Tag: PC

Am I using the wrong Aneros? Any tips?

Hi guys! So I read about prostate orgasms about 4 years ago, and got myself an Aneros MGX to start prostate play. At first I think I was too eager and was trying to force a prostate orgasm by contracting my PC muscles over and over. Then I figured out that just relaxing and letting the Aneros kind of do its own thing was better. No big-O, but I sometimes got some great full tingly feelings in my abdomen. Usually at this point, I got excited and my heart rate increased, which could sometimes kill the feeling. Does it sound like I’m on the right track? Any tips?

Although I haven’t regularly used the Aneros in about a year (only a few times since then), I’m still eager to have a big-O and want to try it out again. I recently had some chronic soreness in my left testicle, and the doctor diagnosed me with a minor prostate infection and put me on antibiotics. He also mentioned during my exam that I had a fairly small prostate. I’m a tall guy (6’5″ and 200 pounds), but is the MGX maybe the wrong one based on having a small prostate? I’d appreciate any input. Thanks guys!

Kegels and Reverse Kegels

In the last few weeks I have been trying something new: alternating kegels and reverse kegels. I had never heard of reverse kegels until reading the forum posts. Reverse kegels are done by relaxing or almost stretching the PC muscles. I get the sensation that the pelvic region is “yawning” and enlarging during a reverse kegel. I have used this technique mostly during A-less sessions and the results have been excellent.

I begin with a moderate kegel contraction (approximately 30 to 40%) and hold for several seconds. I don’t time the contraction. I usually wait until I feel a slight quiver or pulse in the muscles or prostate. Then I do the reverse kegel. I often feel the quiver or pulse strengthen a bit. All of this is done slowly while breathing deeply and relaxing as much as possible. After several minutes of this alternation I usually feel a series of mini-Os and occasionally some stronger dry-Os. Once (several days ago) it led to one of the biggest Super-Os I’ve ever experienced. I had full body tingling and shaking. I could feel the distinct build up of a new wave as the previous one was subsiding. If I counted accurately there were three huge waves and two smaller ones before I was finished. I haven’t tried this technique since then. As each session is unique it would be foolish to expect an exact repeat of the previous one. I’m satisfied to be on an interesting journey and appreciative of whatever comes my way.

“Male Chastity: Relaxed”

Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.

An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state! Read more »

“Most Of My Sessions Now Have This In Common”

Background
I went to bed not wearing a “chastity cup”. Now in Day 5 of SR and starting to feel my T-level rising, I awoke about 4 AM with a strong erection. I knew I had to at least put on a cup, so I selected the SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup. I immediately felt great relief and at the same time, frustrating pleasure!

Of course, I wanted a session only a day after a somewhat disappointing one with the HIH 950. I was not aroused for that one, and my expectations were low. This one would be different, I hoped. But I know better than get my expectations too high. I was not disappointed.

Session
I selected the Eupho Classic because it seemed to be out of “rotation” lately and because I wanted this long, slender “tool” to massage my prostate. This 30-minute session shared a common trait with many other sessions lately: that is, it seemed to hit my prostate’s “sweet spot”! This session was no different. The Eupho is nice because it can move a little bit or a lot, depending on PC/anal contractions. The choice is all mine.

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Orgasmic feelings without prostate focus?

I had a new sensation yesterday that’s continued into my anerosless today.

Last night I was having a first aneros session after traveling and otherwise holding off for a while. Not a strict hands-free session as I was stroking myself, using the aneros and looking at some exciting images. Usually my prostate starts throbbing, feeling heavy, getting bigger and generally getting more noticeable throughout the session, but yesterday it felt unusually quiet. Towards the end of the session, I stopped stroking and focused on my prostate area with no contractions. I couldn’t feel any prostate-centered physical sensation, but suddenly I came so hard I shot over my head. I was totally surprised that the orgasm snuck up on me without any prostate-based physical signs.

Fast-forward today and it feels oddly similar. My prostate doesn’t have the usual heavy tingling / butt buzz that comes the next day after a session. However, when I focus on the prostate area and relax, I feel orgasmic shudders/waves rolling down my body starting from the top and back of my head. Eventually with a mini orgasm my anal and PC muscles start getting tight and contracting on their own, but still there’s no usual heavy-prostate centered feeling. Mentally when I turn my focus and receptiveness to the prostate, it still feels nothing but the waves start tingling down from my head again.

My prostate suddenly went silent but is still doing great work. Has anyone else had an experience like this?

“Subtle Intensity!”

Only in Day 3 of SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” for part of the night. I awoke about 4:30 AM and wanting a session with the HIH 950. Now I was not too aroused but was earlier in the night. So I lubed-up and began to ride. It wasn’t long that I fell-into a nice, simple familiar fantasy: I am again at my urologist’s office and he insists that all his male patients now “prepare” their prostates with a 35-minute (minimum) session with the HIH 950 before their exam. He said that his male patients like this particular massager for it’s subtle intensity. (An added benefit is that I get to take this massager home!)

“Subtle intensity?” What does that mean? I didn’t know, but was soon about to find out…..

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Not soon after I began to “prepare” myself, I began to experiene a very subtle, very gentle “tickle” of my prostate and I began to (almost involuntarily) perform light PC contractions. They felt so good, so sweet. But after a while, I began to get more of a “tense” feeling deep down in my groin, which became more intense and to the point that at it’s peak, I had an uncontrollable abdominal spasm that doubled-me over and let out a moan. I was shaking at the time as well. Once this passed, I settled-in for more light PC contractions. Following that single “peak” orgasm (I know now that is what it was) I didn’t experience any others, but that one was enough for this “urologist’s prep”. I discovered a fair amount of prostate fluid (not precum) in the pouch. I was properly prepared for my exam! Read more »

I Was Contemplating An Aneros Session…..Then Realized I Already Was Having An (Aless) Session!

I am still alone in the house. Up at about 4 AM and relaxing and chilling. I was contemplating an Aneros session. I did have to ejaculate yesterday at Day 11 of SR. I was getting the dreaded “blue-balls” feeling again and didn’t want it to escalate into full-blown agony.

Anyway, back to the “session”, I went to lie-down and noticed a slight feeling coming from my prostate. I started doing some very light PC kegels (in and out, but mostly in) and began to get a “clamping” feeling when I did and “held” the “in” kegel. The pace of the kegels seemed to increase automatically and I convulsed on the bed several times, like I do when having a good Aneros session. OMG! I believe I was experiencing some Dry-Os and/or Mini-Os! The amazing thing about this is that I was doing just very SLIGHT kegels and no hard anal contractions at all! If only slight PC contractions are necessary for these sensations, then I could do these very often! I don’t have to wait for a “chairgasm”! I should be able to perform these delicate but stimulating “Aless” sessions in bed sans a massager! I must continue to practice!

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Blog Premiere & Session @ New Place

Hey! I want to make a blog, and so I am making one! Before I even knew about this blog function, I kind of blogged about my progress in here:
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/148944-beginner-looking-for-help-and-the-real-user-guide
If you really want to go back, I’d recommend peeking in that thread. Either way, here is a shortcut introduction:

So I’ve been doing stuff anally for quite some years, and somehow got a little addicted to it even though I never really had any sort of orgasm with it. I found out about the wonder of prostate massage, and so I bought the Helix Syn this past December. I saw a review when I bought that said: “I walk around with this thing in my ass, and I had to stop because I was about to come.” That sounded amazing to me, so I got it.
I tried using the thing and it was underwhelming to say the least. First couple sessions I used it together with traditional, penile masturbation.I also tried putting it inside and going for a walk, of course, which was pointless. I had so much to learn. I never knew about this rewiring process.
I pretty quickly started using the thing the way you’re supposed to: doing belly breathing, laying in a specific way, doing contractions, not touching your penis and what-not. But still, it was quickly very apparent to me that I was really bad at this. Any thread I checked, people had gotten dry or wet orgasms from this thing or other similar euphoric experiences, even though it was their first time trying it. I named this blog “The Incompetent One” because I really felt like I was alone in not getting the sensations everyone else were. All I could achieve was very minor tingling and once I did anal contraptions it all just went away.
Somewhere around 2 months ago, I was able to still get the tingling sensations (or the “second heartbeat” as I like to call it) even though I did really strong contraptions. This is because I got better at building them up slowly. Read more »

My “Therapeutic” Prostate Massage Sessions

My sessions during the last two days have been especially enjoyable for me. Two nights ago, I used the HIH 950 for a “regular” therapeutic massage. I lubed-up with Boy Butter. One thing I noticed about this session was that the 950 was pulled-in very deeply, thus stimulating my prostate as much as it was able. And did it stimulate me! I had a fairly long session, about 45 minutes. Not surprisingly, when I went to clean-up, I discovered a large amount of “wetness” on the inside of the “chastity cup” pouch! This was definitely not precum; it was not sticky. The session felt like a manual prostate massage; I had an almost continual “tickling” sensation and it felt absolutely relaxing and stimulating at the same time.

This morning, I decided on another “therapeutic” session with my Eupho Classic. I pre-lubed with some Boy Butter then lubed the Eupho with Slippery Stuff Gel (a nice combination!) This session lasted about 40 minutes and it was wonderfully relaxing. I am beginning to develop PC muscle control to make the Eupho “dance-around” my prostate and could feel the orgasms as they developed. At the peak, I experienced an almost convulsive-like twitch throughout my entire body. Subtlety is definitely the order of the day with these “therapeutic” prostate massage sessions. They seem to get the job done without being extremely arousing.

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Beginning Anew – Day 1: First Impressions and Take Aways

So this initial 24 hours has been quite interesting. My first night with my chastity cup I can honestly say I didn’t get the best sleep. I woke up just about every hour, but I’m sure with time this will change as I get accustomed to wearing it. I was out of the house for work today so most of the day I didn’t wear it. For now I will only wear it around the house, and for any time I’m at the house. For instance, I had about a one hour window today at home between returning from my sales meetings, and for when I was scheduled for my fitness class at the gym. My initial thoughts were “Well it’s only 1 hour.” But I decided that if this is something that I’m serious in pursuing that I must adhere to my own rules.

Also, I did decided to have an Aneros session this evening as a way to officially begin the rediscovery period. Initially I was considering not wearing my chastity cup during my sessions. My main reason for this is typically I get and maintain an erection for the entirety of my sessions, and I was concerned about irritation and discomfort from a certain part attempting to break out of it’s confines. After a quick consultation with @goldenboy I was reassured that wouldn’t necessarily be the case. So for the session I decided I would leave the chastity cup in place and see where things went. I was glad that I took this path, because let’s be honest if there was any discomfort I could just end the session. I was actually quite surprised how comfortable things were during my session. As a whole I would rate the session as right around average, which is typical for any sessions I’ve had in the past that followed a traditional orgasm from the day prior. Now if this were just a couple days ago I would have finished this session with a traditional orgasm, because it didn’t reach heights I would have deemed acceptable to warrant just stopping. Read more »