muscles to contract

beginner

i see people saying that your cock shouldnt move, but when i was pissing this morning i quickly remembered to stop. when i do that my cock moves, but with a lot of guys it doesnt.

if i squeeze my spinchter not so hard, it doesn’t move as much, almost not noticeable.

my balls also go up and apparently thats the PC muscle. people online were saying you’re supposed to use that one, but apparently its the anus in the book. im confused.

this seems like a long journey that im willing to try. i just hate to start off wrong and since i’m messing with muscles, I know its very difficult for me to retrain myself out of muscular habit.

also. how long is a session? how do you contract the muscles? in pulses?

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“A Dud Eupho Session….Or Was It?”

I finally got my “new” Eupho Classic yesterday and was eager to try it out. It was about midnight but I wasn’t aroused yet (not at all). Nevertheless, I decided to proceed with the session.

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The Eupho feels long, inserts surprisingly easily and it seemed to “hit the mark” almost immediately. Since I was not aroused, I did not get any prostate orgasms (or even p-waves) from it. But I continued with the session and was amazed at the agility and easy-movement of the Eupho’s head against my prostate with anal and PC contractions.

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After the session was over, I have “just a little twinge” of prostate soreness [I thing “soreness” is not the right word–perhaps “awareness” might be a better choice.] I think this is a good sign; perhaps it means that my prostate definitely had itself massaged by the Eupho. I’m sure that the next session (while aroused) will be different!

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PS Following the session, I decided to switch “chastity cups” from the Mueller to the Shock Doctor. Then, I listened to a soothing binaural beat track for “quick ejaculation” for about 10 minutes. This activity really revved-up my arousal (I believe) because I awoke a couple of times from a dream with a raging erection that pulsed within the cup! The feeling is back!

My latest Super-O and answers to questions I received

Background: I’ve owned an Aneros since February 2011, and it took me 3-4 years to have HFWOs, and 5-6 years to be able to have Super-Os. I had originally bought an Aneros because I have BPH (largely gone now).

First, another Super-O Story since people enjoy hearing about them. Second, answers to the questions people PMed me after my last thread got archived (Sorry I don’t often login on this account).

This has been my longest Super-O yet, and I achieved it much more quickly this time. In the cooler months is easier to relax I find. I was lazy and decided I would just try and shut my mind off for about 20 minutes and do nothing.

Next, I did my usual technique of just rubbing spots on my body, everywhere but my nipples. Began trying to get a fantasy in my head. I started telling myself too that even if I had a HWFO, it didn’t matter, so long as I enjoyed the session. I was not going to let the fear of a HWFO ruin my session, so I simply thought it from a fear to a “It’s okay if that happens” thing.

Did a few contractions to get my PC muscles warmed up. It was hard to focus as I was tired, but managed to just barely do so. Did some more teasing of my body, got my fantasy ready, and touched my nipples.

“Prostate Contact Is The Key”

I had been thinking about this for the past 2-3 days. I know it sounds so simple but hear me out…..

The key to real prostate pleasure is physical contact with the prostate and surrounding nerves, usually with an Aneros massager. But other toys can be used as well, even a finger! In days gone by, here in the US, some doctors and medical therapists used to “milk” men’s prostates manually, usually to relieve prostate symptoms. Today, other therapies are used instead. I believe that in China, however, this practice of manual “milking” of the prostate still occurs.

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I know that Aless pleasure is very real and I experience it too, but for me, nothing can compare to a “real”, stimulating massage from a “real” Aneros! I have owned several other so-called “prostate massagers” but they just didn’t do anything for me. In short, they don’t make proper contact with my prostate. There is something about the design of the Aneros that creates a built-in “rocking action” caused by PC/anal contractions that takes prostate massage pleasure to the next level and beyond.

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When I am lying down in a session, I don’t have to do anything. But since the Aneros is right there nuzzled up against my prostate, and making contact, I can be assured that if I am supposed to have an orgasm, I will! I have gone from “do-nothing” to amazing Dry-Os just by being “plugged” by an Aneros massager! As I said, prostate contact is the key!

just got my Helix, well, it works :) HFWO

After a long embarrassing delay with 2 amazon sellers. I had one of the Lovehoney vibrating ones before and it was too big, this fits very nicely and I am not completely immobilized while wearing it. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to take it in but it went right in and felt good.

After about a half hour of wearing it, I did some contraction work, tried the cyclic rotation through anal and PC and I think I almost have it, but nothing was really happening. It was a nice warm full feeling, and I did like how the toy felt like it had a mind of its own and it was taking me on vs. me having to manipulate it.

I tried the contractions and put just a small amount of pressure on the handle pushing away from my body so that when contractions stopped it moved out more. That seemed to feel really good. After about 5-10 minutes of that I could feel a warmth and giddy feeling building. This itself was excellent, I look forward to feeling this more. Then, while contracting hard a wave came over me. I will say it was strong. I had tears in my eyes and I was laughing like a nut through it. It didn’t last very long, I think I got scared but I had a wet O experience. It was definitely stronger than my normal penis centric orgasms.

“Subtle Movements = Subtle Pleasures”

[Thanks to @RoJackSYN for the inspiration for this “session”]

“It is clear to me where sexual ‘overheating’ and horniness comes from. The penis is always blamed, but the true ‘culprit’ is the root of the penis: The Prostate! am I correct in thinking this?”

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I was awake not too early this morning and contemplating doing a session with the MGX or the SGX. But it was getting late and I knew I wouldn’t have the time. So, already mentally ‘aroused’ for a session, I began to perform very subtle PC movements (much more subtle and softer than my usual Aless). And guess what? I began to sense a very, very slight feeling in my prostate. Hard to describe now, but the feeling was unmistakable. And the more I did the movements, I got just the slightest sensation from (you guessed it!) the root of my penis (and my prostate)! Now don’t ask me how I knew—–I just did! You know that sensation you get when you are just starting to get an erection? It was that kind of a feeling, only about 1/10 the intensity. Not enough to cause an erection, but just strong enough to let me know that it could be imminent.

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[A comparison I can draw: when you go into a bakery, ever smell a subtle sensation of, say, chocolate-chip cookies? If you can imagine a full-blown Aneros session as “eating cookies” then imagine just “smelling them”! You know what they are and what they will taste like! The same way with Aneros! You know what pleasures you get out of a “regular” Aneros session. Why can’t you get just a “taste” of it Aless?]
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Might the Progasm Jr miss my prostate?

I first got into anal play just a few months ago when I bought a [Lovehoney Rookie](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17779). Using that, I could find my prostate and it felt great, especially when using some of the stronger vibration patterns. But, it’s quite flexible, so often when I feel like I want it to put more pressure on my prostate, it can’t. It also slips out of place quite easily.

So I bought a Progasm Jr. It’s rigid, and the design means it’s not going to slip out. I’ve tried it a few times now and although inserting it is a more intense experience (due to the extra girth, I guess) and I enjoy the feeling of just having it in, it’s never really felt like it’s touching my prostate at all, no matter what I do with my PC muscles.

Is it possible that the Progasm Jr is the wrong size/shape for me? If so, any suggestions on what may be a better fit? Or am I doing something wrong?

Just received progasm, pretty disappointed

No stranger to occasional anal play with a plug or other object. I’ve been getting into manual prostate sim with fingers and vibe, and haven’t had a prostate orgasm yet but think I was getting pretty close. Lots of thick cum oozing.

So decided to step it up. Did the research, got a progasm black ice.

Super. Disappointed. I did a lot of research on how to use it, set aside some dedicated quiet time nice and relaxed. It slides in easily and overall feels good, but literally no prostate stim. As soon as it’s in I almost don’t even know it’s there. The tabs feel good during pc contractions but overall it’s minimal.

Just to make sure, I tried different positions, repositioning the progasm, etc with no results. Tried just quietly contracting pc muscles, and breathing, but nothing.

In short, am I just not wired right for this thing? Using.my thumb is vastly more pleasurable and could probably have a super O from that except it startz hurting my thumb before long.

Feeling like I wasted $60 on this modestly sized butt plug.

First Session – I Think I Had a Prostate Orgasm

Hi everyone,

TLDR: is it ok to apply pressure to my prostate via external pressure applied above the base of my cock while using my Aneros?

I finally took the plunge and bought an Aneros yesterday. My local toy shop only had the progasm, which is on the bigger side but I’m accustomed to plugs and D so I figured it was worth the risk.

The Progasm went in with no problem and felt great. I relaxed and tried to work my PC and anal muscles. I had some very good porn playing next to me and just gave into the experience knowing that this was my first time and trying not to have too many expectations.

I stayed soft most of the time (90 mins) and did have several flashes of eye rolling pleasure from my contractions. I was sure to not touch my dick too.

Here’s my question- I applied pressure to my prostate via external pressure right above the base of my dick. This sent me in OVER THE EDGE. I had an incredibly intense orgasm and came buckets without touching my dick. Is this technique ok? Should I avoid this moving forward? I certainly want to get to a truly handsfree MMO capability.

Can’t wait to try more!

Ejaculating Orgasm Achieved

After 2 years of prostate play I was FINALLY able to hit a milestone. I popped in my Progasm and browsed porn for about an hour, working on kegals and getting my prostate aroused. After I turned off the porn, I laid flat on my back with my knees slightly elevated and apart. I continued to work on focusing the sensations from flexing my PC muscles but noticed that sensations were heightened when I flexed my inner thigh muscles as well. This brought on a whole new level of pleasure. I reached down to the aneros and pushed it downwards firmly, so that the tip of the Progasm was firming pushing up against my prostate. I continued the flexing and kegals but I was unconsciously squeezing much harder than usual. I felt a peak and somehow I went over the edge and full out had a penile ejaculatory orgasm. It was intense, lasted a good minute or so and extremely pleasurable. The amount of ejaculate was average.

The session lasted about 1.5hours and I did not touch my penis the entire time. The orgasm was achieved 100% hands free. However, I know that this was not a true prostate orgasm, but wanted to see if this is something that has happened to others. Pretty happy with that session but still working on achieving those prostate waves of pleasure / super-o. Am I on the right track or was this a complete detour? Thanks for reading!