Help! £50 budget – which one?!

Hi all, I’m sure this has been asked a thousand times but I’m getting myself lost and struggling to make a decision!

I am looking to buy my first prostate massager, I’m not new to anal play and I’m lucky that my wife pegs me and I use a selection of dildos and plugs, but prostate massage is new to me!

There are several that seem to fall within what I’m looking to spend and all have very positive but also negative reviews, I also appreciate this will be down to personal preference. It seems my choices are…

Aneros progasm junior £40
Aneros progasm ice £45
Aneros helix syn trident silicone £50

Would love some help and guidance! Thanks in advance for your prostate wisdom!

First time prostate orgasm?

Beginner/intermediate user here, I (25M) have been using a helix syn on and off for a few years now. I have a progasm as well, but that one actually hurt for me so the helix has been my go-to. I ordered a progasm jr today and am excited to give that one a whirl.

I had my first session in a couple weeks just the other night and it was the best one I’ve ever had. I find that my best sessions are spur of the moment when I’m already super turned on and involve little to no prep. I already had every intention of masturbating normally that night, but decided last second that I wanted something more. So I lubed myself up, lubed the helix up, popped it in and went to town.

It didn’t take long for me to start having involuntary contractions and to feel those familiar p-waves, which just felt like a mild sense of warmth around my pelvis and stomach for about 10-20 seconds at a time. As I began to focus on the sensations I was feeling, the involuntaries grew more violent. I didn’t fight it. I surrendered to it, and welcomed all of the blissful sensations that my body was feeling, from the violent, hip-bucking, bed-shaking contractions to the moments of complete stillness.

Great session today!

Was really excited to start my session this morning. I typically use THC during my sessions and last week I got an eight of Gorilla glue buds. I did a lot of reading about this particular strain and was both encouraged and anxious. The strain description sounds fantastic for prostate play with intense body high and relaxation but it’s also described as a very potent strain. I did my usual preparation and got to business. I took it slow, one hit on my bud vaporizer and then let it set in to see what happens. Very pleasant calm high set in and I inserted my Helix Syn V. I was rewarded with pleasure waves within minutes. After a pleasant time with the Helix my hole was hungry to be filled. I teased myself with the head of my 8.5 inch girthy dildo and soft flesh eventually yielded to soft silicone and my innards got the filling it desired. The very best feeling occurred after removal. My gaping hole collapsed and I got the most delicious device-less orgasm! Next came the Progasm Jr and oh man was it hitting. I am normally not very vocal during my sessions but the Jr coaxed moans as I thrashed around my bed. Overall a very good session!

A bit frustrated: Can’t get beyond the “tingling stage”

I’ve been using a Progasm Jr and recently a Helix Syn for approx. 2 years now. Nothing much happened until some months ago where I started to get P-waves and tingles pretty much every time I use the toy. There where several instances where I got intense shivers, heart racing and the feeling of an immense pleasure incoming, so intense it made me even afraid. When it happened for the first time, my prostate tingled for two days which made me pretty anxious.

Also, I’m so far that I can basically alway cause P-Waves/tingles just with thinking about it, like a mental switch, and it’s almost as strong as with the toy in.

But that’s it – I never feel I can get beyond this stage. Is it the toy? I feel that they Syn works better for me than the Progasm Jr, so I thought about maybe getting another model, but there seems to be no consensus on which one.

Something I have also tried is stimulating the toy from the outside with a Magic Wand. It feels amazing and very tingly, but it’s just “constant pleasure”, but not like it would lead to climax. I can control both muscles independently, but “do nothing” worked best for me so far.

Advice needed

Hi folks — I’ve owned a progasm Jr for almost a decade now but only in the past couple months been focusing on prostate play. I gotta say, it’s become somewhat frustrating. Feel like I’ve tried everything — picked up a progasm classic, helix and eupho (and even a tantus p-spot and njoy wand) but still only sporadic contractions and some minor pleasure is all I’ve been able to get out of it. I even tried the peridise, both sizes in the starter kit, and barely get any contractions from those.

Feel like I’ve tried everything I can think of — do nothing method, do nothing except light contraction/anchored tension, Mindgasm techniques, rhythmic contractions, weed, LSD, poppers, watching porn, no porn, binaural beats, audio erotica.

I’ve been playing probably 5 times a week — 2-3 hrs a session on average. I’m guessing this is probably too much. I’m just frustrated and I know I’m chasing the O but I don’t know how to fix that. Any advice?

Solved my Helix Trident Problem!

Months ago, I schitzo-posted about my buyer’s remorse over my Helix Trident due to being unable to consistently p-gasm from it no matter how I switched the technique up. I’ve revisited it a number of times trying to chase that “classic Aneros experience” w/ mixed results. Bad mentality, I know. The results reflect that. Until recently.

I planned to do another 30d abstinence after running out of Slippery Stuff, but my horniness beat the fuck out of my willpower, so here we are. I have a castor oil/fractionated coconut oil blend I use for hair and as a pre-shave oil. Turns out, it’s not bad for fingering either. Turns out, a more viscous lube is the ticket for me w/ this particular device.

I can “feel” the Helix Trident much more w/ the thicker oil “lube.” It somehow has more movement now than w/ the Slippery Stuff and I can somehow feel more pressure on the prostate. Wish I had some kind of explanation for all that, but I sadly can’t give a comprehensible reason for any of these subjective claims.

All I can tell is that switching up the lube w/ Helix Trident made the world of difference. While still not as consistent as the Progasm Jr. at making me cum and not as destructive as the Eupho Syn Trident, it now has the potential to put me through several rounds of very hard p-gasms. I’ve also grown to appreciate the “rock-and-tap” movement provided.

Looking to get a 3rd Aneros model…. Need some help

I have the Eupho and the Progasm Jr. I MUCH prefer the Eupho over the Progasm Jr and it’s mainly due to the rigidity of the Progasm Jr in reference to the K-tab.

The Eupho is just comfortable and does a great job but am looking for something equally comfortable but will provide a new sensation/experience.

With that, I think going with a Syn model is wise. Was thinking the Helix makes good sense as it’s a proven model but maybe it’s too much like the Eupho and I’d get more contrasting sensations from the MGX.

So I guess what I’m asking is…. if you already had a Eupho, would opt for the Helix or the MGX?

Progasm Jr. + Massage Gun = I Need a Hug!

I was gifted a massage gun some months ago and, until recently, I’ve been using it for its intended purpose. Gets the job done well enough, can’t complain. In the past, vibrators haven’t done very much for me besides make the prostate ticklish before going numb, so I really wasn’t looking to use it for masturbation. This is unlike any vibrator I’ve ever used.

I very much enjoy perineum stimulation, so I was pressing and kneading the area before and during the progasm jr. session late fri. night. Been really liking that particular model a lot. Plenty of fun w/ it as of late. 30mins in, I realized I never put my massage gun up before starting, and it still had the small softball attachment on. Fuck it, why not? Started it on 3 and applied moderate pressure just above the p-tab.

That…hit very different. I was already stupid sensitive from the preceding p-gasms, so the rapid kneading from the massage gun was almost too much. I’m hard most of the time during p-play, but this erection became lead. Felt like my dick was going to burst.

Which it did. Spectacularly. One spasm sent the jr. flying out, which made me squirt hard. That was the 1st time anything that could be construed as a vibrator made me squirt.

Couldn’t replicate it, unfortunately, but that’s okay. The very next go-around resulted in very hard back-to-back HFWOs! Managed to retain the jr. this time. Turned the massage gun off, “did nothing,” and the ensuing dry-os built into another very hard HFWO. Let the progasm jr. go and called it quits thereafter.

1st Aneros Session After 2 Months of Only “Toy-Free” Orgasms

I’ve had plenty of fun w/ kegel-induced orgasms since working on getting them consistent over the course of this past winter, and I decided to challenge myself to both only ALESS orgasms and semen retention starting 1/13. I don’t care about the SR claims, just felt like doing it. If anything, abstinence made the ALESS orgasms more consistent and led me to discovering just how pleasurable I find reverse kegels.

Yesterday, the prostate was badly aching for direct stimulation. I already planned to break out an aneros at the 2-month mark, so the anticipation was making it worse. Weapon of choice was the progasm jr. No weed or porn since NNN, didn’t even do much fingering this time. Basically just cleaned-down, lubed-up and got to work.

Like the advertisement, I did not last 5 minutes. That was one of the most intense and downright exhausting sessions I’ve had in some time. No prior ALESS session could stack up. I wanted it so damn bad, but no fuckin way I could take more than 1hr of what I can only describe as a conniption of cumming. Didn’t ejaculate, didn’t need to. How much precum and seminal fluid must one generate before the p-gasms are no longer considered dry? Half a ballpoint pen? A small lake? Tadpole pond?

Usually, aneros sessions leave me w/ that post-sex refreshment feeling. Not this one. I felt downtrodden and disheveled, a victim of the aftershocks that persisted for ~20mins after removal of the device. I was watching a Metroid speedrun trying to relax but I kept orgasming. The shame…