“There When I Need It The Most”

Introduction
What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.

Session
Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate!

“At Day 7, Anything Can Happen!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 7 of SR and I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. It could be a coincidental T-thing, but I seemed to have multiple erections during the night. Towards morning, I was awakened by the usual “PONR” feeling within the cup. But this time, I felt like I was further-along towards an ejaculation. Somewhere deep in my mind, I knew that an ejaculation was forthcoming. But I didn’t know when and where. I must have stayed in this realm for perhaps 20 minutes or more.

Binaural Listening Session
Still erect within the cup, I wanted to augment the PONR “feeling” by retiring to my comfortable couch and start listening to some binaural beats for orgasm and ejaculation. I was ready for both. The one I selected (and the one that worked) was:

“DOUBLE ORGASM – COME TWICE – Binaural Audio Stimulation – Hands Free Beats + Isochronics Tones”

I listened twice to this 14-minute gem; the first one got me wet with precum and the second one finished me off. I almost didn’t need my hands to finish the job! But towards the end, I was so ready for the ejaculation that I “helped” to accelerate it! Man, it felt ever so good to cum!

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Note (from WebMD.com):

“Erections depend on testosterone, but the relationship between the two is complex and not fully understood. Some men have healthy erections despite testosterone levels well below the normal range.”

“SGX Classic: It’s An Anal Thing!”

Introduction
I decided to have a session early this morning with the SGX. This model I believe is no longer available on the Aneros site. I do like it’s smaller size and its performance. Let me explain…..

Session
I lubed-up and started the session. Because the SGX (and the MGX) have a ribbed, tapered stem, these Aneros models stimulate not only the prostate, but the anus. This morning’s session began with some anal “quivering” that was unmistakable. Sort-of like an auto-f**k but concentrated in the anus. And those anal quivers get re-directed up to the prostate through the body of the SGX. What a potent pairing! For a while, I really felt like I was either on the way to a Super-O or a HFWO! There was absolutely no discomfort from either the body, the stem or the P-tab on this massager. I could probably have continued the session for much longer than the actual 25 minutes.

Conclusion
I never discount the size of any of the Aneros prostate massagers. My favorite (and go-to) one now is the HIH 950 which is deceptively small. But don’t let it’s small size fool you! It is quite a capable performer! Next in line is the SGX; designed differently so it stimulates more than just the prostate. As I have noted before, all of the Aneros massagers have their own “signature” —- some provide more (and deeper) direct stimulation of the prostate while others (like the SGX and MGX) also work their magic on the anus. Whatever your preference, there will be an Aneros that will carry you to orgasmic bliss!

“Pleasure Through Abstinence (Sexual Satisfaction Without Sex)”

Introduction
I had a groin irritation which resulted in me not wearing my “chastity cups” for about 5 days. At the same time, I self-imposed an “abstinence” period from my Aneros prostate massages. This combination proved to be quite formidable for my pelvic pleasure. Let me explain…..

Pre-Session
While awake early this morning, I had the urge and “prompting” from my Japanese urologist* that I must wear a groin cup for a period of time to arouse my prostate. I selected my Mueller FlexShield and put it on. Wow! That feeling had been absent for more than a few days and I could not believe the stimulation that I felt! At the time, I did not suspect that an Aneros session was coming, so I just went about my early-morning business as usual, which included breakfast, etc., all while wearing the cup.

Session
When my morning “chores” were completed, I had another “prompt” from my Japanese urologist who insisted that I perform a 15-minute “milking” session with my HIH 950 prostate massager to help alleviate my BPH symptoms. I dutifully lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. No sooner did I start to relax that I could not keep the massager “still” within my rectum—-it began to move and quiver entirely on its own! At the same time I began to feel an intense pressure on my prostate and I honestly felt that I was “this-close” to a hands-free wet orgasm! It was that intense, that mesmerizing. I could only lie-there and try to absorb all that I was feeling. After 15 minutes, I felt that I should end this “milking session”. When I took a look inside the cup, I was amazed to see a pool of very clear, non-sticky fluid that had collected at the tip of my penis. I felt much better and knew that, while only in Day 5 of SR, I needed this prostate milking! If it makes any sense, I now feel sexually satisfied without sex! Plus, I don’t have (yippee!) a refractory period!

Some History

I first heard of the fabled hands-free orgasm about 10 years ago while chatting on IRC. An eccentric guy I chatted with occasionally claimed that he could have orgasms while receiving anal sex from his partner without any stimulation to his penis, and then afterward could come again while fucking his boyfriend. He took this magical ability for granted, seeming very surprised that I could not accomplish the same feat.

I tried to get him to explain how it worked, but the best he could manage was a vague description of “pushing” somehow while being penetrated. I honestly wasn’t sure he wasn’t just making things up. It seemed too good to be true. Everyone knows that guys can only come once and that they have to wait out the refactory period before they can have another orgasm, right? And climaxing without touching your cock is a fantasy acted out in porn but seldom found in the real world, isn’t it?

That’s what I thought anyway at the time. I dismissed his stories as unrealistic after being unable to get even close to what he described. But I never forgot those stories or the subtle hunger I had to experience those things.

“Anatomical Delights Of A Male”

Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..

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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?

But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation.

For Me, “Chastity Cups” Hit All The Right Marks. Here are 10 Reasons Why…..

Background
Wide-awake in bed early this morning, I contemplated a session but did not initiate one. Instead, I began to dwell on what it is about “chastity cups” that is so appealing to me. And my head was suddenly filled with a myriad of reasons. Let me explain some of them…

Reason #1
It feels good!
IMO, nothing feels as good as a “cup” that envelops my manhood. By definition, the cup has to touch, cradle and protect all the vital male sex organs which can be easily damaged through an inadvertent kick (like from a martial arts maneuver) or contact with a sports projectile (like a baseball or hockey puck). That particular area of our anatomy is the epitome of our sexuality.

Reason #2
It massages my prostate.
What I like about wearing a cup is the way that the bottom of the cup is designed to cradle and protect my perineum. It puts gentle pressure on that area and feels great! It gently provides an external stimulation of my prostate. It does this just by wearing it.

Reason #3
I can sleep in it.
Wearing a cup to bed at night at least for me is very natural. It just feels “right”—no pain, no discomfort. There are numerous brands of athletic cups on the market and I have about six of them. Each one has a different “signature” and they feel slightly different when worn. Of course, I don’t wear one every night; that would get boring! But if I am in the mood, the cup becomes a perfect night-time pacifier!

Aneros Eupho Trident Review

I have been meaning to log on to write this for a while now but haven’t really had time. I have only been getting maybe 1-2 sessions in a week for the last month or so. Really not as much time as I would like. I picked up the eupho trident about a month ago and its been a regular in my rotation. Yes, I have a large collection of Aneros toys, and depending on my mood and what my prostate is craving I will pull from the toy box.
Back to the Eupho Trident. First, compared to the syn version, and above the others in the Trident line, the Eupho is one mobile, comfortable piece pleasure. I have put alot of toys in my butt and this is the most comfortable prostate toy to wear around the house. I actually have it in right now.
The Eupho Trident or ET for short compared to the syn version has similar complaints. The syn version has the annoying handle, useless perineum tab and the worst of all dries out to quickly. Like Prelube is required and still isn’t enough for long sessions. I only use waterbased lube, and really who wants to be in the middle of a set of in-voluntaries and have their lube dry up. The ET moves better, is more comfortable and doesn’t dry out nearly as fast. If you are in the market for a Eupho, but the ET version its worth it.
The ET compared the Eupho Helix. The Eupho Trident moves and dances around the prostate. Lightly touching it sending waves of pleasure. The Eupho Helix, almost rubs, almost milks and contacts firmly. They both provide pleasure and are my go to Prostate toys. I did find the Eupho Trident had more of a learning curve due to its less definite contact. So Newbie, buy the Eupho Helix. Anything after try the Eupho. Like I said earlier the fun is in the Journey.
I will compare the ET to the Eupho Maximus. The Maximus fills, and I mean fills my ass. Its not uncomfortable, but gives a nice full feeling. I reserve this for when I am looking for something way different. The ET will dance and tease the prostate, the Maximus, contacts firmly, and will rub it with every contraction. Both give will give me a super o. I like to use the Maximus then the Eupho. I find it stretches me out a little and gives the Eupho a chance to really move.
I know everyone wants to know what the ET is like in use. In the 10 minutes or so since I inserted it and started contractions. The same amount of time it has taken me to write this. I have a nice erection, and can feel definite leaking of precum. Actually have a wet spot on my naked belly.
With every little contraction, I feel the warmth deep in my belly. I feel the massager lightly brushing my prostate, teasing and moving contacting my prostate in whatever way I feel. I can almost roll it side to side or rock it front to back or do them both at the same time. In a way writing this review fully naked with the prostate massager im writing about sitting in my ass teasing my prostate the entire time was arousing. As the I fight back the in voluntaries to finish my blog, I cant help but think the Eupho Trident is my new favorite.

Some Aneros porn I’d like to see

I’d like to see two men, each with their own prostate massager inserted, each lying on their right side in approximate 69 position. Both would be paying close attention to each other enjoying the sensations, knowing exactly what the other is feeling. Perhaps they might be playing with each other’s nipples or other erogenous zones. While I’m playing fantasy porn director, I’d like to see them both cum over each other just from the sensations of the massagers. Does such a video already freely exist and I’ve just been looking in the wrong places?

I’d also watch a video of a man playing with an Aneros in position while a woman plays with her own sex toys, I’m not greedy. (Oh wait, yes I am!)

“It Really Doesn’t Get Any Better Than This!”

I had an incredible session this morning with the HIH 950. All I really expected was a nice “milking” session. What I got was much more. Who knew that this diminutive prostate massager had the power to take me close to an ejaculation and feel like a Super-O? As soon as I lubed-up and started, I felt it hit my sweet spot almost immediately. I am currently in SR Day 8. I have no blue-balls feeling (yet). I decided to put-on my XO cup for this session.

Not too long afterwards, I began to get a strong orgasmic feeling with anal/PC contractions. I had to muffle more than a few screams of pleasure. I knew I was “pumping” prostate fluid because I could feel it make its way down to my cock. One of the descriptions of the Super-O indicates large muscle contractions. I definitely had these during this session. From the beginning of the session, I felt close to ejaculating and honestly felt that I would. That is also another “sign” of a Super-O. To quote from the Aneros Wiki:

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“A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region, particularly the prostate, rectum and surrounding muscles; loss of a sense of reality; strong emotional responses; flashes of color (optical activity in the brain); large muscle contractions; a strong sense of ejaculation (with no emission); protracted involuntary vocalizations, roars or screams; pleasant convulsions; pronounced deep or staccato pelvic thrusting or writhing; a sense of soulful release and relief; a sense of self-redefinition; and, an energized feeling immediately following orgasm and being ready for more (as opposed to post-ejaculation lethargy).”