Did I have a prostate or penile orgasm?

I purchased an Aneros Syn V on Black Friday and have generally felt disappointed with my limited experiences so far.

Let me begin by saying I’m not chasing the Big O. I realise it takes months, sometimes years, before you might have the Big O. I have, however, been interested in prostate milking or something lesser than the Big O.

Now, I’ve had maybe four or five sessions, so I’m a complete noob. I’d never had any luck before whatsoever. Tonight, however, I decided to give it yet another go before deciding if I’m going to keep it or return it before the 60 days are up. I came back home after staying at my parents’ for the holidays; decided as I hadn’t had much alone time, I’d be aroused and might feel something special.

# The Session

I gave it a go and I quickly got hard and kept my boner for a good ten minutes or so, before it died down. I got a boner again and kept it for another ten minutes or so before, again, it died down. At this point, I thought I’d listen to one of my favourite pieces from r/gonewildaudio. I got a boner again and felt very aroused. Decided I’d top it off by watching one of my favourite porn videos.

So I just had my first “session”…

(TLDR at the bottom)

if you could call it that. I’m brand spanking new to this but it seems like there’s a lot of rules although that may be too strong a term, guidelines I suppose it more apt.

In terms of those guidelines, I didn’t really follow them. This is my maiden voyage and I’ve never had anything up there besides my gfs tongue and maybe two inches of her finger. I got cleaned up, smoked some weed, got naked and lubed, and took a good 5 minutes to actually relax enough to get my helix syn inserted.

I watched porn, I stroked my dick, and generally just did what I would do when I jerk off, but I also stopped touching myself at points, relaxed, moved my pelvic muscles, felt my very first sensations ever from prostate stimulation. I wiggled and moaned but ultimately ended up stroking my cock until I shot a huge load and I think that’s ok.

Because I’m so new and still getting comfortable, while I understand there are specific methods to get to the specific goals we’re all aiming at, I also think it’s ok to do what you’re comfortable doing and taking you’re own route to mastering this type of prostate play.

I know I did it “wrong”, I know I’ll have to change, but that was pretty fun and felt really good and I’m going to bank that session as a relative success.

Any porn addicts here?

Prefacing this by saying I do not judge those who use porn in anyway. I’m a recovering porn addict of 20 years. Never got to the point where I had PIED or escalation to seriously taboo or illegal content but definite impact to my ability to become aroused outside the bedroom (i.e. by myself). I’ve been pornfree for nearly 6 months and before my last relapse in June I was porn free for 2 months. So 2022 has been a good recovery year and the one that I think will serve as the foundation for long term permanent porn abstinence.

Anyway, I’ve been using the aneros off and on for the past four years. I can count on one hand the number of times I feel like I’ve gotten even remotely close to a super on and two of those times has been in the last month. So I have a renewed interest in practicing this but obviously so many years of penile-focused ejaculatory orgasms to porn has made it very difficult to tap into innate arousal and experience a lot of success. My routine is usually to put my device in and do nothing for about 20 min other than deep breath and focus on lowering heart rate. I’ll then do some light contractions and try and differentiate between my different muscle groups. Lately I’ve been trying not to rely on any mental fantasy but it’s usually required to get me started with some involuntaries. At that point I’ll stop fantasizing and try and focus only on sensation and let my body do the rest. This is where I’ve had the most success and experience what I think are p-waves. But eventually I lose control of my breathing or try and maintain the right level of muscle contractions and lose everything. Eventually my involuntaries start to feel kind of one-dimensional I.e. I feel them only in one muscle group, usually my rectum and it will take me a awhile to get back to where I was.

HFWO but disappointed

Hey all. Just wanted to share an experience from yesterday.

Been at this for about a year now and have had a few HFWO’s mainly from
Njoy. Recently I picked up a Helix Trident and wanted to take it for a test drive. I was very horny but went in 100% touch free from my dick. No porn or edging. Just the Trident and a warm bed.

For about an hour and a half I did the “do nothing” approach. Mainly laying flat knees bent but also face down ass up. This was truly meant as a trial run so no real expectations here. I felt a few small pleasurable moments here and there but nothing major. I was out of time so because I was quitting I said fuck it and put on porn….

Just watching porn for a minute instantly got some feelings going down there. It’s like it turned me on and the engine kicked over. About 5 minutes later I gave up and touched my dick but very very subtly. “I know I know!” Again this was research and not meant for a full run. I didn’t get hard, maybe 25% hard from touching for about 20 seconds, but my prostate had clearly been woken up. I then took my hand away.

Asking for Helix Syn V tips

Hi, I just got my very first Aneros line – the Helix Syn V. I’ve never experienced super O in my life so I want to try. During the session, I kept my Helix Syn V at pattern 7 power 2 and felt quite nice. However the problem is I couldn’t keep my erection. I had to watch porn during the session to somehow make my penis erect again without touching it. After 3 hours straight, my Helix Syn V’s battery was empty and I had to end the session without achieving anything.

That session is my first though, so I think the next one will be better. I just want to ask for some tips and tricks to keep erection and achieve the super O easier.

Thanks!

33d Total Abstinence + Eupho Syn Trident/Progasm Jr. = This Post!

No superpowers, and I’m frankly glad it’s over. I feel like there’s a level of meme mysticism built around NNN due to habitual porn-watchers suddenly stopping. At least, I feel like quitting porn early got me through. Maybe I was supposed to do something specific during the challenge besides not nut idk.

Endpoint was wednesday morning; I started the challenge early to avoid having to wait until midnight of the final day. I didn’t use any porn for these sessions. No weed either. I actually stopped consuming any weed half-way through NNN. No square-assed reason for that, just felt like stopping.

11/30: Released from the challenge, I finally allowed myself to fixate on sexual fantasies, doing kegels when they’d manifest throughout the day. No orgasms, but quite a few p-waves. Eventually got old. Once afternoon hits, I cleaned, came out w/ towels, laid one down and started fingering. First orgasm after 1mo was a light-yet-deep, very pleasant dry-o from minutes of fingering. Obviously, it’s not the “grand entrance” others would work to after a nut-ban or whatever, but that’s how I wanted to start. 3 followed, each more intense than the last. Once I had enough of that, slid the eupho in, laid down on my back and relaxed.

Squirting so much but no orgasm

Hey, I m new in prostate play and need your help !
Yesterday I played for 1h30 with my Aneros Helix Syn. It was really good I had P waves that I never had before. It felt really good.

I was watching porn and super horny.
I started to squirt but like so much I completely soaked the bed and it happened twice. It was really good !

Anyway I did not succeed Having HFO, I was à bit frustated so after 1h30 I started just shaking my penis 2 or 3 times(not masturbating) and I jerked off in 15 seconds

It feels good but I m à bit frustated not having HFO or super O.

Whats are your advice ?

Why do I squirt that much ? Do you always squirt before Orgasm ??

Newbie looking for advice…

So for about a year or so I have experimented with various vibrators in my ass which definitely have felt good and have led to some amazing orgasms while masturbating or having sex. But I more recently learned about prostate orgasms that have nothing to do with the penis and bought myself a new toy… I decided to start in the bath tub since that’s where I play with other toys in my ass a lot and once I got the aneros in I definitely could feel how it worked but as I relaxed and tried to build the spasms and contractions I just never could. After a good hour or so of different techniques I decided to get out and try it in bed with some porn on to help get me really stimulated.

Once in bed I began on my back again like I was in the tub and still wasn’t really able to get much to build together. I was doing deep breaths, holding the contraction and everything I had read online but not much was working. Decided to flip over to my stomach and what a difference that made. I quickly started to squirm and move around as the spasms and contractions began to build and I was just letting my body do its thing.

First time using, felt nothing but a lump of plastic in my butt

Ordered a Progasm last week and have been beyond excited to get this thing up my ass. I’ve been aware of these Aneros toys for some time and recent experimentation with a curved vibrator convinced me that I needed to try something actually made for hitting my p-spot since I felt like I was getting close but it was difficult to know for sure if I was hitting the spot and found myself twisted into more and more uncomfortable positions in pursuit of the spot. All the reading I did to learn how to hit my prostate suggested that I’d know it when I hit it but no amount of digging around in there (I kid, I was gentle and procedural) hit anything that really stood out to me as OMG RAPTUROUS PLEASURE!!! So the Progasm arrived today and wasn’t out of the box fifteen minutes before I had all my clothes off, the toy lubed and popped comfortably up the back door. As promised, it sits comfortably inside me, and I can definitely feel it up against the spots I was working with the vibrator but still, it simply feels like it’s up there and… well… that’s it. I did some breathing exercises, taking in a deep belly-breath, relaxing, and I could feel the toy slip further upward, which was not an unpleasant sensation, but again, not, ya know, good. I’m trying (and obviously failing miserably) to come at this without expectation, but an expectation of at least *some* sort of sensation isn’t too much to ask, I think.