Tag: Meditation

A-Less need some help…

So I’ve been exploring mindgasm and A-less for a few weeks now. Around 2 weeks ago i felt like i was making good progress. I had a few moments where i would get p waves and my dick would get hard by using involuntaries, but i never seemed to reach a super o stage

Then i came across this link – https://community.aneros.com/forum/general-discussion/how-to-have-a-less-orgasms-almost-instantly-male-vagus-nerve-orgasms/

I had an amazing experience but i still wasn’t able to reach a super o.

Since that session I’ve been unable to get any pleasurable feelings. No p waves, no involuntaries, nothing.

I haven’t jerked off in a few days now and I’ve been working on meditation but nothing seems to work now. I really can’t get a toy and i don’t have access to weed or THC.

Any advice would be appreciated

I don’t know what happened…

Okay. First time poster here. (anywhere really) But I just tried by aneros for the first time since I had surgery down south of the border. I had only tried it a couple times before then, both with my wife, and couldn’t quite get comfortable with it.

4 months later, today, I get a wild hair in my derriere to give it a try by myself, sans wife, and see where things go.

Short back story: I have a bit of anxiety, obsessive compulsive features but I maintain and thrive in a successful life, generally without others knowing. A lot of this anxiety, lately, has focused around bodily sensations, heart rate, random pains, etc. I have worked hard to rid myself of those obsessions (by tackling/eliminating the compulsive side) with great success. I am also an avid meditator. Over 2000 days now. This will make sense in the story, I swear.

So. The Aneros. I do all the pre-game work getting everything at the border prepared for a full invasion, lay down, and storm the beaches…gently. The ship has docked, the torpedo has hit its target, the….okay I have the aneros in my butt right where it is supposed to be.

I throw on some great headphones, a good meditation track on repeat, and just lay on the ground with gentle little gyrations but otherwise very little to no movement. Just a bit of waiting. Read more »

It finally happened but not in the way I was expecting

Long post – sorry…

As the title says I FINALLY hit my first Super O and it wasn’t at all how I thought it would go. I’ve been playing for several years now with varying degrees of success – some sessions are great, some I experience nothing. Still, I kept at it and when I LEAST expected it it finally happened.

I wrapped work up early yesterday and decided to have a session. After a quick 10 – 15 minute meditation to clear my head I popped in my helix syn trident – no porn – just some ambient music to give me something to focus on and zone out.

I’ve noticed that no matter how much I try to not “chase” in the past I always end up chasing and trying too hard to make something happen. Also, I realized I keep expecting it to feel like a traditional, penile orgasm and so I’m probably searching for something that just isn’t going to happen. This week I decided my focus would be entirely on FEELING and LISTENING and being okay with whatever happens while also ignoring any pleasurable feelings that may involve my penis and focusing as much as possible on my prostate.

Nothing actually came of my session other than some light p waves and honestly I was okay with that. However, it finally dawned one me – I’ve been feeling these p waves all along but was failing to recognize / let them build before because as soon as they’d happen I’d clamp down and scare them away, basically. Anyway, I showered up and went along with my day. Read more »

Second time using, I take back what I said yesterday

What follows is a long meditation and reflection on the orgasm I had this morning. It’s mostly a means for me to analyze what happened and how to steer myself closer to the intended prostate orgasms that come from proper use and habit with the Prograsm. Your feedback, of course, is welcome.

Had plenty of time to myself this morning and I took it for another spin. Relaxed, popped the Progasm in, and tried out a bunch of positions:

1. The classic laying face-down with one leg up
2. Piled some pillows up and lay over them, elevating my pelvis
3. Lay on my back, knees up

I also applied the lube differently this time. Applied to my anus with fingers, but poured a bit into my hand and then lightly cupped it around the Progasm. The result was a nice, thick coating that I’m sure was about to get squeegee’d off by my rectum but I had a thought yesterday that maybe it had a hard time moving around inside of me because it wasn’t slippery enough. I have a hard time reaching in with my fingers, if you get my drift. The dimensions of my body seem to be short arms, long torso, zero flexibility, and I can really only get my middle finger into the sphincter but not much further, hence the dependence on toys.

Position #1 produced an effect but didn’t really feel comfortable. Read more »

Brand new user milestone ?

I am brand new to the world of anal play as a whole but have been curious and researching it over the last few years. About 2 weeks ago I decided to finally purchase a Helix Trident and have had 5 or 6 sessions. I am having a good experience so far, and just wanted to compare the path my progress is taking to the average, and maybe get some tips or method critiques. I had been practicing mindfulness meditation and targeting specific muscle groups to relax already so a lot of the principles were familiar to me. It’s taken some getting used to having something up there but I feel like im adjusting well. I feel that “need to pee” and do nothing for a while as I relax my muscles entirely and breathe steadily and deeply. I can envision it sitting there and feel the pressure it provides. In today’s session I decided to slowly, with as little force as possible, flex to a certain point

And today’s session, for the first time, yielded involuntary contractions! It was an interesting feeling but pleasurable, they were rapid and steady instead of “bursty” like i was expecting from what I had read, and if I flexed to a specific strength and held it like that I could keep it going. It was exciting, I have read that that is a sign of progress! Should I be striving for that and to keep it going for as long as possible, or just stay mindful and let it do its thing, relax after a little while, then do it again etc?

Just had my longest orgasm yet last night (Expectation is the key)

Last night I want to have a very quick session while I only had one day abstinence only.

But it was the strongest and longest orgasm for me ever, so not having expectation is really matter.

The climax had lasted at least 25 min while I was listening to one binaural audio twice on Youtube:

ANAL And GENITAL Stimulation – Binaural Ambience Music – Meditation Vibes – Strong Isochronic Tones✔

Seem like different binaural audios also matter.

18M I’m only 4 days into this but holy crap does this feel good

I’ve had the aneros for about 2 years but haven’t made any progress with it until 4 days ago I found mindgasm and everything clicked on my first lesson. I already have done a lot of meditation so I think that’s why it happened so fast. Btw I don’t write a lot so sorry if my description is lack luster

My first session I got voluntaries and I felt this intense rush, like the pump at the gym but way more intense and my entire body. It was honestly a little scary it was so much but I relaxed and tried to ride it best I could. Afterwards I felt so happy I started laughing.

Every since than I’ve been totally hooked and I’ve been practicing constantly with my nightly sessions getting more and more insane. It doesn’t feel like the pump anymore but just pure pleasure. It’s like a psychedelic experience. It’s honestly like a drug

At this point I’m pretty burnt out after doing it so much so I’m going to take a break for a couple days.

Couple questions. Do you really start moaning involuntarily? How does the pleasure evolve as it gets more intense? And what do the next couple of weeks look like?

The biggest problem I’m running into is my pc muscle tenses up stopping the spasms, any thoughts?

My first breakthrough

I bought an Aneros about two weeks ago. I’ve never really tried prostate play before this. I tried about 2-3 sessions with it in a week, and it felt good, but not the amazing feelings I had read about. I finished myself with my hand at the end each session due to some frustration. I tried doing nothing with meditation, flexing and un flexing PC and sphincter, mindgasm, and just about any other idea I came across online, and nothing really was amazing. I was doing some kegels during this week and really struggled with separating movement between sphincter and PC muscles.

Today, after not having touched or really thought about my aneros, penis, and prostate I was laying on the couch watching TV and started to feel super horny, probably due to the fact that I usually masturbate daily. I remembered Mindgasm saying to hold both muscles for 30 seconds and then release. This was the thing that had felt good, but we not lasted a couple seconds. I decided to try holding it for as long as I could

AND HOLY HELL IT STARTING FEELING FUCKING AMAZING.

I was doing everything I could to flex both muscles as my body pushed back with incredibly strong feeling of pleasure and massive convulsions and violent shaking. This was so intense and i guess my muscles are weak so I could only do it for about 3 minutes max. I didn’t have a bunch of time so I only did this about 3 times resting for a few minutes between. Read more »

I think session length will be key

Hi. I’ve been using aneros for almost a year now. I’ve gotten to the point where I can achieve a meditative-like state and where the aneros feels really good relatively quick after starting a session.

But I’ve yet to have a session that lasted over an hour. I’m a very busy person who does not live alone so most of my sessions last about half an hour if they’re during the day, and that half hour feels good.

At night I get too tired after about half an hour and fall asleep / lose my arousal.

A couple days ago I had some time during the day and at about the half hour mark after waves of tingles my arousal seemed to die. Usually I have sessions at night and this is a sign that I am too tired to continue so I end the session. But this time it was the middle of the day and I was not tired so I continued.

Sure enough my arousal came back in slow building waves. But this time it was different, I had to actively relax/meditate way way less, it was almost like the arousal and effects of the aneros were happening on their own, like they were inevitable and coming no matter what I did. It was almost like breaking past the half hour(ish) point had moved me into the “second stage” of the aneros session.

How it felt: Read more »

My Transformational 1 Year Journey and Method [Useful for Beginners]

**Introduction:**

Hi everyone – I would like to share a little bit about myself and my experience of an unexpected journey of healing and personal transformation from this little piece of plastic we call the Aneros. As a fair warning, this is going to be a lengthy write-up and I will attempt to keep it to the point, however I feel that an understanding of my journey can help beginners and intermediate users understand some of the deeper intricacies of Aneros to assist in their development.

I am a straight, 25 year old male with a long-term relationship and stable professional career as a Management Consultant in a major US city. Although I have known about the mysticism/potential of prostate pleasure since I was very young (thank you 4chan shitposts), I never experienced or experimented with this potential until recent years. I did not begin serious practice with the Aneros tool until late 2020. Like most of you, my day-to-day experience was deeply impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic. I am still recovering from what was the darkest period of my life, consumed by addictions and a desire to escape from the horrors we were seeing unwind on the news and in our personal lives. These addictions were in the form of marijuana, porn, food and internet consumption, and at my lowest point they were very close to taking everything away from me that I had built and loved. Prior to the pandemic, I was a very motivated, fit, successful 23 year old who had zero worries and a promising future. When lockdowns started and the world changed forever seemingly over night, I fell into a dark spiral that would make that 23 year old a very distant memory. Read more »