Ordered a Progasm last week and have been beyond excited to get this thing up my ass. I’ve been aware of these Aneros toys for some time and recent experimentation with a curved vibrator convinced me that I needed to try something actually made for hitting my p-spot since I felt like I was getting close but it was difficult to know for sure if I was hitting the spot and found myself twisted into more and more uncomfortable positions in pursuit of the spot. All the reading I did to learn how to hit my prostate suggested that I’d know it when I hit it but no amount of digging around in there (I kid, I was gentle and procedural) hit anything that really stood out to me as OMG RAPTUROUS PLEASURE!!! So the Progasm arrived today and wasn’t out of the box fifteen minutes before I had all my clothes off, the toy lubed and popped comfortably up the back door. As promised, it sits comfortably inside me, and I can definitely feel it up against the spots I was working with the vibrator but still, it simply feels like it’s up there and… well… that’s it. I did some breathing exercises, taking in a deep belly-breath, relaxing, and I could feel the toy slip further upward, which was not an unpleasant sensation, but again, not, ya know, good. I’m trying (and obviously failing miserably) to come at this without expectation, but an expectation of at least *some* sort of sensation isn’t too much to ask, I think.
Altogether, I spent about an hour with it. I did a little bit of pelvic floor tensing. I spent some time doing this while touching myself all over, making sure not to stroke my cock. I put on some porn to see if I could kickstart something. I did eventually get into a rhythm while on my knees, with my legs spread apart. I started rocking on it while cultivating a terribly filthy fantasy and got… something but again, not what I’d characterize as pleasure. Plus, I’m trying to work the whole hands free thing and this somewhat involved me moving it around inside myself, slightly.
Eventually I had to call it a day since I’ve got stuff to do. When I stood up, a long string of thick precum dangled from the head of my cock, which struck me as *terribly* sexy and I look forward to see more of that. But I do kind of wonder. Am I going to be one of these people who can’t experience a prostate orgasm? I am being realistic here and cutting myself some slack. I plan on keeping all of this in mind, particularly the image of the precum 😉 when I try again tomorrow. But is this at all common? Is there a build up from no sensation to the mystical transcendence of the SUPER O?Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/z7agsx/first_time_using_felt_nothing_but_a_lump_of/