Tag: Perineum

Lasting yearning itch/tingle in the prostate through the day is distracting. Suggestions?

Still haven’t achieved full prostate orgasm. But now in many many many situations, I start getting ‘blue-ball’ in my prostate. Kind of a burning itch/desire that can’t be relieved, any stimulation makes it worse, but you never quite reach prostate orgasm either.

This is really bad when driving, sitting through meetings, trying to get work done at work, wanting to do things like jostle my leg but can’t because that just makes it worse. Etc. Caffeine now always makes my prostate feel like it’s swelling with salt water in a good-but-can’t-get-off way. Vibrations while driving on the freeway are the same deal.

Out of ideas for actually reaching full prostate orgasm. Butt plug + perineum massage cradle with vibrators + semi-full bladder and belt pressing that down. Nope. Several different models of vibrating prostate massager + perineum massager. Nope. Hitachi wand to find my prostate. Nope.

Fucking christ I just want to get off. I can’t get off.

It’s now to where the major nerve going down my leg is slightly pleasurable to flex in a certain way, but not enough that you could ever get off on it. Super distracting.

Jocks & Cups, Kegels, Aneros, etc. –> Going deep and Sexual touch!

Hi guys,

Getting my very first BIKE CUP Supporter unit, no. 85 at that sporting goods store on Thursday April 10, 1986 was an event that changed my life. I believe that it was one of the best products that the BIKE Athletic Company manufactured for support, protection, and comfort for athletes competing in contact sports, such as baseball. I ordered actually a lot more of this protect for my burgeoning jock and cup collection for the two or three years it was manufactured.

I wore this jock and cup last night. We have a long stretch of rainy weather the last few days. A couple hours of thunderstorms are scheduled for this afternoon which will usher in a drier stretch of weather. Anyway BIKE CUP Supporter Unit feels like a sock. It is perfect for Kegeling in. I slept like a baby in the early hours before sunrise this morning while it rained cats and dogs outside.

Actually I discovered that I could wear this cup and jock comfortably to bed the very night in 1986 after purchasing it. The elongated, contoured and banana shape of this athletic cup not only scooped my genitalia, but I fell in love who the bottom edge of this cup covered my perineum and even massaged it. It is interesting that I discovered unconsciously that night the Kegel Exercises. Read more »

A New Technique: “Do-Nothing Edging”

Background
I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 2 AM quite aroused. I wanted a session and I had to decide between the HIH 950 and the MGX Classic. I selected the MGX. Now, although this session was good and I expelled some prostate fluid (not precum), in hindsight, my rectum was not as empty as it should have been. Hence, this session was less than refreshing and ultimately, disappointing. Fast-forward about an hour. I decided to “retire” the hard chastity cup for a while and replace it with a regular jockstrap. I selected my Omtex swim supporter and defly placed it beneath my long PJs. Well, before too long (as I have said many times before) I can’t keep my hands off my male package when it is so accessible (not in a hard chastity cup). But this time was different. Let me explain…..

A New “Edging” Technique
Instead of “stroking” and “kneading” my package through the soft knit pouch, I began to “press” and “hold” my finger(s) against my frenulum. Then I did the same thing to my scrotum. And then down to my perineum. And something amazing happened…..I slowed things down to the point of “do-nothing” edging! And as I began to feel an incredible power building-up, I sort-of fell into a meditation as well. Here is the essence of it, to the best I can remember. Read more »

“How Can I Be This Horny At SR Day 4?”

Now, I’m not complaining, but I seem to be having intense ejaculatory feelings while in semen retention Day 4. I slept in my XO “chastity cup” for the entire night and got up once or twice with an incredibly strong arousal feeling, like I wanted/needed to ejaculate. Feeling almost like a wet dream was coming. I don’t know what’s prompting this response, but I suspect the fact that I have had almost daily Aneros sessions for the past 4 days could be a factor. Coincidentally, that is the length of time I am now in semen retention. These sessions have been very good and productive. Lots of precum and lots of prostate fluids.

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Is my body prompting me to ejaculate more frequently? Will I experience a wet dream soon? I don’t know the answers now, but I feel like I am living in the male world “between arousal and ejaculation”! It is a great place to be, but it takes perseverance not to cum. There are so many “triggers”, so much stimulation. The practice of male chastity does indeed ramp-up this response; otherwise, I would be edging and masturbating at will. Wearing regular athletic supporters (jockstraps) is a great turn-on for me; I can’t keep my probing hands off my sensitive male package. The scrotum, perineum and frenulum all work together to get me aroused almost to the point of ejaculation. I have to let things “cool-off” before I cross the edge (the PONR). And wearing a jockstrap without a “cup” sometimes it just too tempting; it will take a “steely” determination to avoid masturbating to an ejaculation! Read more »

“Male Chastity: Relaxed”

Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.

An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state! Read more »

“EJ Triple Opportunity: Rejected”

Background
I am in Day 9 of SR with no ejaculation for 9 days. It seems my brain is “teasing” me with various opportunities for an ejaculation. But I am resisting. This morning, I had several “prime” opportunities for a welcomed ejaculation. But I rejected every one. Let me explain…..
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Opportunity #1
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” which is not too restrictive at all. I was “allowed” to remove it for a while and replace it with a very restrictive “Bike” cup for about 10 minutes. Then I was allowed to change into a pair of swimming jammers with a front liner. The idea was to get me to embrace the idea of coming out of chastity and allow my genitalia to express their desire for their intended purpose. I can feel my package through the silky material and can easily make-out my swollen balls and growing cock. It would feel so good taking this to the limit and experiencing a great orgasm and ejaculation. But for some “strange” reason, I rejected this opportunity for an EJ.
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Opportunity #2 (Fantasy)
Still wearing my swim jammers, I am “escorted” by a friend of mine (who is also a physician) into a “gentlemen’s club” where the “clients” come to masturbate and EJ. This is done very discretely, in private rooms. They use binaural beats to induce ejaculations in their clients. I am given a pair of nice headphones and start listening to some soothing but enticing tracks. Before long, I have an erection and feel my prostate starting to pulse, in anticipation of an ejaculation. But I am holding back once again, and rejected this prime opportunity to achieve an ejaculation.
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Opportunity #3
Back in my bedroom, I am placed in my restrictive SD “chastity cup” over which was placed my swim jammers and then my PJs. This was a very straightforward “EJ challenge”: I will be given a 5-minute “window of opportunity” wherein my male package would be exposed and I can take advantage of the situation, but only for 5 minutes. I can do anything to help myself ejaculate during that time. But after the 5-minutes, the “window” will close and I will be denied any opportunity for an ejaculation. Would I accept the challenge? It got close to the 5-minute “starting time”. When the clock hit 5:15 AM, I was allowed to remove everything and started fondling my scrotum and perineum, which felt so good. I developed a hard erection too but refrained from stimulating my cock too much. I knew that this opportunity was quickly slipping away. When 5:20 AM came up on the clock, up went the SD cup and I am left with the feeling that perhaps I made the wrong decision. I had been given three opportunities to ejaculate and I rejected all three. Read more »

Lifting balls…better feeling?

I’ve noticed sometimes during sessions if I “cup” my entire package and lift it up (towards my stomach) it seems to increase sensation, but I’m not sure why. It is almost like stretching the perineum tighter, in the same way a rubber band will be less loose when stretched. I ask because I recently was looking for position ideas and saw a video of a guy using an aneros massager, and he seemed to have an entire ring around not only the penis, but the whole package. LIFTING the whole package up. I don’t know if this is repositioning muscles slightly, or its more arousing because you can feel the head of the massager moving inside better (by feeling your perineum on the outside, you can feel the head moving inside the anus pushing outward). Thoughts or experiences with rings, lifting the scrotum, etc.?

“I Couldn’t Stop This Session From Happening”

Background
I am currently in Day 6 of SR; wore my XO “chastity cup” since about 3 AM this morning. As soon as I put it on, I felt a strong sensation down in my prostate. I have been having daily Aneros sessions now for the past 2 days, today was no exception. After listening to some tracks (which didn’t last too long), I had an insanely overpowering sensation to have yet another session. This time I selected the ever-reliable HIH 950. I lubed-up with SSG and began.

Session
Right from the start, I knew that this session would be a good one. I developed some fairly intense, auto anal contractions almost immediately and the 950 seemed to be pulled-in more deeply. I felt it hit my prostate’s “sweet spot” and starting to induce an ejaculation. What a feeling! I tried re-positioning myself on the bed but to no avail. After a while, I had the urge to remove my XO ProCup and was not too surprised to see a full-blown erection with oozing precum (it was definitely sticky). It was a pleasure to see my erect cock, ready for action! I could easily have had an ejaculation (a Super-T!) but had the fortitude to say “no! ” It is Day 6 of SR and I know, I feel my T-level is building up to the maximum tomorrow. My prostate is aching, begging me for an ejaculation but as usual, I am resisting for as long as I am able to endure it. I have no sign of blue-balls yet. Read more »

“This MGX Session Hit A Different Sweet Spot”

I am in Day 6 of SR and woke up about 3:30 AM not wearing a “chastity cup”. Of course, I had a nice erection and decided to have a session. I originally wanted to go with the SGX but something told me to go with something “deeper” so I selected the MGX. It was a wise choice. As soon as I started the ride, I felt the MGX start to tickle my prostate in a new “sweet spot”. Previously, the HIH 950 was able to hit that spot that was located lower in my rectum. But this time, the MGX obviously was further in but nevertheless, was able to find a new “sweet spot” on or near my prostate. I began moaning almost right from the start and basically continued moaning for the rest of the time. I felt like I was experiencing many MMOs during this session.

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The interesting thing about this session was that I was hard virtually the entire time. I wanted/needed to ejaculate; I was very much near the PONR and felt that an ejaculation was imminent. I removed the XO “chastity cup” (which I put-on for this session) toward the end and saw that I was still hard. I had prostate fluid leaking out of my erect cock and onto the cup pouch (it was not precum for it was not slippery nor sticky). Oh how I wanted to ejaculate! I contemplated a super-O or just sliding around on the bed until I came but decided against it. I wanted to remain in chastity. Read more »

Once Again, Thwarted By A “Chastity Cup”

I went to bed wearing only my PJs and nothing else. Within two minutes, I had my groping hands all-over my package and was getting half-hard. I knew this had to stop; I immediately reached for a “chastity cup” out of my collection. I selected the SafeTGard which has a nice, soft texture and fit. But instead of the Cage Cup, I substituted the Mueller Cup. This cup is longer and accommodates my erect cock much better. The SafeTGard strap has the cup pouch open on the front, so it can seat itself in the correct position with respect to my package.

Within a minute, my package was enveloped once again with an impenetrable, unyielding wrap, form-fitting to my masculine outline. I am covered from the tip of my cock down to my perineum. Nothing can be accessed, nothing can be touched. I am in complete chastity!

So, while wearing this “chastity cup” I settled-in for a good night’s rest. I soon took off my PJ bottoms. Several times during the night, the NPTs came like clockwork and my erect package lets me know that it wants escape, but alas, it is again thwarted by that contoured cup. I feel close to the PONR but only a little bit of stimulation on the glans and frenulum is possible. Thus, an ejaculation is denied. So I continue to cope as best I can.

Such is the life of a “chastity cup”: to thwart, to deny the use of my male joy, my male package! Read more »