Tag: Perineum

Don’t Get Discouraged

It is easy to get discouraged. Initially, I tried to make the Aneros products work. Proactive breathing and the like weren’t particularly effective. Soon anal entry was no problem. The sphincter muscles and G-spot were sort of in training mode, but it all didn’t seem worth the bother. That’s changed!

After a few years away, I am using a Progasm and the softer deVice. Following insertion and laying down, it takes less than 15 seconds for my feet to begin twitching spontaneously. Within another minute, my legs are moving. Soon I can feel either device making delicate movements and feel P-tab contact. Within a few minutes, my abdomen is thrusting. All of this driven by the sphincters.

I often add a music component, but that is unnecessary. I like to close my eyes and allow my mind to see whatever visions arise. Unlike some, I do not get hard or much beyond a very slight fluid release. I occasionally vocalize, but that is not always involved. The spontaneous full-body experience is well worth waiting for the sphincter muscles to learn the optimal pathway.

Anniversary synopsis

On January 18 (today), it has been exactly two years since I first inserted my Aneros Helix Syn. At the time, my back door experience was limited to a few weeks of finger exploring with minimal results. I had been reading the Aneros forum for some time and so I knew there was a chance I was going to discover a new world of pleasures and possibly improve my health in the process.

At 61 years of age, my sex life was abysmal, enduring a very low libido and hardly able to have an erection. On occasions, I felt pressure in my lower abdomen and irritating sensations while urinating: possibly a touch of BPH or prostatitis as so many males experience at that stage of life. Porn was plentiful but had become ineffective and boring. I was also getting up countless times to urinate at night (3 sometimes 4).

I was feeling my age, I had become an old man with a lazy prostate and almost on the edge of depression.

I cannot remember exactly how I came across the topic of Aneros but somehow my curiosity and interest in seeking more info on prostate health must have lead me here. As mentioned above, I started exploring the dark hole with my index and found the intrusion interesting. The more I read the Aneros forum, the more intrigued I became. I simply had to get one! Read more »

Aneros sessions, 12/25 & 12/30 : Aneros/Aless Mindfulness

Hi guys,

We here in the Mid-Atlantic are in the grip of excessively cold weather which may continue beyond the first weekend of 2018. This super cold affects also much of the northern tier of the USA and way down south. Hence it has reduced greatly my Aneros sessions recently.

I am typing this blog entry early Saturday morning. My Aneros buddies of Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm Classic have been cleansed and are rearing to go. They consist my Aneros first team Full-Court Press which have given me consistently great sessions for a real long time. I had a powerful session early Christmas Day morning with these buddies. I just let them work me over in their individual way delivering me crescendos and paroxysms of pleasure! However, as I was having this session, an arctic front passed through this frigid weather which now at this writing just keeps coming!

I do not like at all how frigid weather denies me regularity in my sessions which I need even now even now of after 5.5 years of working the Aneros. I use my sessions to prime of pump of Aneros/Aless pleasure and well-being! Not only are my sessions on the whole pleasurable, but they are certainly health promoting and invigorating. Read more »

My thoughts on male chastity, and jockstraps and athletic cups, and Nov. 21 session

Hi guys,

For many months now, we have been regaled by @goldenboy’s prolific blogs entries on Aneros, sex, jocks and cups, erotic dreams and waking fantasies, semen retention (SR), and male chastity which he lives out by wearing a jock and cup to bed. He calls athletic cups, “chastity” cups, a concept I find intriguing.

I have been pondering and reflecting on male chastity for many months now. It seems that there are least two types of male chastity: (1) religious or ascetic chastity, and (2) erotic chastity for the purpose of enhancing a guy’s sexuality either individually or as one in a marital relationship with a wife.

When I think of male chastity in a religious or ascetic sense, I think of the monastic life either in a Roman Catholic or Eastern Orthodox sense. In the Roman Catholic Church, you have religious orders and the clergy. Men joining such have swear three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. It was believed for many centuries by that church that masturbation and conjugal sexual relations prevented men from living out a devoted life to God and church.

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or Mormon church, married couples have to swear to the Law of Chastity, thus allowing a life of utter devotion to marriage (one man, one woman) and the LDS Church. Read more »

First time with Progasm

So I had my first session with my Progasm last night. Lay on my back while my wife masturbated in front of me. It was awesome.

The difference from my Helix Syn is huge. The size is a big difference of course but I also like the p-tab on the Progasm much better. When using the Helix I usually have to wait a bit for the good stuff to hit but almost immediately after inserting the Progasm things got really intense. The amount of precum oozing from my cock was unbelievable, like nothing I’ve ever seen.

After about 30 minutes I did feel a bit sore though, need more practice I guess. Didn’t super-O but don’t really care. Looking forward to trying it out on my own as there is this tiny bit of self-consciousness that holds me back when not alone.

Eupho Trident review! Kind of.

So I got my Eupho Trident back on Black Friday when Aneros did a 10% off sale on the new Trident line of toys. After the first use I immediately wanted to come write a review for you guys who maybe were hesitant to pull the trigger on a new Aneros toy.

But let me tell you boys, *God damn* I love this thing. Just a little preface information, I’ve been an Aneros user since about 2006, give or take. I started with the Helix classic, which was then just the regular Helix. Since then, I have added a Progasm classic, Helix syn, Eupho syn, Vice, and a set of Peridise to my toy chest, as well as numerous other non-Aneros toys. I don’t use the other Aneros toys much anymore, mostly because a toy that does everything by itself is, well, a lot easier to use than a toy where I do all the work and have to be in a certain mindset and doesn’t give me a prostate orgasm every time without fail.

But enough rambling, onto the toy itself. The first time that stuck out to me were the tabs on the toy. The tab on my Helix classic is firm, and in a session it typically rubs my perineum raw. On the opposite end of the spectrum, the tab on the Helix syn has way too much give and basically might as well not be there. The Eupho Trident strikes a very happy medium. The tabs on it have some give so they don’t rub me raw, but it’s firm enough to serve its purpose. It does an excellent job of keeping everything in place, and does it comfortably. Read more »

Question about p-tab contact

Is the p-tab meant to always be in contact with the perineum? Or only when contracting/having involunatries?

I’ve noticed that when I’m relaxed, such as when using the “do nothing” method with the helix classic, there is about a 1/2″ gap between the p-tab and my perineum. In fact the only time i notice
the p-tab making contact is when I’m contracting strongly (voluntarily or involuntarily).

Lately I’ve been folding up some tissue paper and wedging it between the p-tab and my perineum, and it does make it feel better, but it doesn’t feel like the ideal solution.

Anyone have advice on how to address this?

“My Prostate Was Aching and Begging Me For A Release”

Wow! Two blogs in one day? This one deserved to be written. Let me explain……

Following last night’s great “chastity” arousal, I went swimming this morning. I bought a new swimmer’s jockstrap and thought that it was a bit on the small side. But after a couple of wearings, I realize that it is great! When wet, it can be pulled-up and stays nicely in place. It also places more pressure on my package, pulling it upwards and on my perineum via the straps. Oh-oh! I was actually getting quite aroused in the pool while swimming, which is unusual for me. Also, while showering, I was getting aroused and semi-hard. What is going on here?

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Later on in the day, I had a more-than-average Aless but bearable. However, later in the afternoon, I found that the house was empty except for me (and the dog) and I began to get an intense craving within my prostate. It was aching, pulsing and begging me for a session! How could I resist? Honestly, I couldn’t. So I quickly lubed-up the HIH 950 and with an empty rectum, embarked on a quick session, not knowing what to expect. Read more »

“Chastity Cups”: Two Useful Techniques

I have “discovered” two useful techniques that I employ in the use of jockstrap with cups as chastity devices. I find these invaluable in ramping-up my arousal for eventual Aneros sessions.

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First, it is important to keep a submissive mindset in their use. By this I mean that in my mind it is not me putting-on the chastity device. This is in consonance with a more rigid interpretation of being in male chastity. Usually, the submissive male is placed and kept in chastity by a dominant female (femdom if you will). It is only she who holds the key. Keeping this relationship sorted-out in my head is instrumental in achieving the overall arousal level needed.

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Second, the following technique goes hand-in-hand with the first. The “chastity cup” can be re-adjusted (usually after a visit to the lavatory) by the “dominant female” so as to be tighter. It can be adjusted (depending on the model) to provide more direct pressure on the perineum where the leg straps are moved closer-together while at the same time, the waist-band is pulled up for the desired effect. When done correctly, and keeping in mind (and this is key) that no self-adjustment is possible, the effects can be dramatic. Usually for me, this will produce a strong erection due to the added pressure on the prostate. I will feel like I want to experience a wet dream with an ejaculation. I may start to produce some precum. I will involuntarily squirm all over the bed, mostly on my stomach, not knowing what will happen next or even when this feeling will subside. It is mind-blowing! In time (perhaps 30-45 minutes) the arousal will begin to subside. But the pressure on the prostate will remain, a trigger for the next erection and arousal cycle. Read more »

“An Unwilling Subject: A Male Chastity Fantasy”

My goodness! I went to sleep wearing my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and woke up wearing my CB-6000S cock cage. What happened? An intriguing story. Let’s see if I can remember this dream. I think I do. Here goes……

[Note: this dream sequence is a fabrication of an actual “living fantasy” and may be somewhat intense; reader discretion advised]

I awoke (in Day 3 of SR) wearing my Mueller chastity cup. Still somewhat sleepy, I am led downstairs where my clothes are quickly removed. The chastity cup is removed and put away. The next thing I know is that my cock is being lubricated and I am having a ball ring installed. It feels tight and very secure. My semi-flaccid penis is beginning to grow and it feels like it could blossom into a full-blown erection! Now, the cock cage is placed over my erect cock and I thought: There is no way that that cage is going on! It is an unwilling subject! But with gentle pressure for a minute or two and voila’ my erection is subsiding enough (little by little) for the cage to be slipped-on. It finally goes on. And with a ‘click’, I am put into a most secure chastity cage. One for which there is no escape and no key.
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I am led to a nearby location where I am told to lie down and relax. By now, my erection has grown inside the cage to the point that I can feel my balls swell and start to put much pressure on the cage. But there is no escape from this chastity device. I try to relax in it, turning over on my stomach. While there for a while, I feel a hand reaching beneath me and feeling for my prostate through my perineum. By now, it has started to swell and I feel the gentle massage on it. I feel my prostate starting to pulse like it wants to ejaculate. But I know that will not happen anytime soon. My horniness is starting to ratchet-up immensely! Fuck me, please! Somebody!
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After a while, I find myself back in my bed, awake and still wearing the cage. I remember more external massage of my swollen prostate while there. It feels good and I feel a sudden increase in my arousal level, so much so that given more time, I want to have an immediate Aneros session! My horniness level feels about as high as it can go! Read more »