Help with getting started

I’ve read up on the aneros beginners forum and listened to multiple podcasts, but I’m hoping for a little more specific feedback.

I ordered the Helix Syn V and I’ve used it 3 nights in a row so far. I’ve been mostly trying to learn to distinguish my different pelvic floor muscles and to incorporate them with using my aneros. I think I’m heading in the right direction (?) because I’ll generate precum multiple times in a session, but I can’t seem to get much further than that aside from the occasional ripple of tingling sensation throughout my body that I’ve felt before when I really had to pee but held it. I know it’s a journey, but I was hoping more experienced users could help point me in the right direction with a few things.

Do I need an erection for this work? I’ve enjoyed listening to erotica and trying perineal massage, but I’m not always hard when I do it.

Why does everyone mention binaural beats? Just because it’s relaxing? Will I not achieve the same result lying in bed?

Are the vibrating settings helpful or more for enjoyment once I’ve rewired?

Should I try blue balling myself and then focusing on the pelvic floor muscles? Or should I be totally disassociating my cock and prostate?

Is There A Premature Ejaculation Equivalent For Prostate Orgasms?

Like when someone slides in a toy in their ass, does anyone get instant anal orgasms?

That would be pretty neat, would love to be able to train myself to be like that if there’s any advice.

Also I’ve been practising for years and still can’t reach Super O unfortunately. Taking the entire month of August to deny touching my cock and avoiding porn, also wearing a chastity cage when not at work.

Dry O success!! And other non-related questions

A couple nights ago I had laid myself down with my progasm like I normally do, I’d showered and douched about half an hour beforehand.

My session went off to a great start when I had my aneros slip right in first go, I’ve started using coconut oil which has been surprisingly easier to clean up as opposed to my regular water-based lube.

My session was pretty uneventful for the first hour or so as I normally scroll through porn and get myself in the mood during this time, then I started to feel some light tingles and twitches around my prostate, so I decided to put my phone down. After about an hour of this the pleasure I was able to wring out of this aneros had me cursing non stop.

I had to remind myself to keep my breathing controlled cause normally at this point I’d either start touching my nipples and get distracted, or I’d have a dry o and end things there. But for some reason this first Dry O that had been building for what felt like the last 10-15 minutes surpassed any other Dry O I’d had up until that point.
I focused on my prostate and my breathing and after another few minutes of this a gentle yet heavy wave of pleasure crashed on top of my whole body and I felt so relaxed, the best part about it was the fact that it didn’t stop after a few minutes, it just kept going and going and going.

First HFDO?

Hello friends, here I am again. Today I am trying to understand what I’ve felt on my last session (a few hours ago).

First of all, I know that everyone has different experiences with this and nomenclature is just a way to simplify concepts that we are trying to communicate. But I really want to understand what I felt tonight, so I will try to explain.

Recently I started to felt and recognize the p-waves, feeling that pleasure and accepting that my prostate awoke and I started to rewire. Tonight I tried my vibrating prostate massager (it’s like a vice 2) in another position: with my legs more elevated than my body and watching porn. In a certain moment I started to feel some really good vibrations. I decided to (try) not pursue the feeling and continued to enjoy the moment. A few minutes later the sensations started to get really strong and good, and I closed my eyes, not focusing my attention on the porn anymore, to enjoy these sensations.

Then, I (think) felt an orgasm coming up. I remember that I was doing really strong kegels and contractions, holding up really strong and for as much time as I got. In a specific moment, I thought I was ready to orgasm. The feeling was very similar to a penile orgasm, but missing the sensation of ejaculating on the end. I had a few involuntary contractions, like when you have a penile orgasm and the dick moves up alone. When this passed, I was like “no, please, it was too good, come back”. It was like being on the edge of an abyss, just needing to make a leap of faith… and then going back. It felt incomplete, waiting for the feeling of ejaculating and this feeling never arriving.

First HFWO..Wow

I’ve been experimenting with different aneros toys for about 7 months. I always have some solid results usually, but like most I had been “peaking” and not been able to produce much other than some good feelings.

I have tried different versions, owning the programs jr, eupho, MGX, and Maximus. Recently I had been rotating between the Maximus and programs jr with ok results.

Until yesterday when I decided to use the eupho for the first time in a few months…

I started my session as I always do. Took an edible, cleaned up, and then waited about an hour to let the edible kick in.

Lubed up, inserted my eupho, and for whatever reason something felt different. I still am not sure why.

I layed on my bed on my back with a small pillow under my lower back, with another larger pillow supporting my legs up in the air.

I focused on breathing slowly. Counting in 6 seconds, exhaling 6 seconds. I tried to relax fully and tried to not contract any muscles down there.

Within 15 minutes I was feeling an extreme “fullness” and “pressure” around my prostate. This has happened before, but usually it flies away. This was constant. I tried to focus on it. I know many are against using porn, but I decided to turn on some while this was happening.

Aneros session winding down & I need guidance.

My last orgasm was Monday. I haven’t really been playing around very much with denial lately. In truth I haven’t had any discipline. I’ll scroll through Reddit or Tumblr, see something that turns me on, and just jack off straight to orgasm. But after Monday, I decided to put myself back into denial for a bit. I’m going on a road trip next week and I want to be really horny while I’m traveling. The hornier I get, the more bisexual I get, and the more open to new experiences I am. Horny travel makes for some great stories.

Late last night I ate a gummy and it kicked in full force around 2:00 a.m. I slipped in a Progasm and had a lot of fun. I had several anal orgasms and a lot of hands-free dry orgasms while I was high, but I didn’t ejaculate so I’m still crazy horny. In fact, this is the most aroused I’ve been in several months.

Right now I’m coming down from the THC but I’m still edging. I have my big biggest butt plug in, almost 2″ in diameter, and nipples are standing out a good inch inside the suckers. I keep letting myself get soft, then look at porn and stroke myself to the edge. I edge an edge and ride it for a while, then take a break until I go soft again. I’ve been doing that for the last hour and a half and I’m absolutely fucking desperate to cum. I also have half a mind to get on Grindr and find somebody to go play with. I’m really losing my brain right now. It’s taken me over 45 minutes to write this for you.

My HHC experience… holy shit

So I had asked for some recommendations on hemp-derived THC here about a month ago. I was recommended to look into HHC since it is more of a body high than Delta 8 THC. I went ahead and ordered the HHC tincture from [this](https://www.binoidcbd.com/?ref=CbrnmULLlPUAH) provider. Since it’s hemp-derived, it’s legal in the US.

I was finally able to try it out and I’m glad I was alone in the house when I did because the moans were loud and involuntary.

Story: I took 3/4 of a dose and after 2 hours, a wave of pleasure and euphoria washed over me. I began to giggle and by body felt like it was pulsing. Soon my entire body was tingling with pleasure and I began moaning involuntarily before a toy was even in. I could feel an intense tingling in my perineum and I decided it was time to put in my progasm. I used PLENTY of lube and laid back. I pulled up some porn and the tingles immediately intensified. As soon as I began to stroke my nipples, things really revved up. I could feel my hole twitching and I started moaning louder. I found myself biting my lip through the moans as tears of pleasure filled my eyes. Once I’d become fully erected, the twitching turned to a feeling of fullness and pressure. The toy then began to fuck my ass as though it had a mind of its own. The pleasure was now less in the prostate and more in the walls of my ass as the toy stroked me from the inside. My mind wandered away from the porn and towards the feelings inside of me. This only made things more intense. The positive feedback loop of being turned on by what my ass was doing to itself had me bellowing. Then my ass cheeks began to twitch. Soon, both of my cheeks were flexing and relaxing intermittently. I couldn’t help myself, I had to cum. I grabbed my dick and began stroking it. It didn’t take long before I came with an accompanying guttural moan. The more I stroked, the more pleasure I felt. Soon my moans turned into laughs and euphoria filled me with each stroke. Wow! I had an amazing sleep after that and can’t wait until next time.

Breakthrough for me

A lot of this is about relaxing, there’s no doubt about it. Unfortunately, that’s something I’ve always had trouble with. I’d heard weed can do wonders for the process, but I’d never tried it due to the legality. I recently stumbled across delta 8 THC, which is federally legal in the United States. Having never tried THC before, I leaned on the cautious side and only did a half dose of the tincture. The package said it takes 2 hours to kick in, so I just sat back and waited. As though by clockwork, 2 hours hit and my whole body loosened. And when I tell you I had tingles like never before, I’m not kidding. I then slid in my helix (which was almost a challenge with how engorged I’d become inside) and holy fuck. It was like the toy had a mind of its own and I could just lay back and take it. It was like I was being fucked I’m the best way possible. I turned on the porn and things were incredible until about an hour in my high began to peak and I could not stay focused enough to stay horny. It was almost frustrating, but I had to call it at that point. Lack of focus and sleepiness are the two downsides the delta 8 that I’ve found. But other than that, no complaints. After leaving the tincture in my hot car and ruining the batch, I’ve decided to order [HHC](https://www.binoidcbd.com/?ref=CbrnmULLlPUAH), which is supposed to be less in my head and more in my body. If anyone has any tips or stories, I’d love to hear. If anyone wants to give the D8 or HHC a try, the code JOYRIDE takes off 10% and is a comically fitting name considering our application. Use responsibly, especially if you’re new to it like me.

The blessed week

Happened to me a few years ago. I was 17 and was curious about prostate play. I bought my helix trident and had literally little to no sensations, even after several sessions. I remember thinking “these mfs are all liars who work for aneros, I’ll never buy their toys again”. I got frustrated and really wanted to hfo, so I bought dildos and learned to do it after only a few trials.

Fast forward to that “blessed week” 2 years later. It’s may 2021 and I’m in college. That year was intense for me, was working hard every day. And that week I had exams from 8am to 5pm for 5 days straight. It was monday evening and I was studying for my upcoming chemistry exam. Searching through some old papers in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident. It was 9pm and I thought to myself “You’ve worked enough, why not give this toy one last try and toss it if it still doesn’t work”.

I lie in bed, switch off the lights, put the aneros in and watch some porn. And of course, I do not touch my dick. I was just squeezing my ass a little and could feel something building up, I was scared to let go so I held tight untill I couldnt hold it anymore. My dick started dancing like crazy and I was moaning really loud, I couldnt believe what was happening. I tried different positions and my body started shaking and I couldnt stop. It felt so hot. I had to sleep so I pulled out the aneros while my body was still shaking, not knowing whether or not I’d be able to do this again. I laughed like crazy after that, amazed by what had just happened. It was unreal.

How much is too much? Can you strain your PC muscles?

I’ve had a bit of a breakthrough recently thanks to edibles and had 5 night sessions in a row where I experienced pure bliss. I’d take some edibles, 2x10mg, and put the Aneros in (either Eupho or Helix Trident) and also vape some THC and let the sensations build and build until I get involuntaries. Then I’d start doing some of the Mindgasm techniques like eternal wave until they started getting stronger. Once at a decent level, I’d also take some poppers and just take it all in. I’d go for maybe 2-3 hours just listening to some porn or Mindgasm and had the most pleasure I’ve ever had while hunting super Os (but I don’t think any super Os).

On the 6th night, I tried again the same way. I had different edibles because I had to buy more and the previous ones weren’t available, but I couldn’t get anything going and ended up stopping after less than an hour.

On the 7th night, I was craving the feeling and tried again but same deal, and on and on to today which is the 10th night since my breakthrough.

I think I wore out my muscles down there after continuous sessions. What does an exhausted PC (and associated) muscle(s) feel like? Because I don’t feel weak or strained or tired down there. Do you just become kind of unresponsive when trying to do contractions? In the post-bliss sessions where nothing really happened, I could still do contractions and the eternal wave etc but not for long, and got no involuntaries.