your state experience NPTs
-=All of the men in your country experience NPTs
=And ALL of the men in the world experience NPTs

Wow! What a sobering thought! And I thought only I am afflicted by these confounded NPTs while wearing a “chastity cup”!

* A reliable internet source says that men typically experience 3-5 erections per night, each one lasting 30 to 60 minutes.

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This meditation continued, however….

How many of these NPTs will result in the man awakening and having sex or masturbating, and ejaculating? [Remember, the NPTs are very powerful, almost like a Viagra-like effect and an ejaculation is easy while erect in this way. When I am awakened by an NPT, the erection can last perhaps 30 minutes or more]. It takes me a lot of restraint to avoid masturbating during this time; thank goodness, then, for a “chastity cup”! Read more »

“An Underwhelming Cup, But Compensation Galore!”

Background
I decided to wear my diminutive SafeTGard “chastity cup” to bed last night. I like this one: the strap is not tight at all and the cup (Cage Cup) is shallow and not too long. If I “point” my cock down in it, it fits well. Of course, it won’t accommodate an erection too well, but that’s okay. The erection will push up the cage and it will not be uncomfortable. By the way, I am heading into Day 9 of SR with no sign of blue-balls. Amazing!

Sesssion #1
I awoke not too early and decided to continue my BPH-relief sessions. I didn’t know which massager to use. I thought about the HIH 950 but decided to go for the more aggressive Helix-Trident. I lubed-up with BB and started. This session lasted about 30-35 minutes and what I noticed most was a lot of slippery, sticky precum. Almost like a ‘precum milking’. It seemed that eventually, following rapid and regular kegels (due to the P- and K-tabs) I hit a “precum sweet spot” and the more contractions I did, the more precum I produced. Eventually, I had to remove the cup completely and when I did, I was able to see and feel all the precum I was producing. My cock grew a couple of times just to show me how much precum it could produce! I ended this session on a high note and went back to sleep. Read more »

Confused about the meaning of being Aroused to start a session.

We often see tips/advises like this in the same post :

– Clean the slate. ( Relax , meditate or “Put out of your mind all of the thought processes by which you achieve a traditional penile orgasm.”)

**And**

– Start your Aneros sessions aroused.

What do they mean by aroused in this case ? Sexually or not aroused ?

I don’t know what to do, i traditionally look at photos , porn video, etc… first to be aroused first and after i do my sessions (some time i lets some selected photos (no video, too distracting), that i love to watch , slideshow on TV while lying on Sofa to help with staying “aroused”). that doesn’t “work” for me any way.

A New Technique: “Do-Nothing Edging”

Background
I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 2 AM quite aroused. I wanted a session and I had to decide between the HIH 950 and the MGX Classic. I selected the MGX. Now, although this session was good and I expelled some prostate fluid (not precum), in hindsight, my rectum was not as empty as it should have been. Hence, this session was less than refreshing and ultimately, disappointing. Fast-forward about an hour. I decided to “retire” the hard chastity cup for a while and replace it with a regular jockstrap. I selected my Omtex swim supporter and defly placed it beneath my long PJs. Well, before too long (as I have said many times before) I can’t keep my hands off my male package when it is so accessible (not in a hard chastity cup). But this time was different. Let me explain…..

A New “Edging” Technique
Instead of “stroking” and “kneading” my package through the soft knit pouch, I began to “press” and “hold” my finger(s) against my frenulum. Then I did the same thing to my scrotum. And then down to my perineum. And something amazing happened…..I slowed things down to the point of “do-nothing” edging! And as I began to feel an incredible power building-up, I sort-of fell into a meditation as well. Here is the essence of it, to the best I can remember. Read more »

Breaking the Routine & Small Jitters

I’ve been struggling to find time for this post, but a few days ago were a little special. Nothing crazy, but still different.
I had like 3-4 days of no Aneros or masturbation in general, and started an Aneros session kind of early on in the day.
It got pretty nice with some good feelings only building up to like 20% contraption strength or so, I was very in the mood, but got too distracted by my roommate being up and awake. I’ve been thinking if I should tell him about the Aneros stuff, because eventually he’ll most likely find out anyway.
So I quit kind of early on but was still completely in the mood, so I was just browsing porn and stuff as I was waiting for him to go to work.

That’s when it hit me about the tips I got about mixing things up. Aneros has become too much of a routine for me. I was like: “I’m feeling horny, I’m browsing porn, and me having an Aneros in wouldn’t even be noticeable”. So I went for it! This is probably the first time I had the Aneros in while just being in front of the computer since the very first time I used it when I did traditional masturbation at the same time. Now of course, it’s way different this time because I’m actually focusing on breathing and contraptions. Read more »

A Meditation: “Thin Veils To Male Orgasmic Bliss”

While relaxing this morning and listening to a nice, soothing track on YouTube: “Chill Out Sensual Nights / The Best Of Lounge & Chill Out Music by Johnny M In The Mix”, I began to meditate on how our male sexuality often is “hidden” only behind “thin veils” (real or otherwise) and it started to became very clear to me. Let me explain…..

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In spite of our “macho” appearance and persona, the key to male orgasmic pleasure often is hidden only behind a thin “veil”. Some examples will make this comparison more clear:

 My use of “chastity cups” or “cock cages” relies only on thin pieces of plastic that separates my hands from my male package, thus inhibiting me from masturbation and orgasmic release.

 Using a condom: It is only a thin piece of rubber, but my use of one during sex makes a world of difference. No matter how thin it is, there is always a loss of feeling. Us guys know that there is not supposed to be anything between our erect cocks and ultimate orgasmic pleasure during intercourse.

 When receiving a HJ from my wife: sometimes only the slightest “hint” of an erotic massage on my package can send me into a far-off orgasmic “orbit”.

 When performing an edging or “surfing” session, I want it to take a long time and use only the slightest pressure on my package.. Why? Because the arousal feelings seem to be magnified. Even slight “tapping” of my erect cock sometimes is too much to bear. The orgasmic ejaculation is intense. Read more »

SR & Athletic/chastity cup challenge (days 4 & 5) : Plus Wow! Maximus! Session for Friday March 9

Hi guys,

It is now, 7:08 a.m. EST here on Thursday March 8. The sun has risen. The promise of a bright, sunny day lies ahead, which has been a rarity during these winter months of excessive cold and dark, gloomy skies. I just had arrived back at the apartment after getting some light breakfast from our neighborhood 7 Eleven. Despite a cold wintry morning. there is a hint of spring in the air. My city this morning escaped the latest Nor’easter which has given my native Connecticut close to a foot of snow. The public schools in my hometown up there are closed today.

There are hints of spring here with the emergence of spring flowers. However daylight savings time comes into effect next Sunday. I hope it can minimize its effects on my body and Aneros sessions.

Right now I am typing this blog entry in the quiet and solace of my apartment building for which it is renowned. But my apartment building is undergoing a major renovation through an asbestos abatement program in the hallways and the installation of air conditioning in our public areas. Workmen arrive around 9 a.m. and work steadily at these projects up to the 4 o’clock hour when they leave for the day, Monday through Friday. Read more »

“I Fell Off The Bridge To Tranquility!”

Sorry guys! I had every intention to walk across the “Bridge To Tranquility” again as I had recently done in a past session. But the SGX had other things in store for me. Here is the story….

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Having just had a wet dream a couple nights ago, I’m not sure if I’m at Day 2 (again) or Day 14! I’d like to think that since my wet dream ejaculation was not planned, that I am at Day 14 of semen retention. So I’ll take it and move on!

I have noticed less intensity in my night-time erections lately. Perhaps that is due to the wet dream. It makes sense. I feel like I am now in uncharted waters as far as my sexuality is concerned. I have not traveled this path before.

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I awoke about 4 AM with a moderate arousal and erection and I decided to have a nice, relaxing session with the SGX. I wanted to explore more the “bridge to tranquility” as I recently discovered. I lubed-up, inserted it and began to deeply relax. I imagined a large, black pool of water which I would soon immerse myself in. Since it was black, I could not see a thing around me. There would be no distractions and I would be able to relax completely into a mysterious “meditation” : just me and my Aneros SGX. Read more »