Last night I came home from work to an empty house for a couple of extra hours and knew it would be a good time to have a session. I went to my box of toys and dug to the bottom and pulled out the Progasm. I have had this toy for a few years and its been a long time since it last saw action. The Progasm took my Aneros virginity. l was fairly new to prostate play when I made the purchase with the thought that it would for sure hit my prostate. I figured bigger was better at the time. Fast forward to last night, I knew what a little nimble toy like the eupho trident was capable of and also well aware that the more time I spent with the little eupho of how much control and strength my PC muscles have developed. I lubed the Progasm up and slid it in, about half way I let it go and wham my body pulled it in and right to the spot. As I laid on my bed with the progasm in. I thought of all the time we had spent together, from my first sessions feeling something building but never able to keep it going while my throbbing erection dripped precum in mass and knew for the night I made the right choice. I really forgot how good this toy felt. The wonderful pressure my prostate felt the minute I put the toy in. And the size, im normally not a big fan of size. As a straight male nothing goes in thats not an Aneros these days. The size, the shape and the length all come together to fill me and have me thinking holy fuck this feels so good and I feel so full. With contractions the feeling only grew. Simple and straight forward, every twitch and every movement my I made moved the progasm tighter against my prostate. I had a handsfree full body orgasm about thirty minutes after I started and I decided to keep my session going. 10 minutes later without even touch my penis I came forth like a fountain. And once again the progasm is on the top of my toybox.
Tag: PC
Feeling a fluttering twitch sensation without anything in. Anyone else experience this?
I’ve been using the aneros on and off for a few years but pretty often this year. I would say at least once a week. I’ve been noticing that I now get this kind of PC/anal twitch or quiver without anything in now. It’s not a strong clench but it’s a few seconds of fluttering that pulls my focus towards it. I think it’s more common (or maybe I just notice it more) when I’m aroused or have abstained from orgasm.
It happens completely unprompted and on its own. It’s not painful but also not pleasurable, like a muscle twitch. Is this normal or has anyone had a similar experience to this? Should I follow this feeing or try triggering more by contracting my muscles when this occurs? It’s usually pretty pleasurable in a session when I do that. I’ve heard of people getting sensations outside of sessions so I’m wondering if that’s what’s happening or if it’s a sign I should go to a doctor.
I’m worried because I got into the habit of using a much harder PC contraction with the aneros earlier into the year. I thought I was getting better results with that, and actually thought I had an orgasm or two. I’m not so sure about that now, but the sensation definitely started after this. I think I might have been mixing up the feeling of strongly contracting my PC muscles with having an orgasm, since it feels really good and similar after a long session! Like if I hold a strong contraction now at any time it genuinely feels almost orgasmic. On another positive note I’ve gained **much** better control of the muscles down there, like amazing control I never even considered before. Maybe I’m just more aware of my prostate or muscles now? I can’t tell if it’s a sign of arousal, fatigue, or damage so has anyone else had similar out of session sensations?
Sessions 8, 9, and 10
It’s been a while since I posted. I have had a few sessions since my last post. I’ll call it “three” sessions, but two were on the same day. I’ve just been too busy to write about them.
Session 8 was last Wednesday. It was not particularly exciting. Very relaxing, but no particularly powerful sensations. I also fell asleep. I tried some of the things I’d tried in the past and didn’t manage to spark anything exciting. Toward the end of that session, I thought I might be making some progress by just trying to maximize the motion of my Helix Trident using kegel-like motions, but then my time was up and I had to get to work.
Yesterday I decided to try riding my helix incognito on the couch. Usually I wait for alone time, but I didn’t feel like waiting this time, so I tried to ride in the afternoon while pretending to read/nap. It didn’t really work out that well. I did feel some things, but there were just too many distractions. I couldn’t really focus. I did find that the positioning while laying on the couch did have some benefits, so maybe in the future I’ll try laying on the couch again. Something about the angle of my hips or the slope of my back seemed to help the Aneros hit some nice spots.
“Semen Retention—What’s A Good Number For You?”
I consider male chastity and semen retention in the same way. There are some differences, but the reality is that my ejaculations are limited. Depending on when my last one was, I could be looking at only a few days (e.g., 3) or quite a few (e.g., 30). In-between there are many more “numbers”. Each number has a feeling associated with it.
My current number is “2” — quite low on the totem, so-to-speak. But I still awoke early this AM with a powerful NPT erection, so much so that I had to put-on my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup for temptation relief.
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A “Different” Masturbation Technique
Yesterday, I was at Day 6 and decided that I wanted an ejaculation. Nothing special about that. But my technique was quite different. Let me explain…..With no lube, I started to stroke lengthwise my cock but I was very careful to stay well-clear of the frenulum. I began caressing my balls at the same time. I did this for perhaps 5-10 minutes. I began to feel an “almost-there” sensation and if I squeezed my PC muscles hard, I could diminish the feeling and stop the impending ejaculation. Every once in a while, I touched my frenulum and—OMG!—that one touch sent an electric shock right down to my EJ “center” and I seemed to be closer than ever to the PONR. Eventually, even stroking only down and up on the shaft was too much for my resistance and I did EJ. Interestingly, I did not seem to suffer with much of a refractory period using this technique (almost like a ruined orgasm).
An “Active Listening” Aneros Session!
[Disclaimer: My use of “active listening” is not related in any way to Carl Rogers and Richard Farson who coined the term “active listening” in 1957]
Background
I awoke around 4 AM and wanted to listen to some tracks. I also wanted an Aneros session. So what to do? Obviously, combine the two! Let me explain further……
Session
I was wearing my XO cup from early this morning and, in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of a T-boost. Thankfully, my day-long refractory is now a memory! Since I would be lying-down, I opted for my HIH 950 massager which does not have any extended P-tab and nestles-in quite deep. So when I am in a prone position, it would not pose any interference.
So with everything in place, I put-on my headphones and began to listen. I selected one of my favorites:
“Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1 | Mixed By Johnny M”
This session was very good. One thing I noticed right away is that I didn’t have to do any deliberate PC contractions; the musical “beat” did that for me! It almost was automatic! The sensations just continued to build; at one point I began to experience whole-body spasms and I distinctly felt “something” tingle up-my-spine. When I felt that I couldn’t take any more, I ended this session. I was surprised to see that about 30 minutes had passed!
5-month journey
My 5-month journey to the super-o included lots of reading and careful attention to details. I’ll be as brief as possible. I started with the Helix Syn for about 3 months and did lots of fine tuning — I never got to the super-o with the Syn. When I upgraded to the Maximus Trident things got really interesting. Here is my personal recipe: thorough cleaning/irrigation, about 5ml of glycerin-based liquid lube (syringe), then a light coating of gel lube on the MT. My routine in bed includes: lying on back with knees up, binaural beats (with or without moaning sounds…recommend eraudica.com), slow belly breathing (pausing before exhale), then 3 rounds of belly panting (15 pants each). Panting really kicks things off and you can find this on YouTube under tantric breathing. I do some nipple play, focus on maintaining a continuous 25% clench, and do 30 second rounds of stronger clenching. I also try to balance PC clenching (pulling in) with pushing out. Lastly, and this took me a while — there’s a “middle ground” of tingle, and I hold that for as long as I can without giving in. That sets off the waves and eventually the super-o. I’m to the point now that I can get into multiple super-o climaxes within 45-60 minute session. And I usually end by masturbating in the middle of my 3rd or 4th super-o. Wow!
Session 6
I had another session. It wasn’t so much a session as a marathon, or maybe two sessions on either end of “retaining.” I dunno, define it how you like.
I got my Progasm Red Ice and Eupho Trident in the mail. I tried both, as well as using the Helix Trident, during this session. I like all three! I’m still very inexperienced, but they are all very different.
I started Thursday evening with the Eupho Trident. I figured I’d go small to large. I lubed up and inserted it and laid on a towel on the floor. I was on the floor this time instead of the bed because someone I chatted with recommended it. Being on a firm surface gives more control. I am not certain I noticed a difference, but I’m not sure I didn’t either, and I agree with the theory.
The Eupho went in nice and easy, of course. It’s quite narrow. I have fingers fatter than that thing. I laid on my back and relaxed and tried to focus on what I was feeling. I mostly just breathed deeply and concentrated, but I also played with flexing different muscles in different ways to see how it moved. It’s a very agile little device. I think I’m going to very much enjoy learning how to make the most of it. As for this first session, I had low expectations because nearly everyone I have talked to has said it’s a device for experienced users, but I still managed to feel some pleasurable sensations with it. I am getting a little better and feeling where the device is and what it’s doing.
Still haven’t figured out if I’m supposed to use these toys as a dildo or leave in like a plug ?
So exactly how are you supposed to use an aneoros? I think I have the helix but not sure. But when I use it I’ve tried to go in and out like a dildo and also have kept it inside and use my PC muscles to move it, but I don’t really feel a whole lot.
Any advice ?
Session 3
I started my session this morning after exercising, bathing, and practicing my violin. I also checked my work email and went over the more important messages to make my life easier when I got to work. That may have been a mistake, which I’ll get into later.
I lubed up, shooting a little Shibari in as pre-lubrication and applying a dab of Boy Butter H2O on the Helix to ease insertion. I mentioned in an earlier post that I might try this. I’m not sure that the results have been affected by any of the three methods of lubrication I’ve tried. Mobility of the Aneros did not seem limited in any of them. Granted, I have only tried each method once, so it’s hardly scientific. I may try each again and figure out which I prefer.
One thing I think I may try next time is warming the lube and/or the Aneros. The lube was pretty cold and it gave me a bit of a crampy feeling until it reached an equilibrium temperature with my body. Not the most pleasant sensation, and I’d prefer to avoid it in the future. It might have decreased my level of arousal somewhat, and that’s not helpful.
I laid on my back on a towel on my bed, naked except for the glans cover I’ve been using. I thought about foregoing its use this time, but it really does keep the (potential) mess contained, and it helps prevent stimulation to my glans that might be distracting. So I think I’ll probably just continue to use it for the foreseeable future. I pulled the covers over me because the bedroom was cold and tried to relax.
Session 3
I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.
They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive.