Am I almost there? Super O?

I do feel orgasmic pleasure waves, which feel about 70% pleasure of normal ejaculation pleasure. I do feel those orgasmic waves coming and coming…

But i somehow can not go beyond this 70%. I have been trying for 1.5 years. How can I go beyond this?

I lie down sideways and looking at porn or hot erotic pleasures help me feel these orgasmic waves…

“After the Erection and Arousal, What Comes Next?”

Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……

The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.

Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time!

Position

What have you found to be the most effective position in achieving a super o or just hands free orgasm?

Its been a couple years for me but I always laid on my right side with pillows in between my legs while watching porn on my laptop. Some sessions were better than others but I never had complete privacy so my anxiety was always a little too high.

I have a hotel room all to myself next week and I just ordered the Maximus Trident so I want to try and get that earth shattering super O.

Success at last! HFWO after days and days of trying for years

I probably have < 20 attempts under my belt over the years. Today I was motivated. Reddit gave me the missing piece: keep trying new positions, different toys, new movements, new states of mind. Something will work, we’re all different so there’s different formulae that work for different people
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I finally found my prostate today by feeling around with the small end of the Pure Wand by Njoy. I had been missing it all these years, because I wasn’t aroused enough when looking, and I needed more experience exploring back there.

The feelings were subtle. I was looking at amateur porn from Reddit, and noticed that as my whole body started feeling better and better from looking at (tasteful) porn, the Aneros i switched to started to feel better. My whole body started feeling aroused, and the advice to leave my cock alone was right on the money (shot).

The o is a whole body o, so focusing on one body part won’t work. I had to keep manipulating the wand/Aneros, without thinking into the prostate, just being aware of the changing sensations.

I had to get into a sexy frame of mind, which had a diffuse effect all over. I started feeling more and more aroused to the point where the nekkid ladies I was looking at in the porn started to look really cute and desirable. So I went with this excited appreciation ( thank you anonymous ladies of Reddit who post amateur porn. You’re doing God’s work.)

Advancing

Im turning 30 in four months an I so intubed with my sexual apetite that the simplest thing can get me going an I can ride it til the sun comes up. I feel like my prostate has grown the size of a watermellon. A simple tap with a toy sends me into a shaking blissful orgasmic ride that I never want yo get off.

My prostate, my heart an my brain are so intuned that even my a-less sessions arr mind blowing. I now have distance my self from porn jump starting my sessions an now I read erotic stories online or listen to very scriptive audio of men gooing an orgasming off of there own penises. The grunt of a man tugging at his own meat while his hole is plugged is so hot to hear. I now wear my toys majority of the day. They gove me suprise joits of pleasure that keep me smiling thru out the evening. My prostate is so trained now from all of the countless sessions I end each one with just pouring out cum with out even touching my dick. It some mtimes oozes an then other times it gets on my chest an even in my beard.

I love my toys an I appreciate my prostate for all the pleasure they both have brought me. So glade I found this site an found my sexual liberation.

Very very slow progress sure beats no progress

If you’re not having progress with your Aneros, so long as it isn’t hurting, do keep giving it a go from time to time. There’s a comment in the sidebar that “some guys have spent years getting there”; take that literally.

I suspect I got my Aneros back in 2005, give or take a year. I bought it at the point believing there was only one model and was surprised to receive one called a MGX – this might help people be able to place it in time. It probably took me several years and a lot of effort and exaggerated clenching to get any sort of reaction, and for the longest time I would try the “lots of deep breathing, fifteen full clenches then hold it quarter-way” routine. I might get one pleasant sensation, though not always, then that would be it in terms of anything pleasurable for the session. I would keep trying and trying and get nothing further. There were two occasions, years apart, where I clenched so much that for several (5? 7?) days afterwards I felt like I had bruised myself internally and felt like I was buzzing inside, in a not-at-all pleasant way, to the point where sitting down was uncomfortable. Ever since then I’ve taken it more easily.

Confused about the meaning of being Aroused to start a session.

We often see tips/advises like this in the same post :

– Clean the slate. ( Relax , meditate or “Put out of your mind all of the thought processes by which you achieve a traditional penile orgasm.”)

**And**

– Start your Aneros sessions aroused.

What do they mean by aroused in this case ? Sexually or not aroused ?

I don’t know what to do, i traditionally look at photos , porn video, etc… first to be aroused first and after i do my sessions (some time i lets some selected photos (no video, too distracting), that i love to watch , slideshow on TV while lying on Sofa to help with staying “aroused”). that doesn’t “work” for me any way.

Hotel Session

Stayed at a hotel in Va a few weeks back after visiting the gym so i could have some alone time and an aneros session. To prepare mysef i gave myself an enema so i was cleaned out. I also shaved my ballsack and trimmed my pubiv hair rather short. I took a shower and covered myself with lavender baby oil which caused my body to glow. I smoked a bit to mellow the mood and also took a V pill. Then with all the lights off i watched some porn fir about an hour. As i did i got a hard on which was very intense. I inserted my helix after lubing it up. The room i was in had a large window adjacent to the bed. The room was on the back of the motel and faced a hill. There was an apartment at the top of the hill which looked down at the room. From the rooms window i looked up and saw a couple in one of the apartment windows. It was dark in my room but i had purposely left the bathroom light on which caused the room to be dimly lit so that anyone looking in could see me lying in the bed. I stood naked in front of the window and saw that the couple were sitting at a table and pointing to the room so i know that they saw me. I has drawn the curtain open which made this possible. Now that i knew i was being watched, i lay down on the bed and began my session. Knowing that i was being watched and i was putting on a show made the session more intense than usual. After about 45 minutes of squeezing and releasing i started to lose control and started shaking for a period of time with each squeeze. As i did i was moaning loudly and i could feel precum oozing out. I guess if you were standing in the hall or where in an adjacent room then you were treated to an iral show as well. At first the shaking was short but as i continued the squeezes and holdings became loner which caused me to shake more violently and for a loner period of time. By now it was getting more difficult to stop and rest and the mini orgasms were so frequent that they flowed into each other. Precum was now oozing out continually. My moanings grew louder and i drifted off into a super O which seemed to last forever until i uncontrollably ejactulated thrusting my hips violently as i did. After finally stopping, i just ly there exhausted! After abor 15 minutes i was able to get up and went over to the window. I saw the couple sitting by the table. The guy saw me and gave me a thumbs up. In his other hand i spied a video camera. I had truly put on a performance for these two! I then slowly closed the curtain!

Let’s talk hands-free ejaculation! (with a side-order of drugs, and maybe some stimulation-but-not-fapping)

Been using the progasm and vice (without the vibe) for going on three years. I think i’ve explored a huge range of ‘orgasms’ and still discovering new things. There’s something really compelling to me about a session that ends in ejaclation, and I’ve managed to achieve it completely hands free, but it’s still really inconsistent.

Doing a bit of reading, lots of things seem to contribute to the experience.. not coming for a while, light stimulation, drugs, etc. Personally around day 3 or 4 the urge or feeling of ‘almost there’ to ejaculate starts to ramp up, but i’ve been able to hands-free ejaculate as short as two days from my last ejaculate. Another post mentions cupping the balls at the base of the penis has led to ejaculation, and I’ve experienced this too.

I find porn and a bit of weed to help immensely, but I’m wondering what other techniques or drugs might help. Another post mentions a ‘pre-workout’ pill leading to some amazing super-o (no ejaculation). I’m guessing this has a bunch of caffeine and maybe some pseudo-ephedrine like stimulant. This kinda lit an idea in my head, as i’ve been able to ejaculate more frequently in the mornings, which correlates to having had a few cups of coffee.

So.. all you ejaculators out there? What’s your recipe?

Breaking the Routine & Small Jitters

I’ve been struggling to find time for this post, but a few days ago were a little special. Nothing crazy, but still different.
I had like 3-4 days of no Aneros or masturbation in general, and started an Aneros session kind of early on in the day.
It got pretty nice with some good feelings only building up to like 20% contraption strength or so, I was very in the mood, but got too distracted by my roommate being up and awake. I’ve been thinking if I should tell him about the Aneros stuff, because eventually he’ll most likely find out anyway.
So I quit kind of early on but was still completely in the mood, so I was just browsing porn and stuff as I was waiting for him to go to work.

That’s when it hit me about the tips I got about mixing things up. Aneros has become too much of a routine for me. I was like: “I’m feeling horny, I’m browsing porn, and me having an Aneros in wouldn’t even be noticeable”. So I went for it! This is probably the first time I had the Aneros in while just being in front of the computer since the very first time I used it when I did traditional masturbation at the same time. Now of course, it’s way different this time because I’m actually focusing on breathing and contraptions.