Anniversary synopsis

On January 18 (today), it has been exactly two years since I first inserted my Aneros Helix Syn. At the time, my back door experience was limited to a few weeks of finger exploring with minimal results. I had been reading the Aneros forum for some time and so I knew there was a chance I was going to discover a new world of pleasures and possibly improve my health in the process.

At 61 years of age, my sex life was abysmal, enduring a very low libido and hardly able to have an erection. On occasions, I felt pressure in my lower abdomen and irritating sensations while urinating: possibly a touch of BPH or prostatitis as so many males experience at that stage of life. Porn was plentiful but had become ineffective and boring. I was also getting up countless times to urinate at night (3 sometimes 4).

I was feeling my age, I had become an old man with a lazy prostate and almost on the edge of depression.

I cannot remember exactly how I came across the topic of Aneros but somehow my curiosity and interest in seeking more info on prostate health must have lead me here. As mentioned above, I started exploring the dark hole with my index and found the intrusion interesting. The more I read the Aneros forum, the more intrigued I became. I simply had to get one!

I think something has awakened inside me…

This ended up being a bit wordy, so I put a TL;DR at the end.

So, to start with – I’m straight, married, with children. I’m very new to anal play (with the exception of maybe a sharpie when I was like 14). I’ve been going through a bit of a lifestyle change, losing weight, going to the gym, eating healthier, etc. and have been pretty successful over the last 6 months. I have some time off work and the house to myself for a bit. Based on an AskReddit thread, I saw the Aneros Helix mentioned as one of the naughty items that have changed someone’s life or some BS like that.

I do sometimes enjoy tickling my anus a bit while masturbating, and am myself quite open to experimentation (the wife, not so much). So I did some reading and research, and found out about this prostate thing in my bum. So I ordered myself a Helix Syn (and a couple other things, a new sleeve, etc., just for shits) as a self reward for my big life change.

I was highly anticipating it’s arrival, even though I know it may take some time to really get into it. It arrived a day early. I immediately drew myself a nice bath with jasmine salts, and relaxed for a bit. Cleaned myself out as best I could (note to self, buy a new turkey baster), and set to work.

First use of the original Helix

Hey everyone. I just bought my first prostate massager and went with the Helix model. It looked like it was great for beginners so I decided to give it a try. I read all the stories of these amazing experiences. I didn’t get anything really the first couple of times I used it. I think the first use I got some body twitching, but no tingles or things like that. I tried watching porn and got into a rhythm but not sensations past normal reactions to the open. I tried different positions and nothing seemed to happen. I did all the exercises as well to the best that I could. I don’t want to just buy another model to have the same results. Are there any suggestions to getting this experience started. Thanks guys.

First Session – I Think I Had a Prostate Orgasm

Hi everyone,

TLDR: is it ok to apply pressure to my prostate via external pressure applied above the base of my cock while using my Aneros?

I finally took the plunge and bought an Aneros yesterday. My local toy shop only had the progasm, which is on the bigger side but I’m accustomed to plugs and D so I figured it was worth the risk.

The Progasm went in with no problem and felt great. I relaxed and tried to work my PC and anal muscles. I had some very good porn playing next to me and just gave into the experience knowing that this was my first time and trying not to have too many expectations.

I stayed soft most of the time (90 mins) and did have several flashes of eye rolling pleasure from my contractions. I was sure to not touch my dick too.

Here’s my question- I applied pressure to my prostate via external pressure right above the base of my dick. This sent me in OVER THE EDGE. I had an incredibly intense orgasm and came buckets without touching my dick. Is this technique ok? Should I avoid this moving forward? I certainly want to get to a truly handsfree MMO capability.

Can’t wait to try more!

Ejaculating Orgasm Achieved

After 2 years of prostate play I was FINALLY able to hit a milestone. I popped in my Progasm and browsed porn for about an hour, working on kegals and getting my prostate aroused. After I turned off the porn, I laid flat on my back with my knees slightly elevated and apart. I continued to work on focusing the sensations from flexing my PC muscles but noticed that sensations were heightened when I flexed my inner thigh muscles as well. This brought on a whole new level of pleasure. I reached down to the aneros and pushed it downwards firmly, so that the tip of the Progasm was firming pushing up against my prostate. I continued the flexing and kegals but I was unconsciously squeezing much harder than usual. I felt a peak and somehow I went over the edge and full out had a penile ejaculatory orgasm. It was intense, lasted a good minute or so and extremely pleasurable. The amount of ejaculate was average.

The session lasted about 1.5hours and I did not touch my penis the entire time. The orgasm was achieved 100% hands free. However, I know that this was not a true prostate orgasm, but wanted to see if this is something that has happened to others. Pretty happy with that session but still working on achieving those prostate waves of pleasure / super-o. Am I on the right track or was this a complete detour? Thanks for reading!

Another HFWO – my enemy can’t leave me

Well my sessions don’t improve, and worse than that it’s so incredibly rare to have a good session. And when things are interesting 95% of the time I end up having a HFWO.
In fact I feel this is related to my premature ejaculation. And that’s like 90% of my depressed mood, it’s just so frustrating and aneros ends up being just another colateral damage.
This affects me so much I’m gonna post another message here I wrote in another forum, as I’m getting really desperate as I feel no way out of this nightmare:

“Well, where to start.
I’m 30 and I have always had premature ejaculation.
I’m 1,73 m high (5ft 8in) and 100 kg (220 lb).
When I was a teen I didn’t care much about it because my mindset was “when I grow older this will improve”.
So time went on and on and on… and nothing changed.
In the last 5/10 years I’m been burning inside with all this, I’ve sought plenty of help (including professional) but nothing ever helped.
I’m reaching that point where I’m starting to get desperate.
I feel so hurt inside, and it is getting worse.

So details.
Like I said this always happened, but I didn’t care much of it when I was a teen.
I’ve always been a very introvert, calm, person, and another (un)related thing is that I’ve never loved anyone.
Yes, I’ve never felt any kind of crush or anything of that. It’s totally alien to me.
I didn’t care of it when I was younger but now it’s another thing that is hurting me.

Still here with an adjustment onto the back and new audio

Still here and still enjoying the rides but no super O as of yet.
However, I decided to stop the porn and switched to Binaural Beats for HFO via youtube. Its great audio and really is just enough to keep the mind focused and not distracted- and I find myself keeping the intensity dialled into the audio with great effect.

I’ve also stopped the left side position and am now on my back, large rolled towel under my hips and knees slightly spread with feet pulled up near my bottom and head without pillow. This has definitetly allowed the involuntaries to freely kick in and a different experience.

I also can’t wait for the Trident series to get to europe early Jan. I enjoy both tabs on the PJr so believe lots of value will be derivd from their inclusion.

Happy riding everyone!

10 Years On… A little guidance needed.

Writing this as I’ve been using the aneros for many many years now (on and off) and curious as to how to expand/improve my experience. I know we’re not supposed to have any expectations, but it’s certainly a bit frustrating to read some of the testimonials from other guys here who describe “30 mins of rolling orgasms” “face-melting pleasure” etc! Of course, simply buying the toy meant we all had some sort of expectation going into it from the get go…

I think I’ve tried just about every suggestion found on Reddit and the aneros forums to help me on my journey, everything from fish oil, positions, breathing, hypnosis, sleeping with it in, porn, ganja- you name it, I’ve tried it. I own just about every Aneros model. What I can describe as my best experiences so far with toy are as follows:

I use coconut oil lube (which I find feels the most erotic), find a relaxing alone time w/o interruptions for a good hour session.

Usually I find the classic Helix or Eupho give me the most discernible reactions.

I find the “do nothing” method has the most effective for me- contractions and breathing feel very bland.

After insertion, the first 5 minutes often feel the best: I get an erection, tightness in my anus, the aneros is pulled in, faster heartbeat, erotic little pulses in my sphincter muscle. This feels like its building up into something sexy/exciting, but after a few minutes all these initial feelings subside and my anus and the aneros relax outwards.

That delicious anal-prostate tingle & Aneros Tug-of-War technique : Sessions for Oct. 28 & Nov. 1, 2 & 3

Hi guys,

Saturday, October 28:

Many mornings recently I have been waking up with a most delicious prostate-anal tingle in my bunghole. That most masculine feeling is at the heart of my Aless these days. It is so wonderful to interact with this Aless with the Kegels, slow, gentle breathing, and at times, diddling my nipples, especially in bed at night.

Usually I have Aneros sessions first thing in the most when both my body and mind are at their freshest. That condition gives rise to some amazing Aneros sessions! Unfortunately I had to get a much needed haircut mid morning at a barber shop in my neighborhood. So I postponed my session to late in the afternoon when few telephone (telemarketer) calls arrive.

My session this evening was an Aneros full court press with my five usual Aneros models, Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE. It was a leisurely 1.5 hour session during I let my Aneros models work on me, each in its own way.

My Aless as I type this blog entry right now is strong and vibrant. I plan to go to bed in an hour or so tonight. That is the best time for me to focus upon my Aless. Amazing things happen in the dark late at night for me in bed when I do this.

Wednesday, November 1:

I had a brief hiatus on Monday and Tuesday earlier this week from my Aneros sessions since my last session last Saturday.

Kindling the Fire

The following is yet another set of tips for novice and/or frustrated Aneros users. I’m not the yokozuna of prostate play or anything, but I’ve collected a handful of habits that seem to afford me consistent success with different models. I don’t pretend that they’ll work for everyone, not even for most people, but I’ll be glad if they help a few users out, even if indirectly by showing the right attitude and spirit of experimentation to bring to sessions.

1. *Start thinking of your ass primarily as a sexual organ.* Sure, it does impolite things and sometimes even commits atrocities, but so does your mouth, and yet you usually aren’t too hung up over the fact you eat, belch, vomit, cuss, and tell lies with it when you’re kissing someone. As far as you’re concerned, the primary function of your ass is now pleasure; all that other business is a regrettable sideshow, and should be far from your mind as you experiment. I encourage you to try other things back there: fingers, someone’s tongue, someone’s dick. Build up a whole armada of toys.