Tag: Perineum

First session

I hipecyall don’t mind – I am going to use this account to document my aneros/prostate play journey. I will post mostly to my profile but when I have a break thru or questions, I will go ahead and put in r/aneros.

A little about me: 47 years old, married for 17. I am a complete newb to solo prostate play. My wife has tried to stimulate my prostate with a finger and a toy before, but I’ve never felt anything but uncomfortable. The last time she tried, I googled why I’m not getting anything good, and eventually found Aneros and that’s why I’m here.

I purchased the Helix Syn Trident and finally had the opportunity to try it last night. I asked my wife for some “alone time” where I wouldn’t be disturbed. I took a quick shower to clean up and then a nice, long, hot bath to relax. I hopped in bed, lubed up, and worked the Aneros in…slowly. when it inserted, it felt completely fine…not uncomfortable at all, but I knew it was there.

I put on my headphones and listened to mindgasm – the first lesson. It went great! I definitely had involuntary contractions as I flexed my base – like my hip and thigh muscles were pulsing, in addition to my PC muscles. I enjoyed it so much I went to the second. lesson two was about vibrating the sweet spot -I was able to do that once but could not repeat it. Read more »

Progasm Jr. + Massage Gun = I Need a Hug!

I was gifted a massage gun some months ago and, until recently, I’ve been using it for its intended purpose. Gets the job done well enough, can’t complain. In the past, vibrators haven’t done very much for me besides make the prostate ticklish before going numb, so I really wasn’t looking to use it for masturbation. This is unlike any vibrator I’ve ever used.

I very much enjoy perineum stimulation, so I was pressing and kneading the area before and during the progasm jr. session late fri. night. Been really liking that particular model a lot. Plenty of fun w/ it as of late. 30mins in, I realized I never put my massage gun up before starting, and it still had the small softball attachment on. Fuck it, why not? Started it on 3 and applied moderate pressure just above the p-tab.

That…hit very different. I was already stupid sensitive from the preceding p-gasms, so the rapid kneading from the massage gun was almost too much. I’m hard most of the time during p-play, but this erection became lead. Felt like my dick was going to burst.

Which it did. Spectacularly. One spasm sent the jr. flying out, which made me squirt hard. That was the 1st time anything that could be construed as a vibrator made me squirt.

Couldn’t replicate it, unfortunately, but that’s okay. The very next go-around resulted in very hard back-to-back HFWOs! Managed to retain the jr. this time. Turned the massage gun off, “did nothing,” and the ensuing dry-os built into another very hard HFWO. Let the progasm jr. go and called it quits thereafter. Read more »

Perineum and K-spot discomfort

I been trying to get some great satisfaction from an aneros for about a year. After having one I’m for about 40 minutes I start to feel uncomfortable at my perineum and occasionally my k-spot. I would like to find a product that doesn’t have these “wings” stimulating these areas as much. I have considered just cutting the tip off of them and smoothing it out. Does anyone have a suggestion on a product or an aneros hack that might help me?

Aneros and your anatomy

Hiya,

I have a burning question about what seems to to be many people favorite method of achieving a prostate O, which is the so called “do nothing method”.

I’ve been frustrated with this method, because it usually instructs you to completely relax, focus on your sensations and let them lead you.

Problem is, I’ve never had any. At least, not when I’m not voluntarily contracting. Whent I am relaxed, I feel no pressure against my prostate, it essentially feels like I’m wearing a small butt plug that doesn’t do much on its own. I guess my anatomy is such that the Aneros doesnt quite sit at the right spot?
However, if I angle my Progasm upwards slightly, I suddenly feel it in all its glory. The more I push it upwards, the more I feel it.

So my question is: is this what all you people who use the “do nothing” method feel when you’re just relaxing your muscles? Are you supposed to feel the Aneros actively pressing against your prostate without moving or contracting? Or am I creating something artificially that should ideally happen on its own?
I can pretty easily make it so the Progasm hits that spot on its own, by adding some padding under my perineum. But is it the right answer?

Using a prostate massager for the first time

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This is an update with my previous post here about asking any recommendations before I try my first ever prostate massager Aneros Helix Syn Trident.

Previous post link: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/113fu2p/need_your_advice_on_my_very_first_prostate_session/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I was pretty much satisfied with my first use. Even though I haven’t had experience yet with pegging, I was able to insert the massager easily, thanks to the recommendations you guys suggested. As per the manual that came with the massager, it asked me to be on the side so I did. After I inserted it, I sensed it inside a little. When I clenched my PC Muscle it also started to touch my perineum. After a couple of minutes, I began to relax yet the toy is moving slightly. I then tried to touch myself everywhere except my pp. I had a lot of precum but still no Big O yet. After time has passed, I decided to do a penile ejaculation with the toy inside so that I would know what it would feels like. It’s pretty amazing. It was able to prolong my orgasm and ejaculation enough I was really impressed.

I didn’t expect the session to be too long to be honest. I was expecting maybe an hour would be enough but I do think allotting more time would be the best thing to do next time. Therefore, I should do my next session on my rest days off work and cum hands-free. Read more »

Pain for 4 months since last session

I was a semi frequent user of my aneros and never really had any issues until one evening I did a 2 hour session. The next morning, I had a very tense aching pain extending from my tailbone area through the butt crack area (and part of the cheek) perineum and up to the base of the penis. All of these pains are strictly on the right side. It feels more like sharp pain when tending up my pelvic floor muscles or when going from sitting to standing or vise verse.

I thought maybe I just pulled a muscle, so I waited for it to heal with time. It’s now been 4 months since the pain started and it hasn’t stopped. It’s not as severe as day 1 but it’s felt like it has plateaued and not gotten any better. I saw my family doctor last week but she thinks a urologist and prostate exam would be a better route. She had no clue on what’s wrong with me. Anyone here had chronic pain come from a session like what I’m describing?

First time with the Progasm Ice – wow.

I have had the most incredible session this morning. I started off with my Helix Syn to warm myself up for the progasm, I was a little anxious about the size and girth. I’d only planned to use the Helix for half an hour or so until I was properly warmed up but 3 hours later… oops. I was just so relaxed I didn’t want to move, my session was really nice and had a lot of good feelings but nothing ground breaking.

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Eventually I sort of came round from my relaxed state and took out the helix, lubed up the progasm which made me very horny all on its own. I love how big and girth it is, it feels so sleek too and I ended up stroking it as if it were my cock. I laid back and pushed it against me, it felt soo big. After a little pushing and more relaxing it eventually slid inside me, but definitely didn’t slip in the way the helix does, this big boy was stretching me and it felt amazing. Feeling it go all the way in was so sexy to me, cold, girthy, slippery goodness filling me up, I was incredibly horny. When it hit my prostate it just felt amazing. I relaxed back and started some deep breathing. First impressions were that I was really going to have to work hard to fully relax around it, I was finding it more difficult now.

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Small Peridise is GOAT

For the passed 4 months, despite owning nearly every aneros product, I’ve been juggling between the Eupho Trident and Helix Trident (and the 950 most recently)… trying to find out which ones produced the types or orgasms I liked more.

Sometimes, sessions with the Eupho would eclipse the Helix and vise versa, but I could never really decidedly choose one over the other. For the last 3 nights, I decided to give one of my more neglected toys a try, the smaller peridise.

Not having a perineum handle thing, I wasn’t expecting much… but I was wrong. The last 3 nights in a row produced the most ticklish, tingly, intense and constant orgasms ever. It was unfathomly good… so much so that in the middle of another super-o, I was like “I can’t wait to tell the boys about this one!” Lol. By the end of my session last night (5 hours on and off), I decided not to keep going, not because my body was exhausted from all the toe curling, back arching spasms… but because I’ve never felt so satisfied before in my life.

When I’m in a GOOD session, I test it by playing a game… “try not to moan.” If I can hold back moaning, then the session, while still good, isn’t peak bliss. If I can’t hold back a moan, then that’s when I confirm to myself that this is extremely intense… and once I make that confirmation, I completely let go and the orgasms spike even higher in intensity. It was peak bliss. Read more »

The Eupho undid me

I’ve had the Helix Syn for a few weeks. It is wonderful! I’ve had some amazing pleasure with it but nothing like what happened when I inserted the Eupho today.

I woke up, showered and cleaned up, put in the Helix, and went to have breakfast. I did some shopping at the grocery store. I couldn’t help but wonder if the reason why the people were staring at me was because of the perpetual smile I had or what?

I left and decided to go to the local adult store to buy the Eupho I saw in there last week. I didn’t buy it then because it honestly looked too small. But, I came to these posts and saw so many people rave about it. Those who have it, all mentioned something to the effect of not letting the size fool you. I gave in. Read more »

Regarding the positioning of the helix trident

So, yesterday I finally got around to trying the helix trident I got. In a previous post I described how in regards to the PC muscles I don’t have any voluntary control but I figured it would be fine after contacting the Aneros support team.

So, I lubed up and inserted it and to my surprise I found that while the perineum tab was in place, the K-tab was sticking out a bit and it seemed as though my sphincter had trouble holding it in place. In general it seemed to stick out much further than I thought it would. Is that supposed to happen?