Hello. Let me start by saying that I have been trying prostate play with the aneros for about 2 years now. I have had the helix classic, I now own the helyx syn, the peridise and the progasm ice. I have not really had the super o or earth shaking orgasm everyone speaks of. It has felt ok at times, it has felt good at times even great at times. Never a hands free orgasm. Well last night I had a session that was a little different. It lasted a few hours. I started with my helix syn was super horny felt small pleasure waves pass through me on and off. But was not really getting to the next level. So I moved on to the progasm. Things did heat up a bit. It felt really good. I love the full feeling of the progasm. So to not make this long and drawn out. I was feeling amazing but not wow amazing. I wanted to cum so bad or to at least just have some kinda jump to a level I have never been. I just couldn’t quite get there. I was totally relaxed and in the moment of pleasure. So I advanced to my wife g spot vibrator. I get a really strong tickling on my prostate with that. Almost like I’m going to see but a little different. That feeling comes and goes. Mostly because to keep it I have to press harder. I’m afraid of doing damage so I have to just take it in 10 to 20 second bursts. Well last night I was trying to hold it there a little longer and with a little more pressure and also trying to slide it around at the same time. Well last night I was able for the first time to achevie something that I have never done before. I came every where but in actuality I came no where lol that sound s funny but I’ll will explain .
I got the I’m going to cum feeling followed by I’m going to pee feeling. I’m just lying there (Oh my preference for position is on back feet on ground knees up ). Loving this new feeling when all of a sudden after about maybe a no it’s or 2 of this feeling coming and going. I get really warm around the base of my cock. I get that feeling that I’m going to cum. you know feeling your thick cum start to pass on its journey through your pipes to get out. But almost at the point of when it would fly free it changed to that lighter feeling of just taking a good piss. Like what was coming out was more lighter more fluid like substance. I take a look down at my cock that feeling like it is just gushing something all over the place like a fire hose. But I only see a little dribble of white milky cum and a little trail of clear fluid. Well from the feeling I should have been soaking wet. But from what was there. There was nothing. After that passed I had to stop. I wanted to keep going but I needed my session. So my question is what was this. Has anyone had this feeling. I was completely flaccid as I usually am during my sessions. I sometimes get hard on and off. But 80% of the time I’m flaccid. Is this feeling the true start of what’s to come and should I push and try to power through it and keep going next time. Also is there any tips or tricks or other units that one would suggest that work better than what I have. I usually use about 30 mls of astroglide (water based) if I’m using the helix syn and 30 mils of astroglide ( silicone based) if I’m using the peridise or my orgasm ice. Is this enough lube. Also another thing I have noticed that happens is sometimes my ass gets that feeling that I have to shit so bad it contracts so hard almost to hold it in. But usually my ass will squeeze out alot of the lube. With the toy staying in me a few time it has pushed of the toy. So am I doing any thing wrong in any area are these all normal Things. Any feed back would be great.
Tag: P-waves
“Helix Trident: Reprieved”
OMG! What can I say? I will take-back everything I said about the HT! Let me describe this session…
I am “scheduled” for a prostate milking today (Monday) so I lubed-up the HIH 950 with Boy Butter and proceeded. I was wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I did the prescribed 15 minutes “relaxation period” followed by 30 very slow and deep contractions and releases. This part of the session was about 40 minutes long. I did expel a few drops of prostate fluid (it was not sticky like precum). I am feeling good so I went back to bed.
About an hour later, I got up again and felt that I needed to give the Helix Trident another chance. I have had four sessions with it already and none of them was especially interesting (Yawn…)
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All that changed this morning with this “second part” of the session! How can I put this delicately? I can’t! So here goes….
The HT wanted to screw* my brains out! There is no other way to say it. Following no more than a minute or two of nice p-waves and auto-contractions, the HT wasted no time in getting down to business and proceeded to screw me over but good! I started breathing heavily and the HT started moving on its own. Before long, I was convulsing on the bed without control; my fingers and toes were tingling and I had to bury my head in the pillow so as not to wake up anyone else with some moans. I felt my brain starting to get a “foggy” feeling and remember sensing a greenish tinge in the darkness. To be completely honest, I was just a little terrified what was to come next.
Definite success
Just had my first mini o, either that or it was a really intense p wave. Laid on my back, legs up, and did a mix of do nothing and matching contractions with my breathing, relaxing while breathing in, and contracting while breathing out. I felt it, very specifically wash over me, like a wave at the beach, like it wasn’t just an all over feeling that got more intense, it was the same intensity all the way through it, but it spread from my bum, up my stomach, and down my legs. It was over in a half second, but it was euphoric.
Best-Laid Plans / Got to be Flexible
In my first post I said that I would not ejaculate for at least 3 weeks. Ha! That brilliant plan was nixed on Day 9 by blue balls.
I had an intensely pleasurable session last night with even more and stronger p-waves than my Friday session. The pleasure would grow and then subside, over and over. After a couple of hours, I was really tired and starting to doze off, so I removed the Helix Syn and was about to go to bed when I was struck by a dull aching sensation. I know what blue balls feels like even though it has been years since I last experienced it. So, I relubed and reinserted the Helix and proceeded to relieve the symptoms. The orgasm was doubly intense because of 9 days of abstinence and also the relief of the blue balls feeling. The drawback is that my arousal level is now reset. The truth is it had built up to a point where it was starting to annoy me. I was sitting at my desk at work yesterday doing fidgety nervous activities like shaking a leg or tapping a pencil against the desk, which is very unlike me normally. And I attribute this nervous energy to a protracted period of being at a high level of arousal.
Session 3, New Sensations.
Started off really nice, tried the “do nothing” thing again, and got some really nice p-waves. Although they were more immediate, maybe 2 or three minutes after inserting, and were way more intense than the last time. Also tried holding a contraction for as long as possible, this seemed to do the job for me. Definitely felt a full body wave of pleasure, made me feel like I was just starting to float out of my body, and felt something building in my ass, right at the tip of where i imagine my helix sits, it definitely felt like the beginning of an orgasm… And then my family came home and fucked it. Just my luck. Rode for about an hour after that and never quite got back into the swing of it but i did move to lay on my side, and my helix started rubbing against the side of my rectum and for a second that was this EXPLOSION of pleasure, but it fizzled out. Wanked off. I await the possibility of the same “buzzing” in my prostate that may start up later.
“Exploring The Two “Male Chastities”
Bacground: I am awakened in the middle of the night, wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 9 of semen retention and feeling extremely horny. My cock is throbbing rhythmically and I honestly feel that I am on my way towards a wet dream or an auto-ejaculation. I feel my prostate throbbing with every pulse. Now, normally, I would “decide” on an Aneros session right there, right then. But following a brief respite listening to some nice tracks this morning, I headed back to bed. And it suddenly dawned on me…..
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Aren’t there actually TWO male “chastities”? A strange concept you may ask. Not really. Let me explain…..
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The “first chastity”—-“normal” or “regular” male chastity—- is well-known; I have been practicing it for a while now. I usually wear a “chastity cup” to bed and that prevents me from masturbating and ejaculating. It works very well and is very sexually stimulating. Of course, this is all self-imposed—-I can stop the play and masturbate/ejaculate whenever I want. But it is mind-blowing to continue playing. There are all sorts of pleasures to be had—wet dreams, for one. Spontaneous erections and arousals that rock me to my sexual core. Sometimes it is too much to bear.
Rising Pleasure
Tenhorn
Hello Aneros Bloggers. I am a divorced middle aged guy who acquired a Helix Syn about 5 weeks ago. I am certainly a newbie but am not completely devoid of previous experience with anal play. Even before I was married I had read that stimulation of the prostate could increase the intensity of a regular penile orgasm and had used a finger on my prostate a few times when I was particularly horny.
After I became separated and then divorced about 10 years ago , with newly acquired freedom ( and privacy) I purchased a little flexible anal vibrator at a sex shop that was about 5 inches long and the diameter of my index finger which I used maybe 5 or 6 times. I threw it out before I picked my daughters up for a visit because I didn’t want them to accidentally find it. I had found my youngest rummaging through drawers looking for a marker and it occurred to me that one of them might come across my little toy and prompt a very embarrassing conversation I didn’t want to have with them. That was several years ago.
I have had the Helix Syn since about Feb 10th and have used it approximately a dozen times. I wanted to share my experiences in hopes of possibly helping other newbies. I read the Aneros Wiki and quite a bit of the writings on the Forum and the blog and have found much of the information to be helpful. I want to thank especially Brian Mayfield, Rumel, Darwin, and Goldenboy, for sharing your experience and knowledge.
“Therapeutic Prostate Massage or Sensual, Erotic and Pleasurable Prostate Massage?”
[My friends, Ron and Bill are fictitious. They are used here to prove a point.]
I have two friends, Ron and Bill to whom I recommended Aneros prostate massage. Ron uses his massager to control his BPH symptoms and he tells me that it does a great job! Bill, on the other hand, doesn’t have BPH but uses his prostate massager to achieve wonderful, sensual anal and prostate pleasure. Which one is using his prostate massager correctly?
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The answer: They both are! Prostate massage is an activity that can have therapeutic benefits (such as control of BPH symptoms) as well as sensual, sexual “side-effects”. Thanks to @rumel for an important clarification that both aspects of prostate massage are valid. We are free to interpret our prostate massages any way we like.
Using prostate massage for therapeutic purposes is beneficial to me. I have seen a marked reduction in my BPH symptoms since performing almost daily sessions for 3-4 days now with my HIH 950 massager. Just last night, I didn’t get up once!
This morning, following the recommended “routine” of 15 minutes “do-nothing” followed by 30 cycles of slow PC contractions/releases, I began to get a feeling like I was going to ejaculate. I kept performing some PC contractions when all of a sudden, I began to “cycle” the massager very quickly. It seemed like it was on “automatic-pilot” and I really didn’t have any control over what was happening. But it felt so good, I didn’t want it to stop. This went on for perhaps another 15-20 minutes. It was time to get up so I ended this nice session to get ready for the day.
“Still Breaking A Rule”
I had a good session with the Helix Trident (#3) but in hindsight, I am still breaking a rule. I did have a very powerful erection at the start of the session, so I knew I would be feeling something. But, even though I had nice p-waves galore, somehow I felt that I “expected” more out of this session and that led to a shortfall. I felt disappointed in the session.
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I know better than to “expect” results with any given prostate massager. Kudos to @rumel for clarifying to @sfs about possible separation of prostate massage for therapeutic relief as well as for pleasurable sensations. It really is how you look at it; after all, it is all prostate massage and really can’t be separated thus. So even thought I can “artificially” separate the two (therapeutic massage with the HIH 950 and pleasurable massage with all others), they are all stimulating my prostate and will have exactly the same result. So have I walked around a large circle, only to end-up right where I started? Intriguing….
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PS Slight change of subject for this blog without starting a new one…
“This Eupho Session Hit The Mark!”
This “double” session started-out with the MGX. I was wearing my SD Ultra Carbon “chastity cup” and waking up in the middle of the night, felt ready for a “rebound” session after a disappointing one with the Helix Trident. I was not disappointed this time around. Let me explain…
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This MGX session was a little different than most. For one thing, my body pulled it in quite deeply and I never really felt it moving. I didn’t notice the anal canal stimulation as much as that in my prostate. But the p-waves were plentiful and so I kept it up for about 40 minutes. When it was over, I thought that would be it for this session. No Dry-Os but that was okay. It felt good nonetheless.
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Was I completely wrong! Of course, “mother nature” called and following that, being quite “empty” and cleaned-out, my body just felt “ready” for another session! I selected the Eupho Classic since I had not ridden it in a while.
OMG! The Eupho found it’s mark quite easily and (inspired by GGringo’s blog) I fell-into his world of Dry-O’s! I counted no fewer than three, in fairly rapid succession. Curiously, I felt an erection coming on about the time the orgasm “peaked”. It convulsed my body briefly each time, followed by a brief erection, then I felt a “pump” from within my prostate! Then the erection subsided as quickly as it appeared. This went on for a total of three “cycles”! I knew that the Eupho was hitting the mark because the feelings were so definite. There is a good deal more movement with the Eupho and it took advantage of me in this session. I have not felt this way during a session in a long time. I give the Eupho high marks for its ability to “hit the target”.