Tag: Perineum

My tip if Aneros isn’t “working”

I’ve used my Aneros for a long time (5-8 years), and while it feels great, especially while jerking with it in, I never got to handsfree territory- until I discovered something:

I folded up a sock into thirds and slid that underneath the perineum tab (like a cushion between it and my perineum), and holy man did that make a difference. I unlocked new levels of pleasure completely hands free🤤

I’m not sure why this works – I think it’s because I’m quite short so my prostate might not be as far in, and/or my prostate and perineum are very sensitive and this helps prevent overstimulation.

Whatever it is, I highly recommend (and experiment with different thicknesses of padding).

My experiences after 10 years of aneros

Aneros user of about 10 years. Warning: long post ahead. Unfortunately no TL:DR. Tips and tricks section after the wall of text 🙂

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While penis-centered sexuality as I learnt it as a teenager is more of a mechanical approach the joy your prostatate can give you requires a more holistic process. For me set and setting are important. Nowadays I rarely have time to use my aneros (job,kids,friends, sports … ) but when the opportunity arises the foreplay / preperation is an important part of the experience.

Throughout the day (s before) I do some PC muscle squeezes which already activate my prostate because it knows whats to come. I like to take a bath or a nice hot shower, do some hair removal around my penis, the balls and the perineum/anus (Sugaring ftw!) so everything is smooth and hairless, give myself a pedicure (soft feet feel amazing 😉 and eventually put on a jockstrap (it feels sexy and keeps the penis out of the way while the anus is accessible) and douche just for the ease of mind. Ill then go about some chores, gardenwork, go for a walk or do some yoga, sometimes with a buttplug in, sometimes without – all in the sexy anticipation of whats to come. Read more »

Apprehensive after my first session

Straight male recently started exploring back door stuff. I just received a knockoff and spent an evening with it. I had bought more expensive stuff before and had initial regrets when using it, so I didn’t want to buy expensive things only to end up discarding it. I thought these cheap knockoffs would be a good way to test drive new types of toys and give me a better sense of what I like and disklike.

Tldr is while I loved the pleasure, it later turned into pain. I might’ve been clenching too hard and pushing too hard into me. Seems to have mostly resolved by following day, but apprehensive about trying again or buying the real deal.

With this knockoff, I definitely experienced some pleasure from it. Took a little while and was trying a bunch of different positions, angles, and muscle clenching techniques. After 30 minutes or so, I started feeling good; very nice sensations that I was searching for with anal play.

I think I have pretty well developed kegel muscles (thx to 10 yrs of erotic hypnosis hfos). But the biggest revelation for me was the feedback that the device provided. I noticed that even though I’ve reached max clenching or relaxing, the device would continue to move. When clenching, I feel the device get pulled in, and as long as I continued clenching, it continued to get more and more sucked in, applying a great deal of pressure to both my perineum and inside. this blew my mind as I realized my muscles are doing much more than what I thought I was consciously controlling. i noticed similar effects when relaxing, just continuing to move long after I thought I was fully relaxed. I found this absolutely fascinating and loved the feedback this was giving me. Read more »

I feel like I’ve had the perfect session

This afternoon I had possibly my most perfect session and I feel so lucky I just want to share it with you all.

It essentially started off in the morning when I woke up extremely horny. I did some deep breathing and kegels, let my self get even more aroused and then got up, had a really nice relaxing morning. By the afternoon my body was craving an aneros, I was really very aroused and had that tickly feeling coming from deep inside me.

Laid on my bed and did some deep breathing to calm my mind as it was a little frantic with how horny I was. I pre-lubed when I’d silenced my mind some more and then began to tease myself slowly. Nipples, thighs, hole. All got a good teasing until I was REALLY ready.

Even coating the Maximus in lube was enough to turn me on even more and inserting it was soo satisfying. Immediately had leg shaking and tingles around my hole as it settled in to place. More deep breathing. The tingles soon turned to pleasure and my anal canal was overcome by a warm and gentle pleasure as my thighs shook. Read more »

What am I doing wrong?

I purchased the Aneros Helix Sun Trident almost 10yrs ago and I’ve tried it maybe a total of 15 times always with high hopes and I’ve gotten minimal results almost everytime. I’ve relaxed and given myself space and time, used my muscles to work it back n forth, kept it in for about an Hr., even used it during piv sex and still nothing seems to give me anything mind blowing. I’ll even add when I stimulate my perineum I get an amazing result maybe not mind blowing but on the cusps of it. I’ve even tried prostate massages with partners finger and that feels better than the aneros but still not as powerful as the perineum massage and not mind blowing.

I do orgasm from masturbation and having something inserted gives a slight bit of pressure which feels better but I feel like I’m missing out on something with this. Does it sound like I just need to try something bigger or is my technique wrong?

My HHC experience… holy shit

So I had asked for some recommendations on hemp-derived THC here about a month ago. I was recommended to look into HHC since it is more of a body high than Delta 8 THC. I went ahead and ordered the HHC tincture from [this](https://www.binoidcbd.com/?ref=CbrnmULLlPUAH) provider. Since it’s hemp-derived, it’s legal in the US.

I was finally able to try it out and I’m glad I was alone in the house when I did because the moans were loud and involuntary.

Story: I took 3/4 of a dose and after 2 hours, a wave of pleasure and euphoria washed over me. I began to giggle and by body felt like it was pulsing. Soon my entire body was tingling with pleasure and I began moaning involuntarily before a toy was even in. I could feel an intense tingling in my perineum and I decided it was time to put in my progasm. I used PLENTY of lube and laid back. I pulled up some porn and the tingles immediately intensified. As soon as I began to stroke my nipples, things really revved up. I could feel my hole twitching and I started moaning louder. I found myself biting my lip through the moans as tears of pleasure filled my eyes. Once I’d become fully erected, the twitching turned to a feeling of fullness and pressure. The toy then began to fuck my ass as though it had a mind of its own. The pleasure was now less in the prostate and more in the walls of my ass as the toy stroked me from the inside. My mind wandered away from the porn and towards the feelings inside of me. This only made things more intense. The positive feedback loop of being turned on by what my ass was doing to itself had me bellowing. Then my ass cheeks began to twitch. Soon, both of my cheeks were flexing and relaxing intermittently. I couldn’t help myself, I had to cum. I grabbed my dick and began stroking it. It didn’t take long before I came with an accompanying guttural moan. The more I stroked, the more pleasure I felt. Soon my moans turned into laughs and euphoria filled me with each stroke. Wow! I had an amazing sleep after that and can’t wait until next time. Read more »

Normal to feel everything in the perineum?

Been playing on and off with the progasm for about 2 years. I get pleasurable feelings, sometimes quite intense with a little leg shaking/abdomen tightening at its peak. But I feel the majority of the pleasure in my perineum, the same area you start to feel a regular orgasm building around. Sometimes it feels like a HFWO is about to happen then it dies down. But I rarely feel pleasure around my prostate itself. Maybe a little pressure or tightening but that’s it.

Normal or nah? I know what prostate pleasure is supposed to feel like cuz I sleep with dudes. This feels just as good but not really like what I see others on here talking about.

Confirming My Status as an Unwilling Aneros Simp

I do not play that “brand loyalty” bullshit. At all. With any corporation or product. If I like a product but the company switches-up or does something I don’t like, then I switch-up where my money goes next. Easy. I do this consistently w/ every single thing I’ve spent money on.

Except this one. Fuck you, Aneros.

I threw down some bread to try the RocksOff Naughty Boy after deciding the Rude Boy was gonna be too big. Wanted a different kind of hands-on p-play experience and my $7 stainless steel anal hook can be a bit too hard for the odd occasion. I also acquired the 2-piece Peridise set while I was in the spending mood.

For context, vibrators have not done much for me in the past, and I REALLY gave them a good try. They just feel ticklish and make my prostate numb. After my relatively recent success using my massage gun for perineal pleasure, I figured I’d revisit them to see if my biology changed at all.

Nope. Lowest setting resulted in the familiar disappointing numbness, but I leaked more than I remember other vibrators doing. Going higher made no difference. Leaving it on high and sitting around for 15mis made no difference. It did feel good on the perineum, but only in a teasing sort of way. Nothing like the rapid kneading of the massage gun. Using it w/ vibration off felt nice, but I didn’t cum at all. Will revisit another time. Definitely jumped the gun on the vibrator part. Read more »

Requesting A Syn Version Of The Maximus Trident

I’ve written Aneros and requested they look into a Syn version of the Maximus Trident. While I love the shape and the fact that it’s large like the Progasm, but stays in a LOT better.

Issue is, I can’t stand the uncomfortable and not very flexible tabs, and I can’t use it for more than about an hour until I simply have to remove it due to it irritating my perineum so much.

I suppose they could also keep it in the white plastic, just redesign the tabs to be more comfortable.

Making some progress but would like to know if anyone can offer advice on how to go further

I’ve been a prostate play fan for about 2 years now and my collection has grown from a single Aneros to 3 Aneros toys, dildos, vibrating prostate massagers and the famous Njoy Pure Wand. However, my question really relates to Aneros massagers as I feel these have the most potential for me to achieve hands free orgasms.

I struggled for AGES to get involuntary contractions but I recently started to get them by focusing more on slowly tightening the sphincter muscle, holding the contraction for 30 seconds and then slowly relaxing. This now creates a lot of quivering which continues even when I fully relax – I consider this to be involuntary contractions. Sometimes this quivering causes what I think are “p-waves”. For me, this is when the scrotum moves (if you know, you know) and my penis gets hard very quickly and my perineum generates a lot of pleasure. This is the best way I can describe it and I’d love if someone could also confirm if this is considered p-waves as it’s just my assumption to what these are.

Whilst this eventually makes my prostate feel quite good, I’m at a loss of where to go now in terms of going for orgasms. I always thought that if I achieved involuntaries then these would lead to hands free, dry orgasms but sadly this hasn’t been the case. Read more »