so after my first session i went 5 days without porn or jerking off and i just wrapped up todays. it started ok veryyyyyy light waves and then i finished the mindgasm session and had to pee. i tried a different vidoe and this one was a lot easier i didint have to focus as much the guy just said flex the muscle and let ur body do the rest. so i just chilled and flexed, and i felt way better results than using mindgasm. the waves went through my entire upper body and stayed for a little bit. i’m still only on lesson two so i’m gonna keep using it and training but for now just chilling and going with the flow unguided is a pretty good backup plan if the session takes too long without feeling any results. is this a bad thing for me?
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I want my story to be heard, because it helps me to deal with it (My problems following use of Aneros)
(also posted on the officifal forum)
Hey there Aneros Community,let me type my story, because I need a place to put it. I have nobody else to speak because, I feel so ashamed about it. I was too embarrassed about it to bring it up in therapy so far.
When I was younger I got interested in my butt and for a gay guy this is nothing extraordinary. Somehow I stumbled about the topic Aneros and got interested in it. One day I bought Aneros and tried it several times. Then I abandoned all toys I had, since they did not do it for me and I was still living in my familys place, a bad place for secret butt toys.
After moving out I got interested in it again. I bought aneros again and this time it worked. I orgasmed with it. One very long session (+porn) made me panic. After two hours or so I felt sore and dried out – I didn’t drink all the time and stared non stop at the screen. Something didn’t sit right with me and I was wierded out and was disgusted.
I stopped and ejaculated normally and this was a moment of panic. My dick felt so different and I was worried I had damaged it – after such very long time of sexual stimulation. I was afraid to ejaculate, but did it anyways. I was using porn and then I wanted to ejaculate a second time, which I did again on porn.I was so terrified this evening and my prostate wouldn’t stop tingling. It was there all the time. I quit the topic completely and brought the toy to the garbage – again.
LSD, VR-JAV, 2cb, MDMA, Iboga, Eupho Syn, Do Nothing
Hi everyone, I’ve been practicing with Aneros for almost a year now. I’m a fairly obsessive/tenacious/addictive person so once I started I have been pretty determined to make it work. This post is definitely not going to be for everyone but I hope it can be useful to some of you who are struggling.
(Backstory)
Oddly enough my first time playing with Aneros (helix syn) I had a pretty amazing hfwo, but it wasn’t all down hill from there. The hfwo never returned in that effortless way, although I could generate them through intensive keggling, I was not looking for that I wanted dry orgasms. At the beginning of my journey I was struggling to quit pornography and was hoping that Aneros could offer a solution in that regard as I had read many people having more success without it. Maybe some can relate. Unfortunately, it wasn’t until I had used weed and porn that I had my first dry-o. I tried for a couple months abstaining from both, and I could generate nice feelings, but I would lose focus and get bored too easily and give up. Porn is helpful in keeping me engaged, I prefer lesbian Jav because too much emphasis on cock makes me want to have a normal orgasm.
Despite this success with weed and porn, I wasn’t able to consistently recreate the dry o’s. I’d say I probably had 4 or 5 over a two month period. Now I realize I may have been more successful with just the thc, and no porn but when I’m stoned it’s very hard to resist.
Looking for some help
Hello all, first I would like to thank this community. There is so much support and encouragement no matter what point of the journey you are on. I feel like I’ve read every post, tip, trick, and story out there. I am jealous but hopeful that I will eventually get to the fable super O.
This whole thing has opened me up to a world of new feeling that I never thought possible. My main problem is that I get more out of an Aless session then one using a toy. I just don’t seem to feel the direct feedback from the aneros on my prostate.
Straight male but I am no stranger to butt play. and as long as I have been jerking off I have been putting things in my ass. I get excited by the thought of anal play.
2 years ago I ordered a helix trident and started out with mindgasm lessons, and that really helped me to identify and target the muscles and have a strong control over them. I have been doing kegels for many years and consider my pelvic floor to be strong.
Lost pleasure in prostate
I have lost all pleasure in my prostate. The last time I’ve experienced pleasure with my aneros was months ago. I take a break for a few days but i still don’t feel anything. I even tried abstaining from ejaculation for about 15 days. My orgasms are nice with the aneros inserted but not as nearly as it was when my prostate was stimulated. I tried porn and I also tried cbd oil plus suppositories but still no success. Im thc sensitive so I can’t use weed. What can I do? This is literally frustrating. I’ve had only maybe 3 or 4 good sessions and that was months ago. Is it time for me to give up on this? People keep telling me to keep practicing even though I can’t feel pleasure but I’m not feeling shit. I was gonna abstain from porn and ejaculation for about 3 weeks but I don’t see the point if im not gonna get anything out of it.
Results despite pre-existing nerve damage?
I had a spinal cord injury a while back and i have sensation, but not 100%, i have some muscle control, but not 100% (i can use a walker to stand up as exercise but i use a wheelchair) and i can get erections, ejaculate, and orgasm, but its very challenging and i can only do it maybe 1x or 2x a month and only with a specific tenga egg and porn.
I have been experimenting some with a helix syn V and i also have a njoy wand, which helps because i can’t exactly control my pc muscles. I know that the connection between my autonomic nervous system and my brain is impaired, is anyone in this community aware of information related to this issue?
Or if not, do experienced users have suggestions for experiments that could help me? Different toys or techniques that don’t require really fine motor control of pc muscles or something that gives a little more simulation?
First time with any sort of prostate play, and I had p-waves for nearly 2 hours!
I’m in my late 30’s and I have had a sexual awakening of sorts. After a leg injury I’ve become a big time yoga practitioner and ended up really strengthening my PC muscles (unknowingly). Over time I noticed how much this helped with edging and through practice I have been able to have non enjaculatory orgasms. Totally changed my life and how I viewed sex as a man. Also worth noting I meditate on a regular basis and do breathing exercises daily.
I had heard a lot about prostate play and the “super O”. After going back and forth for a long time, I finally caved and purchased an Aneros Helix Trident to try out. What the hell, right?
So I started my session not knowing what the heck I was doing. I had a lot of problems getting the Aneros in, but after some breathing exercises and a lot of hits off the weed pen, I had that “welp I guess I got something up my butt” moment. It took me about 20 minutes of just trying stuff out to see if I could get any sort of pleasure from the experience.
Then I started to look at some porn on my phone, and that’s when the wheels got turning in my body. I took a bunch more hits, and then I started to get in the zone, like I do with edging with my penis. Eventually I got my legs moving and experienced some full on pleasure waves. Gentles soft moans, experimenting with moving my PC muscles, and really getting into it mentally.
Eupho got me to the next level
Long time lurker, first time poster. Created this throwaway account just to share this. Been exploring prostrate pleasure with aneros for 4-5 years. I have tried the helix syn v, helix syn, and progasm each with good amounts of success, a few p waves here and there, but no true orgasms. I recently bought the eupho after reading quite a few positive accounts of it on here. It seems the consensus was that the smaller, more pinpoint contact it makes with the prostate, and the greater freedom of movement, almost teases the orgasm out of you. Holy shit was that the case for me.
I used my new eupho once or twice last week to try it out. Nothing mind blowing but Towards the end of my last season with it I experienced some really pleasurable sensations. Sadly I had to wrap it up and get some sleep. All week I’ve been waiting for the right opportunity to use it again. After that I had not cum for a few days this week and was really horny last night ended up having some pretty hot sex with my wife. I woke up this morning still extremely horny and had an aching coming from my p-spot.
After my wife left to go shopping I had the house to myself. I popped a weed gummy and scrolled through some NSFW subs on Reddit while playing with my nipples through my t shirt. As the high started to hit my prostrate started buzzing, practically begging for it, as my nipples brought it to life.
hopeless and desperate for advice
I’ve read countless posts about what to do and what not to do and I still just cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong. Very brief background information: I have experienced what I think were P-waves twice in one session but never again- I had just woken up and was feeling a little horny. Also I use aneros helix trident
I have been making sure of the following:
– I’m super relaxed physically (I often do a session after waking up)
– I hold a ≈50% contraction and my muscles do move involuntarily
– In the occasion I do feel pleasure, I don’t change what I’m doing physically in a way that might ruin it
– I lay on my back sometimes with my legs bent or on my side with my legs up to my stomach
– I stop after 20 minutes at minimum or an hour and a half at maximum
• I don’t touch my dick
– I (mostly) do not watch porn during sessions
– I try not to have the mindset of “chasing” an orgasm
My guesses as to what could be causing an issue:
– I jack off maybe once a day or every other day
– I don’t get nearly as horny as I used to a couple years ago as a teenager
– I’m not always super focused on breathing
– My mind wanders and I am not always thinking sexual thoughts during sessions
Lost it!
I’ve been using Aneros for a few years now and absolutely love it! I first started around 2017(ish) but it was during the pandemic that I really started to invest in it properly – living alone and all that. It took me a few years to rewire but I followed all the advice, stayed patient and I gradually improved. There were a few ups and downs, a few duff sessions, but overall I could really feel my progress. Eventually, I was able to ride those p-waves, would moan the house down as I experienced intense HFDO one after another, and would eventually climax with an intense HFWO. Complete sessions could be as quick as 20 minutes if I was pressed for time, or I could ride the pleasure for over an hour. I felt like I was really beginning to master it and I loved it!
I now have a partner who lives with me and my sex life is very active, so my frequency using Aneros has decreased a lot over the past few years. However, I still use it whenever I have the house to myself and despite my decreased frequency, I’m still able to reach the same intense pleasures like when I was using it regularly. Well that was until recently…