To Progasm Or not to Progasm?

A little about me and my experiences. I am a 21 year old straight male who has always been curious about prostate play since seeing women perform it on guys in Porn. About two years ago I bought my first aneros product, which was the helix syn Trident. I’ve been using it often on for the past two years, but I just don’t really feel like it does anything for me, I’ve had a couple of dry orgasms here and there, and some nice pleasurable P waves. But it just doesn’t really feel like it’s hitting anything. I had purchased a vice 2 about a year back halfway through my journey with all of this. And Ive been reading a lot of posts on here about people switching from smaller toys such as the helix that I have, to a Progasm.

I was reading about how some people would warm up with smaller toys and then use the bigger toys to finish off. So I decided to try this last night, I started out with my normal helix and I used it for about an hour. And then I got up took it out. Took a piss made sure that everything was ready to go and I was comfortable. And then I inserted the vice two. I was actually very surprised as how full it felt. However it didn’t really feel like it was still hitting my prostate. I started doing some contractions, I even turned on the vibrations but I really wasn’t getting anything out of it. I turned on the vibrations and started to watch some porn. I was focusing as much as I could on the toy while watching the porn. My thought process behind this was may be if I was more aroused with the porn my prostate would grow and Vice Two would hit it better. I eventually ended up turning off the vibrations because that just was uncomfortable.

First dry orgasm

So I had just finished off a uni assignment when I decided to pick up my helix syn again as a reward. I’d been on a 4 week break so I wasn’t expecting much out of the session, I put on some porn while a-less and then kept searching for pleasure in my prostate, eventually the involuntaries got pretty frequent so I decided to put the porn away and focus on my body for a bit, I was just enjoying this part of my session as normally it takes a lot longer to get in the mood.

After a bit, I put my aneros in and relaxed whilst contracting my pc muscles every now and then. I put on some porn and continued with what I was doing, suddenly this heat and pressure started to build in my prostate and slowly spread until it hit my head like a ton of bricks, I could feel myself getting to the finish line and it was at this point I put the porn away and started to play with my nipples to get myself over the line. This is what I predicted and it worked! I had a dry orgasm that lasted about 8-10 mins, I just lay there completely in shock by how much pleasure I was feeling.

To anyone who thinks frequency is key, I’d say in my case it wasn’t. To me it was 100% about knowing what your body likes and being in the mood. Once you know how to look for pleasure in your prostate, you’re set. It could be months before you have another session and you never know, it could be your best.

What to arouse while porn free?

Hey guys! Yesterday I received my Helix Syn and started to play. I read few post where someone mentioned audio literotica but I am aiming to be porn free so it is not for me though it would be awesome. Asmr were weird and too close to porn. What do you recommend for arouse instead of porn? Tantric music sounds good.

Decreasing my porn consumption may be helping significantly?

I have been practicing with aneros for four years now, but never what I would call a Super-O. Many sessions where the sensations have been better than ever before, though. I own the Helix Syn, Eupho, and Progasm.

After reading enough posts about the distraction it causes, I’ve decided to begin cutting porn out. This is the end of my second two-week hiatus from it, and recently every other session has started feeling leaps and bounds better than it ever has before.

Porn is still present to some degree in my sessions–I usually warm up with it, and listen to some audio porn during, but that’s now the only time I consume porn, and I hope to continue decreasing this in the coming months.

Tonight, I started to feel the sensations begin to spread from my pelvis outward, for the first time ever, but my concentration was already collapsing, and it was over in a flash.

The session before last, I experienced pleasant tingling and aching in my penis and prostate, which was another first for me.

As amazing as the sessions have started becoming, I’m still learning to strike the balance between “relaxed” and “focused.” I hope I’ll be blessed with continued success, and that you all will be, too!

5+ HFDO in ~30min

Ok let me preface this by saying yes, everyone is different, but a lot of the stuff I read on here just seems like over the top bs.

I’m a straight (bi? Who knows.) guy in his 20s. Don’t drink, do drugs, or smoke weed. I’ve been on and off using the Aneros for about a year or two (live at school) and have more recently been getting amazing results. Started off with the Syn trident before getting the Progasm (which I used in this session) and love both.

In this particular session, I got ready and looked at some porn/fantasized to get me turned on more. Usually I’m already good to go when I tell myself “I’m gonna have a session” because who tf doesn’t get turned on by the idea of being able to cum multiple times in a row w/o actually having to cum? but it helps start the involuntaries before the toy of choice for the night is in. I started off laying on my side but didn’t get far with that and semi-recently transitioned to just laying flat on my back with my legs spread a bit. No “feet flat on the bed” stuff I can’t stand that position. Now normally I just lay there and just clear my mind and enjoy/think about the sensations I’m feeling in my body w/o intentionally doing contractions and I get some nice results. But this time, I decided to try some and ended up having my best session. I contracted and held my pelvic floor muscles (like I’m holding in peeing) just to the point I started to feel really good and did my best to stay in that area. No “I contracted x muscle while holding y muscle in place to get z effect”. This lead to an increase in sensation and I eventually had a HFDO and kept doing this which lead to more and more. No nipple play or anything, just enjoying the moment. After this was all said and done, I masturbated with the toy in and had another great (albeit this time actually cumming) orgasm.

To those struggling, here’s what you do…

I need you to go out to your local smoke/vape shop, like right now. Pick up a box/vial/can of Delta-8 gummies. You want a serving size of 30mg per gummy. Buy them, any flavor is fine.

Make sure you have no plans for that day cause the effects may last close to 24 hours. Anyway, take out a gummy and cut it in half so you’re eating around 10-15mg at MOST for the day. After that, wait 10 minutes. After, get out your lube shooter and get your ass nice and lubed. Apply coating to aneros before slipping in, of course.

Get comfy and turn on some porn. Once you get going and the orgasms start, you’re probably not gonna want to watch it anymore and would rather just melt in the pleasure. So don’t worry about the “too distracting” aspect of it. Anyway…

Lightly clench your pee muscle periodically. Lightly clench your “pinch a loaf” muscle periodically. Moderately “push” out your muscles as if you were trying to push out a poop, but not too hard… periodically.

In about 45 minutes, most of you should start to feel some new and pleasurable feelings down there. From there, let your body take over and enjoy.

I’ve been using aneros on and off for 7 years with very very little progress. My very first session with THC/weed/delta8 unlocked my prostate to dry orgasms.

Do this and report back in a day.

my first successful session where I had rolling orgasms over and over.

Hi bros, first time posting here but i felt I had to share my experience the other night and get some feedback. Its probably guna be a pretty long post but please bear with me.

First a bit about me.

Im 31 years old and been on the journey for over 2 years now with little success. Ive had a few sessions where things feel like theyre heading somewhere but they sort of fizzle out. Ive had the racing heart, slight moaning, tingles and muscle spasms at different times.

The toys i have are the aneros (helix trident, peridise, mgx, eupho trident, maximus trident and progasm ice) and the lovense edge vibrator. Ive used all at some point.

My typical session starts with cleaning up and then going upstairs and laying on the floor on some towels near to the warm radiator. Im laying down with my head proped up on some pillows and my legs laying to each side with my feet pulled up close to my ass.  I then put in my earbuds and put on some good biaural beats or mindgasm. This is usually where I’d lube up my hole with coconut oil and rub a layer of water based lube on my chosen toy.
Then i try to relax for a bit listening and deep breathing and after a while i look at some hot pics on reddit whilst hitting my weed vape at a low temp.
I’d usually have in the helix or the maximus for a while until swapping to the progasm where things kinda get nicer. This nice contact feeling doesn’t usually last or progress but recently i found that if I push out (like a reverse kegel) instead of doing kegels and manual contractions I feel strong pushing contractions in my lower abdomen which feels kinda nice. Now if I start slowly thrusting the progasm the faster I go the harder my body pushes ( and i mean really pushes) until its so intense I can’t take it and il leak cum, pre cum and finally squirt clear slippery liquid…this feels really good but not what I’m looking for.

Gonna do my first session with weed tonight

I’ve been using aneros toys off and on for 10 years or so but never have tried a session with marijuana. My usual routine is different from what others typically do. I like to take a high amount of Adderall and then get super crazy horny to play with my ass and prostate. Stimulants make me want nothing more than to have a huge ass dido in my rear and just ride it all night. This results in me watching a lot of femdom and pegging porn or reading stories on literotica and listening to soundgasm, but I think I start revving up and then plateau from all the porn consumption. I remain super horny but I’m not able to truly relax amd breathe like I need to. I have already taken my high dose of addy tonight and will get my ass all lubed up and insert my Progasm but then I’m gonna eat an edible so I can slowly transition from amped up horniness to super relaxed highness.

Any suggestions on what may help my session tonight? I really love reading femdom stories and listening to femdom audio but like I said, I’ve never done this on weed.

Nipple Orgasmic

Just before Christmas, I had a full body orgasm riding my partner. It never happened before or since. I felt over the moon that night. Even though he was also exhilarated with the result, he hasn’t shown much interest in fucking me regularly. He doesn’t usually like topping and I am not planning to cheat. When I top, I enjoy sex a lot but I am also a much more sexual person than he is. So I decided that I want a to explore the possibility of a receptive orgasm through intercourse using another solution. Over Christmas, I purchased a real powerful fucking machine to test my limits and find out if I could orgasm again from the stimulation alone. I couldn’t reach the same level of pleasure and felt guilty about using it, so in the end I got rid of it. But it was an experience in itself that I can share in another post.

After Christmas, my schedule really intensified. In order to maintain a clear head in this busy period, I masturbated every morning before work. It kept my fantasies and my Aneros at bay. I simply didn’t have time for it. My partner also worked short days and was mostly at home, which prevented me having a session on my days off. I was no longer travelling for work due to Covid, so couldn’t take an Aneros with me for a night away. We had sex occasionally, and it was great, but I still wanted to keep my options open on Aneros. My only option was massaging my nipples quietly in bed at night and I was getting more and more out of it.

How the aneros slowly teaches me how to manage relationships

For information purposes I own the aneros and my thing is that, I get sucked into situations where I like how it starts and then stay in until I realize that I’m in it and struggle to take the exit lane.

Didnt have a fatherfigure / male role model since the age of 9

Also realized that it made a hard impact on my job since I rely on recommendations after successfuly finishing the job for marketing purposes.

The process of getting recommendation was for me the hardest part, since I’ve made myself alot of pressure by not talking about it till the end and then being so obsessed with it when they tell no. It’s like consuming porn giving it all and in the end when the time is up trying to quickly force it by applying more and more pressure. This evolved into a downwards spiral since I had the highest per client turnover and from the outside it looked that everything is going fine. Didn’t talk about it and let the inescapable situation come to me. No more clients and the pressure which I made myself by boasting my ego how “good” I was. When I compare it to the aneros and the traditional penile orgasm I developed a sense that the penile orgasm is the enemy. Even one of my clients (with I can talk open to) told me that I behaved like a castrated cat. I went from extreme (to having a feeling of chasing something) since I felt that If I don’t get any result, the feeling of being on the chase gave me the sense of being on the right path. This lead to many failed chases since, I knew there’s nothing to get. It even went so far that I pushed my car on the highway up till 200kmh and stayed there, where my car was at almost 6000rpm I almost died there if it wasn’t for a guardian angel that flashed its lights to warn me from a long shape curve.