Tag: Prostate Massagers

Looking for my first

I’m looking for a recommendation of what my first Aneros should be and from where.

It’s currently Friday night and I’d love to get it by early in the week next week so I’m trying to see my options on where to purchase as well. In the past I’ve gotten a couple cheap butt plugs (Anal Fantasy?) and I’ve enjoyed them both, but I’m wanting to take a step up to get a real prostate massager.

I’ve been browsing their website and I’ve been looking at the MGX Trident, any opinions? Or should I go to the older models?

“Crossing The Aneros Bridge”

Background
Many of the posts on Aneros Forums allude to the inability to let-go during prostate massage sessions. I have found that the following “imagery” helps me to let go of that control.

Technique
I visualize myself getting ready to cross a bridge over a moat and into a castle. I am told that I cannot bring anything into the castle except a prostate massager and some lube. Everything else must stay outside of the castle. I must clear my mind of any “clutter”. When I feel “ready”, I insert the massager and cross-over the bridge. I am in Aneros Castle!

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Results
Therefore, when I cross-over the moat, I am well-prepared for any feelings that may occur during the upcoming session. I am encouraged to fantasize and to visualize what I am feeling. In my opinion, it is important to select a fantasy which “matches” the feeling. For example, in this morning’s session, I once again am in my urologist’s office and being prepared for a prostate exam. I must “retain” the massager for a minimum of 30 minutes. I basically attempted the “do-nothing” technique but with the involuntary contractions developing, that was very hard to do. I attempted, unsuccessfully, to re-position myself but the contractions just followed my current position. All-in-all, a very good session! Read more »

“Most Of My Sessions Now Have This In Common”

Background
I went to bed not wearing a “chastity cup”. Now in Day 5 of SR and starting to feel my T-level rising, I awoke about 4 AM with a strong erection. I knew I had to at least put on a cup, so I selected the SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup. I immediately felt great relief and at the same time, frustrating pleasure!

Of course, I wanted a session only a day after a somewhat disappointing one with the HIH 950. I was not aroused for that one, and my expectations were low. This one would be different, I hoped. But I know better than get my expectations too high. I was not disappointed.

Session
I selected the Eupho Classic because it seemed to be out of “rotation” lately and because I wanted this long, slender “tool” to massage my prostate. This 30-minute session shared a common trait with many other sessions lately: that is, it seemed to hit my prostate’s “sweet spot”! This session was no different. The Eupho is nice because it can move a little bit or a lot, depending on PC/anal contractions. The choice is all mine.

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“This MGX Session Hit A Different Sweet Spot”

I am in Day 6 of SR and woke up about 3:30 AM not wearing a “chastity cup”. Of course, I had a nice erection and decided to have a session. I originally wanted to go with the SGX but something told me to go with something “deeper” so I selected the MGX. It was a wise choice. As soon as I started the ride, I felt the MGX start to tickle my prostate in a new “sweet spot”. Previously, the HIH 950 was able to hit that spot that was located lower in my rectum. But this time, the MGX obviously was further in but nevertheless, was able to find a new “sweet spot” on or near my prostate. I began moaning almost right from the start and basically continued moaning for the rest of the time. I felt like I was experiencing many MMOs during this session.

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The interesting thing about this session was that I was hard virtually the entire time. I wanted/needed to ejaculate; I was very much near the PONR and felt that an ejaculation was imminent. I removed the XO “chastity cup” (which I put-on for this session) toward the end and saw that I was still hard. I had prostate fluid leaking out of my erect cock and onto the cup pouch (it was not precum for it was not slippery nor sticky). Oh how I wanted to ejaculate! I contemplated a super-O or just sliding around on the bed until I came but decided against it. I wanted to remain in chastity. Read more »

“Prostate Edging and A Male Fertility Clinic…”

This unusual fantasy was quite spontaneous and pleasurable. Here are the details….

Background
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the Cage Cup overnight. I am in Day 5 of SR and awoke about 4 AM with a hard cock and “edging” close to the PONR as I have done before while wearing this particular cup (it is smaller than the other cups and my erect cock gets some additional stimulation with gentle movement—a nice feeling! I feel like I am going to ejaculate but don’t). I am due for a prostate stim session and decided rather quickly on the Helix Trident; why this model I didn’t know at the time but now it became very clear that this massager would be ideal for this session.

I lubed-up and began. Almost immediately, I began to get what I would call “rapid-fire” auto-contractions. I could not stop them nor control them. (Thanks to the HT for this movement). And from the start, I began to lightly moan. This moaning actually continued for most of this session. Read more »

“Subtle Intensity!”

Only in Day 3 of SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” for part of the night. I awoke about 4:30 AM and wanting a session with the HIH 950. Now I was not too aroused but was earlier in the night. So I lubed-up and began to ride. It wasn’t long that I fell-into a nice, simple familiar fantasy: I am again at my urologist’s office and he insists that all his male patients now “prepare” their prostates with a 35-minute (minimum) session with the HIH 950 before their exam. He said that his male patients like this particular massager for it’s subtle intensity. (An added benefit is that I get to take this massager home!)

“Subtle intensity?” What does that mean? I didn’t know, but was soon about to find out…..

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Not soon after I began to “prepare” myself, I began to experiene a very subtle, very gentle “tickle” of my prostate and I began to (almost involuntarily) perform light PC contractions. They felt so good, so sweet. But after a while, I began to get more of a “tense” feeling deep down in my groin, which became more intense and to the point that at it’s peak, I had an uncontrollable abdominal spasm that doubled-me over and let out a moan. I was shaking at the time as well. Once this passed, I settled-in for more light PC contractions. Following that single “peak” orgasm (I know now that is what it was) I didn’t experience any others, but that one was enough for this “urologist’s prep”. I discovered a fair amount of prostate fluid (not precum) in the pouch. I was properly prepared for my exam! Read more »

Cock Cage Or “Chastity Cup” —– Which Is Better?

Background
I have both but now seem to prefer the “chastity cup”. I actually don’t wear my CB-6000S cock cage much anymore. It isn’t that I don’t like it; I seem to prefer my hard “chastity cups” more. I’m trying to figure out why…..Here are some pros and cons of each.

One thing which both methods for male chastity have in common: both prevent masturbation and ejaculation. But once that is acknowkedged, some advantages and disadvantages of each become manifest. I’d like to elaborate on a few of the more obvious ones here…

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Cock Cages
Advantage: cock cage
Once locked-up, there is no possibility of release except with a key. If the male is not the keyholder, this will become extremely frustrating for him. (The “chastity cup” , however, relies on the “honor system”. I can release myself at any time just by pulling-off the cup! If this chastity “play” becomes too frustrating, the male can put himself out of misery).

Advantage: cock cage
A male wearing a cock cage can urinate easily through the slit in the cage, usually by sitting down. (The “chastity cup” in contract, requires removal of the cup in order to urinate, standing-up).

Advantage: cock cage
The cock cage provides intense stimulation when an erection occurs. I know, I’ve had them. (In contrast, erections in a “chastity cup” are nice but not extremely arousing. They are not supposed to be).

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Three “Tips” I learned From This Session

I learned three “new” things in this session. Let me explain…..

Background
I went to bed wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 10 of SR with no blue-balls. I am due for a “scheduled” session and so I decided to go for it. It is about 4:30 AM.

Now here are the “tips”—

Tip #1. Letting your chastity “partner” decide which Aneros massager to use. (For guys who wear a “chastity cup” during a session).

Since I am in chastity, I let my “partner” decide which Aneros massager(s) I should use during this session. After looking them over, she decided on the Eupho Classic! She wouldn’t tell me yet which other massager she selected.

Why it works: Since it was not “me” doing the choosing, there is an element of surprise, a “mystery”, a “mystique” on how the selected prostate massager will work. (Of course, it is “me” doing the choosing. But this “mind game” gives a new perspective on the session).
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Tip #2. Lube, then lube again!

I “discovered” that by lubing, inserting, removing, then lubing again and inserting again, can make for a “better” session. Read more »

“A New Mindset, A New Attitude”

I began this “dual” session with a new mindset, a new attitude. Let me explain….

I wanted to do a therapeutic session with the HIH 950. (I am now in Day 6 of SR and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”). As I started the session, I did something different…I began to “personalize” this session by telling my prostate: “Now don’t be afraid of the 950” and visualized the 950 nuzzling against it. I immediately began to relax, much more so than ever. And, even though I was aroused (but not greatly), I began to feel a gentle “tickle” and eventually a “worm-like” movement of the 950 against my prostate. I had not felt this in a long time. I just continued to relax into the session and began to quiver, letting the 950 take my prostate to where it wanted to go. About 30 relaxing minutes later, this (part of the) session was over!

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I have had some trepidations about using the Helix Trident since my last “intense” session. But guess what? I took the same attitude towards the HT and again I “told” my prostate: “Please don’t be afraid of the HT”! And guess what? I had a nice, relaxing second-part of this session! I was able to relax; the HT continued its gentle massage on my prostate and the combination of P- and K-tabs insured that the HT did not stray too far from its intended “target”: my prostate! This 30-minute session was not intense at all; quite the contrary, the HT produced some soothing sensations that I had not felt before while using it. Read more »